Simply mad or just surprised?

How come? Because i didn't let her know before?

Are we talking you or her? I think she was surprised but you're simply mad mate.

Don't ever just show up at someone's workplace. Eh, but I'm a cap - my workplace is sacred.

This feels really stalkerish creepy, to me.

Well now i feel bad instead of doing any good it seems like i totally messed up.

Post it on the Cancer board and get their take on it. They will be able to give you a view point from a cancer's frame of mind.

I don't see how an ex can be a friend when you still harbour feelings for her. It's not a friend it's called denial. If you can honestly answer "yes I am just doing this because I do this for all my friends" then you are one amazing guy, better than me.

Now put yourself in her shoes. People can sense desperation, in fact they could might even be able to smell it (just kidding) so let's put a side the stalkerish part, perhaps she finds it endearing but that would just lead you on knowing you have feelings for her.

Then what about being the new girl at work. This very act would've set her up in the most awkward of situations, to an extent people might've already painted her in a certain light for whatever reason. Office politics always apply.

Don't feel bad for a nice gesture, feel bad at the lack of foresight in wanting her back.

Haha you're right, i guess i should've think it more before doing it, now it's done. I know she has to be mad since she hasn't said anything so i'll just let time do the job, and the reason why i still do things like that is bc we have child and think of that all the time.

Why is this in the aqua board?

Aquas will never be able to guess why a cancer does anything. In fact, sometimes I wonder how this combination even takes off.