So.. if anyone remembers I was going crazy because my aqua bf had a Leo ex at our workplace who still kept trying to get with him. She was trying to get eerily close to me also.
Update: she quit working at our job and has left. He didn't try to offer her more money to stay. She was upset he didn't try to save her. Also, I found out that he wasn't dating her. They were fwb for over a year, he never showed her pics of his kids or made things official, but she was in love with him. He met me and fell in love and ended things with her and told her that he is committed to me and wants to make sure she stays out of it. I do appreciate him telling her that, even though it backfired becausse she told everyone. He apparently left her heart broken..no one at work is supposed to date, it's he policy here, but word got around that me and him are together. Turns out it was her who is telling everyone. But she left, and we are squashing the rumors. She still texts me to meet up for dinner.. she doesn't know I know they hooked up. What are her intentions?
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I think she wants to meet up with you to see what you have that she doesn't. Why he committed to you and not her. I was in a committed relationship for half my life and women who couldn't keep a man or who knew my ex always just assumed that they could easily be in my place and that it would have worked with him too. lol
Women are crazy. I don't think you should meet with her at all. She wants to pick apart your personality and see what's so special about you since you won!