WHY?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Lilac291 on Sunday, October 5, 2008 and has 16 replies.

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@Lilac291
17 Years

hi i dont know if i have done something wrong but my friend has gone all distant on me. hes been away for a few weeks and since hes been back 3 weeks he does not want to meet up. i text him asking him asking where he was staying now and if he wanted to meet up he said he was busy and mybe we could meet up next week (we didnt he never got in touch)before he went away he would invite me over to his all the time and now he will not even answer my text for like days. i know he has work issues but he had them before so its not that i just dont understand why is so distant.
so i thought i give him some space but nothing i dont know what to do.
and hes an aqua 29

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

as he's in the friend zone, IMO I'll let it be - he'll come to you...whenever...whatever...get busy wif your thing.

However, with similar Aqua experience, he may either be going through some emotional issue he has to sort out himself or he has feelings for you 😉 yikes !

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@Lilac291
17 Years

so anyway his phone is off so i cant call i just want to help him i dont want to be to full on either so i will just chill lol

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

lilac, it's hard especially on fixed signs guys if they have troubles to admit it - not sure if hitting him with silence will be a good idea in hindsight...

I wouldn't push to meet up - but just to check in on him...so he sees somewhat of a ray of light...I think.

*bows head in shame as I type, bling*