What are your deal breakers?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by truecap on Sunday, September 2, 2012 and has 5 replies.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Someone who can't stand behind their own opinions - or goes along with popular belief
Someone who's actions don't back up thier words
Someone who is unwilling to work
Someone who is an arrogant bully

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by rachelsnow12
A deal breaker for me is someone whose love is conditional. Someone who will run when the going gets tough. Someone who lacks loyalty. Someone who isn't putting forth their 110% . Someone who doesn't have my back the way I do theirs.

this.

excessive cheating, physical/violent abuse, abandonment.

the biggest three deal breakers.

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@BlueSandCacoon
14 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

It really depends of the deal. Before getting serious in a relationship both parties should make it clear what they expect from each other so there's no excuses later.

I wouldn't make a deal that allowed any kind of abuse and excessive neglect in the first place. Honesty would also be a must.

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@violetprism
13 Years

Deal Breakers:

Lack of loyalty, class & trust. Jealousy, being possessive, smothering, controlling. Lack of intellectual curiosity. Usual Aquarius pet peeves.

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@guccigemini55
14 Years500+ Posts

All of the above for me, the whole of the the above really matters alot to me, once the trust is gone I cant get it back no matter how I try, to be disrespected that badly kills something inside, I only get involved with someone if i feel they have potential to go somewhere and i have given it alot of thought before hand so im offering the best I can be... thats just me.