Multiple Partners

Hey there Aquarius board.

Thank you all so much for your input on all my other questions. You are a really a supportive, POSITIVE bunch, and I am grateful for the knowledge that I learn daily from here.

Here's another question I have on the brain this Thursday morning. Are Aquas attracted to the concept of multiple partners? Is it something you have done/ want to do? Were you able juggle different relationships, if you did have multiple partners at one point?

What's the ultimate goal for an Aqua, to settle down with one person? Or is the multiple partner thing more enticing?

Not me, I want one monogamous relationship 🙂 when I am dating, I will typically have one fwb, and date a couple of guys in the meantime. If I do decide to get intimate with a guy I'm dating, I'll give the fwb thing a break until I've made a decision

AquaMermaid, aww, that was super sweet. I'm glad you are in a happy relationship!

Jeflogue, thanks for you response. They paint pictures in astrology websites that Aquas are anything but monogamous. I thought it's better to just ask Aquas directly. So far monogamy is the way to go.

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Posted by pennystealing123
AquaMermaid, aww, that was super sweet. I'm glad you are in a happy relationship!

muchas gracias 🙂 I think there are lot of stereotyping regarding Aquarians.Sun Sign alone doesn't determine a person's character,other placements influence a great deal as well.I think love and emotions has more to do with a person's moon and venus sign.

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Absolutely! The person I'm seeing, he has an Aqua stellium, so that's why I ask so many Aqua questions. He's got a Leo moon, and my Mars naturally caters to his emotions. So it's more Aqua romantic processes, communication and ego that I'm looking for with my questions.

I'm an Aquarius sun, mars and mercury and I too have a Leo moon but my Venus is in Cap.

I don't like to rush a relationship of any kind so when it comes to monogamy even as a fwb I tend to not roam around. I personally can't give myself so freely to anyone and if I'm in a relationship you can be confident that I'm 100% monogamous.

Unfortunately due to my sometimes detached or "aloof" nature I've been accused of cheating or wanting to leave and be with someone else. This type of suspicion makes me want to withdraw from a partner. I'm the type that rather break up than cheat.

To me loyalty is royalty. End of story haha 🙂 I focus on one person at a time

Posted by metalaquamonkey
I'm an Aquarius sun, mars and mercury and I too have a Leo moon but my Venus is in Cap.

I don't like to rush a relationship of any kind so when it comes to monogamy even as a fwb I tend to not roam around. I personally can't give myself so freely to anyone and if I'm in a relationship you can be confident that I'm 100% monogamous.

Unfortunately due to my sometimes detached or "aloof" nature I've been accused of cheating or wanting to leave and be with someone else. This type of suspicion makes me want to withdraw from a partner. I'm the type that rather break up than cheat.

True, even in a fwb thing I dont like to share. I'd feel guilty eventhough its not a committed relationship.. thats just how I am

Posted by AquaNextDoor
To me loyalty is royalty. End of story haha 🙂 I focus on one person at a time

that's the best thing youve said so far. lol


loyalty is royalty!!!

i guess your packed 5th house cap is craving for that.

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Posted by pennystealing123
AquaMermaid, aww, that was super sweet. I'm glad you are in a happy relationship!

muchas gracias 🙂 I think there are lot of stereotyping regarding Aquarians.Sun Sign alone doesn't determine a person's character,other placements influence a great deal as well.I think love and emotions has more to do with a person's moon and venus sign.

Absolutely! The person I'm seeing, he has an Aqua stellium, so that's why I ask so many Aqua questions. He's got a Leo moon, and my Mars naturally caters to his emotions. So it's more Aqua romantic processes, communication and ego that I'm looking for with my questions.

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where IS that aqua stellium sitting though??


leo moon on top of that stellium?


he wants independence, space, and not a clingy woman.

best way to keep him ..


cry all the time, demand his time, sit on his lap alot and tell him he can't go anywhere without you.

fret and cry ALOT and whine. WHINE LOTS!!! tell him he's YOURS forever and you will follow him wherever he goes.

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Posted by lisabethur8
best way to keep him ..


cry all the time, demand his time, sit on his lap alot and tell him he can't go anywhere without you.

fret and cry ALOT and whine. WHINE LOTS!!! tell him he's YOURS forever and you will follow him wherever he goes.

LOL! Seriously?

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tee heee 😄 😄

put on this song:



"I will follow him, follow him wherever he may go!!"

Posted by AquaMermaid
Hey Lisa, What aspect in my chart makes me so committed and loyal? Aries Venus has a bad reputation of getting bored easily and changing partners but I have never done that.So what aspects do you think contributes to my dedication to one man? Does the intensity and passion of my Aries Venus attracts my husband's Scorpio Venus?

depends on his houses don't you think?

especially with his mars and moon.

for example,

my aqua girlfriend has a cap venus and sag mars, and she's with a sag venus libra mars Scorpio husband.

So you'd think, with an earth venus and fire venus it wouldn't work right? but her mars in sag gets his sag venus and plus both her venus and mars are sitting in the 8th house, understanding his scorpion nature. That's just a small bit of the mystery of why.

people who are going after people who don't want a committed relationship probably just means, simply, "you're not the one."

i mean, people just want to have fun, but feel no deep connection. They don't want them that way, but physically they may want you in general.

Posted by AquaMermaid
Hey Lisa, What aspect in my chart makes me so committed and loyal? Aries Venus has a bad reputation of getting bored easily and changing partners but I have never done that.So what aspects do you think contributes to my dedication to one man? Does the intensity and passion of my Aries Venus attracts my husband's Scorpio Venus?

oh i posted the other day, that actress who played in "true blood" and she's got Aries Venus and Aries mars like yourself, AM 😄

and she's with a Scorpio man. I read on his uploaded YouTube he's November 6th, but not sure what year. lol He mentioned it, but not sure, one year says he has Leo moon, and the other year he has Aries moon. 😄

either way, they're both good.

anyway, out of all the comments, i Always seem to agree with AM.

😄

Posted by AquaMermaid
Hey Ram, I believe in monogamy and I mate for life.I get anxious in a relationship where there is no security,loyalty,commitment and stability.Multiple partner concept does not entice me at all.It'll probably give me nervous breakdowns.I can only be with one man.Even in my early 20s I was in serious relationships and avoided flings and FWB.I'm too emotional to juggle two guys.It would have been destructive for a sensitive woman like me.I don't believe in stringing someone along for my pleasure and having back-up partners.I am a one man woman and I'm happily married to the man I love.

Same here. One man Always!! Since day one.

I dont know why the ram antagonist is saying this, maybe she is jealous. lol 😄 😄

AquaMermaid sun trine moon is a wonderful aspect to have. I never considered it actually as I usually look for the connection between Mars and moon as a way to help strengthen the relationship, rather than look at the natural aspect of sun/moon synastry and flow. Moon Mars conjunction I think works best for emotional fulfillment.

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Do you think OP's sun trine to her Aqua's moon is a good sign? I mean my moon is trine to my husband's sun and I think it works for us. There is emotional understanding.I do understand his needs.Is it important for moons to be trine or sextile? Mine is opposite to his moon. Damn! I ask too many questions 😛

😄 yes it's beautiful, AM. you both sound really cuddly wuddly snuggly cute together!! 😄


lol yeah i was just teasing around about the jealousy. it's just weird that some astro says that. Maybe because it's Uranus??


Hugh Hefner, Aries sun/Pisces moon, Aquarius Mars, is Uranus dominant if you look at his chart, and i was watching parts of his documentary on Netflix, and i was surprised he was married traditionally,

but then he was bored of it. He wanted an UNconventional type of relationship, which he got in the Playboy mansion.

Uranus dominant men, no matter the sun sign, will want UNCONVENTIONAL relationships i notice, like that of Hugh Hefner.

Square doesn't mean negative, square just means it needs work to overcome those hard aspects. What's great about human nature is the power of free will. You can both agree to overcome those things which are potential detriment, if you're both willing to work to resolve it.

Plus libra Mars types usually follow the lead of their partners. "You like kinky sex? Now I do too..."

oh my gosh, Bill Gates is also Uranus dominant O__O

i need to look into his marriage to see how UNconventional it is. 😛

You're so right. I love giving him ridiculous compliments, like when he cut his hair, I said "wow, you look so beautiful in your new haircut" in a sing song voice.

He acted so nonchalant outwardly but his eyes sparkled - love that man so much.

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Penny, I think you'll need to cater to his Leo Moon. He may look for admiration and attention. I think being an Aries Sun you can handle that.If he feels neglected he might try to gain attention somewhere else.I have been with two fire moon men and they are very impatient people.

i've been with TWO leo moons. my husband and my EX husband lol 😛

i'm a sucker for them i guess.

he just needs a woman who he can proud of, and love in some way.

if he's just proud of you being lovable, that's all it takes.


he'll be purrrrrrring in your hands.


but that stellium in aqua, wherever it's house is in, is gonna be important too.

Posted by pennystealing123
You're so right. I love giving him ridiculous compliments, like when he cut his hair, I said "wow, you look so beautiful in your new haircut" in a sing song voice.

He acted so nonchalant outwardly but his eyes sparkled - love that man so much.

um, well, you have to be genuine too.

if you're just saying that to cater to him knowing he likes it, it just means you're faking it.


it's your heart he wants to know, deep down.

Whats your Mercury lisabethur8? There's an extreme communication barrier between you and I.

My previous post said how much I love giving him compliments. I Followed it up by saying I love him so much. I don't see how it sounds like I'm not genuine. The word "ridiculous" was used to accentuate the over the top ways I compliment him. - I'm an Aries- with Aries merc -- I give genuine compliments all the time.

Each individual interprets opinions or statements with their own limited perception, as we all have a limited perception. Its pretty obvious that u r genuine, at least to me. I dont get lisa's vibe either, curious to know her merc.

lol it's probably the retrograding mercury going around.

don't get your panties all in a twist. Jeeeez.

it's just throwing it out there, i didnt accuse you of not being genuine.

IF you are, then you are.

it's kind of the same when you post a topic on multiple partners.

what'd you expect?

Sounds like an ORGY! gross.

Posted by AquaMermaid
She's just blunt,lol. I have no issues with her. Ladies, we were really having good discussion!! Please can't we all get along? 🙂

lol you must have a 7th house. 😛

for the last part of getting along.

anyway, if she doesn't go outside into the world and meet people of different birthdays, she's gonna be believing some crack pot astrologer who won't give you the DETAILS and the in depth without some MONEY $ $ $ $ $ $

astrologers need to make money too (not all but many of them)

so they will just tell you Uranus is the liberator, the one that breaks the rules.


And, guess what? Uranus is exalted in Scorpio. 😄

when i first got into astrology it used to piss me off. and i was going wtf!! man that isn't me at all, not ever!!! i've Always been this way since i was a child, bla blah blah. Then you get deeper into astrology and go...OHHHHH no wonder. i fucking hate it, but it will make you go this is bullshit!! and i'm gonna find out why. And you go on this journey into astrology, and you must also go and find other people in REAL LIFE (not just celebrities) who are coupled/partnered and that means your family members, friends, neighbors and you want to see their hidden synastry.

That must be my first house, cause i wanna get working on it. or it must be the capricorn (Getting to work) because i wanna see proof!!! so i started with people i knew in real life and also checked out celebs too for enjoyment.

not many people i notice who get into astrology get cracking to WORK, looking for couples outside of astrology to want to find the hidden synastry though, they usually go and pay astrologers for it.

Not doing the work themselves.

😄 you're on your way, AM.

just get cracking!



and roll up your sleeves.

I like security where my heart is more. Couldn't handle more than one.

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Posted by lisabethur8
😄 you're on your way, AM.
just get cracking!

and roll up your sleeves.

Thanks for the encouragement Lisa 😄

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you're welcome, AM. 🙂