Update - feeling better

hey,

just had that d&m with my gf. she was very upset to find out i felt that way and didn't blame me for feeling like i didn't trust her. she said (very truthfully) that she would feel the exact same way if she was in my position. She started to cry when she realised how she hurt me and never ment it intentionally. I know it may same to most of you that i'm being played, but i know for a fact that she is genuinely sorry for hurting me and never intended to make me feel so insecure.

She said she was a bad girlfriend and that i'm too good for her. she went on about saying that she isn't very much there emotionally and she's not very affectionate but i said that over time and understanding she would come round.

So yeah, what a day.

she also said that after a month of being with me that she lost interest in her boss.

Lip Service.

did she say this to your face or via the phone or messenger?

'She sounds too sweet to digest..people who are too sweet its not so good to trust them.'

That from a cap...hmmmm

Well I say give it time, she'll be trying even harder now...and theirs always makeup sex.

Goodluck

No reason, heard you guys were sweet people.

awww...thats the worst kind, we already had an expectancy of good things from you, then you get all evil...tsk tsk 😢 🙂

GL, read his 1st and 2nd threads "I might be single tomorrow" and "Update - What a Head Fuck"

People are scared to end relationships. I know he is going through too many changes. I don't give a damn if she did cry. So what! But we are not the ones going through the situation. He is. So his decision has to be his own...

Good Luck Tauro!

I think Tauro you shoudld sit your aqua "young lady"(!!) down and be totally frank with her and tell her that you are not gonna be giving her any chances if she f***s up. Scare her a bit and then just say that you wanted to make this clear to her that's all. Then the ball's in her court and you should resist the temptation to be sneaky and snoop on her personal messages, calls etc.

Branh, you coulden't get me any more wrong dude. I've been in love before, last year, i know the difference between lust and love. Reagrdless of my age, i know what is what at being 21.

She was scared lastnight when i spoke to her. she was scared of hurting me again, she had no idea she was hurting me by being flirty with her boss and once i brought it all up she completely understood and it opened her eyes. I would never go through her messages or convos again, i reassured her of that. Regardless if this whole situation were to happen again, i'd just ask her straight out now that i've experienced how she handles things. She's like me, you need to be very blunt and black and white with me to tell me what exactly is going on, otherwise, as you can see from what happened yesterday, my mind plays on things that were never really true.

It was only 2 months 🙂 thats the trial period