Weird behaviour

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by GenericUsername on Friday, December 3, 2021 and has 15 replies.

Why Aquarius Colleagues May Ghost or Disappear

Aquarius individuals often value independence and personal space, which can lead to unpredictable or distant behavior. They may withdraw temporarily when overwhelmed or seeking freedom, especially if they feel pressured. Understanding their need for boundaries can help manage expectations and improve interactions.

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@GenericUsername
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I have a colleague ( Aquarius ) who ghosts me after reaching out. This has been a habit of his for a couple of year. Two times he offered me work and when it came down to starting the job, he just stopped writing. Recently he asked me out to drinks two times, and we would arrange everything, but on the day of the event he would just dissappear. I never bothered him, called, wrote excessively, or asked him wtf, but I am interested in the reason for this kind of strange behaviour. He is not a love interest or a close friend so I am not hurt.

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@virgoOPPP
7 Years10,000+ Posts

i love this about aquarius. they reach out after a couple weeks or months. much better than my virgo friends who do it only 2x every year (usually with some productive reason).

my best friend is an aqua and we keep making plans to meetup that goes nowhere which amuses me 😄😄

i adore him but it's enough to know he's okay. even better to see him but i ask for nothing. we talk about something silly or real housewives then we disappear on each other for a few months. then we talk again and discuss getting fake engaged in finland. he's gay so why not? just to fool our parents 🤣🤣

it's nice to be around someone who don't demand things from you. doesn't feel like a duty or a chore. just checking in every now and then to see if i'm still alive 🙃🙃

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

I'm sure that my Aqua father's ghost reached out to me a few days ago!

This is something he would have done to share his excitement of finding that there is some sort of life even without a body. Very Aquarian of him....

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@GenericUsername
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Weak behaviour

I’d ignore him tbh

Can’t tolerate flaky people

Seriously, why does he think it’s ok to treat you this way?

😐

yes, flakiness is a major turn off for me. Idk, that's why I made a thread...I always have this kind of behavior from Aquarius males, never females

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@MyStarsShine
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by MyStarsShine

Weak behaviour

I’d ignore him tbh

Can’t tolerate flaky people

Seriously, why does he think it’s ok to treat you this way?

😐

yes, flakiness is a major turn off for me. Idk, that's why I made a thread...I always have this kind of behavior from Aquarius males, never females

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Yes, me too, it’s really bad behaviour

I recognize you, were you here before?

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@GenericUsername
4 Years500+ Posts

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by MyStarsShine

Weak behaviour

I’d ignore him tbh

Can’t tolerate flaky people

Seriously, why does he think it’s ok to treat you this way?

😐

yes, flakiness is a major turn off for me. Idk, that's why I made a thread...I always have this kind of behavior from Aquarius males, never females

Yes, me too, it’s really bad behaviour

I recognize you, were you here before?

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Yes 🙏🦋💙

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@MyStarsShine
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by MyStarsShine

Weak behaviour

I’d ignore him tbh

Can’t tolerate flaky people

Seriously, why does he think it’s ok to treat you this way?

😐

yes, flakiness is a major turn off for me. Idk, that's why I made a thread...I always have this kind of behavior from Aquarius males, never females

Yes, me too, it’s really bad behaviour

I recognize you, were you here before?

Yes 🙏🦋💙

click to expand

Aries/Pisces Venus

Eastern Europe

Scorpio ex who broke your ❤️🥺

Is that you?

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@GenericUsername
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by MyStarsShine

Weak behaviour

I’d ignore him tbh

Can’t tolerate flaky people

Seriously, why does he think it’s ok to treat you this way?

😐

yes, flakiness is a major turn off for me. Idk, that's why I made a thread...I always have this kind of behavior from Aquarius males, never females

Yes, me too, it’s really bad behaviour

I recognize you, were you here before?

Yes 🙏🦋💙

Aries/Pisces Venus

Eastern Europe

Scorpio ex who broke your ❤️🥺

Is that you?

click to expand

yes 🙈

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@MyStarsShine
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by MyStarsShine

Weak behaviour

I’d ignore him tbh

Can’t tolerate flaky people

Seriously, why does he think it’s ok to treat you this way?

😐

yes, flakiness is a major turn off for me. Idk, that's why I made a thread...I always have this kind of behavior from Aquarius males, never females

Yes, me too, it’s really bad behaviour

I recognize you, were you here before?

Yes 🙏🦋💙

Aries/Pisces Venus

Eastern Europe

Scorpio ex who broke your ❤️🥺

Is that you?

yes 🙈

click to expand

Good to see you back

How’ve you been?

❤️

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@GenericUsername
4 Years500+ Posts

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by MyStarsShine

Weak behaviour

I’d ignore him tbh

Can’t tolerate flaky people

Seriously, why does he think it’s ok to treat you this way?

😐

yes, flakiness is a major turn off for me. Idk, that's why I made a thread...I always have this kind of behavior from Aquarius males, never females

Yes, me too, it’s really bad behaviour

I recognize you, were you here before?

Yes 🙏🦋💙

Aries/Pisces Venus

Eastern Europe

Scorpio ex who broke your ❤️🥺

Is that you?

yes 🙈

Good to see you back

How’ve you been?

❤️

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Heeeey! Thank you. I missed this place so I came back. Life i suppose...sometimes good, sometimes bad. Lots of kisses to you and 💋🌺❣

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@MyStarsShine
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by MyStarsShine

Weak behaviour

I’d ignore him tbh

Can’t tolerate flaky people

Seriously, why does he think it’s ok to treat you this way?

😐

yes, flakiness is a major turn off for me. Idk, that's why I made a thread...I always have this kind of behavior from Aquarius males, never females

Yes, me too, it’s really bad behaviour

I recognize you, were you here before?

Yes 🙏🦋💙

Aries/Pisces Venus

Eastern Europe

Scorpio ex who broke your ❤️🥺

Is that you?

yes 🙈

Good to see you back

How’ve you been?

❤️

Heeeey! Thank you. I missed this place so I came back. Life i suppose...sometimes good, sometimes bad. Lots of kisses to you and 💋🌺❣

click to expand

😘💋🌹