FargoAquarian
@FargoAquarian
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Need help fellow aquarians and everyone else...
Maybe you should tell her how it makes you feel. I'm an aqua too and when I do lose myself in work or other things my partner tells me and I try to give him the time he needs.
Talk to her. Be direct and non-confrontational. Don't let it sound like you are complaining or nagging and don't be confrontational. Be more about "I feel...." and "when you do this....I interpret this....and I don't want to misinterpret anything".
If you don't address it, it will build into resentment and could be detrimental. At least give her a chance to correct her behavior or explain. Then, after she knows how you feel, you can determine if she's making efforts to make you happy.
If you don't address it, it will build into resentment and could be detrimental. At least give her a chance to correct her behavior or explain. Then, after she knows how you feel, you can determine if she's making efforts to make you happy.
Posted by IrresistableScorp
I could be wrong but don't aquas love having their partner next to them while doing other things. It's not so much ignore as it is comfortable silence. Being able to be comfortable in each others presence without always being up in each others face is a good thing, no?
Yes that's how i like it as well. i can work while shes doing her own thing and that is no prob for me. once in a while, i would steal a hug or kiss then get back to my work. i agree with comfortable silence. but i feel like i am being ignored when we go to her company's party, she talks to everybody the whole night but me. and i end up finding someone else to talk to. which is not an issue as being an aquarius, i can talk to people and be sociable without being too close. by the time she talks to me, its usually time to go home??_ i would go over to her and stand next to her for hours listening to things i know not of and i would ask her sometimes who's this or that. instead, her co-workers are the ones who notice it more and are the ones who bring me into the conversation instead of my girl. i mean??_ maybe that's her but i would not make anyone especially my girlfriend out of place at my company party or anywhere.
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