Leo man and this Aries woman ghosts me

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Jakecaca
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We’ve been talking for about a month but she kind of randomly ghosts me it makes no sense like we went out to eat and what not I bought her food and for her kid then she will randomly ghost me makes no sense don’t know why? The longest she ghosted me was about 4 days then it got me so hurt I called her and told her I missed her and she made me bring her donuts for her and her kids which I did but then now it’s been 3 days since we’ve talked and I miss her I can’t go a day without talking to her it hurts me ! Damn what do I do?! She Always does this
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Posted by Jakecaca

told her I missed her and she made me bring her donuts for her and her kids which I did

have you considered putting a collar around your neck and bark at her whenever you see her?

Idk considering you're becoming the definition of a cuckold, goddammit grow a pair and realize she's literally abusing and taking advantage of you.

I'd say move on, for your own sanity.
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Jakecaca
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5 Years

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At this point I feel like ghosting her seeing how long she’ll go before she opens my message then seeing what she’ll message me ! She’s so weird for doing this and I understand she’s had a rough life she has 3 kids with 2 different fathers and has had ghetto guys around her all her life so for me to be different it makes sense why sometimes she ghosts me maybe she wants to protect me maybe she thinks I’m too nice ? I don’t know but I have 100 different thoughts going through my head I have no idea what it could be maybe she just wants a break but damn 3 fucking days without opening my message maybe I’ll do the same to her when she messages me back or that is even if she does I feel so angry now and yeah
Posted by the_verdictofkiki

So... the next best thing to do is to bring her friend chicken!...or any type of food... but food. Text her hey you guys want some pizza? Then she's gonna be like yes please.. then just make a monthly food calendar and post it on her fridge... so now you will have her own children asking for you... never ghosts you again... unless you feel like ghosting them... but that's another story.

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Jakecaca
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Actually I brought it up to her before she says she just does that it’s her she even said ‘lol’ so maybe she likes to be chased ? She likes me to blow her phone up like I used to but I now feel like I put enough of that in I feel like it’s her turn to do that for me but it seems like she doesn’t give a rats ass so now I’m feeling disrespected because she didn’t even leave me on read it’s worse it’s on unread and i can see her profile is online on Instagram and to answer your question about letting her know or statement I don’t wanna say it I think I’m embarrassed to bring it up to the light ! So I’m going to have to just play the waiting game I’ll keep you guys updated but man I feel terrible
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Bring it up that she does that. Tell her what you want. If she cant or doesnt want what you want, it's time to cut the cord.

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Jakecaca
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hould i do? wait it out? ill wait maybe 1 week ! lol im going crazy trying to understand her Lol idk what to do maybe she found another guy lol ! who knows
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Posted by Jakecaca

At this point I feel like ghosting her seeing how long she’ll go before she opens my message then seeing what she’ll message me ! She’s so weird for doing this and I understand she’s had a rough life she has 3 kids with 2 different fathers and has had ghetto guys around her all her life so for me to be different it makes sense why sometimes she ghosts me maybe she wants to protect me maybe she thinks I’m too nice ? I don’t know but I have 100 different thoughts going through my head I have no idea what it could be maybe she just wants a break but damn 3 fucking days without opening my message maybe I’ll do the same to her when she messages me back or that is even if she does I feel so angry now and yeah
Posted by the_verdictofkiki

So... the next best thing to do is to bring her friend chicken!...or any type of food... but food. Text her hey you guys want some pizza? Then she's gonna be like yes please.. then just make a monthly food calendar and post it on her fridge... so now you will have her own children asking for you... never ghosts you again... unless you feel like ghosting them... but that's another story.

Jakecaca seriously
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Jakecaca
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5 Years

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ight and she felt I was very nice so I wouldn't harm her kids in any way, okay so what should I do when she messages me back? whats the best way to react? how do i end it in the best way to make her hurt or should i just leave her on read?
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She wants someone to feed her kids

Lol forreals but i mean the other person has a point about maybe she introduced me to her kids because she felt comfortable with me around them ? lol who knows

No, she introduced you fast, to make you feel special, and to start begging for money.

No sane man/woman would ever introduce Kids that fast.

They use the kids to get u to feel sorry and start getting your coin.
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Posted by Jakecaca

What do you think I should do?
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Posted by Jakecaca

What do you mean by OP? Yeah im trying to learn to love myself blocking her out of my mind and trying to push forward but its difficult
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Please love yourself OP

OP stands for "Original Poster" . Topic creator.

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You should do what?? Isn't that crystal clear? She only reaches out whenever she gets hungry, come on now.. She is not interested in you in the slightest. I'm sorry
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Jakecaca
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e hits me up to hangout to go shopping and what not but i guess your right and even when i do pick her up sometimes when she gets mad at me she threatens me to get an uber she says she doesn't need my rides she says she can have other people take her so yeah its pretty weird lol but yeah 3 days have gone by tomorrow makes 4 at what day do you say fuck it and move on?
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Posted by Jakecaca

What do you think I should do?
Posted by pisceanloves
Posted by Jakecaca

What do you mean by OP? Yeah im trying to learn to love myself blocking her out of my mind and trying to push forward but its difficult
Posted by pisceanloves

Please love yourself OP

OP stands for "Original Poster" . Topic creator.

You should do what?? Isn't that crystal clear? She only reaches out whenever she gets hungry, come on now.. She is not interested in you in the slightest. I'm sorry
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Posted by Jakecaca

sometimes she hits me up to hangout to go shopping and what not but i guess your right and even when i do pick her up sometimes when she gets mad at me she threatens me to get an uber she says she doesn't need my rides she says she can have other people take her so yeah its pretty weird lol but yeah 3 days have gone by tomorrow makes 4 at what day do you say fuck it and move on?
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Posted by Jakecaca

What do you think I should do?
Posted by pisceanloves
Posted by Jakecaca

What do you mean by OP? Yeah im trying to learn to love myself blocking her out of my mind and trying to push forward but its difficult
Posted by pisceanloves

Please love yourself OP

OP stands for "Original Poster" . Topic creator.

You should do what?? Isn't that crystal clear? She only reaches out whenever she gets hungry, come on now.. She is not interested in you in the slightest. I'm sorry

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You gotta move on right now if you have some self respect
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Jakecaca
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n?
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Posted by Jakecaca

sometimes she hits me up to hangout to go shopping and what not but i guess your right and even when i do pick her up sometimes when she gets mad at me she threatens me to get an uber she says she doesn't need my rides she says she can have other people take her so yeah its pretty weird lol but yeah 3 days have gone by tomorrow makes 4 at what day do you say fuck it and move on?
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Posted by Jakecaca

What do you think I should do?
Posted by pisceanloves
Posted by Jakecaca

What do you mean by OP? Yeah im trying to learn to love myself blocking her out of my mind and trying to push forward but its difficult
Posted by pisceanloves

Please love yourself OP

OP stands for "Original Poster" . Topic creator.

You should do what?? Isn't that crystal clear? She only reaches out whenever she gets hungry, come on now.. She is not interested in you in the slightest. I'm sorry

You gotta move on right now if you have some self respect
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Jakecaca
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right she thinks I’m weak or something she may not be used to a man like myself so she’s probably in shock or in denial and that’s why she’s ghosting me
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She’s so weird for doing this and I understand she’s had a rough life she has 3 kids with 2 different fathers and has had ghetto guys around her all her life so for me to be different it makes sense why sometimes she ghosts me maybe she wants to protect me maybe she thinks I’m too nice ?

She needs therapy. And for now she won't appreciate you because she may not be used to that so she considers you like a weak man or something.

Leave her before she breaks your heart.

But it seems like you dont wanna detach seeing all the red flags anyway.
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Jakecaca
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mean?
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I think your right she thinks I’m weak or something she may not be used to a man like myself so she’s probably in shock or in denial and that’s why she’s ghosting me
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Posted by Jakecaca

She’s so weird for doing this and I understand she’s had a rough life she has 3 kids with 2 different fathers and has had ghetto guys around her all her life so for me to be different it makes sense why sometimes she ghosts me maybe she wants to protect me maybe she thinks I’m too nice ?

She needs therapy. And for now she won't appreciate you because she may not be used to that so she considers you like a weak man or something.

Leave her before she breaks your heart.

But it seems like you dont wanna detach seeing all the red flags anyway.

are you in shock or denial??
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