Ssasy
@Ssasy
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My Ex
Move on. Find some new kitty to eat :p
We love being friends with everyone even exes, IF the break up wasn't bad or the aqua lacks pride. Don't look too much into it. She's just being friendly. That's us naturally. If she wants you, she will voice it.
Posted by Ssasy
Here it is...
Me:Cancer/Scorp Moon
Her: Aqua/Cap Moon?
After 2 years of an intense relationshyip which almost resulted in us living ogether and being madly in love we ended. During this entire year she would reach out via email to say hello, ask about holidays blah blah..... Now 1 year later, She remembers my daughters bday, sent an email to ask how we were.... I decided to call and that turned into 3 hrs of laughter and catching up. She is involved but was dating quite a bit and doesnt sound 100% .
She seemed impressed, sad, and almost shocked to hear im single and focusing on my life rather than replacing her. After we spoke she text me and said it was nice talking to you, we could talk for hours didnt think it could happen like that again.
What are the odds that I could still win her back?
What are the chances that I should NOT even look into this?
Yeah an ex is an ex....but she isnt the type to reach out to anyone.....
Never say never. Maybe play it cool and let her come to you. If she doesn't then you have your answer without having to go out on a thin limb. At the very least, maybe you've gotten your friend back. That's a win too. If she does come to you just make sure her current situation is over, done and all tidied up before you start anything new. Clean slate.
I have a question for you just regarding Cancer's. Do Cancer's tend to have difficulties with breakups? Do they tend to go back and forth in the process of deciding? I only ask due to a situation I currently find myself in. Thanks!
Aqua is not going to beat around the bush. If she likes you, she will say so. Very straight forward sign this one esp with that moon.
Sassy - Really? You haven't moved on from this yet? Geesh!!!
@AlexanderSupertramp: Cancers have a HARD time moving on. They can't let go. They'll cling to and obsess about a relationship long after its over. They'd rather waller in misery and drive themselves crazy with what the ex is doing than move on and find hapiness.
No offense Sassy... I just don't understand how yall can hang on to something that long.
@AlexanderSupertramp: Cancers have a HARD time moving on. They can't let go. They'll cling to and obsess about a relationship long after its over. They'd rather waller in misery and drive themselves crazy with what the ex is doing than move on and find hapiness.
No offense Sassy... I just don't understand how yall can hang on to something that long.
Cancer that clings on top of a Scorpio moon that obsesses..double water..ouch
Posted by AlexanderSupertrampPosted by Ssasy
Here it is...
Me:Cancer/Scorp Moon
Her: Aqua/Cap Moon?
After 2 years of an intense relationshyip which almost resulted in us living ogether and being madly in love we ended. During this entire year she would reach out via email to say hello, ask about holidays blah blah..... Now 1 year later, She remembers my daughters bday, sent an email to ask how we were.... I decided to call and that turned into 3 hrs of laughter and catching up. She is involved but was dating quite a bit and doesnt sound 100% .
She seemed impressed, sad, and almost shocked to hear im single and focusing on my life rather than replacing her. After we spoke she text me and said it was nice talking to you, we could talk for hours didnt think it could happen like that again.
What are the odds that I could still win her back?
What are the chances that I should NOT even look into this?
Yeah an ex is an ex....but she isnt the type to reach out to anyone.....
Never say never. Maybe play it cool and let her come to you. If she doesn't then you have your answer without having to go out on a thin limb. At the very least, maybe you've gotten your friend back. That's a win too. If she does come to you just make sure her current situation is over, done and all tidied up before you start anything new. Clean slate.
I have a question for you just regarding Cancer's. Do Cancer's tend to have difficulties with breakups? Do they tend to go back and forth in the process of deciding? I only ask due to a situation I currently find myself in. Thanks!
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I can speak for myself. I usually do, but depending on who it is, I may have a longer time than usual.
Relationships Ive had before, I did spend maybe a week or two, or a few months TOPS missing that person, but once Im certain that I am readt to move on, I will do everything to posibly stay distracted and not even try to puruse anything romantically. I may hold on as a friend, or because I tend to want to hold on at times, but if i feel betrayed or feel like the friendship isnt beneficial then I will cut my ties.
I have found peace within myself, but I wont deny that I am still in love, I just have more self control and pride than to continue trying to win her back, in regards to asking
Posted by truecap
Sassy - Really? You haven't moved on from this yet? Geesh!!!
@AlexanderSupertramp: Cancers have a HARD time moving on. They can't let go. They'll cling to and obsess about a relationship long after its over. They'd rather waller in misery and drive themselves crazy with what the ex is doing than move on and find hapiness.
No offense Sassy... I just don't understand how yall can hang on to something that long.
@Truecap, I will try NOT to take offense, well because I have physically moved on, ive gotten promotions, new things in my life. I havent allowed this aqua to hold me back from anything, ive dated and although Ive met people, they just dont do it for me. This entire year ive kept my feelings inside and havent tried to do anything, shes the one reaching out, and when we spoke it didnt feel forced or anything. My mental has controlled my actions, but whatever I am feeling in my heart cannot change unless it is done on its own. For an aqua to ask 100 personal questions about where I am, and discusses the break up again and reasures me of the reasons for the break up does raise flags for me and prob for anyone, Im not jumping this and chasing her, I just want to know....
SO.....technically I am moving on... my life has progressed and I am enjoying it. I commend you on being able to move on entirely when you needed to and finding someone new, but i wont force myself to get into anything just to get over her....
Im ok being alone... with the friends I do have, just wanted to know what her intensions could be.
And to be honest, if she has moved on why the hell does she keep reaching out to see how im doing?
She never keeps friends with exes. Shes told me at times she did break up she just moves on...
So why not wonder....Goodnesss.
She never keeps friends with exes. Shes told me at times she did break up she just moves on...
So why not wonder....Goodnesss.
Posted by aquarius09
We love being friends with everyone even exes, IF the break up wasn't bad or the aqua lacks pride. Don't look too much into it. She's just being friendly. That's us naturally. If she wants you, she will voice it.
She is very prideful. In fact TOOOO PRideful which is why I found it strange that she would ask me if Im dating or sleeping with anyone or if I was doing anything with my ex. I used to try to help her with this when we did date, and she often thanked me for helping her be human.....
Posted by flowingwater
Wow, I never noticed how much a person can hold onto an aqua ex... Where as were long gone with the wind.
I'm friendly to my exes but most of they hate me because I broke their hearts with the break ups or... stinging clingy onto to me but secretly hate me. That's usually how it is for me. I won't stay and ponder on a love who will never favor me in return. I need someone who understands me deeply. My Venus in pisces demands it so most of the time I'm like the wind.
My cancer ex was still hung onto me 3yrs after our break up. He saw me with the Pisces at the store and was so burnt up he literally came over to see me. He looked so pissed.
Well ironically, shes not big on keeping friends with exes...Or friends really. Shes very much a loner....and I understood her well. Her biggest thing was trust with me.
Posted by AquaMermaid
Where is her Mars and Venus?
Not really sure what time she was born.
Pisces in both Mars and venus.
Posted by SsasyPosted by aquarius09
We love being friends with everyone even exes, IF the break up wasn't bad or the aqua lacks pride. Don't look too much into it. She's just being friendly. That's us naturally. If she wants you, she will voice it.
She is very prideful. In fact TOOOO PRideful which is why I found it strange that she would ask me if Im dating or sleeping with anyone or if I was doing anything with my ex. I used to try to help her with this when we did date, and she often thanked me for helping her be human.....
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Ok. That sounds like she has feelings for you. I've done something like this before with an ex. I did it because I still had feelings lingering for him but I wasn't going to do anything about them. Sometimes you like a person, but at the same time you know they aren't good for you or someone you need in your life. Liking someone and wanting them are two different things. She has feelings for you, no doubt about that, but she's not going to act on it. Yes, it's a selfish move but why don't you be selfish as well and look out for yourself. If her reaching out to you affects your mental well being, then cut her off. We all do self serving things.
@ssasy who broke up with who? And why did you guys broke up? Believe it or not im experiencing the same dilemma with an aquarian ex right now. Im a leo gal and i cant seem to move on from him yet its been 6 months already. I guess when aquarian people touch out lives its very difficult for us to remove them from our system completelty.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by SsasyPosted by aquarius09
We love being friends with everyone even exes, IF the break up wasn't bad or the aqua lacks pride. Don't look too much into it. She's just being friendly. That's us naturally. If she wants you, she will voice it.
She is very prideful. In fact TOOOO PRideful which is why I found it strange that she would ask me if Im dating or sleeping with anyone or if I was doing anything with my ex. I used to try to help her with this when we did date, and she often thanked me for helping her be human.....
Ok. That sounds like she has feelings for you. I've done something like this before with an ex. I did it because I still had feelings lingering for him but I wasn't going to do anything about them. Sometimes you like a person, but at the same time you know they aren't good for you or someone you need in your life. Liking someone and wanting them are two different things. She has feelings for you, no doubt about that, but she's not going to act on it. Yes, it's a selfish move but why don't you be selfish as well and look out for yourself. If her reaching out to you affects your mental well being, then cut her off. We all do self serving things.click to expand
Posted by rufflestruffles
@ssasy who broke up with who? And why did you guys broke up? Believe it or not im experiencing the same dilemma with an aquarian ex right now. Im a leo gal and i cant seem to move on from him yet its been 6 months already. I guess when aquarian people touch out lives its very difficult for us to remove them from our system completelty.
II dated a male aqua, who has recently resurfsced and has shown alot of interest and if I pursued him he would prob be putty in my hands like before.
I got over him very quickly and he gave me alot to remember.
This aqua I just cannot get her out my system and I really cant say the same for any other relationship--Not on this level.
Well she broke up with me, becsuse she discovered a harmless email from my ex. We had an intense but rocky relationship but overall both agreed to leave exes and move on. SHe felt like I just wouldnt stop talking to my ex (whom she felt intimidated by becaise of stories i should have kept to myself) She said trust was gone, but she still reaches out on occasions to keep herself relevant I guess....
I think part of me having a hard time letting go is because of how good the relationship was. When we chat she always says I was by far the best....she never did alot with anyone but me...I ws the only one...blah blah..The connection is so grand..😢
Posted by SsasyPosted by truecap
Sassy - Really? You haven't moved on from this yet? Geesh!!!
@AlexanderSupertramp: Cancers have a HARD time moving on. They can't let go. They'll cling to and obsess about a relationship long after its over. They'd rather waller in misery and drive themselves crazy with what the ex is doing than move on and find hapiness.
No offense Sassy... I just don't understand how yall can hang on to something that long.
@Truecap, I will try NOT to take offense, well because I have physically moved on, ive gotten promotions, new things in my life. I havent allowed this aqua to hold me back from anything, ive dated and although Ive met people, they just dont do it for me. This entire year ive kept my feelings inside and havent tried to do anything, shes the one reaching out, and when we spoke it didnt feel forced or anything. My mental has controlled my actions, but whatever I am feeling in my heart cannot change unless it is done on its own. For an aqua to ask 100 personal questions about where I am, and discusses the break up again and reasures me of the reasons for the break up does raise flags for me and prob for anyone, Im not jumping this and chasing her, I just want to know....
SO.....technically I am moving on... my life has progressed and I am enjoying it. I commend you on being able to move on entirely when you needed to and finding someone new, but i wont force myself to get into anything just to get over her....
Im ok being alone... with the friends I do have, just wanted to know what her intensions could be.click to expand
Fair enough.
Posted by bnr7013Posted by aquarius09
We love being friends with everyone even exes, IF the break up wasn't bad or the aqua lacks pride. Don't look too much into it. She's just being friendly. That's us naturally. If she wants you, she will voice it.
Yup. This is true. My aqua friend is friends with every single one of her exes. She doesn't want to be with any of them though. She would make it known if that was the case.click to expand
i have cut off my ex's.
and i notice guys who appear as 'friends' leave the scene as soon as they know you are "taken". It's as if they have given up mentally subconsciously, thinking, why waste my fucking time—! 😆
Posted by Ssasy
Here it is...
Me:Cancer/Scorp Moon
Her: Aqua/Cap Moon?
After 2 years of an intense relationshyip which almost resulted in us living ogether and being madly in love we ended. During this entire year she would reach out via email to say hello, ask about holidays blah blah..... Now 1 year later, She remembers my daughters bday, sent an email to ask how we were.... I decided to call and that turned into 3 hrs of laughter and catching up. She is involved but was dating quite a bit and doesnt sound 100% .
She seemed impressed, sad, and almost shocked to hear im single and focusing on my life rather than replacing her. After we spoke she text me and said it was nice talking to you, we could talk for hours didnt think it could happen like that again.
What are the odds that I could still win her back?
What are the chances that I should NOT even look into this?
Yeah an ex is an ex....but she isnt the type to reach out to anyone.....
are you still hanging on, sassy?? she isn't worth it. You need to move on and find someone who wants you.
lots of people out there, single people who are willing to have you as their pernament partner.
don't waste any more of your time with someone who won't spend day to day with you.
don't analyze anymore. It will just make you crazy and confused when the truth is right there in front of you, that she's just not there.
Posted by bnr7013Posted by aquarius09
We love being friends with everyone even exes, IF the break up wasn't bad or the aqua lacks pride. Don't look too much into it. She's just being friendly. That's us naturally. If she wants you, she will voice it.
Yup. This is true. My aqua friend is friends with every single one of her exes. She doesn't want to be with any of them though. She would make it known if that was the case.click to expand
One of the aquas I dated before this one, is VERY much so like this. But she hangs on to me in hopes of me giving in and being with her. She excepts the friendship none the less, but she also wouldn't mind having more. SO I see it. Only thing is MY ex was FAR from this..... She is the type to devote herself into her mate, work, and her 1 good friend. everyone else has to catch her on a good day.
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Me:Cancer/Scorp Moon
Her: Aqua/Cap Moon?
After 2 years of an intense relationshyip which almost resulted in us living ogether and being madly in love we ended. During this entire year she would reach out via email to say hello, ask about holidays blah blah..... Now 1 year later, She remembers my daughters bday, sent an email to ask how we were.... I decided to call and that turned into 3 hrs of laughter and catching up. She is involved but was dating quite a bit and doesnt sound 100% .
She seemed impressed, sad, and almost shocked to hear im single and focusing on my life rather than replacing her. After we spoke she text me and said it was nice talking to you, we could talk for hours didnt think it could happen like that again.
What are the odds that I could still win her back?
What are the chances that I should NOT even look into this?
Yeah an ex is an ex....but she isnt the type to reach out to anyone.....