The thing about being an Aquarius with Gem Moon

You are on page out of 2 | Reverse Order
Profile picture of Aerazo
Aerazo
@Aerazo
8 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Comments: 9 · Posts: 2257 · Topics: 92
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.

Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..

(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
Profile picture of Aerazo
Aerazo
@Aerazo
8 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Comments: 9 · Posts: 2257 · Topics: 92
Posted by DonJohn
the problem lies with you and pretty much nothing else outside of criminal domestic violence.



Image Not Found





if you done banged over 9 men. you will most likely fail going forward.



the more men you sleep and bond with, the higher your standards become. the unhappier you become. it's a brutal fact of reality.



if you chose the liberal feminist i don't need no man slooting gospel then u have to lay in that bed too.
Possibly not with me directly, but I have only had 1 long relationship for 12 yrs.

I've been single for 2 yrs, obviously not actually looking for someone, but I simply rely on connection so it's hard for me to get that eith just any person.

What I mean isn't related to how many partners someone has had but I guess that it makes sense, most guys are insecure that they aren't enough and that since she has had other partners then they think she can get one around the corner.

I do agree about the standards increase

Profile picture of Aerazo
Aerazo
@Aerazo
8 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Comments: 9 · Posts: 2257 · Topics: 92
Posted by Neno2
Posted by Aerazo
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.

Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..

(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
Are u that wife??
click to expand

Luckily no! I fought it until I ended up asking for divorce. lol
Profile picture of Aerazo
Aerazo
@Aerazo
8 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Comments: 9 · Posts: 2257 · Topics: 92
Posted by tiziani
I didn't really understand

"love her but will always look at her from far.... afraid to let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings."

?
A guy who loves a woman who is independent and open minded while he is traditional and conservative. He prefers to let her be and not be with her, instead of being with her while she's independent.

Traditional guys tend to work very hard to find a wife so she doesn't have to work. but sometimes they love someone else.

Idk if i explained better.
Profile picture of Aerazo
Aerazo
@Aerazo
8 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Comments: 9 · Posts: 2257 · Topics: 92
Posted by tiziani
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by tiziani
I didn't really understand

"love her but will always look at her from far.... afraid to let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings."

?
Meaning he'd rather not go there with her.... or try to dominate her. It's one or the other....
So what's missing for you and the OP? If you both know you don't want these kind of men
click to expand

Easier said than done, sometimes you like the person so much you think you can make that sacrifice, if you are a giver.

Most of the time the guy won't change his mind but he offers you everything. (One case)

Other case is the guy won't change his mind but he also knows your expectation is very high (Financially) because otherwise I would have stayed working.. right? so he can't live up to your expectations and he walks away.
Profile picture of Aerazo
Aerazo
@Aerazo
8 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Comments: 9 · Posts: 2257 · Topics: 92
Posted by tiziani
Posted by Aerazo
Posted by tiziani
I didn't really understand

"love her but will always look at her from far.... afraid to let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings."

?
A guy who loves a woman who is independent and open minded while he is traditional and conservative. He prefers to let her be and not be with her, instead of being with her while she's independent.

Traditional guys tend to work very hard to find a wife so she doesn't have to work. but sometimes they love someone else.

Idk if i explained better.


Right but if the guy is leaving her be, I guess what I'm asking is what do you want from the guy? Is it sex, sexual attraction?

click to expand

Everything..including intellectual connection
Profile picture of Aerazo
Aerazo
@Aerazo
8 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Comments: 9 · Posts: 2257 · Topics: 92
Posted by Aerazo
Posted by tiziani
Posted by Aerazo
Posted by tiziani
I didn't really understand

"love her but will always look at her from far.... afraid to let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings."

?
A guy who loves a woman who is independent and open minded while he is traditional and conservative. He prefers to let her be and not be with her, instead of being with her while she's independent.

Traditional guys tend to work very hard to find a wife so she doesn't have to work. but sometimes they love someone else.

Idk if i explained better.


Right but if the guy is leaving her be, I guess what I'm asking is what do you want from the guy? Is it sex, sexual attraction?


Everything..including intellectual connection
click to expand



This isn't with about me, it's guys technically living their life this way:

High School, Degree, Career. ( during this time no one was taken seriously in relationships)

then find someone to marry and make them stay at home wife while he works and supports her financially. if they find someone successful they feel intimidated, again looking for someone less knowledgeable of the world.

maybe this happens more around this area of the United States.

Profile picture of LadyNeptune
LadyNeptune
@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 11076 · Posts: 35718 · Topics: 110
Posted by tiziani
Posted by Aerazo
Posted by tiziani
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by tiziani
I didn't really understand

"love her but will always look at her from far.... afraid to let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings."

?
Meaning he'd rather not go there with her.... or try to dominate her. It's one or the other....
So what's missing for you and the OP? If you both know you don't want these kind of men
Easier said than done, sometimes you like the person so much you think you can make that sacrifice, if you are a giver.

Most of the time the guy won't change his mind but he offers you everything. (One case)

Other case is the guy won't change his mind but he also knows your expectation is very high (Financially) because otherwise I would have stayed working.. right? so he can't live up to your expectations and he walks away.


Lol Is this a "want what you can't have" thing?

click to expand

This is a problem of not vetting properly before getting emotionally involved.
Profile picture of Aerazo
Aerazo
@Aerazo
8 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Comments: 9 · Posts: 2257 · Topics: 92
Posted by Astrology101
Posted by LadyNeptune
There are plenty of men out there who want an intelligent successful woman as their partner. Your just dating dudes with a 1950s mentality. In order to eliminate them quickly and stop wasting time you need to ask the right questions so you can discover what they are about.


I wanna know these questions. Seriously.
click to expand

That's my issue. I ask the right questions that's when I realize how many close minded people there is around us.
Profile picture of Capricorn91
Capricorn91
@Capricorn91
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 425 · Posts: 2010 · Topics: 36
Posted by Aerazo
Posted by tiziani
I didn't really understand

"love her but will always look at her from far.... afraid to let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings."

?
A guy who loves a woman who is independent and open minded while he is traditional and conservative. He prefers to let her be and not be with her, instead of being with her while she's independent.

Traditional guys tend to work very hard to find a wife so she doesn't have to work. but sometimes they love someone else.

Idk if i explained better.
click to expand

Do you want a guy who will be with you everywhere you go or someone who will appreciate your hard work from afar admiring you for it, living his own separate life but also respecting you and giving you the mental stimulation that you desire?
Profile picture of Aerazo
Aerazo
@Aerazo
8 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Comments: 9 · Posts: 2257 · Topics: 92
Posted by Capricorn91
Posted by Aerazo
Posted by tiziani
I didn't really understand

"love her but will always look at her from far.... afraid to let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings."

?
A guy who loves a woman who is independent and open minded while he is traditional and conservative. He prefers to let her be and not be with her, instead of being with her while she's independent.

Traditional guys tend to work very hard to find a wife so she doesn't have to work. but sometimes they love someone else.

Idk if i explained better.
Do you want a guy who will be with you everywhere you go or someone who will appreciate your hard work from afar admiring you for it, living his own separate life but also respecting you and giving you the mental stimulation that you desire?
click to expand

For me personally, someone I can do great things together, but who will also appreciate that I have things to accomplish on my own as well and will understand, since I'd like for him to have that too.
Profile picture of LadyNeptune
LadyNeptune
@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 11076 · Posts: 35718 · Topics: 110
Posted by Astrology101
Posted by LadyNeptune
There are plenty of men out there who want an intelligent successful woman as their partner. Your just dating dudes with a 1950s mentality. In order to eliminate them quickly and stop wasting time you need to ask the right questions so you can discover what they are about.


I wanna know these questions. Seriously.
click to expand


"Where do you see yourself/what does your life look like in 5 years? 10 years?"

Personally and professionally.

"Do you want kids. How many?"

If he wants a ton of kids that's an indicator that he's looking for a woman whose content with being a stay at home mom.



Ask him about his parents relationship.

9xs outta 10 we subconsciously want to date a partner similar to our parents. That 10th time person is looking for the exact opposite. Also this is his example for how a relationship should be. So it's a good indicator on what he is subconsciously looking for.

And sheeeet, just talk about your passion for your career. Tell him where you see it taking you in the next 5 years, 10 years. Let him know it's part of who you are.

Profile picture of Capricorn91
Capricorn91
@Capricorn91
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 425 · Posts: 2010 · Topics: 36
Posted by LibraMudra
I think you need a fire man with fire moon.

Shits lit.

I have libra sun aqua moon and husband has leo sun leo moon.

Also, he had a hell of a time getting me to settle. I am a work my ass off lady. But I've really turned into a fuckin betty Crocker take care of my man lady with a good job too.
Is this something with Air women? I have seen one Aqua and one Gemini till now who work very hard and quite a lot. It is like they love working and are very aggressive about it.
Profile picture of lisabethur8
lisabeth
@lisabethur8
13 Years50,000+ Posts

Comments: 4373 · Posts: 50653 · Topics: 564
Posted by Aerazo
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.

Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..

(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
then find a man who wants that.

plenty of them like that. No shame in it.
Profile picture of saweetz1988
saweetz1988
@saweetz1988
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 1 · Posts: 4807 · Topics: 263
Posted by bittercupcake
Because men want a feminine... cookie cutter type. Men can hardly handle a woman who isn't afraid of walking away due to fear.

Usually the men who aren't afraid of being with the independent sort of women, are usually the most secure and confident type of men.... hence why I appreciate Fire men.
You can still b strong n masculine on the outside but still be extremely feminine when interacting with a man. I do appreciate the Leo too. I'm saying that he does like me being feminine. Stroke his egoness ego n all that. He's wanting to buy gifts n provide but I still struggle abit. With Aqua he wanna b the boss when it comes to mental stimulation. I can't let that down lol. I never want to lose that battle. Though he loves it when I cook n look after him before. At the end of the day a man craves love n want us women to b a woman.... though u r right I think the more mature smart n good looking I am the more he's less likely to commit lol too much competition. His words from his last girls. But the Leo, they want a queen by their side. The best the better!! What happened with your Leo plz?
Profile picture of saweetz1988
saweetz1988
@saweetz1988
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 1 · Posts: 4807 · Topics: 263
Posted by Aerazo
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.

Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..

(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
You have to decrease ur independent energy when you deal with a man. If you want him that is. It's just what's going to work. Stand ur ground but b feminine about it. A man actually wanna know you need them somewhat. If not there is no point staying. If you can ignite his hero instinct , they wanna protect and provide. That's why it's important to b vulnerable at times no matter how strong and independent you are. feminine is beautiful. 🙂
Profile picture of saweetz1988
saweetz1988
@saweetz1988
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 1 · Posts: 4807 · Topics: 263
Posted by LibraMudra
I think you need a fire man with fire moon.

Shits lit.

I have libra sun aqua moon and husband has leo sun leo moon.

Also, he had a hell of a time getting me to settle. I am a work my ass off lady. But I've really turned into a fuckin betty Crocker take care of my man lady with a good job too.
Leo sun with Leo moon—? I see myself leading that way shortly hehe
Profile picture of saweetz1988
saweetz1988
@saweetz1988
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 1 · Posts: 4807 · Topics: 263
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by LibraMudra
I think you need a fire man with fire moon.

Shits lit.

I have libra sun aqua moon and husband has leo sun leo moon.

Also, he had a hell of a time getting me to settle. I am a work my ass off lady. But I've really turned into a fuckin betty Crocker take care of my man lady with a good job too.
Leo sun with Leo moon—? I see myself leading that way shortly hehe
click to expand

I need to pm you. I need to know what it's like to be a wife of a Leo hehe
Profile picture of TheSag
Sexyttarius
@TheSag
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 815 · Posts: 4576 · Topics: 0
Posted by Aerazo
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.

Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..

(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
Let me picture your situation the way I see it:

There actually are millions of men who marry career women and are ok with them being successful and indipendent but you are not looking for them at all or at least just partly because they are too weak for you and not masculine enough. Those guys are ok being with career women as long as they are with them. I guess at the same time you are angry about the dominant and old fashioned men, who you are attracted to, who are successful yet are looking for a housewife instead of an equal partner. Those guys are classic machos because they have been raised like that and been told that they should look after a mother type of a wife. So in the end you are basically looking for a modern/submissive Macho, a guy who is strong, confident and a badass yet treats you like a lady and does everything for you at the same time.

I know a lot of women say they are married exactly to this guy but chances are they really aren't because this guy probably doesn't exist. But don't worry the young hot looking Cindarella housewife virgin doesn't exist either. Just saying
Profile picture of lisabethur8
lisabeth
@lisabethur8
13 Years50,000+ Posts

Comments: 4373 · Posts: 50653 · Topics: 564
Posted by TheSag
Posted by Aerazo
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.

Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..

(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
Let me picture your situation the way I see it:

There actually are millions of men who marry career women and are ok with them being successful and indipendent but you are not looking for them at all or at least just partly because they are too weak for you and not masculine enough. Those guys are ok being with career women as long as they are with them. I guess at the same time you are angry about the dominant and old fashioned men, who you are attracted to, who are successful yet are looking for a housewife instead of an equal partner. Those guys are classic machos because they have been raised like that and been told that they should look after a mother type of a wife. So in the end you are basically looking for a modern/submissive Macho, a guy who is strong, confident and a badass yet treats you like a lady and does everything for you at the same time.

I know a lot of women say they are married exactly to this guy but chances are they really aren't because this guy probably doesn't exist. But don't worry the young hot looking Cindarella housewife virgin doesn't exist either. Just saying
click to expand



lol

Profile picture of Aerazo
Aerazo
@Aerazo
8 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Comments: 9 · Posts: 2257 · Topics: 92
Posted by TheSag
Posted by Aerazo
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.

Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..

(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
Let me picture your situation the way I see it:

There actually are millions of men who marry career women and are ok with them being successful and indipendent but you are not looking for them at all or at least just partly because they are too weak for you and not masculine enough. Those guys are ok being with career women as long as they are with them. I guess at the same time you are angry about the dominant and old fashioned men, who you are attracted to, who are successful yet are looking for a housewife instead of an equal partner. Those guys are classic machos because they have been raised like that and been told that they should look after a mother type of a wife. So in the end you are basically looking for a modern/submissive Macho, a guy who is strong, confident and a badass yet treats you like a lady and does everything for you at the same time.

I know a lot of women say they are married exactly to this guy but chances are they really aren't because this guy probably doesn't exist. But don't worry the young hot looking Cindarella housewife virgin doesn't exist either. Just saying
click to expand

Hahaha love it!

Then guys complain why successful women become cougars! haha

They start looking for the only missing part, cuddles, love and sex and active guys!
Profile picture of Crabra
Crabra
@Crabra
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 4 · Posts: 1709 · Topics: 21
Posted by Aerazo
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.

Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..

(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)

Wait, you shouldn't have any problems getting interesting and engaging intellectual conversations from a gem moon. Especially if these conversations are sexual in nature. What's the problem? Or is that the problem?

Guys aren't scared of independent, beautiful women. Most will tell you that's what they want. If they are after bimbos, then they are not equipped for a serious relationship. But most guys want to fvck bimbos, but want to come home to a loving partner with more substance. They can't have both, and no woman can be both. So a choice has to be made at some point.

Don't use being strong and independent as a reason for not finding good men. Stop looking in the wrong places.

Profile picture of AquaNextDoor
AquaNextDoor
@AquaNextDoor
10 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Comments: 88 · Posts: 2780 · Topics: 55
Posted by bittercupcake
Because men want a feminine... cookie cutter type. Men can hardly handle a woman who isn't afraid of walking away due to fear.

Usually the men who aren't afraid of being with the independent sort of women, are usually the most secure and confident type of men.... hence why I appreciate Fire men.
I don't think so honestly. Men love women who have boundaries - not just talkin bout how they deserve this this this but really walk their talk - but that doesnt mean that those women can't handle housekeeping. There are so many fake strong ladies out there thinking a beyonce song gave them a clear view on how its supposed to be. Thinking they run this game somehow, when in fact their lazy asses remain single while others continue making progress in life.

If I was a man and I was looking for someone to marry, then that girl better be a good housewife and cook beside not being fake strong. If we have kids - imagine that - do you think I want them to have a mum that's too proud to do housekeeping while I'm bringing home a bigger paycheck? Or that's all up in her feminist ass sayin "oh look at me I'm so independent I don't need marriage bla bla bla". But on the inside 9/10 of these fake strong women crave dick and a stable relationship.

When I met my husband, one of the very first things I made crystal clear was that I walk away if shit hits the fan (any type of flirting or cheating or domestic violence etc). I made clear that at no matter what stage we are in, I can stand up and I'll leave for good. 1 yr married, 10 yrs married or with kids? I dont mind - I will walk away and take them with me if shit goes down. He believed me a 100% and wifed me anyways a few months later because I truly mean what I say and are down for something real. Marriage is work! And you get the benefits of it when both parties work for it together.
Profile picture of carrazeda
Andre
@carrazeda
8 Years500+ Posts

Comments: 61 · Posts: 603 · Topics: 10
Posted by Aerazo
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.

Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..

(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
Isn't this something anyone from both sexes can feel? Because I'm tired of women that just want a good night in the bed or that think of me as a male breeder. And I also don't want them to cook dinner for me. I cook. Or I'm out with friends. And please no parfums or jumpers for christmas, I prefer books. Are we all just looking in the wrong places?

Profile picture of TheSag
Sexyttarius
@TheSag
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 815 · Posts: 4576 · Topics: 0
Posted by Aerazo
Posted by TheSag
Posted by Aerazo
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.

Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..

(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
Let me picture your situation the way I see it:

There actually are millions of men who marry career women and are ok with them being successful and indipendent but you are not looking for them at all or at least just partly because they are too weak for you and not masculine enough. Those guys are ok being with career women as long as they are with them. I guess at the same time you are angry about the dominant and old fashioned men, who you are attracted to, who are successful yet are looking for a housewife instead of an equal partner. Those guys are classic machos because they have been raised like that and been told that they should look after a mother type of a wife. So in the end you are basically looking for a modern/submissive Macho, a guy who is strong, confident and a badass yet treats you like a lady and does everything for you at the same time.

I know a lot of women say they are married exactly to this guy but chances are they really aren't because this guy probably doesn't exist. But don't worry the young hot looking Cindarella housewife virgin doesn't exist either. Just saying
Hahaha love it!

Then guys complain why successful women become cougars! haha

They start looking for the only missing part, cuddles, love and sex and active guys!

click to expand

I like cougars!

So do you like the supporting nice guy who treats you like an equal or do you like the sexmaniac Jose who happens to be a Capricorn? ^^

Many people have found a solution though: they do open relationships in order to get everything. A career driven woman marries a guy who supports her in her decisions and job while she is having affairs with fuckbuddies who can please her sexually. And many men do the same. For me it's just bullshit anyway.
Profile picture of Aerazo
Aerazo
@Aerazo
8 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Comments: 9 · Posts: 2257 · Topics: 92
Posted by TheSag
Posted by Aerazo
Posted by TheSag
Posted by Aerazo
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.

Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..

(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
Let me picture your situation the way I see it:

There actually are millions of men who marry career women and are ok with them being successful and indipendent but you are not looking for them at all or at least just partly because they are too weak for you and not masculine enough. Those guys are ok being with career women as long as they are with them. I guess at the same time you are angry about the dominant and old fashioned men, who you are attracted to, who are successful yet are looking for a housewife instead of an equal partner. Those guys are classic machos because they have been raised like that and been told that they should look after a mother type of a wife. So in the end you are basically looking for a modern/submissive Macho, a guy who is strong, confident and a badass yet treats you like a lady and does everything for you at the same time.

I know a lot of women say they are married exactly to this guy but chances are they really aren't because this guy probably doesn't exist. But don't worry the young hot looking Cindarella housewife virgin doesn't exist either. Just saying
Hahaha love it!

Then guys complain why successful women become cougars! haha

They start looking for the only missing part, cuddles, love and sex and active guys!


I like cougars!

So do you like the supporting nice guy who treats you like an equal or do you like the sexmaniac Jose who happens to be a Capricorn? ^^

Many people have found a solution though: they do open relationships in order to get everything. A career driven woman marries a guy who supports her in her decisions and job while she is having affairs with fuckbuddies who can please her sexually. And many men do the same. For me it's just bullshit anyway.
click to expand

I never meant open relationships..... lol
Profile picture of Aerazo
Aerazo
@Aerazo
8 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Comments: 9 · Posts: 2257 · Topics: 92
Posted by carrazeda
Posted by Aerazo
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.

Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..

(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
Isn't this something anyone from both sexes can feel? Because I'm tired of women that just want a good night in the bed or that think of me as a male breeder. And I also don't want them to cook dinner for me. I cook. Or I'm out with friends. And please no parfums or jumpers for christmas, I prefer books. Are we all just looking in the wrong places?

click to expand

I think we are...

haha

what's your sun sign?
Profile picture of Aerazo
Aerazo
@Aerazo
8 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Comments: 9 · Posts: 2257 · Topics: 92
Posted by carrazeda
Posted by Aerazo
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.

Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..

(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
Isn't this something anyone from both sexes can feel? Because I'm tired of women that just want a good night in the bed or that think of me as a male breeder. And I also don't want them to cook dinner for me. I cook. Or I'm out with friends. And please no parfums or jumpers for christmas, I prefer books. Are we all just looking in the wrong places?

click to expand

I liked a cancer once!! we had something very passionate. he was younger than me :/
Profile picture of TheSag
Sexyttarius
@TheSag
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 815 · Posts: 4576 · Topics: 0
Posted by Aerazo
Posted by TheSag
Posted by Aerazo
Posted by TheSag
Posted by Aerazo
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.

Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..

(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
Let me picture your situation the way I see it:

There actually are millions of men who marry career women and are ok with them being successful and indipendent but you are not looking for them at all or at least just partly because they are too weak for you and not masculine enough. Those guys are ok being with career women as long as they are with them. I guess at the same time you are angry about the dominant and old fashioned men, who you are attracted to, who are successful yet are looking for a housewife instead of an equal partner. Those guys are classic machos because they have been raised like that and been told that they should look after a mother type of a wife. So in the end you are basically looking for a modern/submissive Macho, a guy who is strong, confident and a badass yet treats you like a lady and does everything for you at the same time.

I know a lot of women say they are married exactly to this guy but chances are they really aren't because this guy probably doesn't exist. But don't worry the young hot looking Cindarella housewife virgin doesn't exist either. Just saying
Hahaha love it!

Then guys complain why successful women become cougars! haha

They start looking for the only missing part, cuddles, love and sex and active guys!


I like cougars!

So do you like the supporting nice guy who treats you like an equal or do you like the sexmaniac Jose who happens to be a Capricorn? ^^

Many people have found a solution though: they do open relationships in order to get everything. A career driven woman marries a guy who supports her in her decisions and job while she is having affairs with fuckbuddies who can please her sexually. And many men do the same. For me it's just bullshit anyway.
I never meant open relationships..... lol
click to expand

I know. But that's what other people do when they want it all
Profile picture of carrazeda
Andre
@carrazeda
8 Years500+ Posts

Comments: 61 · Posts: 603 · Topics: 10
Posted by Aerazo
Posted by carrazeda
Posted by Aerazo
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.

Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..

(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
Isn't this something anyone from both sexes can feel? Because I'm tired of women that just want a good night in the bed or that think of me as a male breeder. And I also don't want them to cook dinner for me. I cook. Or I'm out with friends. And please no parfums or jumpers for christmas, I prefer books. Are we all just looking in the wrong places?


I liked a cancer once!! we had something very passionate. he was younger than me :/
click to expand

I don't think I ever fell for an aqua. I tend to circle around aries, scorpio, leo.. I have a thing with older woman though. 🙂 Been more than six years with an aries 13 years older and then ended up falling for a scorpio of the same age. I like to think that I'm just more mature than most guys!
Profile picture of Blackburn
Ex umbra
@Blackburn
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 339 · Posts: 1163 · Topics: 0
Posted by saweetz1988
You have to decrease ur independent energy when you deal with a man. If you want him that is. It's just what's going to work. Stand ur ground but b feminine about it. A man actually wanna know you need them somewhat. If not there is no point staying. If you can ignite his hero instinct , they wanna protect and provide. That's why it's important to b vulnerable at times no matter how strong and independent you are. feminine is beautiful. 🙂

----

I'd never recommend to be what she's not, is too hard and absurd to keep that mask forever, some people are vulnerable, others strong and others both. I think she just wants to be herself and find a partner without people expecting her to be the way you are referring to.

Is dangerous to support a victim-hero dynamic as you are supporting the other person's insecurity and breaking the balance by giving the other person the upper hand; even worse if it's linked to gender. Dependency =/= feminity

Femenine is beautiful, as it's masculine, neutral and cats. There's beauty in everything, just be yourself, is easier.
Profile picture of lisabethur8
lisabeth
@lisabethur8
13 Years50,000+ Posts

Comments: 4373 · Posts: 50653 · Topics: 564
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by saweetz1988
You have to decrease ur independent energy when you deal with a man. If you want him that is. It's just what's going to work. Stand ur ground but b feminine about it. A man actually wanna know you need them somewhat. If not there is no point staying. If you can ignite his hero instinct , they wanna protect and provide. That's why it's important to b vulnerable at times no matter how strong and independent you are. feminine is beautiful. 🙂

----

I'd never recommend to be what she's not, is too hard and absurd to keep that mask forever, some people are vulnerable, others strong and others both. I think she just wants to be herself and find a partner without people expecting her to be the way you are referring to.

Is dangerous to support a victim-hero dynamic as you are supporting the other person's insecurity and breaking the balance by giving the other person the upper hand; even worse if it's linked to gender. Dependency =/= feminity

Femenine is beautiful, as it's masculine, neutral and cats. There's beauty in everything, just be yourself, is easier.
click to expand

yeah just be yourself.



LAda astrology is very masculine and is proud of it. And she's not a man, she is still feminine.

i dont know her chart though. but she says she's majority masculine energies. she still pretty!!

which is why she's Out there....

Profile picture of Blackburn
Ex umbra
@Blackburn
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 339 · Posts: 1163 · Topics: 0
Posted by lisabethur8
she said it's good in this day and age, where roles are REVERSED.



----

I have a tie between masculine/femenine in my chart - I see it more like active-receptive -, and I like it that way.

Is not exactly a reversal but not expecting each person to fit its traditional role because not every woman or man is a certain way, traditional descriptions don't allow heterogeneity.

I like switching "roles", it'd be boring to be always up, or down.
Profile picture of saweetz1988
saweetz1988
@saweetz1988
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 1 · Posts: 4807 · Topics: 263
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by saweetz1988
You have to decrease ur independent energy when you deal with a man. If you want him that is. It's just what's going to work. Stand ur ground but b feminine about it. A man actually wanna know you need them somewhat. If not there is no point staying. If you can ignite his hero instinct , they wanna protect and provide. That's why it's important to b vulnerable at times no matter how strong and independent you are. feminine is beautiful. 🙂

----

I'd never recommend to be what she's not, is too hard and absurd to keep that mask forever, some people are vulnerable, others strong and others both. I think she just wants to be herself and find a partner without people expecting her to be the way you are referring to.

Is dangerous to support a victim-hero dynamic as you are supporting the other person's insecurity and breaking the balance by giving the other person the upper hand; even worse if it's linked to gender. Dependency =/= feminity

Femenine is beautiful, as it's masculine, neutral and cats. There's beauty in everything, just be yourself, is easier.
click to expand

It's funny because I have always been masculine mostly coz I'm almost forced to b. Independent single mum fighting hard tonne independent etc but when I just let go and allow myself to absorb in to be a feminine energy... I'm most myself.. like a 10 year old doing a happy giggling self... n my ex Aqua loved that about me because he knows he. Brought that side out of me and not many people get to see that. I wasn't being someone I was not. I just allowed myself to let go a little .. like when u r having sex.. women r feminine since birth lolz it's the society now that's forcing us women to be running masculine life... but deep down we crave to be loved .. we crave to b able to let go into a man we can fully trust.. that is humans nature.. rheees nothing forced about it.
Profile picture of saweetz1988
saweetz1988
@saweetz1988
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 1 · Posts: 4807 · Topics: 263
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by saweetz1988
You have to decrease ur independent energy when you deal with a man. If you want him that is. It's just what's going to work. Stand ur ground but b feminine about it. A man actually wanna know you need them somewhat. If not there is no point staying. If you can ignite his hero instinct , they wanna protect and provide. That's why it's important to b vulnerable at times no matter how strong and independent you are. feminine is beautiful. 🙂

----

I'd never recommend to be what she's not, is too hard and absurd to keep that mask forever, some people are vulnerable, others strong and others both. I think she just wants to be herself and find a partner without people expecting her to be the way you are referring to.

Is dangerous to support a victim-hero dynamic as you are supporting the other person's insecurity and breaking the balance by giving the other person the upper hand; even worse if it's linked to gender. Dependency =/= feminity

Femenine is beautiful, as it's masculine, neutral and cats. There's beauty in everything, just be yourself, is easier.
yeah just be yourself.



LAda astrology is very masculine and is proud of it. And she's not a man, she is still feminine.

i dont know her chart though. but she says she's majority masculine energies. she still pretty!!

which is why she's Out there....

click to expand

God I love this thank u for sharing
Profile picture of Blackburn
Ex umbra
@Blackburn
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 339 · Posts: 1163 · Topics: 0
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by saweetz1988
You have to decrease ur independent energy when you deal with a man. If you want him that is. It's just what's going to work. Stand ur ground but b feminine about it. A man actually wanna know you need them somewhat. If not there is no point staying. If you can ignite his hero instinct , they wanna protect and provide. That's why it's important to b vulnerable at times no matter how strong and independent you are. feminine is beautiful. 🙂

----

I'd never recommend to be what she's not, is too hard and absurd to keep that mask forever, some people are vulnerable, others strong and others both. I think she just wants to be herself and find a partner without people expecting her to be the way you are referring to.

Is dangerous to support a victim-hero dynamic as you are supporting the other person's insecurity and breaking the balance by giving the other person the upper hand; even worse if it's linked to gender. Dependency =/= feminity

Femenine is beautiful, as it's masculine, neutral and cats. There's beauty in everything, just be yourself, is easier.
It's funny because I have always been masculine mostly coz I'm almost forced to b. Independent single mum fighting hard tonne independent etc but when I just let go and allow myself to absorb in to be a feminine energy... I'm most myself.. like a 10 year old doing a happy giggling self... n my ex Aqua loved that about me because he knows he. Brought that side out of me and not many people get to see that. I wasn't being someone I was not. I just allowed myself to let go a little .. like when u r having sex.. women r feminine since birth lolz it's the society now that's forcing us women to be running masculine life... but deep down we crave to be loved .. we crave to b able to let go into a man we can fully trust.. that is humans nature.. rheees nothing forced about it.
click to expand


----

That's what I'm saying, you are being yourself, but OP is saying she is not dependant etc. so asking her to be it is asking her to fake to please men. If you are more receptive it's perfectly fine, not every woman is the same way.

The other part, you are making a lot of assumptions based on stereotypes. The problem here are concepts, feminity, masculinity... you link independence to men, is a neutral concept that implies freedom. Society as you describe wants every individual to be capable. If you want to marry and be dependent of your husband is your choice and I respect it, but forcing every woman to choose that life is more restrictive than telling all people to be in charge of themselves. Regarding sex, is all up to individual preferences, you can see it in this forum x). Biology doesn't determine human made concepts.

I want love as any healthy individual. Denying men sensitivity, vulnerability and desire of love is not understanding human psyche.
Profile picture of lisabethur8
lisabeth
@lisabethur8
13 Years50,000+ Posts

Comments: 4373 · Posts: 50653 · Topics: 564
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by saweetz1988
You have to decrease ur independent energy when you deal with a man. If you want him that is. It's just what's going to work. Stand ur ground but b feminine about it. A man actually wanna know you need them somewhat. If not there is no point staying. If you can ignite his hero instinct , they wanna protect and provide. That's why it's important to b vulnerable at times no matter how strong and independent you are. feminine is beautiful. 🙂

----

I'd never recommend to be what she's not, is too hard and absurd to keep that mask forever, some people are vulnerable, others strong and others both. I think she just wants to be herself and find a partner without people expecting her to be the way you are referring to.

Is dangerous to support a victim-hero dynamic as you are supporting the other person's insecurity and breaking the balance by giving the other person the upper hand; even worse if it's linked to gender. Dependency =/= feminity

Femenine is beautiful, as it's masculine, neutral and cats. There's beauty in everything, just be yourself, is easier.
It's funny because I have always been masculine mostly coz I'm almost forced to b. Independent single mum fighting hard tonne independent etc but when I just let go and allow myself to absorb in to be a feminine energy... I'm most myself.. like a 10 year old doing a happy giggling self... n my ex Aqua loved that about me because he knows he. Brought that side out of me and not many people get to see that. I wasn't being someone I was not. I just allowed myself to let go a little .. like when u r having sex.. women r feminine since birth lolz it's the society now that's forcing us women to be running masculine life... but deep down we crave to be loved .. we crave to b able to let go into a man we can fully trust.. that is humans nature.. rheees nothing forced about it.
click to expand



there's nothing wrong with being independent. but i do notice the role reversals in society.

and i agree, we all crave to be loved. ^___^

and to love back!!
Profile picture of lisabethur8
lisabeth
@lisabethur8
13 Years50,000+ Posts

Comments: 4373 · Posts: 50653 · Topics: 564
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by lisabethur8
she said it's good in this day and age, where roles are REVERSED.



----

I have a tie between masculine/femenine in my chart - I see it more like active-receptive -, and I like it that way.

Is not exactly a reversal but not expecting each person to fit its traditional role because not every woman or man is a certain way, traditional descriptions don't allow heterogeneity.

I like switching "roles", it'd be boring to be always up, or down.
click to expand

the only thing is that, i read and heard on astrology sites/videos/readings that during Pluto Capricorn, which is a lonnggg time...

Traditional roles are going to be back in!!! 😄

i love that!! yay!!! Capricorn Plutonians here we come!! traditional way!!!
Profile picture of Blackburn
Ex umbra
@Blackburn
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 339 · Posts: 1163 · Topics: 0
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by lisabethur8
she said it's good in this day and age, where roles are REVERSED.



----

I have a tie between masculine/femenine in my chart - I see it more like active-receptive -, and I like it that way.

Is not exactly a reversal but not expecting each person to fit its traditional role because not every woman or man is a certain way, traditional descriptions don't allow heterogeneity.

I like switching "roles", it'd be boring to be always up, or down.
the only thing is that, i read and heard on astrology sites/videos/readings that during Pluto Capricorn, which is a lonnggg time...

Traditional roles are going to be back in!!! 😄

i love that!! yay!!! Capricorn Plutonians here we come!! traditional way!!!
click to expand


----

Roles are restrictive, what I like is free choices.

You need to wake you Aquarian side! I'd say this Cap generation won't be traditional, but consistent and stubborn on their choices, be it modern or traditional.
Profile picture of lisabethur8
lisabeth
@lisabethur8
13 Years50,000+ Posts

Comments: 4373 · Posts: 50653 · Topics: 564
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by lisabethur8
she said it's good in this day and age, where roles are REVERSED.



----

I have a tie between masculine/femenine in my chart - I see it more like active-receptive -, and I like it that way.

Is not exactly a reversal but not expecting each person to fit its traditional role because not every woman or man is a certain way, traditional descriptions don't allow heterogeneity.

I like switching "roles", it'd be boring to be always up, or down.
the only thing is that, i read and heard on astrology sites/videos/readings that during Pluto Capricorn, which is a lonnggg time...

Traditional roles are going to be back in!!! 😄

i love that!! yay!!! Capricorn Plutonians here we come!! traditional way!!!

----

Roles are restrictive, what I like is free choices.

You need to wake you Aquarian side! I'd say this Cap generation won't be traditional, but consistent and stubborn on their choices, be it modern or traditional.
click to expand

i dont like the modern way though. it looks LONELY and i dont like it at all.

my choice is TRADITIONAL and i love it.

dont fix what's not broken. 😄
Profile picture of Blackburn
Ex umbra
@Blackburn
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 339 · Posts: 1163 · Topics: 0
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by lisabethur8
she said it's good in this day and age, where roles are REVERSED.



----

I have a tie between masculine/femenine in my chart - I see it more like active-receptive -, and I like it that way.

Is not exactly a reversal but not expecting each person to fit its traditional role because not every woman or man is a certain way, traditional descriptions don't allow heterogeneity.

I like switching "roles", it'd be boring to be always up, or down.
the only thing is that, i read and heard on astrology sites/videos/readings that during Pluto Capricorn, which is a lonnggg time...

Traditional roles are going to be back in!!! 😄

i love that!! yay!!! Capricorn Plutonians here we come!! traditional way!!!

----

Roles are restrictive, what I like is free choices.

You need to wake you Aquarian side! I'd say this Cap generation won't be traditional, but consistent and stubborn on their choices, be it modern or traditional.
i dont like the modern way though. it looks LONELY and i dont like it at all.

my choice is TRADITIONAL and i love it.

dont fix what's not broken. 😄
click to expand


----

Is YOUR choice, not everyone's. I'm happy you are happy, but your path is only yours. Being alone is not being lonely, being modern is not being alone per se.

Many misconceptions of a simple formula: To each their own.

The word would be rotten, more than broken.
Profile picture of lisabethur8
lisabeth
@lisabethur8
13 Years50,000+ Posts

Comments: 4373 · Posts: 50653 · Topics: 564
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by lisabethur8
she said it's good in this day and age, where roles are REVERSED.



----

I have a tie between masculine/femenine in my chart - I see it more like active-receptive -, and I like it that way.

Is not exactly a reversal but not expecting each person to fit its traditional role because not every woman or man is a certain way, traditional descriptions don't allow heterogeneity.

I like switching "roles", it'd be boring to be always up, or down.
the only thing is that, i read and heard on astrology sites/videos/readings that during Pluto Capricorn, which is a lonnggg time...

Traditional roles are going to be back in!!! 😄

i love that!! yay!!! Capricorn Plutonians here we come!! traditional way!!!

----

Roles are restrictive, what I like is free choices.

You need to wake you Aquarian side! I'd say this Cap generation won't be traditional, but consistent and stubborn on their choices, be it modern or traditional.
i dont like the modern way though. it looks LONELY and i dont like it at all.

my choice is TRADITIONAL and i love it.

dont fix what's not broken. 😄

----

Is YOUR choice, not everyone's. I'm happy you are happy, but your path is only yours. Being alone is not being lonely, being modern is not being alone per se.

Many misconceptions of a simple formula: To each their own.

The word would be rotten, more than broken.
click to expand

yeah but lonely meaning...

no one gets anyone!!!

people are born to need and want love!!



it's like breathing air and drinking water and craving hugs!!

Image Not Found
Profile picture of Aerazo
Aerazo
@Aerazo
8 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Comments: 9 · Posts: 2257 · Topics: 92
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by lisabethur8
she said it's good in this day and age, where roles are REVERSED.



----

I have a tie between masculine/femenine in my chart - I see it more like active-receptive -, and I like it that way.

Is not exactly a reversal but not expecting each person to fit its traditional role because not every woman or man is a certain way, traditional descriptions don't allow heterogeneity.

I like switching "roles", it'd be boring to be always up, or down.
the only thing is that, i read and heard on astrology sites/videos/readings that during Pluto Capricorn, which is a lonnggg time...

Traditional roles are going to be back in!!! 😄

i love that!! yay!!! Capricorn Plutonians here we come!! traditional way!!!

----

Roles are restrictive, what I like is free choices.

You need to wake you Aquarian side! I'd say this Cap generation won't be traditional, but consistent and stubborn on their choices, be it modern or traditional.
i dont like the modern way though. it looks LONELY and i dont like it at all.

my choice is TRADITIONAL and i love it.

dont fix what's not broken. 😄

----

Is YOUR choice, not everyone's. I'm happy you are happy, but your path is only yours. Being alone is not being lonely, being modern is not being alone per se.

Many misconceptions of a simple formula: To each their own.

The word would be rotten, more than broken.
yeah but lonely meaning...

no one gets anyone!!!

people are born to need and want love!!



it's like breathing air and drinking water and craving hugs!!

Image Not Found
click to expand

The problem is to find each other..?
Profile picture of Blackburn
Ex umbra
@Blackburn
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 339 · Posts: 1163 · Topics: 0
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Blackburn
Posted by lisabethur8
she said it's good in this day and age, where roles are REVERSED.



----

I have a tie between masculine/femenine in my chart - I see it more like active-receptive -, and I like it that way.

Is not exactly a reversal but not expecting each person to fit its traditional role because not every woman or man is a certain way, traditional descriptions don't allow heterogeneity.

I like switching "roles", it'd be boring to be always up, or down.
the only thing is that, i read and heard on astrology sites/videos/readings that during Pluto Capricorn, which is a lonnggg time...

Traditional roles are going to be back in!!! 😄

i love that!! yay!!! Capricorn Plutonians here we come!! traditional way!!!

----

Roles are restrictive, what I like is free choices.

You need to wake you Aquarian side! I'd say this Cap generation won't be traditional, but consistent and stubborn on their choices, be it modern or traditional.
i dont like the modern way though. it looks LONELY and i dont like it at all.

my choice is TRADITIONAL and i love it.

dont fix what's not broken. 😄

----

Is YOUR choice, not everyone's. I'm happy you are happy, but your path is only yours. Being alone is not being lonely, being modern is not being alone per se.

Many misconceptions of a simple formula: To each their own.

The word would be rotten, more than broken.
yeah but lonely meaning...

no one gets anyone!!!

people are born to need and want love!!

it's like breathing air and drinking water and craving hugs!!

Image Not Found
click to expand


----

I like pandas! but are too clingy. Baby llamas are a safe option.

Yeah, but I don't like pressuring anyone and love can be found in a lot of ways. Just let it flooow.

CiberHugs* (for those who aren't comfy with physical contact)
First
Previous
Next
Last