Ultimate Guide to Aqua Women

First let me say I am a Scorpio inside an Aquarius sandwich. Moon in Scorpio with Sun and Rising in Aquarius take what I say lightly.

Crushing on an Aquarius:

If I were you I would be very careful if I had a crush on an Aquarius. An Aquarius is the opposite sign of a Leo so just imagine all that pride, ego and flamboyancy but hidden behind a cloak of aloofness. That would be the best way to describe and Aquarius when it senses someone has a crush on them. One thing people don’t talk about enough is how well the Aquarius woman can read other people. So even if you think us Aquas have not noticed you we most likely have noticed. However Aquas have a tendency to play coy when it comes to the realms of emotions. If an Aquarius woman is unsure of you and your intentions she may observe you very subtlety without you ever knowing. She is capable of doing this by putting you through a series of mild test after all an Aquarius will most likely confront something emotional with something logical. These test can include many things. If I suspected someone may like me I would use things such as body language to test their feelings. This can mean “accidental” touches, like being in someone’s space just enough so they are aware of me but not so long that it gets uncomfortable (i.e grabbing a book near you flipping through it before placing it back and walking right past you). Aquas will do these test all while maintaining their preoccupied look as if they have not noticed the person who has a crush on them was even in the same room as them. I have noticed in myself I will also test people by eye contact. For example if I can feel you staring at me or see you staring at me through my peripherals and I am among a group of friends I will get really loud , really cuddly with someone in my friend group, or become really animated in general. Basically I will put on a little show for you just to see if you react to me which in turn will confirm that yes you were staring. Now if you Aquarius crush is someone you talk to and are friends with one of two things will happen. Aquas being the little b* that we are might begin to take advantage of you because of your crushing on us. Second thing that may happen is we will become super distant with you because we don’t know how to deal or don’t want to deal with your crush. Those two things only happen if they feeling isn’t mutual if it is mutual we will study you closer and possibly distance ourselves just to make sure of what we are feeling. Being an air sign means when our emotions hit they hit like a brick and we have to take the time alone to think them through. For Aquas to just let those emotions run and flow freely without restraint can feel like a reckless move. No worries once we have thought everything through we will come back.

Befriending an Aquarius:

Easiest thing ever just talk to us about something you find interesting. We take interest in other people’s passions and hobbies. But for the love of God whatever you decided to talk to us about let it be the most eccentric or unexpected thing you are interested in. Like if you start talking about your love for sleeping we will kindly slide away from you as soon as the chance presents itself however it you talk about your families pig farm we might just sit and listen. Also be yourself an Aquarius like people who are sure of themselves confident and have an opinion to share. Once you are our friend even if you do not see us often you will remain our friend. Side note: The Aqua is the one in friend group to act one way in front of your family and entirely different at the bar or club. This sign is a massive hit with families, moms, grandmas and babies but will also be the one to have some of the craziest ideas for you guys to do. Remember with this friend you will need to reel them in on their ideas before they get everyone but themselves arrested. Aquas are good at playing innocent when the time calls.

Dating an Aquarius:

If you get to this point you have made it pass so much congratulations she must really like you! To keep this sign happy respect her boundaries and be there for her. This may be a challenge as you might feel like sometime you are just her friend however friends are important to Aquas so consider that a special sentiment. During this phase it is also important to note that she will not be the type of girl to call or text you every day this would be torture for her as she must maintain so form of separation to feel like she is still independent. If you do not hear from her please do not assume the worst Aquas often need this time to recharge and if during this time you are constantly nagging them about their whereabouts or asking if everything is okay they will only stay away longer. The best thing to do if you are really missing your Aqua is to wait for them to come back and in the meantime continue working and improving upon yourself whilst enjoying time with other friends. Nothing can bring an Aquarius back quicker than someone seeming to have a good time however do this with genuine interest if an Aqua suspects you are only doing it for their attention they will not like it. Outside of those things you can expect a very smooth relationship. Dating an Aqua will include a healthy amount of communication so be ready with your opinions and don’t hold back from say something. Aquas are not often told no so when someone can be as blunt as they please we take interest. That being said saying things politely but in a blunt manner goes along way. Dating this sign will be a lot of fun and different every day. Aquarius are also loyal to a fault when they are with they are with only you until they no longer find the relationship healthy.

Sexuality of an Aquarius:

An Aquas woman when stimulated in the mind first will become the ultimate freak. This sign needs to first begin thinking about how much they want you before their body follows suit. When done right the Aquarius will become very affectionate and eager to please. I feel that in this sign there is a sort of “descent” that happens when this woman is aroused in just the right way. An air sign means she will be logically think and rethink everything before she makes her move however if you can get in her mind and get her thinking about you she has no choice but to descend from the clouds back into her physical form. When you get her here she will be ready and open to experiment with you. Aquas have a lot sexuality and sensuality but they must be first pulled out of their head and into their physical bodies. The best way to do this is through mental stimulation. The Aquarius when seduced correctly is primal, freaky and innovative behind close doors. Side note: Do not try this in public an Aquarius will punish you for it when they are behind closed doors again.

Aquarius woman in Love: Surprisingly emotional and maybe a little clinger than they were previously in the relationship. They still are independent but you might feel the switch from platonic boyfriend to romantic boyfriend. This sign is the type to fall deeper in love with the passage of time. It is all the kind of sign that unravels slowly and you learn more about them you never knew with each passing week.

Does an Aquarius like me? / How to know an Aquarius like me? :

There two polar opposites ways to know. The obvious one is the Aqua is around you often and spends time learning about you and most importantly remembers what you told her such as your likes and dislikes. An even better way to know she may be interested in you is that she is kind of submissive and a lot cuddlier around you than usual. She’ll allow you to do things for her without much protest. An Aquarius is a masculine sign who is mostly independent and Aqua women like to be self-efficient so when she allows you to do something for her she is opening herself up to you in a way she would not normally allow. These burst of submissive and cuddly behaviour will only last but so long before the Aqua woman must detach and become aloof to think through her feelings again. The flip side of this is an Aquarius woman who is very detached and avoids your eye contact at any possible chance. You may be thinking what that makes no sense however the Aqua woman who is avoiding you is avoiding you because she may be struggling to understand her own attraction to you. What you are really seeing is not a sign that dislikes you but one that may be struggling to understand why her hands get all sweaty when she talking to you. As an air sign it will take her sometime to come to terms with her feeling because she is a thinker so until she can logically figure out why you make her feel a certain way she may be very distant in order to avoid feeling any deeper. This aqua will seek understanding of herself and then she will begin to act like the first scenario mentioned in this section. It is important not to push her when she is in these thinking states this can further her thinking process.

Aquarius woman Likes and Dislikes:

Likes:

1. Long stimulating conversation

2. Light-heartedness she is carefree and wants to have fun

3. Sounds strange but she loves to do a task by herself especially if it is something traditionally a man would provide

4. Traveling

5. Nature

6. Inside jokes and Artistic things

7. Podcast or Music

8. She loves to be seduced in a mental way like getting her to think about you when you aren’t there Aquas kind of love that feeling of wanting something they can’t have

9. Random Acts of Kindness

10. Visiting old friends and photography

Dislikes:

1. People who not hygienic

2. Judgemental people

3. People who love routine

4. Being forced to basically anything

5. Not being given her privacy

6. Emotionally demanding or draining relationships

7. She does not like it to be too hot would rather have mild to cold temperatures

8. To feel dependent on someone else

9. Manipulation

10. Passiveness

My experiences with the signs/ Compatibility:

Capricorn: Together we get things done. I’m the one dreaming up the idea and Cap is the one making the realistic plan to make it happen. In a relationship I am unsure I have not had someone in this placement I found attractive. This placement seems very serious but may at some point maybe romantically boring for the Aquarius.

Aquarius: Aqua and Aqua is great but it also depends on the person. These signs together may be too buddy-buddy to be really satisfied romantically.

Pieces: This is a great duo however Aquas need to be mindful of how emotional Pieces men can be. These two are really great in a relationship but Pieces will have to learn how to talk to Aquarius in a way it understands getting overly emotional will cause an Aquarius woman to feel suffocated by him.

Aries: My personal experience with Aries was boring. I did not find them intellectually stimulating and called on them only when I wanted to hook-up. I am unsure how other Aquas feel but this relationship felt cheap af. Without mental stimulation I could only use him as cheap booty call.

Taurus: No idea. I may have meet one but it was not someone memorable.

Gemini: It works! It can get a little too airy sometimes and can leave one person always longing for the other person at the wrong times. Like when I want you you’re detached and when you want me I’m detached. Outside of dating this friendship really works so many good laughs and fun to be had. In relationships it matter that these two signs take time to really be with each other rather than up in the clouds.

Cancer: Total sweethearts but I think an Aquas will need time to themselves too often for this sign. They also cannot be pinned down in the house with this sign all the time Aquas have a need to go out to social gatherings.

Leo: Hello friend! This pair can work and have lots of fun together they balance each other and they are opposites. Leo will need to tame their need for attention all the time an Aquarius finds the interest in everything and everyone so let them spread their attention and know that they will come back to you when they have finish their social time. Also know that some days your Aquarian will want time to themselves this is not the time to get upset or take it personally.

Virgo: No idea. I may have meet one but it was not someone memorable.

Libra: They can come across as a bit too try hard. They seem like they are trying to please everyone while always keeping everything balanced and equal. I would like Libra men more if the seemed more genuine and straightforward. Although astrology will say these signs are compatible in my experience I like the women (platonically) of this sign way more than the men.

Scorpio: You get us. We get you. There is something about these signs that square that make the friction and sexual tension almost palpable. In most cases there is too much friction between these signs and the burn out quick. This pairing can work either really well or really poorly. One thing can be said is that these sign together in the sheets are primal. If there is one sign that pull Aquas out their head it Scorps. If Scorps want a challenge there is not mush that will compare to the challenge of and Aqua because these two are so fundamentally different that they are almost similar. If both signs can put in the work to understand each other they will grow together in ways they never thought possible.

Sagittarius: Ride or die friend and really great partner if you never want to get bored or slowdown in life. This pair does work and have a ton of fun along the way.

I agreed the whole chart really does paint a better picture of the person as a whole especially including the Venus and Mars signs as you mentioned. I hope you enjoy reading the rest when you have the time.

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