
Aerazo
@Aerazo
8 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius
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Posted by DonJohnPossibly not with me directly, but I have only had 1 long relationship for 12 yrs.
the problem lies with you and pretty much nothing else outside of criminal domestic violence.
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if you done banged over 9 men. you will most likely fail going forward.
the more men you sleep and bond with, the higher your standards become. the unhappier you become. it's a brutal fact of reality.
if you chose the liberal feminist i don't need no man slooting gospel then u have to lay in that bed too.

Posted by Neno2Luckily no! I fought it until I ended up asking for divorce. lolPosted by AerazoAre u that wife??
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.
Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..
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Posted by tizianiA guy who loves a woman who is independent and open minded while he is traditional and conservative. He prefers to let her be and not be with her, instead of being with her while she's independent.
I didn't really understand
"love her but will always look at her from far.... afraid to let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings."
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Posted by tizianiEasier said than done, sometimes you like the person so much you think you can make that sacrifice, if you are a giver.Posted by bittercupcakeSo what's missing for you and the OP? If you both know you don't want these kind of menPosted by tizianiMeaning he'd rather not go there with her.... or try to dominate her. It's one or the other....
I didn't really understand
"love her but will always look at her from far.... afraid to let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings."
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Posted by tizianiEverything..including intellectual connectionPosted by AerazoPosted by tizianiA guy who loves a woman who is independent and open minded while he is traditional and conservative. He prefers to let her be and not be with her, instead of being with her while she's independent.
I didn't really understand
"love her but will always look at her from far.... afraid to let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings."
?
Traditional guys tend to work very hard to find a wife so she doesn't have to work. but sometimes they love someone else.
Idk if i explained better.
Right but if the guy is leaving her be, I guess what I'm asking is what do you want from the guy? Is it sex, sexual attraction?
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Posted by AerazoPosted by tizianiEverything..including intellectual connectionPosted by AerazoPosted by tizianiA guy who loves a woman who is independent and open minded while he is traditional and conservative. He prefers to let her be and not be with her, instead of being with her while she's independent.
I didn't really understand
"love her but will always look at her from far.... afraid to let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings."
?
Traditional guys tend to work very hard to find a wife so she doesn't have to work. but sometimes they love someone else.
Idk if i explained better.
Right but if the guy is leaving her be, I guess what I'm asking is what do you want from the guy? Is it sex, sexual attraction?
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Posted by tizianiThis is a problem of not vetting properly before getting emotionally involved.Posted by AerazoLol Is this a "want what you can't have" thing?Posted by tizianiEasier said than done, sometimes you like the person so much you think you can make that sacrifice, if you are a giver.Posted by bittercupcakeSo what's missing for you and the OP? If you both know you don't want these kind of menPosted by tizianiMeaning he'd rather not go there with her.... or try to dominate her. It's one or the other....
I didn't really understand
"love her but will always look at her from far.... afraid to let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings."
?
Most of the time the guy won't change his mind but he offers you everything. (One case)
Other case is the guy won't change his mind but he also knows your expectation is very high (Financially) because otherwise I would have stayed working.. right? so he can't live up to your expectations and he walks away.
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Posted by Astrology101That's my issue. I ask the right questions that's when I realize how many close minded people there is around us.Posted by LadyNeptuneI wanna know these questions. Seriously.
There are plenty of men out there who want an intelligent successful woman as their partner. Your just dating dudes with a 1950s mentality. In order to eliminate them quickly and stop wasting time you need to ask the right questions so you can discover what they are about.
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Posted by AerazoDo you want a guy who will be with you everywhere you go or someone who will appreciate your hard work from afar admiring you for it, living his own separate life but also respecting you and giving you the mental stimulation that you desire?Posted by tizianiA guy who loves a woman who is independent and open minded while he is traditional and conservative. He prefers to let her be and not be with her, instead of being with her while she's independent.
I didn't really understand
"love her but will always look at her from far.... afraid to let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings."
?
Traditional guys tend to work very hard to find a wife so she doesn't have to work. but sometimes they love someone else.
Idk if i explained better.click to expand

Posted by Capricorn91For me personally, someone I can do great things together, but who will also appreciate that I have things to accomplish on my own as well and will understand, since I'd like for him to have that too.Posted by AerazoDo you want a guy who will be with you everywhere you go or someone who will appreciate your hard work from afar admiring you for it, living his own separate life but also respecting you and giving you the mental stimulation that you desire?Posted by tizianiA guy who loves a woman who is independent and open minded while he is traditional and conservative. He prefers to let her be and not be with her, instead of being with her while she's independent.
I didn't really understand
"love her but will always look at her from far.... afraid to let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings."
?
Traditional guys tend to work very hard to find a wife so she doesn't have to work. but sometimes they love someone else.
Idk if i explained better.click to expand

Posted by Astrology101Posted by LadyNeptuneI wanna know these questions. Seriously.
There are plenty of men out there who want an intelligent successful woman as their partner. Your just dating dudes with a 1950s mentality. In order to eliminate them quickly and stop wasting time you need to ask the right questions so you can discover what they are about.
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Posted by LibraMudraIs this something with Air women? I have seen one Aqua and one Gemini till now who work very hard and quite a lot. It is like they love working and are very aggressive about it.
I think you need a fire man with fire moon.
Shits lit.
I have libra sun aqua moon and husband has leo sun leo moon.
Also, he had a hell of a time getting me to settle. I am a work my ass off lady. But I've really turned into a fuckin betty Crocker take care of my man lady with a good job too.

Posted by Astrology101You'll never know hehe
Also, why is one woman not enough? Excluding guys who don't cheat...
Why do guys look for sidechicks.. mistresses... ?
I mean the simple answer is they need variety.. but I feel there might be more.

Posted by Aerazothen find a man who wants that.
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.
Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..
(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)

Posted by bittercupcakeYou can still b strong n masculine on the outside but still be extremely feminine when interacting with a man. I do appreciate the Leo too. I'm saying that he does like me being feminine. Stroke his egoness ego n all that. He's wanting to buy gifts n provide but I still struggle abit. With Aqua he wanna b the boss when it comes to mental stimulation. I can't let that down lol. I never want to lose that battle. Though he loves it when I cook n look after him before. At the end of the day a man craves love n want us women to b a woman.... though u r right I think the more mature smart n good looking I am the more he's less likely to commit lol too much competition. His words from his last girls. But the Leo, they want a queen by their side. The best the better!! What happened with your Leo plz?
Because men want a feminine... cookie cutter type. Men can hardly handle a woman who isn't afraid of walking away due to fear.
Usually the men who aren't afraid of being with the independent sort of women, are usually the most secure and confident type of men.... hence why I appreciate Fire men.

Posted by OrchideeYes 0-7 years old shape their childhood. If they don't do some inner work it's a lost case
9/10 times a person coming from a dysfunctional and or broken family will have issues which will transmit into his adult relationships. Look at his past for his present and future.
Sure, there are always exceptions.

Posted by AerazoYou have to decrease ur independent energy when you deal with a man. If you want him that is. It's just what's going to work. Stand ur ground but b feminine about it. A man actually wanna know you need them somewhat. If not there is no point staying. If you can ignite his hero instinct , they wanna protect and provide. That's why it's important to b vulnerable at times no matter how strong and independent you are. feminine is beautiful. 🙂
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.
Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..
(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)

Posted by LibraMudraLeo sun with Leo moon—? I see myself leading that way shortly hehe
I think you need a fire man with fire moon.
Shits lit.
I have libra sun aqua moon and husband has leo sun leo moon.
Also, he had a hell of a time getting me to settle. I am a work my ass off lady. But I've really turned into a fuckin betty Crocker take care of my man lady with a good job too.

Posted by saweetz1988I need to pm you. I need to know what it's like to be a wife of a Leo hehePosted by LibraMudraLeo sun with Leo moon—? I see myself leading that way shortly hehe
I think you need a fire man with fire moon.
Shits lit.
I have libra sun aqua moon and husband has leo sun leo moon.
Also, he had a hell of a time getting me to settle. I am a work my ass off lady. But I've really turned into a fuckin betty Crocker take care of my man lady with a good job too.click to expand

Posted by AerazoLet me picture your situation the way I see it:
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.
Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..
(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
Posted by TheSagPosted by AerazoLet me picture your situation the way I see it:
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.
Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..
(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
There actually are millions of men who marry career women and are ok with them being successful and indipendent but you are not looking for them at all or at least just partly because they are too weak for you and not masculine enough. Those guys are ok being with career women as long as they are with them. I guess at the same time you are angry about the dominant and old fashioned men, who you are attracted to, who are successful yet are looking for a housewife instead of an equal partner. Those guys are classic machos because they have been raised like that and been told that they should look after a mother type of a wife. So in the end you are basically looking for a modern/submissive Macho, a guy who is strong, confident and a badass yet treats you like a lady and does everything for you at the same time.
I know a lot of women say they are married exactly to this guy but chances are they really aren't because this guy probably doesn't exist. But don't worry the young hot looking Cindarella housewife virgin doesn't exist either. Just sayingclick to expand

Posted by TheSagHahaha love it!Posted by AerazoLet me picture your situation the way I see it:
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.
Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..
(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
There actually are millions of men who marry career women and are ok with them being successful and indipendent but you are not looking for them at all or at least just partly because they are too weak for you and not masculine enough. Those guys are ok being with career women as long as they are with them. I guess at the same time you are angry about the dominant and old fashioned men, who you are attracted to, who are successful yet are looking for a housewife instead of an equal partner. Those guys are classic machos because they have been raised like that and been told that they should look after a mother type of a wife. So in the end you are basically looking for a modern/submissive Macho, a guy who is strong, confident and a badass yet treats you like a lady and does everything for you at the same time.
I know a lot of women say they are married exactly to this guy but chances are they really aren't because this guy probably doesn't exist. But don't worry the young hot looking Cindarella housewife virgin doesn't exist either. Just sayingclick to expand

Posted by Aerazo
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.
Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..
(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)

Posted by bittercupcakeI don't think so honestly. Men love women who have boundaries - not just talkin bout how they deserve this this this but really walk their talk - but that doesnt mean that those women can't handle housekeeping. There are so many fake strong ladies out there thinking a beyonce song gave them a clear view on how its supposed to be. Thinking they run this game somehow, when in fact their lazy asses remain single while others continue making progress in life.
Because men want a feminine... cookie cutter type. Men can hardly handle a woman who isn't afraid of walking away due to fear.
Usually the men who aren't afraid of being with the independent sort of women, are usually the most secure and confident type of men.... hence why I appreciate Fire men.

Posted by AerazoIsn't this something anyone from both sexes can feel? Because I'm tired of women that just want a good night in the bed or that think of me as a male breeder. And I also don't want them to cook dinner for me. I cook. Or I'm out with friends. And please no parfums or jumpers for christmas, I prefer books. Are we all just looking in the wrong places?
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.
Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..
(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)

Posted by AerazoI like cougars!Posted by TheSagHahaha love it!Posted by AerazoLet me picture your situation the way I see it:
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.
Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..
(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
There actually are millions of men who marry career women and are ok with them being successful and indipendent but you are not looking for them at all or at least just partly because they are too weak for you and not masculine enough. Those guys are ok being with career women as long as they are with them. I guess at the same time you are angry about the dominant and old fashioned men, who you are attracted to, who are successful yet are looking for a housewife instead of an equal partner. Those guys are classic machos because they have been raised like that and been told that they should look after a mother type of a wife. So in the end you are basically looking for a modern/submissive Macho, a guy who is strong, confident and a badass yet treats you like a lady and does everything for you at the same time.
I know a lot of women say they are married exactly to this guy but chances are they really aren't because this guy probably doesn't exist. But don't worry the young hot looking Cindarella housewife virgin doesn't exist either. Just saying
Then guys complain why successful women become cougars! haha
They start looking for the only missing part, cuddles, love and sex and active guys!
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Posted by TheSagI never meant open relationships..... lolPosted by AerazoI like cougars!Posted by TheSagHahaha love it!Posted by AerazoLet me picture your situation the way I see it:
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.
Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..
(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
There actually are millions of men who marry career women and are ok with them being successful and indipendent but you are not looking for them at all or at least just partly because they are too weak for you and not masculine enough. Those guys are ok being with career women as long as they are with them. I guess at the same time you are angry about the dominant and old fashioned men, who you are attracted to, who are successful yet are looking for a housewife instead of an equal partner. Those guys are classic machos because they have been raised like that and been told that they should look after a mother type of a wife. So in the end you are basically looking for a modern/submissive Macho, a guy who is strong, confident and a badass yet treats you like a lady and does everything for you at the same time.
I know a lot of women say they are married exactly to this guy but chances are they really aren't because this guy probably doesn't exist. But don't worry the young hot looking Cindarella housewife virgin doesn't exist either. Just saying
Then guys complain why successful women become cougars! haha
They start looking for the only missing part, cuddles, love and sex and active guys!
So do you like the supporting nice guy who treats you like an equal or do you like the sexmaniac Jose who happens to be a Capricorn? ^^
Many people have found a solution though: they do open relationships in order to get everything. A career driven woman marries a guy who supports her in her decisions and job while she is having affairs with fuckbuddies who can please her sexually. And many men do the same. For me it's just bullshit anyway.click to expand

Posted by carrazedaI think we are...Posted by AerazoIsn't this something anyone from both sexes can feel? Because I'm tired of women that just want a good night in the bed or that think of me as a male breeder. And I also don't want them to cook dinner for me. I cook. Or I'm out with friends. And please no parfums or jumpers for christmas, I prefer books. Are we all just looking in the wrong places?
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.
Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..
(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
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Posted by carrazedaI liked a cancer once!! we had something very passionate. he was younger than me :/Posted by AerazoIsn't this something anyone from both sexes can feel? Because I'm tired of women that just want a good night in the bed or that think of me as a male breeder. And I also don't want them to cook dinner for me. I cook. Or I'm out with friends. And please no parfums or jumpers for christmas, I prefer books. Are we all just looking in the wrong places?
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.
Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..
(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
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Posted by AerazoI know. But that's what other people do when they want it allPosted by TheSagI never meant open relationships..... lolPosted by AerazoI like cougars!Posted by TheSagHahaha love it!Posted by AerazoLet me picture your situation the way I see it:
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.
Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..
(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
There actually are millions of men who marry career women and are ok with them being successful and indipendent but you are not looking for them at all or at least just partly because they are too weak for you and not masculine enough. Those guys are ok being with career women as long as they are with them. I guess at the same time you are angry about the dominant and old fashioned men, who you are attracted to, who are successful yet are looking for a housewife instead of an equal partner. Those guys are classic machos because they have been raised like that and been told that they should look after a mother type of a wife. So in the end you are basically looking for a modern/submissive Macho, a guy who is strong, confident and a badass yet treats you like a lady and does everything for you at the same time.
I know a lot of women say they are married exactly to this guy but chances are they really aren't because this guy probably doesn't exist. But don't worry the young hot looking Cindarella housewife virgin doesn't exist either. Just saying
Then guys complain why successful women become cougars! haha
They start looking for the only missing part, cuddles, love and sex and active guys!
So do you like the supporting nice guy who treats you like an equal or do you like the sexmaniac Jose who happens to be a Capricorn? ^^
Many people have found a solution though: they do open relationships in order to get everything. A career driven woman marries a guy who supports her in her decisions and job while she is having affairs with fuckbuddies who can please her sexually. And many men do the same. For me it's just bullshit anyway.click to expand

Posted by AerazoI don't think I ever fell for an aqua. I tend to circle around aries, scorpio, leo.. I have a thing with older woman though. 🙂 Been more than six years with an aries 13 years older and then ended up falling for a scorpio of the same age. I like to think that I'm just more mature than most guys!Posted by carrazedaI liked a cancer once!! we had something very passionate. he was younger than me :/Posted by AerazoIsn't this something anyone from both sexes can feel? Because I'm tired of women that just want a good night in the bed or that think of me as a male breeder. And I also don't want them to cook dinner for me. I cook. Or I'm out with friends. And please no parfums or jumpers for christmas, I prefer books. Are we all just looking in the wrong places?
Watching porn isn't enough when you need intellectual stimulation. is so hard to find guys to give you intellectual communication, most guys are dumb or just want sex then when they want to settle down look for a (maid) as their partner..."You know, someone to watch the kids and keep the house clean, food on the table, good person and won't make me feel alone" type of wife.
Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..
(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)
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Posted by saweetz1988
You have to decrease ur independent energy when you deal with a man. If you want him that is. It's just what's going to work. Stand ur ground but b feminine about it. A man actually wanna know you need them somewhat. If not there is no point staying. If you can ignite his hero instinct , they wanna protect and provide. That's why it's important to b vulnerable at times no matter how strong and independent you are. feminine is beautiful. 🙂
Posted by Blackburnyeah just be yourself.Posted by saweetz1988
You have to decrease ur independent energy when you deal with a man. If you want him that is. It's just what's going to work. Stand ur ground but b feminine about it. A man actually wanna know you need them somewhat. If not there is no point staying. If you can ignite his hero instinct , they wanna protect and provide. That's why it's important to b vulnerable at times no matter how strong and independent you are. feminine is beautiful. 🙂
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I'd never recommend to be what she's not, is too hard and absurd to keep that mask forever, some people are vulnerable, others strong and others both. I think she just wants to be herself and find a partner without people expecting her to be the way you are referring to.
Is dangerous to support a victim-hero dynamic as you are supporting the other person's insecurity and breaking the balance by giving the other person the upper hand; even worse if it's linked to gender. Dependency =/= feminity
Femenine is beautiful, as it's masculine, neutral and cats. There's beauty in everything, just be yourself, is easier.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8
she said it's good in this day and age, where roles are REVERSED.

Posted by BlackburnIt's funny because I have always been masculine mostly coz I'm almost forced to b. Independent single mum fighting hard tonne independent etc but when I just let go and allow myself to absorb in to be a feminine energy... I'm most myself.. like a 10 year old doing a happy giggling self... n my ex Aqua loved that about me because he knows he. Brought that side out of me and not many people get to see that. I wasn't being someone I was not. I just allowed myself to let go a little .. like when u r having sex.. women r feminine since birth lolz it's the society now that's forcing us women to be running masculine life... but deep down we crave to be loved .. we crave to b able to let go into a man we can fully trust.. that is humans nature.. rheees nothing forced about it.Posted by saweetz1988
You have to decrease ur independent energy when you deal with a man. If you want him that is. It's just what's going to work. Stand ur ground but b feminine about it. A man actually wanna know you need them somewhat. If not there is no point staying. If you can ignite his hero instinct , they wanna protect and provide. That's why it's important to b vulnerable at times no matter how strong and independent you are. feminine is beautiful. 🙂
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I'd never recommend to be what she's not, is too hard and absurd to keep that mask forever, some people are vulnerable, others strong and others both. I think she just wants to be herself and find a partner without people expecting her to be the way you are referring to.
Is dangerous to support a victim-hero dynamic as you are supporting the other person's insecurity and breaking the balance by giving the other person the upper hand; even worse if it's linked to gender. Dependency =/= feminity
Femenine is beautiful, as it's masculine, neutral and cats. There's beauty in everything, just be yourself, is easier.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8God I love this thank u for sharingPosted by Blackburnyeah just be yourself.Posted by saweetz1988
You have to decrease ur independent energy when you deal with a man. If you want him that is. It's just what's going to work. Stand ur ground but b feminine about it. A man actually wanna know you need them somewhat. If not there is no point staying. If you can ignite his hero instinct , they wanna protect and provide. That's why it's important to b vulnerable at times no matter how strong and independent you are. feminine is beautiful. 🙂
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I'd never recommend to be what she's not, is too hard and absurd to keep that mask forever, some people are vulnerable, others strong and others both. I think she just wants to be herself and find a partner without people expecting her to be the way you are referring to.
Is dangerous to support a victim-hero dynamic as you are supporting the other person's insecurity and breaking the balance by giving the other person the upper hand; even worse if it's linked to gender. Dependency =/= feminity
Femenine is beautiful, as it's masculine, neutral and cats. There's beauty in everything, just be yourself, is easier.
LAda astrology is very masculine and is proud of it. And she's not a man, she is still feminine.
i dont know her chart though. but she says she's majority masculine energies. she still pretty!!
which is why she's Out there....
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Posted by saweetz1988Posted by BlackburnIt's funny because I have always been masculine mostly coz I'm almost forced to b. Independent single mum fighting hard tonne independent etc but when I just let go and allow myself to absorb in to be a feminine energy... I'm most myself.. like a 10 year old doing a happy giggling self... n my ex Aqua loved that about me because he knows he. Brought that side out of me and not many people get to see that. I wasn't being someone I was not. I just allowed myself to let go a little .. like when u r having sex.. women r feminine since birth lolz it's the society now that's forcing us women to be running masculine life... but deep down we crave to be loved .. we crave to b able to let go into a man we can fully trust.. that is humans nature.. rheees nothing forced about it.Posted by saweetz1988
You have to decrease ur independent energy when you deal with a man. If you want him that is. It's just what's going to work. Stand ur ground but b feminine about it. A man actually wanna know you need them somewhat. If not there is no point staying. If you can ignite his hero instinct , they wanna protect and provide. That's why it's important to b vulnerable at times no matter how strong and independent you are. feminine is beautiful. 🙂
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I'd never recommend to be what she's not, is too hard and absurd to keep that mask forever, some people are vulnerable, others strong and others both. I think she just wants to be herself and find a partner without people expecting her to be the way you are referring to.
Is dangerous to support a victim-hero dynamic as you are supporting the other person's insecurity and breaking the balance by giving the other person the upper hand; even worse if it's linked to gender. Dependency =/= feminity
Femenine is beautiful, as it's masculine, neutral and cats. There's beauty in everything, just be yourself, is easier.click to expand
Posted by saweetz1988Posted by BlackburnIt's funny because I have always been masculine mostly coz I'm almost forced to b. Independent single mum fighting hard tonne independent etc but when I just let go and allow myself to absorb in to be a feminine energy... I'm most myself.. like a 10 year old doing a happy giggling self... n my ex Aqua loved that about me because he knows he. Brought that side out of me and not many people get to see that. I wasn't being someone I was not. I just allowed myself to let go a little .. like when u r having sex.. women r feminine since birth lolz it's the society now that's forcing us women to be running masculine life... but deep down we crave to be loved .. we crave to b able to let go into a man we can fully trust.. that is humans nature.. rheees nothing forced about it.Posted by saweetz1988
You have to decrease ur independent energy when you deal with a man. If you want him that is. It's just what's going to work. Stand ur ground but b feminine about it. A man actually wanna know you need them somewhat. If not there is no point staying. If you can ignite his hero instinct , they wanna protect and provide. That's why it's important to b vulnerable at times no matter how strong and independent you are. feminine is beautiful. 🙂
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I'd never recommend to be what she's not, is too hard and absurd to keep that mask forever, some people are vulnerable, others strong and others both. I think she just wants to be herself and find a partner without people expecting her to be the way you are referring to.
Is dangerous to support a victim-hero dynamic as you are supporting the other person's insecurity and breaking the balance by giving the other person the upper hand; even worse if it's linked to gender. Dependency =/= feminity
Femenine is beautiful, as it's masculine, neutral and cats. There's beauty in everything, just be yourself, is easier.click to expand
Posted by Blackburnthe only thing is that, i read and heard on astrology sites/videos/readings that during Pluto Capricorn, which is a lonnggg time...Posted by lisabethur8
she said it's good in this day and age, where roles are REVERSED.
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I have a tie between masculine/femenine in my chart - I see it more like active-receptive -, and I like it that way.
Is not exactly a reversal but not expecting each person to fit its traditional role because not every woman or man is a certain way, traditional descriptions don't allow heterogeneity.
I like switching "roles", it'd be boring to be always up, or down.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Blackburnthe only thing is that, i read and heard on astrology sites/videos/readings that during Pluto Capricorn, which is a lonnggg time...Posted by lisabethur8
she said it's good in this day and age, where roles are REVERSED.
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I have a tie between masculine/femenine in my chart - I see it more like active-receptive -, and I like it that way.
Is not exactly a reversal but not expecting each person to fit its traditional role because not every woman or man is a certain way, traditional descriptions don't allow heterogeneity.
I like switching "roles", it'd be boring to be always up, or down.
Traditional roles are going to be back in!!! 😄
i love that!! yay!!! Capricorn Plutonians here we come!! traditional way!!!click to expand
Posted by Blackburni dont like the modern way though. it looks LONELY and i dont like it at all.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Blackburnthe only thing is that, i read and heard on astrology sites/videos/readings that during Pluto Capricorn, which is a lonnggg time...Posted by lisabethur8
she said it's good in this day and age, where roles are REVERSED.
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I have a tie between masculine/femenine in my chart - I see it more like active-receptive -, and I like it that way.
Is not exactly a reversal but not expecting each person to fit its traditional role because not every woman or man is a certain way, traditional descriptions don't allow heterogeneity.
I like switching "roles", it'd be boring to be always up, or down.
Traditional roles are going to be back in!!! 😄
i love that!! yay!!! Capricorn Plutonians here we come!! traditional way!!!
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Roles are restrictive, what I like is free choices.
You need to wake you Aquarian side! I'd say this Cap generation won't be traditional, but consistent and stubborn on their choices, be it modern or traditional.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Blackburni dont like the modern way though. it looks LONELY and i dont like it at all.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Blackburnthe only thing is that, i read and heard on astrology sites/videos/readings that during Pluto Capricorn, which is a lonnggg time...Posted by lisabethur8
she said it's good in this day and age, where roles are REVERSED.
----
I have a tie between masculine/femenine in my chart - I see it more like active-receptive -, and I like it that way.
Is not exactly a reversal but not expecting each person to fit its traditional role because not every woman or man is a certain way, traditional descriptions don't allow heterogeneity.
I like switching "roles", it'd be boring to be always up, or down.
Traditional roles are going to be back in!!! 😄
i love that!! yay!!! Capricorn Plutonians here we come!! traditional way!!!
----
Roles are restrictive, what I like is free choices.
You need to wake you Aquarian side! I'd say this Cap generation won't be traditional, but consistent and stubborn on their choices, be it modern or traditional.
my choice is TRADITIONAL and i love it.
dont fix what's not broken. 😄click to expand
Posted by Blackburnyeah but lonely meaning...Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Blackburni dont like the modern way though. it looks LONELY and i dont like it at all.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Blackburnthe only thing is that, i read and heard on astrology sites/videos/readings that during Pluto Capricorn, which is a lonnggg time...Posted by lisabethur8
she said it's good in this day and age, where roles are REVERSED.
----
I have a tie between masculine/femenine in my chart - I see it more like active-receptive -, and I like it that way.
Is not exactly a reversal but not expecting each person to fit its traditional role because not every woman or man is a certain way, traditional descriptions don't allow heterogeneity.
I like switching "roles", it'd be boring to be always up, or down.
Traditional roles are going to be back in!!! 😄
i love that!! yay!!! Capricorn Plutonians here we come!! traditional way!!!
----
Roles are restrictive, what I like is free choices.
You need to wake you Aquarian side! I'd say this Cap generation won't be traditional, but consistent and stubborn on their choices, be it modern or traditional.
my choice is TRADITIONAL and i love it.
dont fix what's not broken. 😄
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Is YOUR choice, not everyone's. I'm happy you are happy, but your path is only yours. Being alone is not being lonely, being modern is not being alone per se.
Many misconceptions of a simple formula: To each their own.
The word would be rotten, more than broken.click to expand


Posted by lisabethur8The problem is to find each other..?Posted by Blackburnyeah but lonely meaning...Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Blackburni dont like the modern way though. it looks LONELY and i dont like it at all.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Blackburnthe only thing is that, i read and heard on astrology sites/videos/readings that during Pluto Capricorn, which is a lonnggg time...Posted by lisabethur8
she said it's good in this day and age, where roles are REVERSED.
----
I have a tie between masculine/femenine in my chart - I see it more like active-receptive -, and I like it that way.
Is not exactly a reversal but not expecting each person to fit its traditional role because not every woman or man is a certain way, traditional descriptions don't allow heterogeneity.
I like switching "roles", it'd be boring to be always up, or down.
Traditional roles are going to be back in!!! 😄
i love that!! yay!!! Capricorn Plutonians here we come!! traditional way!!!
----
Roles are restrictive, what I like is free choices.
You need to wake you Aquarian side! I'd say this Cap generation won't be traditional, but consistent and stubborn on their choices, be it modern or traditional.
my choice is TRADITIONAL and i love it.
dont fix what's not broken. 😄
----
Is YOUR choice, not everyone's. I'm happy you are happy, but your path is only yours. Being alone is not being lonely, being modern is not being alone per se.
Many misconceptions of a simple formula: To each their own.
The word would be rotten, more than broken.
no one gets anyone!!!
people are born to need and want love!!
it's like breathing air and drinking water and craving hugs!!
click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Blackburnyeah but lonely meaning...Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Blackburni dont like the modern way though. it looks LONELY and i dont like it at all.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Blackburnthe only thing is that, i read and heard on astrology sites/videos/readings that during Pluto Capricorn, which is a lonnggg time...Posted by lisabethur8
she said it's good in this day and age, where roles are REVERSED.
----
I have a tie between masculine/femenine in my chart - I see it more like active-receptive -, and I like it that way.
Is not exactly a reversal but not expecting each person to fit its traditional role because not every woman or man is a certain way, traditional descriptions don't allow heterogeneity.
I like switching "roles", it'd be boring to be always up, or down.
Traditional roles are going to be back in!!! 😄
i love that!! yay!!! Capricorn Plutonians here we come!! traditional way!!!
----
Roles are restrictive, what I like is free choices.
You need to wake you Aquarian side! I'd say this Cap generation won't be traditional, but consistent and stubborn on their choices, be it modern or traditional.
my choice is TRADITIONAL and i love it.
dont fix what's not broken. 😄
----
Is YOUR choice, not everyone's. I'm happy you are happy, but your path is only yours. Being alone is not being lonely, being modern is not being alone per se.
Many misconceptions of a simple formula: To each their own.
The word would be rotten, more than broken.
no one gets anyone!!!
people are born to need and want love!!
it's like breathing air and drinking water and craving hugs!!
click to expand
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Why are guys so scared to have a wife that is successful and beautiful or good looking, who is also independent. They love her but will always look at her from far... why so afraid to be with a woman and let her be her own person. No need to cut her wings. Is it just insecurity, or not having the balls to do it..
(Nothing personal but I've seen and experienced this)