Whats your biggest challenge/problem in relationships?

For me its trust. When i dont trust n believe in what my partner says i become insecure and scared. Makes me seem unemotional and disconnected when the complete opposite is happening inside. 😢

shutting down and being detached. I'm going through this now. As much as I complain about the same thing to him he will continue over and over again keep doing this. It's a snow ball effect with me because I question everything. He seems like he's hiding things, lying, etc. How is someone suppose to constantly feel loved when Aquas get moody smh

Posted by Leogirl27
shutting down and being detached. I'm going through this now. As much as I complain about the same thing to him he will continue over and over again keep doing this. It's a snow ball effect with me because I question everything. He seems like he's hiding things, lying, etc. How is someone suppose to constantly feel loved when Aquas get moody smh

Same here with my Cancer man. I'm starting to get used to it now though, but it's still hard to deal with sometimes. I'm a Virgo, so I need things black and white, everything out in the open. Mystery/shell time/aloofness is not what I like, not one bit.

@leogirl: we may be moody but we always show our love. Sometimes....actually most often, not in the way our partners would like. Look out for the little things, like maybe you hate pickles so anytime he orders food he makes sure there is none, or maybe you love rihanna so he gets you tickets to her concert or maybe he gets you breakfast or cooks dinner even though he hates doing it. It's in there, you just have to pay attention.

Openness will come with time. Hes probably lacking trust with his feelings and confidence

My biggest problem is wanting to breakup and run away over every fight, we always talk it through but it's so easy for me to throw everything away and start anew but I'm trying this this where I stick to my relationships and make them grow so I do too

Being.....sappy and sentimental. I just can't do it, I feel weird when I do, like I am being fake.

Argee with all if it. Lol

I get bored easily