Changing ways and ignoring?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Earthcapgirl on Saturday, June 30, 2018 and has 12 replies.

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@Earthcapgirl
8 Years

What’s the best way to handle an Aquarius bf who ignores your call (this is our daily phone call routine btw). We had a minor disagreement today but he asked me to talk later and was cozying up to me and looked like he was wanting to make things up and we did because we forgot about th fight and we’re hanging out, then as he had to leave, he said we need to chat and I said ok babe have a good day I’ll call you. He told me what he was going to do later and left saying love you etc.. completely normal.. So I called him after work as usual and...ignored and no reply to text either!? What’s the best steps I can take next? Thanks in advance 🙂

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8 Years

Posted by Jade_Alexander
Leave him alone. He will come to you when ready...

Like, it’s a phone call.... not a big deal

Will do ma’am!

It isn’t just a phone all though honestly haha it’s an everyday things so he’s doing it purposely

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8 Years

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Earthcapgirl

Posted by Jade_Alexander
Leave him alone. He will come to you when ready...

Like, it’s a phone call.... not a big deal

Will do ma’am!
It isn’t just a phone all though honestly haha it’s an everyday things so he’s doing it purposely

and if you push it he may rebel..

Honestly, you shouldn’t have to play games. You should be able to discuss this.

But Indont know how old you are, or how serious the relationship is. I wouldn’t push it if we see one another regularly. People can still have lives outsides if relationships

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Thank you🙂

I’m in my mid 20s and he’s in mid 30s. He’s a divorcee with kids and I’m not.

I will give him space 🙂 we had plans to see each other Sunday night so I’ll text him Sunday morning about that but nothing until then unless he texts me 🙂

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@Earthcapgirl
8 Years

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Earthcapgirl

Posted by Jade_Alexander
Leave him alone. He will come to you when ready...

Like, it’s a phone call.... not a big deal

Will do ma’am!
It isn’t just a phone all though honestly haha it’s an everyday things so he’s doing it purposely

and if you push it he may rebel..

Honestly, you shouldn’t have to play games. You should be able to discuss this.

But Indont know how old you are, or how serious the relationship is. I wouldn’t push it if we see one another regularly. People can still have lives outsides if relationships

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Also, we are serious. He loves me and that’s something I always know

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Posted by Earthcapgirl
What’s the best way to handle an Aquarius bf who ignores your call (this is our daily phone call routine btw). We had a minor disagreement today but he asked me to talk later and was cozying up to me and looked like he was wanting to make things up and we did because we forgot about th fight and we’re hanging out, then as he had to leave, he said we need to chat and I said ok babe have a good day I’ll call you. He told me what he was going to do later and left saying love you etc.. completely normal.. So I called him after work as usual and...ignored and no reply to text either!? What’s the best steps I can take next? Thanks in advance

if he said not to talk till later but you call him anyway? just do your own thing.

have your own life. have some fun hobbies, go find some work, anything. have fun with your life

and dont worry about what he wants.

they come running because he likes your independence doing your own thing.

also can u give some chart examples of u and him?

u seem more clingy and needier than him...and that can be more problematic.

i am needy too, so i need my man to give me re assurance too.

so he'll need some needy loving placements too.

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Posted by Earthcapgirl

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Earthcapgirl

Posted by Jade_Alexander
Leave him alone. He will come to you when ready...

Like, it’s a phone call.... not a big deal

Will do ma’am!
It isn’t just a phone all though honestly haha it’s an everyday things so he’s doing it purposely

and if you push it he may rebel..

Honestly, you shouldn’t have to play games. You should be able to discuss this.

But Indont know how old you are, or how serious the relationship is. I wouldn’t push it if we see one another regularly. People can still have lives outsides if relationships

Also, we are serious. He loves me and that’s something I always know

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🙂 thats good

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@Earthcapgirl
8 Years

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Earthcapgirl
What’s the best way to handle an Aquarius bf who ignores your call (this is our daily phone call routine btw). We had a minor disagreement today but he asked me to talk later and was cozying up to me and looked like he was wanting to make things up and we did because we forgot about th fight and we’re hanging out, then as he had to leave, he said we need to chat and I said ok babe have a good day I’ll call you. He told me what he was going to do later and left saying love you etc.. completely normal.. So I called him after work as usual and...ignored and no reply to text either!? What’s the best steps I can take next? Thanks in advance

if he said not to talk till later but you call him anyway? just do your own thing.

have your own life. have some fun hobbies, go find some work, anything. have fun with your life
and dont worry about what he wants.

they come running because he likes your independence doing your own thing.

also can u give some chart examples of u and him?

u seem more clingy and needier than him...and that can be more problematic.

i am needy too, so i need my man to give me re assurance too.

so he'll need some needy loving placements too.

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Oh no, so as he wasn’t leaving to pick up his kdis.. he said we need to chat and I said ok I’ll call you later and we can chat. It’s our routine that I call him after work so 2 hours later I called.. it was an expected call! But before he left he was fine, like telling me his kids are testing in their sport today and blah blah.. he was being very nice. That’s why I’m confused since he said we need to talk..

We had a fight yesterday so maybe that’s why he’s still mad. Neither of us apologized. I just don’t like silent treatment like if you’re mad then tell me.

I’m cap sun, Libra moon, Scorpio Venus and Virgo mars.

He is aqua sun, sag moon, Aries Venus and Virgo mars

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8 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune
It prolly has zero to do with you. He was picking up his kids and got caught up with any number of variables. Don’t stress.

I’m watching the world cup and trying not to 🙂 it’s just weird because he always reaches out unless he’s upset. I’ll just eat him sulk until he’s ready to talk.. lol