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Omg. And here I am dating aqua men. I dow onder about that as I got an aqua aunt who loves her hubby more than her kids. Another aqua aunt didnt have kids at all coz she didnt want to have her time split between her leo hubby and her.

BUT, my aqua ex is a good dad but not a good husband which is why he got separated. He was also always drunk. But i think he is a good person. The drinking was either because he is a stressed aqua or because he is British. I cant tell. And another Aqua aunt who is a single mum, she loves her son more than anything. Worked hard to give her son a good life. She wasnt always around tho because she had to work.



i wonder if it's because of the fixedity..they are either very good or very bad,

and the can only handle being a good parent or good wife/husband?

unless highly mutable...lol

highly cardinal....controlling. lmao

i'm highly mutable...and i think sometimes i'm chaotic and all over the place.

my husband really likes that though. and my son enjoys my company alot. click to expand

I dunno. I kinda dont want to blame it on the sign. But then i am biased because aquas around me didnt show signs or extreme signs of negative traits. I havent met an abusive one yet and i dont wish to meet any. It will make me sad.... click to expand



trust me there are some out there..... scary.

but there are many of every sign/birthday. just like serial killers and shooters who go cray. click to expand

Im curious about gemini parents because well, geminis are mutable and we cant be tied down so i wonder how we provide stability to our kids or if we actually can. Do we stay in one city for too long? Do we travel a lot as a family? Are we chaotic in the home? Are our bills paid on time? Lol its been lurking in my head for a while. My scorp mum was very good at keeping us grounded despite moving from one city to another coz she controlled everything and made sure we are ok (thats even if we dont see eye to eye all the time. We fight a lot believe me lol). Shes very hard to match. click to expand



i'm earthy too though, so i'm grounded as well. but i think it comes out more that i am scheduled and have responsibility. and i can easily commit. if i say i'm gonna do something i do it. i dont like to say i'm gonna do something and then dont follow through. that's something i cant and won't do. If i know i wont do it and have doubts i wont even commit to it.
my husband is also like that, very very reliable. I love that. everyone can count on him in the family and close friends.

as for gemini ...i think u guys do well in life, many of u have great relationships i've seen. i think too it depends on chart and upbringing. i like that u guys are very very co-operative and really love kindness in people. click to expand

Im gem and cap dominant so possibly why I do what I say i will do. Hmmmm. I wonder how that will pair with an Aqua who is Aqua and Sag dominant. Is your partner earth dominant too like you? And i have to agree, we cooperate very well when needed and if we cant we just stay out of things. Lol we tryy to avoid as much involvement if we feel it will end up in drama 😂 click to expand
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yeah according to astrotheme/pullen he's virgo dominant. water/fire then earth, almost near equal.22%

he has maybe 4 or 2% air, basically lacking air.

i read u and ur aqua are air dominant..... do u know how much percentage? like are both of u near 50% air?



i think the most air i attract is aqua sun and aqua mars, for men.

and he had a cap moon aries stellium.cancer risng.



alot of aqua women kind of similar to my energies, attract alot of lack of air men lol no air sun men...usually... i only liked the aqua sun male. lol but he was not good..

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Omg. And here I am dating aqua men. I dow onder about that as I got an aqua aunt who loves her hubby more than her kids. Another aqua aunt didnt have kids at all coz she didnt want to have her time split between her leo hubby and her.

BUT, my aqua ex is a good dad but not a good husband which is why he got separated. He was also always drunk. But i think he is a good person. The drinking was either because he is a stressed aqua or because he is British. I cant tell. And another Aqua aunt who is a single mum, she loves her son more than anything. Worked hard to give her son a good life. She wasnt always around tho because she had to work.



i wonder if it's because of the fixedity..they are either very good or very bad,

and the can only handle being a good parent or good wife/husband?

unless highly mutable...lol

highly cardinal....controlling. lmao

i'm highly mutable...and i think sometimes i'm chaotic and all over the place.

my husband really likes that though. and my son enjoys my company alot. click to expand

I dunno. I kinda dont want to blame it on the sign. But then i am biased because aquas around me didnt show signs or extreme signs of negative traits. I havent met an abusive one yet and i dont wish to meet any. It will make me sad.... click to expand



trust me there are some out there..... scary.

but there are many of every sign/birthday. just like serial killers and shooters who go cray. click to expand

Im curious about gemini parents because well, geminis are mutable and we cant be tied down so i wonder how we provide stability to our kids or if we actually can. Do we stay in one city for too long? Do we travel a lot as a family? Are we chaotic in the home? Are our bills paid on time? Lol its been lurking in my head for a while. My scorp mum was very good at keeping us grounded despite moving from one city to another coz she controlled everything and made sure we are ok (thats even if we dont see eye to eye all the time. We fight a lot believe me lol). Shes very hard to match. click to expand



i'm earthy too though, so i'm grounded as well. but i think it comes out more that i am scheduled and have responsibility. and i can easily commit. if i say i'm gonna do something i do it. i dont like to say i'm gonna do something and then dont follow through. that's something i cant and won't do. If i know i wont do it and have doubts i wont even commit to it.
my husband is also like that, very very reliable. I love that. everyone can count on him in the family and close friends.

as for gemini ...i think u guys do well in life, many of u have great relationships i've seen. i think too it depends on chart and upbringing. i like that u guys are very very co-operative and really love kindness in people. click to expand

Im gem and cap dominant so possibly why I do what I say i will do. Hmmmm. I wonder how that will pair with an Aqua who is Aqua and Sag dominant. Is your partner earth dominant too like you? And i have to agree, we cooperate very well when needed and if we cant we just stay out of things. Lol we tryy to avoid as much involvement if we feel it will end up in drama 😂 click to expand



yeah according to astrotheme/pullen he's virgo dominant. water/fire then earth, almost near equal.22%
he has maybe 4 or 2% air, basically lacking air.

i read u and ur aqua are air dominant..... do u know how much percentage? like are both of u near 50% air?


i think the most air i attract is aqua sun and aqua mars, for men.
and he had a cap moon aries stellium.cancer risng. click to expand

Hes basically 17.6% sag and 16.9% aqua which are his number 1&2 in his pullen chart. I’m 21% Cap and 18% Gemini click to expand
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how are u two doing??



i'm kind of excited to see u both get together soon and talk about ur relationship 😛

just here and there kind of thing 😄
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Omg. And here I am dating aqua men. I dow onder about that as I got an aqua aunt who loves her hubby more than her kids. Another aqua aunt didnt have kids at all coz she didnt want to have her time split between her leo hubby and her.

BUT, my aqua ex is a good dad but not a good husband which is why he got separated. He was also always drunk. But i think he is a good person. The drinking was either because he is a stressed aqua or because he is British. I cant tell. And another Aqua aunt who is a single mum, she loves her son more than anything. Worked hard to give her son a good life. She wasnt always around tho because she had to work.



i wonder if it's because of the fixedity..they are either very good or very bad,

and the can only handle being a good parent or good wife/husband?

unless highly mutable...lol

highly cardinal....controlling. lmao

i'm highly mutable...and i think sometimes i'm chaotic and all over the place.

my husband really likes that though. and my son enjoys my company alot. click to expand

I dunno. I kinda dont want to blame it on the sign. But then i am biased because aquas around me didnt show signs or extreme signs of negative traits. I havent met an abusive one yet and i dont wish to meet any. It will make me sad.... click to expand



trust me there are some out there..... scary.

but there are many of every sign/birthday. just like serial killers and shooters who go cray. click to expand

Im curious about gemini parents because well, geminis are mutable and we cant be tied down so i wonder how we provide stability to our kids or if we actually can. Do we stay in one city for too long? Do we travel a lot as a family? Are we chaotic in the home? Are our bills paid on time? Lol its been lurking in my head for a while. My scorp mum was very good at keeping us grounded despite moving from one city to another coz she controlled everything and made sure we are ok (thats even if we dont see eye to eye all the time. We fight a lot believe me lol). Shes very hard to match. click to expand



i'm earthy too though, so i'm grounded as well. but i think it comes out more that i am scheduled and have responsibility. and i can easily commit. if i say i'm gonna do something i do it. i dont like to say i'm gonna do something and then dont follow through. that's something i cant and won't do. If i know i wont do it and have doubts i wont even commit to it.
my husband is also like that, very very reliable. I love that. everyone can count on him in the family and close friends.

as for gemini ...i think u guys do well in life, many of u have great relationships i've seen. i think too it depends on chart and upbringing. i like that u guys are very very co-operative and really love kindness in people. click to expand

Im gem and cap dominant so possibly why I do what I say i will do. Hmmmm. I wonder how that will pair with an Aqua who is Aqua and Sag dominant. Is your partner earth dominant too like you? And i have to agree, we cooperate very well when needed and if we cant we just stay out of things. Lol we tryy to avoid as much involvement if we feel it will end up in drama 😂 click to expand



yeah according to astrotheme/pullen he's virgo dominant. water/fire then earth, almost near equal.22%
he has maybe 4 or 2% air, basically lacking air.

i read u and ur aqua are air dominant..... do u know how much percentage? like are both of u near 50% air?


i think the most air i attract is aqua sun and aqua mars, for men.
and he had a cap moon aries stellium.cancer risng. click to expand

Hes basically 17.6% sag and 16.9% aqua which are his number 1&2 in his pullen chart. I’m 21% Cap and 18% Gemini click to expand


how are u two doing??


i'm kind of excited to see u both get together soon and talk about ur relationship

just here and there kind of thing click to expand

Ha! We’re doing alright. he’s just a bit sick lately. Its winter and he hates winter but then he is looking forward to having me around soon. We just received our Gymshark clothing order in his home this week and he showed the items to me on skype today! Lol. We got both black too and bottoms with the Gymshark logo. Wahahaahha we wanna go to the gym together while wearing them 😂 his idea not mine! Lol he wants us to buy several things when I arrive: rice cooker, log heater, winter coats (i dunno if he wants us to get matching ones wahahaha). We’re both very excited about this move. click to expand
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i hope u two are gonna do well together...

he sounds like he needs u more, like show him the way to be ...

cause he is super insecure.
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It was lonely. Growing up, I was not close to my Aqua mother and all and my Libra father was an alcoholic butterbum. They divorced when I was young. My mom worked and paid the bills but there was no relationship. We just lived in the same house.
We spend more time together now that I'm older though but there is no warm and fuzzy mother daughter moments. She's very unemotional
sorry to hear that, Dianna,

at least she never left ur side, and that's good to know ur mother was there for u even though she was not emotionally available.

she seemed like she was sad too, not having anyone ....but i think she kept going because of u.
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It was lonely. Growing up, I was not close to my Aqua mother and all and my Libra father was an alcoholic shitbum. They divorced when I was young. My mom worked and paid the bills but there was no relationship. We just lived in the same house.
We spend more time together now that I'm older though but there is no warm and fuzzy mother daughter moments. She's very unemotional
That's very sad to read

Two air sign parents can be tough. My ex had a Gemini mother with Aqua moon and a Libra father with Leo moon.....both very cold people. I think, like my dad, he is still damaged by their lack of warmth

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i think personally that some aquas NEED a partner in life, who is the MAN (female aqua i mean) lol

and takes care of u and the children, it's really TOUGH to be a single mother...in today's world.

it can be done, and i've seen it but its very hard.

sasha p. with her russian aries hubby...

and their baby.

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isla fisher and her libra sun/leo moon husband sasha baron lol with their baby....he is helping out alot lol



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My personal opinion from experience = not good


Aqua mom or dad I’ve seen seems to love significant other or the opposite sex , more than their kids ,

As if those relationship are more fulfilling to them than raising children

But that’s just my experience, what was yours



yeah, my Dad was an Aqua and I can say same click to expand



I really don't get parents that do this. On some level they are running away from a part of themselves. We are reflected in our children,

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to a degree yes but a lot of children decide they are not going to be like their parents and swing too far the other way which can in itself be damaging as well ... it's a conundrum - we were never given a manual on how to raise children - for the most part we were still trying to raise ourselves ... I think there's an entire section devoted to this at the Library click to expand



I was talking about parents running away from their kids and giving their love and attention to other people ....



my Dad divorced my mother, married again shortly after and that woman had kids, and then years later they got divorced and he married #3 who also had kids, meanwhile ignoring his own biological children and then #3 wife died, then #2, and then #1 so he's 88 and all alone and now wants to be chummy with us kids - that was a bit more than I could stomach click to expand

hahaha, wow sounds like we have the same exact dad...
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that's wild lol
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Yeah, I wont get into details but my mom was very selfish and submitted me to lots of terrible things revolving around her and men that left me deeply wounded. She would steal money from me, shes stolen numerous peoples identities. Has a loyalty to NO ONE. All kinds of crazy butter that would take me an hour to write out.

Shes calmed down in her 50's.... but she at her core is capable of extremely selfish behavior, and lying so intensely that it can be frightening.

I never felt like I had a "mother".... I had a roommate. Even her "love" comes from a self gratifying place. No one knows her.....except probably, me.



It scares me a little that my friend feels the kind of relationship she wants with her kids is to be their best friend so they would tell her everything. Especially after hearing experience like you from the child perspective one too many times click to expand
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Oh gosh, this is my Aqua mother even now. She values the relationship she has with her grand-daughter, my niece, because she tells her everything.

It's more like I grew up with an older sister than a mom. Then, an older sister that I had to be wise to.

My Virgo sister has spiraled out of control nearly, and my mother is partly the blame.