Too much in one week

Hi all I posted about my ex aquarius here almost a month ago, I forget the original post and I have a lot to say now, although some of this post with be about a lot of my feelings and my weird/terrible past week. I apologize in advance for it being so long.

Recap of my ex and I. Broke up in March due to a horrible fight. Have not talked since. I have missed him especially recently. For some time after our break up, I felt he had done little things to try to get my attention on social media through his friends. I am worried he is on drugs because he quit his stable job to work as a laborer with his best friend whom I know is bad on drugs.

With his friends, posting pics of him and great time he is having when his friends are never ever on social media, only since we have broken up. Me knowing his band is performing at a certain bar or house a particular night and a random person I have only seen at his shows when together inviting me to go, yet leaving out the fact he is performing ("are they performing tonight?" "well i assume there will be music")

Most recently and this is where i get really sad and kind of annoyed. Last tuesday, I walked out of the grocery store closest to my house (3 towns away from him) and I could have sworn I saw his car parked a few spaces behind me. His car isn't a car you see everyday on the road, so I was like "omg" to myself and kept trying to see in the car from a distance. I couldn't see anyone in the car although both passenger side and driver side windows were open, and the car was off. I wrote the licenses plate number down, because I still occasionally drive by him on my way fishing because my favorite pond is in his town. When I drove away, I was able to see someone ducking in the car from a different, further angle. On wednesday, I actually hung out with his ex gf (from 10 years ago) who used to try to get him to cheat on me during our relationship. She wanted to "bury our hatchet." We actually had a great time, and didn't even talk about him, although she told me before he talked horribly about me after we had broken up (all lies on his part.) On thursday (Wednesday and thursday are my days off) my mom called me early in the AM to give me the heartbreaking news that one of my best friends had died in a horrible car accident. Of course he knows because he is on social media and has hung out with all of us plenty of times. On sunday, I randomly drove by him, and it was him at the grocery store that day. I was a mess on sunday, and I still talk to his best friends girlfriend. She had asked what happened exactly, and I sent her the video recorded of the scene. The next day, his best friends father (whom I know well enough) visited me in work to see how i was doing. This is not the first tragic loss i have been through, and my ex has seen me in one of them.

I know no one is psychic, but would an aquarius come back? will he "man" up?

I think a lot of it hangs on why the break up and where the Aqua is in his evolution. Things other than sun signs make a difference.

Posted by Gennie
I think a lot of it hangs on why the break up and where the Aqua is in his evolution. Things other than sun signs make a difference.

Good point. Rising Gemini, Moon Cap, Venus Cap, Mars, Sag. The break up was due to a bad fight. I tried to resolve the issue the next day, but he did not want to see me. I was worried he was cheating on me, I explained why, he laughed and ignored me for a day. The next day, I asked him if he would like to come fishing with me, he refused so I asked for my apartment key back. I was irrational of me at the time, its my Moon in Aries. We got into a nasty fight after this. I was his first love we were together for 3 years.

Another weird thing happened too (although I may be overthinking it). I was invited to a show his band is playing in September. THis is not the first time I have been invited to a show since the breakup, but this is the least subtle way it has happened considering it was through facebook from one of his bandmates.

HE TEXTED ME YALL HE TEXTED ME he texted me lastnight I've been awake since 6 because i cant sleep because im too excited

Well what did he say??!!!

BTW from his placements, irrationality is really not his thing. Basically, all arguments must have a rational pattern or at least a pattern one can follow.