@Gemalit
8 Years
update 2?
I'm married to an Aquarius and I am a Gemini. And that pretty much is how me and my aqua started. He already told me his intentions, no games. Basically, what our future will be like. And I bought in to his idea. But I also had to lay down the short term steps we had to take to get to his long term plans for us. It works well I have to say. But of course there are things that you will have to adjust to given how quick us Geminis decide, think and move vs Aquas who take their sweet time, quite fixed on their ways and takes a lot of push before they change. Overall, I don't think I'd wanna be married to any other sign than an Aqua.
Good thing about them is they are so consistent that when you're wavering, they basically serve as your anchor so you stay on track. And I'd say they also have the mental agility to understand our fast changing thoughts without actually getting lost in it like other signs do.
I’ve never had good luck dating an Aqua. That is supposed to be our ideal sign. But then again, I never do anything by the book! 🤣
Glad it’s working out for you!
I think I am the only Gemini in the world who isn’t attracted to Aqua. Or any air sign for that matter.
It might be all that Leo in my chart. I don’t know. It’s strange and annoying to a point. All I ever wanted was to be a typical Gemini.
I think I am the only Gemini in the world who isn’t attracted to Aqua. Or any air sign for that matter.
It might be all that Leo in my chart. I don’t know. It’s strange and annoying to a point. All I ever wanted was to be a typical Gemini.
The Leo in my chart attract them to me, vice versa.
It's either Aquarius or Sagittarius. The rius men. 😖
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That’s interesting. None of these 2 signs do it for me.
Fixed signs are long term planners, each of them with different temperaments and abilities.
It makes sense an Aquarius is the longer term thinker than in the moment Gemini.
never thought of it like that, i just saw air sign and expected flighty. its a nice surpise ngl
I'm married to an Aquarius and I am a Gemini. And that pretty much is how me and my aqua started. He already told me his intentions, no games. Basically, what our future will be like. And I bought in to his idea. But I also had to lay down the short term steps we had to take to get to his long term plans for us. It works well I have to say. But of course there are things that you will have to adjust to given how quick us Geminis decide, think and move vs Aquas who take their sweet time, quite fixed on their ways and takes a lot of push before they change. Overall, I don't think I'd wanna be married to any other sign than an Aqua.
Good thing about them is they are so consistent that when you're wavering, they basically serve as your anchor so you stay on track. And I'd say they also have the mental agility to understand our fast changing thoughts without actually getting lost in it like other signs do.
he's very mentally connected with me, its what drew me to him he just "got me". No mind games, no uncertainties just "ha same" yknow? hes me but if i had control yknow? We're so similar and it feels easy, i really do love him. I hope we end up like you and your husband
Aquarius men are fun. Obviously I’m not a good match with them being as Scorpio as I am. They need their freedom and not an all consuming partner. Had a 2 year fwb with one back in my twenties. It was one hell of a ride that’s for sure! Enjoyed the sexual experimentation with him, movie nights, adventures and the late night paranormal talks. He was probably one of the most fun partners I’ve ever had….you just never knew what you were gonna get with him. He had a very sweet and tender side to him as well and the most piercing blue eyes! Ahh the memories. Right before we split he found his now wife and mother of his son….an Aries female and they seem to be the perfect couple! 🙂. Congrats to you and your Aqua! May you have many beautiful years together! 💜
ah man I'm sorry it never worked out, super sweet of you though to be wishing them well. scorpios love intensely and burn quickly, i hope
youve found that someone whos kept your flame alight ❤
I think I am the only Gemini in the world who isn’t attracted to Aqua. Or any air sign for that matter.
It might be all that Leo in my chart. I don’t know. It’s strange and annoying to a point. All I ever wanted was to be a typical Gemini.
The Leo in my chart attract them to me, vice versa.
It's either Aquarius or Sagittarius. The rius men. 😖
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Sagittarius don't do it for me 😂 I find them predictable. Weird coming from a gem hahahhaha
I'm married to an Aquarius and I am a Gemini. And that pretty much is how me and my aqua started. He already told me his intentions, no games. Basically, what our future will be like. And I bought in to his idea. But I also had to lay down the short term steps we had to take to get to his long term plans for us. It works well I have to say. But of course there are things that you will have to adjust to given how quick us Geminis decide, think and move vs Aquas who take their sweet time, quite fixed on their ways and takes a lot of push before they change. Overall, I don't think I'd wanna be married to any other sign than an Aqua.
Good thing about them is they are so consistent that when you're wavering, they basically serve as your anchor so you stay on track. And I'd say they also have the mental agility to understand our fast changing thoughts without actually getting lost in it like other signs do.
he's very mentally connected with me, its what drew me to him he just "got me". No mind games, no uncertainties just "ha same" yknow? hes me but if i had control yknow? We're so similar and it feels easy, i really do love him. I hope we end up like you and your husband
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Yeah. I find them good like that. I hate games but I also don't like people who are too predictable hence why aquas do it for me. They're a good mix of both. I agree with I'myourbae that they are stingy though and on the contrary, gems are pretty generous so this might be an adjustment. But I'd take them any day than a Leo.
Aquarius men are fun. Obviously I’m not a good match with them being as Scorpio as I am. They need their freedom and not an all consuming partner. Had a 2 year fwb with one back in my twenties. It was one hell of a ride that’s for sure! Enjoyed the sexual experimentation with him, movie nights, adventures and the late night paranormal talks. He was probably one of the most fun partners I’ve ever had….you just never knew what you were gonna get with him. He had a very sweet and tender side to him as well and the most piercing blue eyes! Ahh the memories. Right before we split he found his now wife and mother of his son….an Aries female and they seem to be the perfect couple! 🙂. Congrats to you and your Aqua! May you have many beautiful years together! 💜
I was hanging out with an Aqua tonight that I was friends with back in my 20s (we also had a short stint as FWB) and it’s funny that you mentioned paranormal talks because this Aqua is in the Air Force so I was picking his brain about it he believes that UFOs are real 🤣🤣🤣
Omg that’s hilarious! Yeah, this Aqua was big into the paranormal stuff. He told me he had this spirit/ghost that used to live in his closet as a kid. Said it followed him around to every place he moved to as an adult which included his current apartment he was living in at the time. One night when we were fucking at his place I asked him “so is your ghost here now?” He’s like “yup, over there in the closet.” That definitely made things interesting. 🤣
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Hilarious. 🤣 You should have asked him when he was going to introduce you.
OP have you met or is it an online relationship?
OP have you met or is it an online relationship?
we meet, it is long distance but We get to see each other every few weeks.
OP have you met or is it an online relationship?
we meet, it is long distance but We get to see each other every few weeks.
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Husband and I did long distance for a year. It works wonders, I tell you now. Lol being air signs, the need for some space is always good lol
OP have you met or is it an online relationship?
we meet, it is long distance but We get to see each other every few weeks.
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Husband and I did long distance for a year. It works wonders, I tell you now. Lol being air signs, the need for some space is always good lol
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hello once again, its the gemini.
soooo... I updated everyone on the aqua and me two months ago? and well... we became a couple not long after. Weve spent everyday all day talking to each other since, he makes infinite time for me it amazes me. He's told me he loves me now and when he talks about us its all very far in the future. Unless he suddenly gets a change of heart i think this is is it guys... This is the one? the one i settle down with, open up with. Go on adventures with... I'm very scared but also super excited.
something about me is ive never had a serious relationship so I'm very new to all of this, ive never told anyone i love them either... its all just new to me. But i am in love with him, Its not raging and all consuming, its like a warm feeling, a "home" feeling.