What attracts you to people?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by IAmMystified on Thursday, August 14, 2014 and has 7 replies.

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I'm not necessarily talking about romantic but in every sense of the word: platonic, romantic, professional etc.

What draws you to people in terms of how active you communicate with them. I do realize that aquas are social/communicative by nature but sometimes they come across as selective too.

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Hmm interesting. I don't know how to explain this but some aquas I know who while are very social and communicative seem to be super selective in how often they speak to any given person.

I'm not sure how they decide that but if you get a room full of 20 outgoing people they would socialize with everyone but only would put alot of effort in 2 of the 20 people.

Not sure why if all 20 people were super outgoing.

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Posted by IAmMystified
Hmm interesting. I don't know how to explain this but some aquas I know who while are very social and communicative seem to be super selective in how often they speak to any given person.

I'm not sure how they decide that but if you get a room full of 20 outgoing people they would socialize with everyone but only would put alot of effort in 2 of the 20 people.

Not sure why if all 20 people were super outgoing.

Those people have a feature that makes them very intriguing. It could be how they talk, how they hold themselves, maybe the things they have to say, their style , maybe even because they have really awesome shoes.

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Posted by IAmMystified
Hmm interesting. I don't know how to explain this but some aquas I know who while are very social and communicative seem to be super selective in how often they speak to any given person.

I'm not sure how they decide that but if you get a room full of 20 outgoing people they would socialize with everyone but only would put alot of effort in 2 of the 20 people.

Not sure why if all 20 people were super outgoing.

Perhaps something clicked with those 2 people vs the others. Be it mental, spiritually or just something about them made a deeper connection within the Aqua. I tend to gravitated towards kindred spirits within rooms filled with people. It's not that they "did" anything, its just a feeling or vibe that gets picked up.

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Definitely creative, unique people.....there's nothing I hate more than being around people who aren't interested in the things I find interesting or say that my interests are weird....

The weirder the person the more I can be myself around them lol and that's what attracts me to people its sense of security that I can be myself and talk freely about things and not be ridiculed because I am sensitive about my opinions.

Last night I was at a friends house and there were people there and we were sitting in this guys room smoking weed and drinking and I really liked him because he was so weird I swore we was a steiner student at one point or something lol and he was being really nice to me calling me bro every time I talked to him but for some reason I kept ignoring him the whole night lol I don't know why, its something I do when I'm in a big group of friends I don't like anyone to know I'm interested in someone so I'll pretend I'm not interested in that person and I feel really bad.