
aquasnoz
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Posted by size zero superhero
Naturally, the context and intensity level of love are varied; at times they are accompanied by physical lust, infused with friendship. The term can mean as little as satisfaction, or as much as passion. Functionally quite similar to 'hate'--a word used in reference to anything from traffic to specific individuals.
IMO, the word 'love's conversational and literal versatility is what throws people off, in regard to its authentic definition(which is also subjective).

Posted by EvilTurtle
LOVE YUCK!!! What is it? How do you descibe it? Beyond quoting cheesy movie quotes the desire to walk five miles in subzero temps just to see her smile. To let her go so she can fulfill her dreams regardless of how much it hurts. I say i love you rarely but when i do i mean it.





Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
i remember when i was with my first boyfriend i went to say i love you for the first time instead of saying tom i said sean instead which was my room mate at the time lol very awkward moment i denied i said sean lol


Posted by Scenic
I like this. There should be a thread for confession mishaps. Hahaha


Posted by WaterCup
And yes i have met somebody whom i call my love. He is the one i always compare past, current and future relationships to. He is the one i know i will love forever whether we are together or not. I wish him all the happiness in the world with or without me. He is my nail and im an itch, he scratches me so good.
Posted by feb16aquaPosted by aquasnoz
I think I'd be filling up the thread if that did happen! I should write a book!
You too? A confession thread would be very interesting. That feeling to be yourself and not to be judged. I don't know if there's enough real love here.click to expand
Posted by feb16aquaPosted by lisabethur8
On LOVE and SUCCESS in RELATIONSHIPS:
http://missalisasplace.com/2012/06/11/why-controlling-women-will-never-be-happy-in-love/<BR>
So, are you a controlling woman? Here are four telltale signs that you are.
1. You always have to be right. Is winning everything to you? Do you get furious if your man doesn't see things your way? Do you punish him by pouting or yelling or manipulating him in some way to get him to agree with you? If so, you are probably a controlling woman. Solution? Learn to say things like, —I never thought about it that way,?? or —I can see your point,?? or —I appreciate you sharing your opinion with me, it's really helpful to understand how you see this.?? You don't have to agree with your man, but you have to respect him. Insisting that he's stupid for not agreeing with you is a mega #fail.
2. You spy on him. Do you check his cell phone records, or hack into his email? Do you follow him? Do you try to —catch?? him doing something wrong? If so, you are probably a controlling woman. Solution? Find ways to find your own life as fascinating as you find his. Get some friends, or hobbies. Be fulfilled. Stop worrying. Relax. Be nice.
3. Your man must seek your permission before he hangs out with his buddies or goes somewhere by himself. Do you have to know exactly where he is at all times? Do you keep tabs on his coming and going? Yeah? Well, you??re probably a controller. Solution? Trust him. And if you can't, then let him go. No one wants to be policed.
4. You tell him how to spend his money, how to dress,
Hmmmm something to think about...spark ignited!click to expand
Posted by feb16aquaPosted by lisabethur8
🙂 Never control another human being, and respect your partner. That's basically it. It's basic common sense but I guess some women love to control and feel good when they are in control, but most of the time the marriages don't work, and if they stay together, they are unhappy. Dr. Phil moment. In a partnership, LET. GO. Do not control.
I can speak for myself, I love winning. Spying, sure. I don't trust easily if at all. Do I really scream the control vibe out?click to expand
Posted by feb16aquaPosted by lisabethur8
🙂 Never control another human being, and respect your partner. That's basically it. It's basic common sense but I guess some women love to control and feel good when they are in control, but most of the time the marriages don't work, and if they stay together, they are unhappy. Dr. Phil moment. In a partnership, LET. GO. Do not control.
I can speak for myself, I love winning. Spying, sure. I don't trust easily if at all. Do I really scream the control vibe out?click to expand
Posted by feb16aquaPosted by lisabethur8
Yes, a bit. It's allright, we're not perfect, but there's plenty of self-help guides out there for you and every woman who wants to have a good happy life. Not just for your future commitments, but most of all, for yourself.
There's days we have unhappy days, sad, mopey, miserable crap days. They come and go.
Yes thank you! I've been subtly aware of this for awhile now. My sister (taurus sun) a few years ago whispered to me in private "you're a control freak" and walked away. That stung me. I still remember it to this day. That is going to be a very indepth personal self discussion and discovery I am going to need to have with myself. Thank you for bringing this to me.click to expand
Posted by feb16aquaPosted by lisabethur8
I forget to mention that many astrologers say that if you're dominant air, you all will have very difficult time to commit. Thus, why 'commitmitphobe" ...Unless your placements are all in 4th house. (Like Sarah Palin's stellium aquarius in the 4th)
I haven't studied more than that. I'm pretty clueless about it.
Yeah that's my aqua air, libra moon maybe right there I would say. I have to look at my chart more seems like.
I've realized the commitment-phobe for me is also manifested in my lack of giving myself to someone, especially spiritually and emotionally.click to expand


Posted by Ninjagirlit is. chemistry and attraction.
IMO: Love is...simply
Attraction, and that can take on in many forms. Then growth.

Posted by aquasnozYes, I have 😄
Wondering generally how you guys view the word 'love'. Now I know some people throw it out like it means nothing, and there are also context like telling your friends how much you love them but when it comes to your s/o when do you feel like it's the right time to say it.
I ask because I seriously don't use this word much. It came to my attention I had used this to convey what I feel for my pisces. It's something I had not had to think about until she asked me about it. I had told her fundamentally I feel the connection we had is hard to pin down but if I had to use a word it was that I loved her essence which more simply put I love her. I tried to explain it doesn't mean I'm willing to jump the gun it was merely an observation of my own feelings.
So the second question is have you guys ever met anyone who you felt so strongly for that it feels like love? Take out all the romantic feelings or physical desires have you guys ever met someone that somehow made you question at how illogical it is to have such feelings even when simply put you love them a lot.

Posted by aquasnozyou're back!
Wow what a throwback!
I've just actually come back from a getaway with the pisces in the original post. I still stand by it. It's something deep down inside that I just blurt out because I'm still an idiot.

Posted by lisabethur8Yeah it's okay I guess. Just had a really really bad round of depression tbh. I think the last thing I commented on here was about it lol. Did I miss out on anything fun?Posted by aquasnozyou're back!
Wow what a throwback!
I've just actually come back from a getaway with the pisces in the original post. I still stand by it. It's something deep down inside that I just blurt out because I'm still an idiot.
hows life treating ya?click to expand

Posted by AquarelleIF there's one thing I know it's that I don't know much. For a fixed sign I'm super mutable in that regard. I definitely haven't said I love you in a while now though.Posted by aquasnozI don't say it much, I only say it when I really mean it. I feel when you say "I love you" too many times, it loses it's meaning.
Wondering generally how you guys view the word 'love'. Now I know some people throw it out like it means nothing, and there are also context like telling your friends how much you love them but when it comes to your s/o when do you feel like it's the right time to say it.
I ask because I seriously don't use this word much. It came to my attention I had used this to convey what I feel for my pisces. It's something I had not had to think about until she asked me about it. I had told her fundamentally I feel the connection we had is hard to pin down but if I had to use a word it was that I loved her essence which more simply put I love her. I tried to explain it doesn't mean I'm willing to jump the gun it was merely an observation of my own feelings.
So the second question is have you guys ever met anyone who you felt so strongly for that it feels like love? Take out all the romantic feelings or physical desires have you guys ever met someone that somehow made you question at how illogical it is to have such feelings even when simply put you love them a lot.
Second question: I met someone once who made me question everything I knew about love. I can honestly say in hindsight that I didn't know what love was until I met him.click to expand

Posted by aquasnozHey you! Miss you around these parts! How's life going?!?
Wow what a throwback!
I've just actually come back from a getaway with the pisces in the original post. I still stand by it. It's something deep down inside that I just blurt out because I'm still an idiot.


Posted by justagirlmah twin! We're soon to be another year older, I mean wiser!Posted by aquasnozHey you! Miss you around these parts! How's life going?!?
Wow what a throwback!
I've just actually come back from a getaway with the pisces in the original post. I still stand by it. It's something deep down inside that I just blurt out because I'm still an idiot.click to expand

Posted by aquasnozHahha I need to do that sometime soon. And yes wiser and wiser🙂Posted by justagirlmah twin! We're soon to be another year older, I mean wiser!Posted by aquasnozHey you! Miss you around these parts! How's life going?!?
Wow what a throwback!
I've just actually come back from a getaway with the pisces in the original post. I still stand by it. It's something deep down inside that I just blurt out because I'm still an idiot.
Life's been okay. I did one of them aqua things people always described. I think it's called completely disappearing off the face of the earth thing haha.
Hope you've been well!click to expand
Posted by aquasnozsorry to hear that. have you gone to a medical practitioner/professional therapist to help you out?Posted by lisabethur8Yeah it's okay I guess. Just had a really really bad round of depression tbh. I think the last thing I commented on here was about it lol. Did I miss out on anything fun?Posted by aquasnozyou're back!
Wow what a throwback!
I've just actually come back from a getaway with the pisces in the original post. I still stand by it. It's something deep down inside that I just blurt out because I'm still an idiot.
hows life treating ya?click to expand


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I ask because I seriously don't use this word much. It came to my attention I had used this to convey what I feel for my pisces. It's something I had not had to think about until she asked me about it. I had told her fundamentally I feel the connection we had is hard to pin down but if I had to use a word it was that I loved her essence which more simply put I love her. I tried to explain it doesn't mean I'm willing to jump the gun it was merely an observation of my own feelings.
So the second question is have you guys ever met anyone who you felt so strongly for that it feels like love? Take out all the romantic feelings or physical desires have you guys ever met someone that somehow made you question at how illogical it is to have such feelings even when simply put you love them a lot.