Successfully survived bfs Aquarius freakout

I think I just survived his most recent Aquarius freakout or retreat or need for space. LOL and I think I'm starting to learn the signs when they are coming now.....on Tuesday, he seemed off. I can't describe it any other way than things I know he's told me he wanted to do or loves to do (working out) he decides not to do for no other reason than to stay at home and do nothing. We talk everyday after work but on Wednesday he sounded tired so I kept it very short, no more than 5 minutes. He initiated a conversation about weekend plans and we decided to go out on either Friday or Saturday. I told him I'd call him on Thursday after work and ended the call. Based on his mood though, I decided not to call or text. On Friday afternoon, I got a HEY...what happened to you text by lunchtime. He asked me to come over Friday night and we had an awesome night. When I went home this morning, he was texting me within an hour of me leaving. Then called me and talked to me from 11am to 1pm. I ended the call when I could tell he sounded sleepy and now I'm backing off again but I think it worked.

Ultimately, he seems to want someone to be there who understands him no matter what. Sounds basic but I'm just so happy that this went well. We're both so sad!

Nothing sad about it. You're becoming in tune with him...I can tell when the aqua I'm crushing on needs space too and ultimately that's drawing him closer to me!

Yup, these quirky souls seek understanding. :-)

He just called me when he woke up from his nap to tell me he's headed to the gym. LOL. I only said it's sad because of how in tune we now are. I love Aqua's!!
He gets my quirky side and I get his.

Posted by Taurus Visionary
I think I just survived his most recent Aquarius freakout or retreat or need for space. LOL and I think I'm starting to learn the signs when they are coming now.....on Tuesday, he seemed off. I can't describe it any other way than things I know he's told me he wanted to do or loves to do (working out) he decides not to do for no other reason than to stay at home and do nothing. We talk everyday after work but on Wednesday he sounded tired so I kept it very short, no more than 5 minutes. He initiated a conversation about weekend plans and we decided to go out on either Friday or Saturday. I told him I'd call him on Thursday after work and ended the call. Based on his mood though, I decided not to call or text. On Friday afternoon, I got a HEY...what happened to you text by lunchtime. He asked me to come over Friday night and we had an awesome night. When I went home this morning, he was texting me within an hour of me leaving. Then called me and talked to me from 11am to 1pm. I ended the call when I could tell he sounded sleepy and now I'm backing off again but I think it worked.

Ultimately, he seems to want someone to be there who understands him no matter what. Sounds basic but I'm just so happy that this went well. We're both so sad!

ok...um first. do you have aquarius in your chart? maybe pluto in the 11th?

or sun or moon in 11th house??

if so..you're trying to understand how you are, but instread, pretend you are a man.

just kidding.

men are so different than women. i'd go look at his moon and venus....that's important. If you know his venus and moon, it's what he's attracted to, and what emotionally needs.

the sun and mars and merc and rising are also indicators but it's smaller degree than the moon and venus.

Hi Lisabeth,

Thanks for your reply. We both have Libra in Pluto.

His Sun is in Aquarius. His moon is Libra and his Venus is in Capricorn.

I'm a Taurus sun. Moon in Gemini. Venus in Pisces.

gotta love a taurus ( or any other sign) who understands an aqua needs for space.

awesome 🙂

my boyfriend is a taurus and when he starts to see me fidgeting, he lets me " be free" persay. not for too long though,the possessive side does make a return.

Posted by aisforaqua
gotta love a taurus ( or any other sign) who understands an aqua needs for space.

awesome 🙂

my boyfriend is a taurus and when he starts to see me fidgeting, he lets me " be free" persay. not for too long though,the possessive side does make a return.

LOL I actually love my freedom and need a great deal of space as well so it works perfectly. We both know how to respect each other's need for space and even how to do that when we're around each other. Sometimes, we're able to hang out in a very total but comfortable silence that is just soo awesome. At other times, we talk endlessly for hours. It's great!

Posted by Taurus Visionary
Hi Lisabeth,

Thanks for your reply. We both have Libra in Pluto.

His Sun is in Aquarius. His moon is Libra and his Venus is in Capricorn.

I'm a Taurus sun. Moon in Gemini. Venus in Pisces.

hey that actually sounds good, what are your mars?

your mars in a woman would be what you're attracted to (type of man)

and what's his mars? how he goes about..

here is a link to the cafeastrology, what a woman finds attractive:

http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/idealmanforawoman.html

there's also a long topic in the relationships/astrology forum for this as well. you'll see why you are ga-ga over your man.

Posted by lisabethur8
here is a link to the cafeastrology, what a woman finds attractive:

http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/idealmanforawoman.html

there's also a long topic in the relationships/astrology forum for this as well. you'll see why you are ga-ga over your man.

Thanks lisabethur8.

For fun we ordered a relationship compatibility report and we were surprised by how much of a match we are.

Here is an update-

He just left this morning to go on a trip with his parents. Before he left, he told me I better miss him as much as he's going to miss me. Then he told me that I make him so happy and that he's going to bring me a gift back from Canada.

Sweetest moment ever!!!

Posted by Taurus Visionary

Posted by lisabethur8
here is a link to the cafeastrology, what a woman finds attractive:

http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/idealmanforawoman.html

there's also a long topic in the relationships/astrology forum for this as well. you'll see why you are ga-ga over your man.

Thanks lisabethur8.

For fun we ordered a relationship compatibility report and we were surprised by how much of a match we are.

Here is an update-

He just left this morning to go on a trip with his parents. Before he left, he told me I better miss him as much as he's going to miss me. Then he told me that I make him so happy and that he's going to bring me a gift back from Canada.

Sweetest moment ever!!!

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Why didnt you go with him??

is it one of those family outings??

my cousin's boyfriend left with his family to go on a summer vacation family thing too. I was wondering why they never invite my cousin.

His folks paid for family vacations so that he and his sister could travel with them so there wasn't really a possibility for me to go with them. Plus, we're not that serious yet. He did tell his parents about my son's football highlights and found the link on the website all on his own so he could show his family

I do need some advice.....I'm freaking out about one thing.....he's looking to buy his first home and I'm helping him with this. He keeps asking me to move in but I don't think I should take him seriously so I keep dodging the topic. I'm not sure how to tell if this is one of those Aquarius things that they say but aren't quite ready for and how to tell the difference.

I just don't want anything to ruin how good things are for us right now.