Well that didn't last long

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LibraJackson
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All Aquarius,

May be I was too easy physically??

In my recent posts, I went on a date with an Aquarius guy. One of the best first dates I had, second date was okay not as smooth as the first one. However I met him in the shopping centre near both of our houses last weekend and he said he would give me a text or whatever.

I haven't pushed him the past and I'm not the one to chase after him either. Don't get me wrong, I had a great time but I'm just not the one to pursue first, I will when I'm comfortable but I'm not there yet with him. I went with the flow and now it stopped.

Yes, I'm a bit disappointed and I did try with him in our recent texts before it phased out. He mentioned that he's broke after booking holidays last week and when I met him randomly in the shopping centre he mentioned this again.

Like I'm an independent and I think he knows that, I don't need him to have money to spend time with me.

At this point I feel like he's not interested and that's okay. I did sleep with him on our first date and as well as our second date but I thought we had so much in common but may be I'm wrong.

This is what I don't get so at this point any girl would think he's not interested and I think like that too but he appears first on my Instagram viewed story all the time, meaning he looks up my pictures and the story I post all the time.

Like why hasn't he said anything ?!??!

I think I came across too cold or was just simply shit in bed, I don't know man. I'm sour from this ishh like I can live with this because we went on two dates and it wasn't anything mad. I think I'm just too complicated and have no success rate for long it's frustrating.
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Posted by LibraJackson
All Aquarius,

May be I was too easy physically??

In my recent posts, I went on a date with an Aquarius guy. One of the best first dates I had, second date was okay not as smooth as the first one. However I met him in the shopping centre near both of our houses last weekend and he said he would give me a text or whatever.

I haven't pushed him the past and I'm not the one to chase after him either. Don't get me wrong, I had a great time but I'm just not the one to pursue first, I will when I'm comfortable but I'm not there yet with him. I went with the flow and now it stopped.

Yes, I'm a bit disappointed and I did try with him in our recent texts before it phased out. He mentioned that he's broke after booking holidays last week and when I met him randomly in the shopping centre he mentioned this again.

Like I'm an independent and I think he knows that, I don't need him to have money to spend time with me.

At this point I feel like he's not interested and that's okay. I did sleep with him on our first date and as well as our second date but I thought we had so much in common but may be I'm wrong.

This is what I don't get so at this point any girl would think he's not interested and I think like that too but he appears first on my Instagram viewed story all the time, meaning he looks up my pictures and the story I post all the time.

Like why hasn't he said anything ?!??!

I think I came across too cold or was just simply shit in bed, I don't know man. I'm sour from this ishh like I can live with this because we went on two dates and it wasn't anything mad. I think I'm just too complicated and have no success rate for long it's frustrating.
Maybe it's like he said, he's broke. Being broke is embarrassing even if you agree to pay.

Most broke guys smash and pass because they're broke. Sex is a temporary self esteem boost.
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He could reach out later. As long as he can reach you and you don't rush him, hope isn't lost. I wouldn't give up yet.



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LibraJackson
@LibraJackson
8 Years

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Posted by Lioness18881
Make some effort to contact him and show you like him too. Don't stress. Just assume everything is fine because it probably is. He might be feeling like you don't like him and is wondering the same thing.🤷
So he texted literally after I posted this post and he mentioned that I went quite on him. I was just trying not annoy him anyway. the text didn't last long because I didn't really keep the conversation going as I was out.

today I decided to ask him to hang out casually and be the one to text first and his reply was actually nice so I think I need to be more proactive with him. just a tiny bit of course