I am seriously find the man...

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...who told me ‘at least you will know I’ll protect you’...

Shitload of positive isn’t it? Lol

Sleeping next to him is a torture.

Looking at him is a blessing.

Listening to him is fun.

Every movie we are watching...he never let my hand out of his.

He is making fun of my accent.

He is telling me he loves me just while we go with daily lives...

He stand up for me and makes me priority even if I said I can let him choose his family...

I am dumbfound. Sometimes I am thinking he is playing the game.

How can I relax and let me BE?

Every day he is there for me. Close or far...

No shit given no shit taken.

And I am waiting for hell freezes over and all this goes to hell and I am left to bite the dust?

Of course...shit happens.

I am just praying to Aries Gods to spare me all this.

Laugh or cry...I am talking to myself. I don’t need any of yours opinion though LET IT OUT!

Or not. Whatever...

Still waiting for women to shit on Rams!

So far...nothing.

❤️🧟‍♀️🙄🤝
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries

What's the problem?

Me. Overwhelmed and not able to enjoy the gift that was given to me.

Because ALL the bullshit I am reading and it is drilling my brain with ‘some shit will happen’ thoughts...

If there's bad things you will be able to handle it. Second guessing and insecurity will push an Aries away though.
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That’s it! Why can’t I be insecure and guessing?

I am a woman! What kind of love is it if I can’t be all I am?

Is that what you meant? Or I am twisting g it?
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries

What's the problem?

Me. Overwhelmed and not able to enjoy the gift that was given to me.

Because ALL the bullshit I am reading and it is drilling my brain with ‘some shit will happen’ thoughts...

If there's bad things you will be able to handle it. Second guessing and insecurity will push an Aries away though.

That’s it! Why can’t I be insecure and guessing?

I am a woman! What kind of love is it if I can’t be all I am?

Is that what you meant? Or I am twisting g it?

You need a goddamned hobby to occupy your mind.
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Nothing ever interested me since I remember myself. How would I find a hobby all of a sudden?

Aren’t you supposed to love something to dedicate yourself to it? You now suggesting I get another man are you? 😂😂😂
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Posted by Phangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries

What's the problem?

Me. Overwhelmed and not able to enjoy the gift that was given to me.

Because ALL the bullshit I am reading and it is drilling my brain with ‘some shit will happen’ thoughts...

If there's bad things you will be able to handle it. Second guessing and insecurity will push an Aries away though.

That’s it! Why can’t I be insecure and guessing?

I am a woman! What kind of love is it if I can’t be all I am?

Is that what you meant? Or I am twisting g it?

You need a goddamned hobby to occupy your mind.

Nothing ever interested me since I remember myself. How would I find a hobby all of a sudden?

Aren’t you supposed to love something to dedicate yourself to it? You now suggesting I get another man are you? 😂😂😂

I'm just disappointed to see a Gemini be a giant bore. Do something interesting so you don't need to glom onto an interesting man!
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You’ve missed my point. I am not interested in anything...now what?
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Posted by stillstillwater

Aries men are THE best partners.


Absolutely! And funny as hell!

Why do you love me?

Because I feel like it...

He is spending Christmas with ME instead of his family and they all are pissed off. And I am not even a Christian!

I can tell that not once he had fell on delivering what was promised. And it’s driving me crazy!!!

It’s not natural!!! Is he thinking of killing me and disassemble my body? 🤦‍♀️
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You are enjoying self torture lol

STOP ✋


I guess I was served so much of pleasure in suffering that I’ve developed craving for it to the rest of my life. 🤷‍♀️

I can’t just STOP! My dreams haunting me still and there is NO reason for that. Like none. At all! Trust me.

Wait. It just hit me...am I going nuts because I am keeping a secret from Aries though he said that past should be past that’s why it’s called past and he doesn’t care and don’t want to know!
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries

What's the problem?

Me. Overwhelmed and not able to enjoy the gift that was given to me.

Because ALL the bullshit I am reading and it is drilling my brain with ‘some shit will happen’ thoughts...

If there's bad things you will be able to handle it. Second guessing and insecurity will push an Aries away though.

That’s it! Why can’t I be insecure and guessing?

I am a woman! What kind of love is it if I can’t be all I am?

Is that what you meant? Or I am twisting g it?

You need a goddamned hobby to occupy your mind.

Nothing ever interested me since I remember myself. How would I find a hobby all of a sudden?

Aren’t you supposed to love something to dedicate yourself to it? You now suggesting I get another man are you? 😂😂😂
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Are you kidding? There’s a whole world of interests out there ....
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You are enjoying self torture lol

STOP ✋

I guess I was served so much of pleasure in suffering that I’ve developed craving for it to the rest of my life. 🤷‍♀️

I can’t just STOP! My dreams haunting me still and there is NO reason for that. Like none. At all! Trust me.

Wait. It just hit me...am I going nuts because I am keeping a secret from Aries though he said that past should be past that’s why it’s called past and he doesn’t care and don’t want to know!
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You’ve a lot of stuff that you’re carrying around. My sis used to say “secrets make you sick“

Get some Psycotherapy woman if you want to live a happy and healthy life....

Or you can choose to stay stuck?
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries

What's the problem?

Me. Overwhelmed and not able to enjoy the gift that was given to me.

Because ALL the bullshit I am reading and it is drilling my brain with ‘some shit will happen’ thoughts...

If there's bad things you will be able to handle it. Second guessing and insecurity will push an Aries away though.

That’s it! Why can’t I be insecure and guessing?

I am a woman! What kind of love is it if I can’t be all I am?

Is that what you meant? Or I am twisting g it?

You need a goddamned hobby to occupy your mind.

Nothing ever interested me since I remember myself. How would I find a hobby all of a sudden?

Aren’t you supposed to love something to dedicate yourself to it? You now suggesting I get another man are you? 😂😂😂

Are you kidding? There’s a whole world of interests out there ....
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Not to me. How can I change that and should I?
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You are enjoying self torture lol

STOP ✋

I guess I was served so much of pleasure in suffering that I’ve developed craving for it to the rest of my life. 🤷‍♀️

I can’t just STOP! My dreams haunting me still and there is NO reason for that. Like none. At all! Trust me.

Wait. It just hit me...am I going nuts because I am keeping a secret from Aries though he said that past should be past that’s why it’s called past and he doesn’t care and don’t want to know!

You’ve a lot of stuff that you’re carrying around. My sis used to say “secrets make you sick“

Get some Psycotherapy woman if you want to live a happy and healthy life....

Or you can choose to stay stuck?
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He said he doesn’t want to know my past. Though he is talking about his all the time...

Maybe he is feeling that doesn’t need to know.
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Aries men are THE best partners.

Absolutely! And funny as hell!

Why do you love me?

Because I feel like it...

He is spending Christmas with ME instead of his family and they all are pissed off. And I am not even a Christian!

I can tell that not once he had fell on delivering what was promised. And it’s driving me crazy!!!

It’s not natural!!! Is he thinking of killing me and disassemble my body? 🤦‍♀️
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Well personally I wouldn't like if my partner spent xmas with me rather than his family BUT i don't nkow the entire context so no judgement.

Aries men are very romantic, giving, and caring too!
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries

What's the problem?

Me. Overwhelmed and not able to enjoy the gift that was given to me.

Because ALL the bullshit I am reading and it is drilling my brain with ‘some shit will happen’ thoughts...

If there's bad things you will be able to handle it. Second guessing and insecurity will push an Aries away though.

That’s it! Why can’t I be insecure and guessing?

I am a woman! What kind of love is it if I can’t be all I am?

Is that what you meant? Or I am twisting g it?

You need a goddamned hobby to occupy your mind.

Nothing ever interested me since I remember myself. How would I find a hobby all of a sudden?

Aren’t you supposed to love something to dedicate yourself to it? You now suggesting I get another man are you? 😂😂😂

I'm just disappointed to see a Gemini be a giant bore. Do something interesting so you don't need to glom onto an interesting man!

You’ve missed my point. I am not interested in anything...now what?

Well, that's sad as hell to me.
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What’s your deal perky? 😂
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Posted by Gemitati
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Aries men are THE best partners.

Absolutely! And funny as hell!

Why do you love me?

Because I feel like it...

He is spending Christmas with ME instead of his family and they all are pissed off. And I am not even a Christian!

I can tell that not once he had fell on delivering what was promised. And it’s driving me crazy!!!

It’s not natural!!! Is he thinking of killing me and disassemble my body? 🤦‍♀️

Well personally I wouldn't like if my partner spent xmas with me rather than his family BUT i don't nkow the entire context so no judgement.

Aries men are very romantic, giving, and caring too!
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Yeah...thanks for not judging and jumping into conclusions. It’s complicated. He can’t introduce me to them so he chosen to spend it with me. It’s ok.

Yes...are you married one?
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries

What's the problem?

Me. Overwhelmed and not able to enjoy the gift that was given to me.

Because ALL the bullshit I am reading and it is drilling my brain with ‘some shit will happen’ thoughts...

If there's bad things you will be able to handle it. Second guessing and insecurity will push an Aries away though.

That’s it! Why can’t I be insecure and guessing?

I am a woman! What kind of love is it if I can’t be all I am?

Is that what you meant? Or I am twisting g it?

You need a goddamned hobby to occupy your mind.

Nothing ever interested me since I remember myself. How would I find a hobby all of a sudden?

Aren’t you supposed to love something to dedicate yourself to it? You now suggesting I get another man are you? 😂😂😂

I'm just disappointed to see a Gemini be a giant bore. Do something interesting so you don't need to glom onto an interesting man!

You’ve missed my point. I am not interested in anything...now what?

Well, that's sad as hell to me.

What’s your deal perky? 😂

I don't know. Your posts made me wanna complain at ya.
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I meant what you doing to keep yourself happily busy?
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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Gemitati
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Aries men are THE best partners.

Absolutely! And funny as hell!

Why do you love me?

Because I feel like it...

He is spending Christmas with ME instead of his family and they all are pissed off. And I am not even a Christian!

I can tell that not once he had fell on delivering what was promised. And it’s driving me crazy!!!

It’s not natural!!! Is he thinking of killing me and disassemble my body? 🤦‍♀️

Well personally I wouldn't like if my partner spent xmas with me rather than his family BUT i don't nkow the entire context so no judgement.

Aries men are very romantic, giving, and caring too!

Yeah...thanks for not judging and jumping into conclusions. It’s complicated. He can’t introduce me to them so he chosen to spend it with me. It’s ok.

Yes...are you married one?
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Nope but dated one before. I like them a lot.

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What are you reading that makes you have doubts in the first place?


Sorry. Missed your post.

Open almost any thread and you’ll see how men are never good, right, faithful and deceiving...

And I KNOW I should consider the sources - however...I’ve seen and heard it in real life from people I actually KNOW...

Luckily I didn’t have to deal with rship problems of this sort and it seems scary as shit to me...
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Posted by Phangus
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries

What's the problem?

Me. Overwhelmed and not able to enjoy the gift that was given to me.

Because ALL the bullshit I am reading and it is drilling my brain with ‘some shit will happen’ thoughts...

If there's bad things you will be able to handle it. Second guessing and insecurity will push an Aries away though.

That’s it! Why can’t I be insecure and guessing?

I am a woman! What kind of love is it if I can’t be all I am?

Is that what you meant? Or I am twisting g it?

You need a goddamned hobby to occupy your mind.

Nothing ever interested me since I remember myself. How would I find a hobby all of a sudden?

Aren’t you supposed to love something to dedicate yourself to it? You now suggesting I get another man are you? 😂😂😂

I'm just disappointed to see a Gemini be a giant bore. Do something interesting so you don't need to glom onto an interesting man!

You’ve missed my point. I am not interested in anything...now what?

Well, that's sad as hell to me.

What’s your deal perky? 😂

I don't know. Your posts made me wanna complain at ya.

I meant what you doing to keep yourself happily busy?

Oh. The hobby I do the most is paint. Probably the one I do most after that is play video games, and then reading, and then writing. I also hike, do yoga, cook, bake, sew, make videos, make jewelry...I do a lot of shit.
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Do u you...work?
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by stillstillwater
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by stillstillwater

Aries men are THE best partners.

Absolutely! And funny as hell!

Why do you love me?

Because I feel like it...

He is spending Christmas with ME instead of his family and they all are pissed off. And I am not even a Christian!

I can tell that not once he had fell on delivering what was promised. And it’s driving me crazy!!!

It’s not natural!!! Is he thinking of killing me and disassemble my body? 🤦‍♀️

Well personally I wouldn't like if my partner spent xmas with me rather than his family BUT i don't nkow the entire context so no judgement.

Aries men are very romantic, giving, and caring too!

Yeah...thanks for not judging and jumping into conclusions. It’s complicated. He can’t introduce me to them so he chosen to spend it with me. It’s ok.

Yes...are you married one?

Nope but dated one before. I like them a lot.
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Why broke up?
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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by stillstillwater

Aries men are THE best partners.

Absolutely! And funny as hell!

Why do you love me?

Because I feel like it...

He is spending Christmas with ME instead of his family and they all are pissed off. And I am not even a Christian!

I can tell that not once he had fell on delivering what was promised. And it’s driving me crazy!!!

It’s not natural!!! Is he thinking of killing me and disassemble my body? 🤦‍♀️

Well personally I wouldn't like if my partner spent xmas with me rather than his family BUT i don't nkow the entire context so no judgement.

Aries men are very romantic, giving, and caring too!

Yeah...thanks for not judging and jumping into conclusions. It’s complicated. He can’t introduce me to them so he chosen to spend it with me. It’s ok.

Yes...are you married one?

Why can't he introduce you to his family? Is that why you're feeling insecure about things?
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I am not a Christian. That’s a very big deal even though they aren’t a church goers - it matters.

Explaining the whole family issue is a book to read.

We had a rough year with my divorce and his custody...and Thanksgiving was amazing. Fun and simple. So he is craving this peace and quiet.

His family gatherings always negative and he said he just rather we were together and have it all about us. His mother already made a scene about him not coming and I said maybe he need to go and he said no.

Trust me - Adams family compare to his are bunch of kindergarteners! Lol
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries

What's the problem?

Me. Overwhelmed and not able to enjoy the gift that was given to me.

Because ALL the bullshit I am reading and it is drilling my brain with ‘some shit will happen’ thoughts...

If there's bad things you will be able to handle it. Second guessing and insecurity will push an Aries away though.

That’s it! Why can’t I be insecure and guessing?

I am a woman! What kind of love is it if I can’t be all I am?

Is that what you meant? Or I am twisting g it?

You need a goddamned hobby to occupy your mind.

Nothing ever interested me since I remember myself. How would I find a hobby all of a sudden?

Aren’t you supposed to love something to dedicate yourself to it? You now suggesting I get another man are you? 😂😂😂

I'm just disappointed to see a Gemini be a giant bore. Do something interesting so you don't need to glom onto an interesting man!

You’ve missed my point. I am not interested in anything...now what?

Well, that's sad as hell to me.
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I don’t get it either ... there’s so much to see and do - travelling away, studying/retraining, dancing, painting, crafts, singing, movies, theatre/drama group, reading books/writing one, poetry, cinema, helping others, volunteering at a homeless shelter and more

I’ve been less bored and more fulfilled since being single 😀
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries

What's the problem?

Me. Overwhelmed and not able to enjoy the gift that was given to me.

Because ALL the bullshit I am reading and it is drilling my brain with ‘some shit will happen’ thoughts...

If there's bad things you will be able to handle it. Second guessing and insecurity will push an Aries away though.

That’s it! Why can’t I be insecure and guessing?

I am a woman! What kind of love is it if I can’t be all I am?

Is that what you meant? Or I am twisting g it?

You need a goddamned hobby to occupy your mind.

Nothing ever interested me since I remember myself. How would I find a hobby all of a sudden?

Aren’t you supposed to love something to dedicate yourself to it? You now suggesting I get another man are you? 😂😂😂

I'm just disappointed to see a Gemini be a giant bore. Do something interesting so you don't need to glom onto an interesting man!

You’ve missed my point. I am not interested in anything...now what?

Well, that's sad as hell to me.

I don’t get it either ... there’s so much to see and do - travelling away, studying/retraining, dancing, painting, crafts, singing, movies, theatre/drama group, reading books/writing one, poetry, cinema, helping others, volunteering at a homeless shelter and more

I’ve been less bored and more fulfilled since being single 😀
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That's because the only interest gemitati has these days is dxping. At her age, what other interests would anybody be in?
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Posted by alexscaries

What's the problem?

Me. Overwhelmed and not able to enjoy the gift that was given to me.

Because ALL the bullshit I am reading and it is drilling my brain with ‘some shit will happen’ thoughts...

If there's bad things you will be able to handle it. Second guessing and insecurity will push an Aries away though.

That’s it! Why can’t I be insecure and guessing?

I am a woman! What kind of love is it if I can’t be all I am?

Is that what you meant? Or I am twisting g it?

You need a goddamned hobby to occupy your mind.

Nothing ever interested me since I remember myself. How would I find a hobby all of a sudden?

Aren’t you supposed to love something to dedicate yourself to it? You now suggesting I get another man are you? 😂😂😂

I'm just disappointed to see a Gemini be a giant bore. Do something interesting so you don't need to glom onto an interesting man!

You’ve missed my point. I am not interested in anything...now what?

Well, that's sad as hell to me.

I don’t get it either ... there’s so much to see and do - travelling away, studying/retraining, dancing, painting, crafts, singing, movies, theatre/drama group, reading books/writing one, poetry, cinema, helping others, volunteering at a homeless shelter and more

I’ve been less bored and more fulfilled since being single 😀

That's because the only interest gemitati has these days is dxping. At her age, what other interests would anybody be in?
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What’s age got to do with enjoying life? I know older people who are having a blast and younger ones that aren’t..
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries

What's the problem?

Me. Overwhelmed and not able to enjoy the gift that was given to me.

Because ALL the bullshit I am reading and it is drilling my brain with ‘some shit will happen’ thoughts...

If there's bad things you will be able to handle it. Second guessing and insecurity will push an Aries away though.

That’s it! Why can’t I be insecure and guessing?

I am a woman! What kind of love is it if I can’t be all I am?

Is that what you meant? Or I am twisting g it?

You need a goddamned hobby to occupy your mind.

Nothing ever interested me since I remember myself. How would I find a hobby all of a sudden?

Aren’t you supposed to love something to dedicate yourself to it? You now suggesting I get another man are you? 😂😂😂

I'm just disappointed to see a Gemini be a giant bore. Do something interesting so you don't need to glom onto an interesting man!

You’ve missed my point. I am not interested in anything...now what?

Well, that's sad as hell to me.

I don’t get it either ... there’s so much to see and do - travelling away, studying/retraining, dancing, painting, crafts, singing, movies, theatre/drama group, reading books/writing one, poetry, cinema, helping others, volunteering at a homeless shelter and more

I’ve been less bored and more fulfilled since being single 😀
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I wish I cared any of that! But if I am not - should I pretend? What good is that going to do for me?

I am supporting 2 hospitals but payments withdrawn from my bank account and that’s that!

I’ve lost taste for traveling after I went to Paris.

All this packing and shelling and for what?

So if I travel again it’s only 2 places.

And back to Florida which is 2 hours flight from me.
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What's the problem?

Me. Overwhelmed and not able to enjoy the gift that was given to me.

Because ALL the bullshit I am reading and it is drilling my brain with ‘some shit will happen’ thoughts...

If there's bad things you will be able to handle it. Second guessing and insecurity will push an Aries away though.

That’s it! Why can’t I be insecure and guessing?

I am a woman! What kind of love is it if I can’t be all I am?

Is that what you meant? Or I am twisting g it?

You need a goddamned hobby to occupy your mind.

Nothing ever interested me since I remember myself. How would I find a hobby all of a sudden?

Aren’t you supposed to love something to dedicate yourself to it? You now suggesting I get another man are you? 😂😂😂

I'm just disappointed to see a Gemini be a giant bore. Do something interesting so you don't need to glom onto an interesting man!

You’ve missed my point. I am not interested in anything...now what?

Well, that's sad as hell to me.

I don’t get it either ... there’s so much to see and do - travelling away, studying/retraining, dancing, painting, crafts, singing, movies, theatre/drama group, reading books/writing one, poetry, cinema, helping others, volunteering at a homeless shelter and more

I’ve been less bored and more fulfilled since being single 😀

I wish I cared any of that! But if I am not - should I pretend? What good is that going to do for me?

I am supporting 2 hospitals but payments withdrawn from my bank account and that’s that!

I’ve lost taste for traveling after I went to Paris.

All this packing and shelling and for what?

So if I travel again it’s only 2 places.

And back to Florida which is 2 hours flight from me.
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I really don’t know 🤷‍♀️
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Aries men are THE best partners.

Absolutely! And funny as hell!

Why do you love me?

Because I feel like it...

He is spending Christmas with ME instead of his family and they all are pissed off. And I am not even a Christian!

I can tell that not once he had fell on delivering what was promised. And it’s driving me crazy!!!

It’s not natural!!! Is he thinking of killing me and disassemble my body? 🤦‍♀️

Well personally I wouldn't like if my partner spent xmas with me rather than his family BUT i don't nkow the entire context so no judgement.

Aries men are very romantic, giving, and caring too!

Yeah...thanks for not judging and jumping into conclusions. It’s complicated. He can’t introduce me to them so he chosen to spend it with me. It’s ok.

Yes...are you married one?

Nope but dated one before. I like them a lot.

Why broke up?
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Oh it was so long ago and we were both too young.
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What's the problem?

Me. Overwhelmed and not able to enjoy the gift that was given to me.

Because ALL the bullshit I am reading and it is drilling my brain with ‘some shit will happen’ thoughts...

If there's bad things you will be able to handle it. Second guessing and insecurity will push an Aries away though.

That’s it! Why can’t I be insecure and guessing?

I am a woman! What kind of love is it if I can’t be all I am?

Is that what you meant? Or I am twisting g it?

You need a goddamned hobby to occupy your mind.

Nothing ever interested me since I remember myself. How would I find a hobby all of a sudden?

Aren’t you supposed to love something to dedicate yourself to it? You now suggesting I get another man are you? 😂😂😂

I'm just disappointed to see a Gemini be a giant bore. Do something interesting so you don't need to glom onto an interesting man!

You’ve missed my point. I am not interested in anything...now what?

Well, that's sad as hell to me.

I don’t get it either ... there’s so much to see and do - travelling away, studying/retraining, dancing, painting, crafts, singing, movies, theatre/drama group, reading books/writing one, poetry, cinema, helping others, volunteering at a homeless shelter and more

I’ve been less bored and more fulfilled since being single 😀

That's because the only interest gemitati has these days is dxping. At her age, what other interests would anybody be in?

What’s age got to do with enjoying life? I know older people who are having a blast and younger ones that aren’t..
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Yeah this is true. Unfortunately for me as I get older the more settled and mellowed I become. And i found myself watching porn as being one of my interests now. I very seldom have any interest in this site anymore. I'll pop up here and there and maybe post one out of hundreds of smudge the table cat meme on the front page and dip out. I don't think I or anyone else for that matter ever read any good interests from gemitati. Other than being here almost 24/7 posting about the same Aries dude day in and day out. But to each their own. I don't discriminate.
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You are thinking too much!!! Fire feels and Aries have your back when they love you. What else do you have to know—

I don’t know...maybe I need up on Xanax?
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🙄 Xanax just covers up the problem, it doesn’t solve it. You need to learn to accept it is what you see, and enjoy him. Just enjoy & let things be instead of trying to sabotage it.
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You are thinking too much!!! Fire feels and Aries have your back when they love you. What else do you have to know—

I don’t know...maybe I need up on Xanax?
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Oh and seriously at this age it’s tough to let go of the fears and doubts, but we need to work on doing it. The current is not the same as the former husband’s/lovers and we can’t put that on the current. Otherwise we sabotage relationships because we can’t be 💯 just don’t do that.. just freaking enjoy the Aries. 😁
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What are you reading that makes you have doubts in the first place?

Sorry. Missed your post.

Open almost any thread and you’ll see how men are never good, right, faithful and deceiving...

And I KNOW I should consider the sources - however...I’ve seen and heard it in real life from people I actually KNOW...

Luckily I didn’t have to deal with rship problems of this sort and it seems scary as shit to me...
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1.Yes your right, You have to consider your adience. How many people on here are in a happy relationship vs. single

2. We as humans remember things that have the most impact on us. Emotional memories and issues are pretty strong by default. Hell even things you no longer remember Conciously impact us.

So opinions can be biased and colored by this. Not many people have enough self awareness to understand what happened really vs. thier interpitations colored by biases.

3. How often do you a positive post?? Like 1% maybe? Is the real world like that... nope. In fact your one of the very very few who brag about your guy 🤗

4.Astrology wise very very few look beyond sun signs and even less can read a chart responsibly.

As for real life, start asking questions like why. You would be surprised. Few people over 25 cheat without cause. Yes cheating is wrong but my point still stands. My favorites are girl who started out as the other woman and is suprised when it is her turn lol. The other is girl who says they always cheat on her but never questions why or her taste in men to begin with....

Edit: these things are why I love those long detailed posts when people ask questions.ecery situation is different. Not much is standard, excluding love bombing cancer men. Those never get old lol.
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What are you reading that makes you have doubts in the first place?

Sorry. Missed your post.

Open almost any thread and you’ll see how men are never good, right, faithful and deceiving...

And I KNOW I should consider the sources - however...I’ve seen and heard it in real life from people I actually KNOW...

Luckily I didn’t have to deal with rship problems of this sort and it seems scary as shit to me...

1.Yes your right, You have to consider your adience. How many people on here are in a happy relationship vs. single

2. We as humans remember things that have the most impact on us. Emotional memories and issues are pretty strong by default. Hell even things you no longer remember Conciously impact us.

So opinions can be biased and colored by this. Not many people have enough self awareness to understand what happened really vs. thier interpitations colored by biases.

3. How often do you a positive post?? Like 1% maybe? Is the real world like that... nope. In fact your one of the very very few who brag about your guy 🤗

4.Astrology wise very very few look beyond sun signs and even less can read a chart responsibly.

As for real life, start asking questions like why. You would be surprised. Few people over 25 cheat without cause. Yes cheating is wrong but my point still stands. My favorites are girl who started out as the other woman and is suprised when it is her turn lol. The other is girl who says they always cheat on her but never questions why or her taste in men to begin with....

Edit: these things are why I love those long detailed posts when people ask questions.ecery situation is different. Not much is standard, excluding love bombing cancer men. Those never get old lol.
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I know men are minority here however if someone new will read Dxp ‘complaint department’ posts - men don’t deserve to live according to it!

And regardless it’s always ‘i want that piece of shit back’...

It’s funny and it’s reality. And it’s the way it is!

So according to all above mentioned I’ve developed paranoia of my own...

Like I said I sleep with one eye open...just in case he went to the bathroom and spent more time than usually in there🧟‍♀️He will have to explain himself upon return and it’s better be diarrhea or constipation...

😂😂😂