Virgleeb gets moody

Virgleeb loves the pool. Cool beans. I'm not a pool/beach type girl because it's boring to me. I'd rather go hike or something like that. He whines and begs for me to go to the pool with him, and I have from most of the time but I really don't have a lot of fun. All he does is float around and drink beer. I tell him I'm not a pool or beach person, but he does well to try and guilt trip me into going regardless of what I say. I say to him "I don't have to go with you, go have fun and enjoy the pool" but then he mopes around and doesn't really talk to me until he finally goes.

Like tonight, I got off work at 1015pm, im hungry and wanna relax. He asks as soon as I'm out of the car if I will go to the pool with him. I told him I really don't want to go tonight. He continues to press me for 10 minutes. Finally, he asks "well I could go by myself but what if I drown?". Really?? I shot that request down and then he got super moody, barely talked me to me yada yada. I reminded him that he is going to have to be OK with me not always going with him to the pool because it's not my thing. He just got dressed and said he just doesn't want to be alone at the pool but if he's not back in a few hours then he's probably dead from drowning. Really? :/

Thing is, we do *everything* together save for a couple of things. Daily. I don't see how he can be butt hurt about me not going once or twice to the pool, and I don't find it fair to try and make me feel bad about it. He actually had already been to the pool himself today, twice, without me because I've been at work. Now, I feel stressed because he has an attitude about me not wanting to do something I don't want to do.

So any other Aquas have been in a simular situation or similar issue maybe even with a Virgo or Libra dude?

Virgo sun, Leo moon, everything else in Libra.

Sounds like a pain in the ass! I don't tolerate people who whinge, sook and try and guilt trip me, doesn't work and it makes me end wanting to piss them off more by not ever doing things they want to do.

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Sounds like a pain in the ass! I don't tolerate people who whinge, sook and try and guilt trip me, doesn't work and it makes me end wanting to piss them off more by not ever doing things they want to do.

You rebel! 😉