Need some advice on an my Aqua man crush...

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meangirl0715
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Hi all. I am new here. So, without much further ado, I am having a crush on an Aqua man. The strange thing about this person is that he constantly avoids me whenever we're out of the classroom. I mean, I ran unto him one time in the elevator. I stood next to him which meant that we're going to be in the same elevator coach. But then, he waited for the other one to arrive even though the first one (where I am in) could still accommodate at least 10 people. The other incident was when I ran unto him at the corridor. I slapped his back and said "Hey!" He just looked at me and then went off the other direction quickly when in fact, he could accompany me and we can go to class together. In these two instances, I felt like I was a nobody to him well in fact, I sit next to him in class everyday. He made me feel like as if he doesn't know me at all, like a total stranger. But the crazy thing is, whenever we're in class, we talk to each other like good friends. I mean we don't talk that much but we do have nice conversations once in a while and we sometimes laugh at one another. I am always the one who initiates the conversation, though. But I noticed that, when it comes to other people in class, he is very very chatty and laughs a lot with them compared to when he talks to me. He is even the one initiating the conversation with them. I wonder why he doesn't do that to me.

When he ignored me that day on the corridor, I also ignored him the following day (by not talking to him) and I didn't show him that I was doing it on purpose because I was hurt by what he did. I was ALWAYS the one who starts off the conversation, as mentioned, but when I ignored him that day, he was the one who came up and talked to me.

I sometimes feel like there is a some kind of awkwardness and tension between us whenever we're together. Maybe it's just me thinking that he likes me too when in reality, he disgusts me. I am totally confused whether he likes me or not. Also, whenever I talk to him, I sometimes ask very personal questions which he doesn't want to answer. Maybe this is the reason why he seems kinda "off" to me because maybe he thinks I am prying too much into his private life. I am getting mixed signals from this guy. Sometimes I feel like he also has a crush on me too but there are times that I also feel like he is disgusted of me.
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aquasnoz
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Not disgusted, just amused. And no I wouldn't answer either. You mentioned 'class', may I ask how old? Hate assuming. He might just be shy because funny enough when it comes to the one person I'm genuinely interested in I become a bit standoff-ish.

I say I guard my feelings for reasons but honestly I think I just want to make sure of them first and sometimes it can be painfully long to evaluate.
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NotYourAverageAquarius
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Honestly, unless I'm just a totally weird guy...

I would say he probably isn't as into you as you think.

I was just recently in college and you know there were times when girls sat next to me and started convos every class yadda yadda and I enjoyed the company but I was never into them.

In fact most of the time if I got the vibe they might like me I would probably do exactly what he is doing. Not initiate conversations in class.

If I see you outside of class and I thought you were into me I would probably never acknowledge you or initiate contact unless we were to cross paths as to not be rude.
HOWEVER
IF
You are asking me personal questions as well and not taking the hint I could possibly resort to some of the strange activity he is doing....
More when I was younger than now but if I thought you were odd and bothering me I may still dunno *shrug*

Sorry, the most probably truth hurts but I'm just being honest.