@Backfromtheashes
7 Years
Leo man and Aries woman .. disaster
Leo Man and Aries Woman Compatibility and Challenges
Leo men and Aries women often share passion and energy but may face conflicts due to dominance and impulsiveness. Their relationship can be exciting yet prone to misunderstandings. Open communication and mutual respect are key to avoiding disaster. Understanding their fiery personalities helps manage conflicts and build a strong connection.
The words don't mean anything
Did you refuse having sex with him?
He sounds very immature...
The words don't mean anything
Did you refuse having sex with him?
He sounds very immature...
I told him I liked him romantically but wasn’t attracted to him physically because he’s a man
The words don't mean anything
Did you refuse having sex with him?
He sounds very immature...
I told him I liked him romantically but wasn’t attracted to him physically because he’s a man
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Romantically implies physically. You need to sort out what it is you really want from him cause you a mess
The words don't mean anything
Did you refuse having sex with him?
He sounds very immature...
I told him I liked him romantically but wasn’t attracted to him physically because he’s a man
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Romantically implies physically. You need to sort out what it is you really want from him cause you a mess
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I really don’t want his d inside of me like I can’t see myself wanting that but I liked making out with him and cuddling. I know it’s confusing. But I did tell him I’d be willing to try it out. One day he’s like we’re JUST friends get over it!!the next he’s trying to make me jealous. Idk whT to do anymore
The words don't mean anything
Did you refuse having sex with him?
He sounds very immature...
I told him I liked him romantically but wasn’t attracted to him physically because he’s a man
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That sounds messy and confusing 🤔
The words don't mean anything
Did you refuse having sex with him?
He sounds very immature...
I told him I liked him romantically but wasn’t attracted to him physically because he’s a man
That sounds messy and confusing 🤔
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It’s an absolute nightmare
The words don't mean anything
Did you refuse having sex with him?
He sounds very immature...
I told him I liked him romantically but wasn’t attracted to him physically because he’s a man
That sounds messy and confusing 🤔
It’s an absolute nightmare
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Then walk away from it....
The words don't mean anything
Did you refuse having sex with him?
He sounds very immature...
I told him I liked him romantically but wasn’t attracted to him physically because he’s a man
That sounds messy and confusing 🤔
It’s an absolute nightmare
Then walk away from it....
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I like him I wanna be with him and only him. He says he only likes me as a friend. Yet calls me every night to hear my voice and gets jealous. Wtf am I supposed to think . I don’t know how to handle this
The words don't mean anything
Did you refuse having sex with him?
He sounds very immature...
I told him I liked him romantically but wasn’t attracted to him physically because he’s a man
That sounds messy and confusing 🤔
It’s an absolute nightmare
Then walk away from it....
I like him I wanna be with him and only him. He says he only likes me as a friend. Yet calls me every night to hear my voice and gets jealous. Wtf am I supposed to think . I don’t know how to handle this
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But you don't want a sexual rship with him .... so just be a good friend
Well, I think you 'ripping him apart' for wanting sex was a bit much...and if* you still want to be his friend, you probably need to apologize.
It sounds though as if he wants to be a friend with benefits...obviously.
Absolutely NOTHING about this situation is “obvious” and you’re an obnoxious delusional know it all if you think otherwise. I didn’t rip him apart for the d pic I want to have sex. I ripped him apart for screwing with my emotions . Duh
Well, I think you 'ripping him apart' for wanting sex was a bit much...and if* you still want to be his friend, you probably need to apologize.
It sounds though as if he wants to be a friend with benefits...obviously.
Absolutely NOTHING about this situation is “obvious” and you’re an obnoxious delusional know it all if you think otherwise. I didn’t rip him apart for the d pic I want to have sex. I ripped him apart for screwing with my emotions . Duh
Oh, okay. Whatever. If that makes sense to you.
Why the name calling geez.
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Because you added “obviously” at the end, insinuating that I was stupid. There wasn’t any need to insult my intelligence especially knowing I’m going through a rough time
Well, I think you 'ripping him apart' for wanting sex was a bit much...and if* you still want to be his friend, you probably need to apologize.
It sounds though as if he wants to be a friend with benefits...obviously.
Absolutely NOTHING about this situation is “obvious” and you’re an obnoxious delusional know it all if you think otherwise. I didn’t rip him apart for the d pic I want to have sex. I ripped him apart for screwing with my emotions . Duh
Oh, okay. Whatever. If that makes sense to you.
Why the name calling geez.
Because you added “obviously” at the end, insinuating that I was stupid. There wasn’t any need to insult my intelligence especially knowing I’m going through a rough time
Ummmm my comment was one of the nicest ones... you OBVIOUSLY missed the other ones that were not very nice, really insulting your stability as human being.
BUT that is none of my business.
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That's pretty much the norm when it comes to this dumbass. She will cuss you out if you don't tell her exactly what she wants to hear in the sweetest way possible.
Sooner than later she will wish you dead. Then she'll get banned, come back after a few months later, rinse repeat. She's a human hamster wheel and she's been at it for ~5 years now, supposedly yoyoing between penis & vagina. I think her natural progression will be something like
Vagina --> Penis --> <-- Vagina --> Bestiality --> Cake farts
Just laugh at her, lock her inside a padded room & move on, there's no point trying to communicate with this beyond-repair nasty creature.
You really need to make this black and white.
To be it a go and stop being confusing.
Even we are confused here.
If you give it 100% shot in a clear way then you can make a clear decision afterwards.
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Well, I think you 'ripping him apart' for wanting sex was a bit much...and if* you still want to be his friend, you probably need to apologize.
It sounds though as if he wants to be a friend with benefits...obviously.
Absolutely NOTHING about this situation is “obvious” and you’re an obnoxious delusional know it all if you think otherwise. I didn’t rip him apart for the d pic I want to have sex. I ripped him apart for screwing with my emotions . Duh
Oh, okay. Whatever. If that makes sense to you.
Why the name calling geez.
Because you added “obviously” at the end, insinuating that I was stupid. There wasn’t any need to insult my intelligence especially knowing I’m going through a rough time
Ummmm my comment was one of the nicest ones... you OBVIOUSLY missed the other ones that were not very nice, really insulting your stability as human being.
BUT that is none of my business.
That's pretty much the norm when it comes to this dumbass. She will cuss you out if you don't tell her exactly what she wants to hear in the sweetest way possible.
Sooner than later she will wish you dead. Then she'll get banned, come back after a few months later, rinse repeat. She's a human hamster wheel and she's been at it for ~5 years now, supposedly yoyoing between penis & vagina. I think her natural progression will be something like
Vagina --> Penis --> <-- Vagina --> Bestiality --> Cake farts
Just laugh at her, lock her inside a padded room & move on, there's no point trying to communicate with this beyond-repair nasty creature.
Woah, well I definitely wouldn't judge her on that level... we all have issues... I was trying to show her it was not nice to name call me if I was trying to help her and on top of that ignoring all these other very f - ed up comments like yours*.
Whether she goes for the V or the P is none of your business....and I'm not even going to ask where the hell you got bestiality because I don't wanna know.
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Hey, thanks for defending me. Idk where he got that either. These comments are definitely hurtful but I consider the source. I can’t imagine how unhappy he must be in real life so I let it slide. I could never treat someone that way
In your last post you did not mention that you identify as a lesbian. That is actually a very important piece of the story to leave out. The Leo probably did not see you as a romantic option in that case. He was more than likely flirting with you playfully (because that is what we Leos do). He did not mean to lead you on, since he did not think you were even attracted to his half of the species. So admitting your romantic feelings as you did was, at best, confusing for him. He probably thinks you're confused as well. Hence why he would say, "Let's stay friends."
Furthermore, just because you have feelings for a person, does not mean the feelings must be returned. As a fixed sign, we Leos do not rush into situations that could affect us negatively. As you have already stated, you are romantically (I assumed that means emotionally) attracted to the Leo, but not physically attracted to him. For the Leo, that is not a situation he can invest emotionally. That would put the Leo in an awkward position that could easily blow up in his face. In his mind starting anything romantic with you would probably only end in hurt feelings.
Also even if he did have feelings for you, once again I would point out that he recently got out of a long term relationship that he is definitely still getting over. Jumping into anything else too quickly will definitely spell disaster in the form of a rebound. There is no point in starting something if he knows it will not end well. Honestly it sounds like the Leo made the safest choice to preserve your friendship.
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Well, I think you 'ripping him apart' for wanting sex was a bit much...and if* you still want to be his friend, you probably need to apologize.
It sounds though as if he wants to be a friend with benefits...obviously.
Absolutely NOTHING about this situation is “obvious” and you’re an obnoxious delusional know it all if you think otherwise. I didn’t rip him apart for the d pic I want to have sex. I ripped him apart for screwing with my emotions . Duh
Oh, okay. Whatever. If that makes sense to you.
Why the name calling geez.
Because you added “obviously” at the end, insinuating that I was stupid. There wasn’t any need to insult my intelligence especially knowing I’m going through a rough time
Ummmm my comment was one of the nicest ones... you OBVIOUSLY missed the other ones that were not very nice, really insulting your stability as human being.
BUT that is none of my business.
That's pretty much the norm when it comes to this dumbass. She will cuss you out if you don't tell her exactly what she wants to hear in the sweetest way possible.
Sooner than later she will wish you dead. Then she'll get banned, come back after a few months later, rinse repeat. She's a human hamster wheel and she's been at it for ~5 years now, supposedly yoyoing between penis & vagina. I think her natural progression will be something like
Vagina --> Penis --> <-- Vagina --> Bestiality --> Cake farts
Just laugh at her, lock her inside a padded room & move on, there's no point trying to communicate with this beyond-repair nasty creature.
Woah, well I definitely wouldn't judge her on that level... we all have issues... I was trying to show her it was not nice to name call me if I was trying to help her and on top of that ignoring all these other very f - ed up comments like yours*.
Whether she goes for the V or the P is none of your business....and I'm not even going to ask where the hell you got bestiality because I don't wanna know.
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I know her far better than you do, that's why I don't bother with fake-niceties and sugarcoating all this crap. I save my sugar & spice for those who deserve it.
And my "fucked up" comment is as tame as a cuddly kitten compared to the stuff other people around here get up to. If this really is your first account here, don't you worry, you'll see plenty if you stick around long enough. You've already gotten a taste of her.
If it's NOT your first account and you've been here before, you oughta be ashamed of yourself for acting all holier than thou, you BAAAAAD girl!
The words don't mean anything
Did you refuse having sex with him?
He sounds very immature...
He sounds more like he haven’t recovered fully and still have mental issues...
Why would anyone put up with this shit? Unless there is time in their hands and need of sickly entertainment? 🤷♀️
In your last post you did not mention that you identify as a lesbian. That is actually a very important piece of the story to leave out. The Leo probably did not see you as a romantic option in that case. He was more than likely flirting with you playfully (because that is what we Leos do). He did not mean to lead you on, since he did not think you were even attracted to his half of the species. So admitting your romantic feelings as you did was, at best, confusing for him. He probably thinks you're confused as well. Hence why he would say, "Let's stay friends."
Furthermore, just because you have feelings for a person, does not mean the feelings must be returned. As a fixed sign, we Leos do not rush into situations that could affect us negatively. As you have already stated, you are romantically (I assumed that means emotionally) attracted to the Leo, but not physically attracted to him. For the Leo, that is not a situation he can invest emotionally. That would put the Leo in an awkward position that could easily blow up in his face. In his mind starting anything romantic with you would probably only end in hurt feelings.
Also even if he did have feelings for you, once again I would point out that he recently got out of a long term relationship that he is definitely still getting over. Jumping into anything else too quickly will definitely spell disaster in the form of a rebound. There is no point in starting something if he knows it will not end well. Honestly it sounds like the Leo made the safest choice to preserve your friendship.
She is clearly a bi...
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Well, I think you 'ripping him apart' for wanting sex was a bit much...and if* you still want to be his friend, you probably need to apologize.
It sounds though as if he wants to be a friend with benefits...obviously.
Absolutely NOTHING about this situation is “obvious” and you’re an obnoxious delusional know it all if you think otherwise. I didn’t rip him apart for the d pic I want to have sex. I ripped him apart for screwing with my emotions . Duh
Oh, okay. Whatever. If that makes sense to you.
Why the name calling geez.
Because you added “obviously” at the end, insinuating that I was stupid. There wasn’t any need to insult my intelligence especially knowing I’m going through a rough time
Ummmm my comment was one of the nicest ones... you OBVIOUSLY missed the other ones that were not very nice, really insulting your stability as human being.
BUT that is none of my business.
That's pretty much the norm when it comes to this dumbass. She will cuss you out if you don't tell her exactly what she wants to hear in the sweetest way possible.
Sooner than later she will wish you dead. Then she'll get banned, come back after a few months later, rinse repeat. She's a human hamster wheel and she's been at it for ~5 years now, supposedly yoyoing between penis & vagina. I think her natural progression will be something like
Vagina --> Penis --> <-- Vagina --> Bestiality --> Cake farts
Just laugh at her, lock her inside a padded room & move on, there's no point trying to communicate with this beyond-repair nasty creature.
Woah, well I definitely wouldn't judge her on that level... we all have issues... I was trying to show her it was not nice to name call me if I was trying to help her and on top of that ignoring all these other very f - ed up comments like yours*.
Whether she goes for the V or the P is none of your business....and I'm not even going to ask where the hell you got bestiality because I don't wanna know.
I know her far better than you do, that's why I don't bother with fake-niceties and sugarcoating all this crap. I save my sugar & spice for those who deserve it.
And my "fucked up" comment is as tame as a cuddly kitten compared to the stuff other people around here get up to. If this really is your first account here, don't you worry, you'll see plenty if you stick around long enough. You've already gotten a taste of her.
If it's NOT your first account and you've been here before, you oughta be ashamed of yourself for acting all holier than thou, you BAAAAAD girl!
Actually, you don’t know me at all. Nor do you even know what I look like. But I know enough about you to know that you’re a really sick, demented evil person. Obviously I’m going through a lot. So rather than be horrible to people all the time, you should try to develop some empathy. I’m far from perfect, but at least I don’t have a rotten soul. Can you say the same?
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Well, I think you 'ripping him apart' for wanting sex was a bit much...and if* you still want to be his friend, you probably need to apologize.
It sounds though as if he wants to be a friend with benefits...obviously.
Absolutely NOTHING about this situation is “obvious” and you’re an obnoxious delusional know it all if you think otherwise. I didn’t rip him apart for the d pic I want to have sex. I ripped him apart for screwing with my emotions . Duh
Oh, okay. Whatever. If that makes sense to you.
Why the name calling geez.
Because you added “obviously” at the end, insinuating that I was stupid. There wasn’t any need to insult my intelligence especially knowing I’m going through a rough time
Ummmm my comment was one of the nicest ones... you OBVIOUSLY missed the other ones that were not very nice, really insulting your stability as human being.
BUT that is none of my business.
That's pretty much the norm when it comes to this dumbass. She will cuss you out if you don't tell her exactly what she wants to hear in the sweetest way possible.
Sooner than later she will wish you dead. Then she'll get banned, come back after a few months later, rinse repeat. She's a human hamster wheel and she's been at it for ~5 years now, supposedly yoyoing between penis & vagina. I think her natural progression will be something like
Vagina --> Penis --> <-- Vagina --> Bestiality --> Cake farts
Just laugh at her, lock her inside a padded room & move on, there's no point trying to communicate with this beyond-repair nasty creature.
Woah, well I definitely wouldn't judge her on that level... we all have issues... I was trying to show her it was not nice to name call me if I was trying to help her and on top of that ignoring all these other very f - ed up comments like yours*.
Whether she goes for the V or the P is none of your business....and I'm not even going to ask where the hell you got bestiality because I don't wanna know.
I know her far better than you do, that's why I don't bother with fake-niceties and sugarcoating all this crap. I save my sugar & spice for those who deserve it.
And my "fucked up" comment is as tame as a cuddly kitten compared to the stuff other people around here get up to. If this really is your first account here, don't you worry, you'll see plenty if you stick around long enough. You've already gotten a taste of her.
If it's NOT your first account and you've been here before, you oughta be ashamed of yourself for acting all holier than thou, you BAAAAAD girl!
your message feels very coded and im not a bad girl, thanks.
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I wanna thank you again for standing up for me and I apologize for the rude things I said before to you. You’re a sweetheart. The world, and certainly this website could use more people like yourself ❤️
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Well, I think you 'ripping him apart' for wanting sex was a bit much...and if* you still want to be his friend, you probably need to apologize.
It sounds though as if he wants to be a friend with benefits...obviously.
Absolutely NOTHING about this situation is “obvious” and you’re an obnoxious delusional know it all if you think otherwise. I didn’t rip him apart for the d pic I want to have sex. I ripped him apart for screwing with my emotions . Duh
Oh, okay. Whatever. If that makes sense to you.
Why the name calling geez.
Because you added “obviously” at the end, insinuating that I was stupid. There wasn’t any need to insult my intelligence especially knowing I’m going through a rough time
Ummmm my comment was one of the nicest ones... you OBVIOUSLY missed the other ones that were not very nice, really insulting your stability as human being.
BUT that is none of my business.
That's pretty much the norm when it comes to this dumbass. She will cuss you out if you don't tell her exactly what she wants to hear in the sweetest way possible.
Sooner than later she will wish you dead. Then she'll get banned, come back after a few months later, rinse repeat. She's a human hamster wheel and she's been at it for ~5 years now, supposedly yoyoing between penis & vagina. I think her natural progression will be something like
Vagina --> Penis --> <-- Vagina --> Bestiality --> Cake farts
Just laugh at her, lock her inside a padded room & move on, there's no point trying to communicate with this beyond-repair nasty creature.
Woah, well I definitely wouldn't judge her on that level... we all have issues... I was trying to show her it was not nice to name call me if I was trying to help her and on top of that ignoring all these other very f - ed up comments like yours*.
Whether she goes for the V or the P is none of your business....and I'm not even going to ask where the hell you got bestiality because I don't wanna know.
I know her far better than you do, that's why I don't bother with fake-niceties and sugarcoating all this crap. I save my sugar & spice for those who deserve it.
And my "fucked up" comment is as tame as a cuddly kitten compared to the stuff other people around here get up to. If this really is your first account here, don't you worry, you'll see plenty if you stick around long enough. You've already gotten a taste of her.
If it's NOT your first account and you've been here before, you oughta be ashamed of yourself for acting all holier than thou, you BAAAAAD girl!
your message feels very coded and im not a bad girl, thanks.
I wanna thank you again for standing up for me and I apologize for the rude things I said before to you. You’re a sweetheart. The world, and certainly this website could use more people like yourself ❤️
if you say so -_- my guard is up with you.. hope it all workout for you.
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That’s fine lol. You’ll never meet me anyway. I still appreciate your advice. But I will say, if you’re gonna believe what that trolls saying about me it says a lot about you. I’d urge you to consider the source.
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Well, I think you 'ripping him apart' for wanting sex was a bit much...and if* you still want to be his friend, you probably need to apologize.
It sounds though as if he wants to be a friend with benefits...obviously.
Absolutely NOTHING about this situation is “obvious” and you’re an obnoxious delusional know it all if you think otherwise. I didn’t rip him apart for the d pic I want to have sex. I ripped him apart for screwing with my emotions . Duh
Oh, okay. Whatever. If that makes sense to you.
Why the name calling geez.
Because you added “obviously” at the end, insinuating that I was stupid. There wasn’t any need to insult my intelligence especially knowing I’m going through a rough time
Ummmm my comment was one of the nicest ones... you OBVIOUSLY missed the other ones that were not very nice, really insulting your stability as human being.
BUT that is none of my business.
That's pretty much the norm when it comes to this dumbass. She will cuss you out if you don't tell her exactly what she wants to hear in the sweetest way possible.
Sooner than later she will wish you dead. Then she'll get banned, come back after a few months later, rinse repeat. She's a human hamster wheel and she's been at it for ~5 years now, supposedly yoyoing between penis & vagina. I think her natural progression will be something like
Vagina --> Penis --> <-- Vagina --> Bestiality --> Cake farts
Just laugh at her, lock her inside a padded room & move on, there's no point trying to communicate with this beyond-repair nasty creature.
Woah, well I definitely wouldn't judge her on that level... we all have issues... I was trying to show her it was not nice to name call me if I was trying to help her and on top of that ignoring all these other very f - ed up comments like yours*.
Whether she goes for the V or the P is none of your business....and I'm not even going to ask where the hell you got bestiality because I don't wanna know.
I know her far better than you do, that's why I don't bother with fake-niceties and sugarcoating all this crap. I save my sugar & spice for those who deserve it.
And my "fucked up" comment is as tame as a cuddly kitten compared to the stuff other people around here get up to. If this really is your first account here, don't you worry, you'll see plenty if you stick around long enough. You've already gotten a taste of her.
If it's NOT your first account and you've been here before, you oughta be ashamed of yourself for acting all holier than thou, you BAAAAAD girl!
your message feels very coded and im not a bad girl, thanks.
I wanna thank you again for standing up for me and I apologize for the rude things I said before to you. You’re a sweetheart. The world, and certainly this website could use more people like yourself ❤️
if you say so -_- my guard is up with you.. hope it all workout for you.
That’s fine lol. You’ll never meet me anyway. I still appreciate your advice. But I will say, if you’re gonna believe what that trolls saying about me it says a lot about you. I’d urge you to consider the source.
im not considering anything sweetheart. whatever you and him have going on is none of my business... as in the guy with the half naked avatar... im like third party here.
as for you and your friend well.. i hope it works out. it should be a compliment that he wants to sleep with you in my opinion. its like if a girl wanted to sleep with me, i would never* but i would take it as a compliment.
but ur situation is different because you like him... so its ultimately your choice, you already told him off, so I feel bad for him too. sending naked pics is a gift in my onion too.
but i don't know him, you* do... so all i said is if you still want to be friends with him and apology would be nice... then maybe he will apologize too for whatever he did that irritated you.
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Yea true. I actually could do the naked
Pics it’s not a bad idea. At this point I wanna start dressing really girly and insisting we are JUST friends so he tries to chase me. I think he feels like being with me would be settling so I need to show and remind him that I’m worth the chase yanno
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Well, I think you 'ripping him apart' for wanting sex was a bit much...and if* you still want to be his friend, you probably need to apologize.
It sounds though as if he wants to be a friend with benefits...obviously.
Absolutely NOTHING about this situation is “obvious” and you’re an obnoxious delusional know it all if you think otherwise. I didn’t rip him apart for the d pic I want to have sex. I ripped him apart for screwing with my emotions . Duh
Oh, okay. Whatever. If that makes sense to you.
Why the name calling geez.
Because you added “obviously” at the end, insinuating that I was stupid. There wasn’t any need to insult my intelligence especially knowing I’m going through a rough time
Ummmm my comment was one of the nicest ones... you OBVIOUSLY missed the other ones that were not very nice, really insulting your stability as human being.
BUT that is none of my business.
That's pretty much the norm when it comes to this dumbass. She will cuss you out if you don't tell her exactly what she wants to hear in the sweetest way possible.
Sooner than later she will wish you dead. Then she'll get banned, come back after a few months later, rinse repeat. She's a human hamster wheel and she's been at it for ~5 years now, supposedly yoyoing between penis & vagina. I think her natural progression will be something like
Vagina --> Penis --> <-- Vagina --> Bestiality --> Cake farts
Just laugh at her, lock her inside a padded room & move on, there's no point trying to communicate with this beyond-repair nasty creature.
Woah, well I definitely wouldn't judge her on that level... we all have issues... I was trying to show her it was not nice to name call me if I was trying to help her and on top of that ignoring all these other very f - ed up comments like yours*.
Whether she goes for the V or the P is none of your business....and I'm not even going to ask where the hell you got bestiality because I don't wanna know.
I know her far better than you do, that's why I don't bother with fake-niceties and sugarcoating all this crap. I save my sugar & spice for those who deserve it.
And my "fucked up" comment is as tame as a cuddly kitten compared to the stuff other people around here get up to. If this really is your first account here, don't you worry, you'll see plenty if you stick around long enough. You've already gotten a taste of her.
If it's NOT your first account and you've been here before, you oughta be ashamed of yourself for acting all holier than thou, you BAAAAAD girl!
your message feels very coded and im not a bad girl, thanks.
I wanna thank you again for standing up for me and I apologize for the rude things I said before to you. You’re a sweetheart. The world, and certainly this website could use more people like yourself ❤️
if you say so -_- my guard is up with you.. hope it all workout for you.
That’s fine lol. You’ll never meet me anyway. I still appreciate your advice. But I will say, if you’re gonna believe what that trolls saying about me it says a lot about you. I’d urge you to consider the source.
im not considering anything sweetheart. whatever you and him have going on is none of my business... as in the guy with the half naked avatar... im like third party here.
as for you and your friend well.. i hope it works out. it should be a compliment that he wants to sleep with you in my opinion. its like if a girl wanted to sleep with me, i would never* but i would take it as a compliment.
but ur situation is different because you like him... so its ultimately your choice, you already told him off, so I feel bad for him too. sending naked pics is a gift in my onion too.
but i don't know him, you* do... so all i said is if you still want to be friends with him and apology would be nice... then maybe he will apologize too for whatever he did that irritated you.
Yea true. I actually could do the naked
Pics it’s not a bad idea. At this point I wanna start dressing really girly and insisting we are JUST friends so he tries to chase me. I think he feels like being with me would be settling so I need to show and remind him that I’m worth the chase yanno
As long as all that makes sense to you 🤣🤣
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Absolutely none of it does 😂 I’m just along for the ride
In your last post you did not mention that you identify as a lesbian. That is actually a very important piece of the story to leave out. The Leo probably did not see you as a romantic option in that case. He was more than likely flirting with you playfully (because that is what we Leos do). He did not mean to lead you on, since he did not think you were even attracted to his half of the species. So admitting your romantic feelings as you did was, at best, confusing for him. He probably thinks you're confused as well. Hence why he would say, "Let's stay friends."
Furthermore, just because you have feelings for a person, does not mean the feelings must be returned. As a fixed sign, we Leos do not rush into situations that could affect us negatively. As you have already stated, you are romantically (I assumed that means emotionally) attracted to the Leo, but not physically attracted to him. For the Leo, that is not a situation he can invest emotionally. That would put the Leo in an awkward position that could easily blow up in his face. In his mind starting anything romantic with you would probably only end in hurt feelings.
Also even if he did have feelings for you, once again I would point out that he recently got out of a long term relationship that he is definitely still getting over. Jumping into anything else too quickly will definitely spell disaster in the form of a rebound. There is no point in starting something if he knows it will not end well. Honestly it sounds like the Leo made the safest choice to preserve your friendship.
She is clearly a bi...
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Understandable, but she said that she identifies as lesbian, which makes her sound confused. If she's confused, then the Leo is also definitely confused.
In your last post you did not mention that you identify as a lesbian. That is actually a very important piece of the story to leave out. The Leo probably did not see you as a romantic option in that case. He was more than likely flirting with you playfully (because that is what we Leos do). He did not mean to lead you on, since he did not think you were even attracted to his half of the species. So admitting your romantic feelings as you did was, at best, confusing for him. He probably thinks you're confused as well. Hence why he would say, "Let's stay friends."
Furthermore, just because you have feelings for a person, does not mean the feelings must be returned. As a fixed sign, we Leos do not rush into situations that could affect us negatively. As you have already stated, you are romantically (I assumed that means emotionally) attracted to the Leo, but not physically attracted to him. For the Leo, that is not a situation he can invest emotionally. That would put the Leo in an awkward position that could easily blow up in his face. In his mind starting anything romantic with you would probably only end in hurt feelings.
Also even if he did have feelings for you, once again I would point out that he recently got out of a long term relationship that he is definitely still getting over. Jumping into anything else too quickly will definitely spell disaster in the form of a rebound. There is no point in starting something if he knows it will not end well. Honestly it sounds like the Leo made the safest choice to preserve your friendship.
She is clearly a bi...
Understandable, but she said that she identifies as lesbian, which makes her sound confused. If she's confused, then the Leo is also definitely confused.
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All I’m sure of is I’m confused. And that I have feelings for him
In your last post you did not mention that you identify as a lesbian. That is actually a very important piece of the story to leave out. The Leo probably did not see you as a romantic option in that case. He was more than likely flirting with you playfully (because that is what we Leos do). He did not mean to lead you on, since he did not think you were even attracted to his half of the species. So admitting your romantic feelings as you did was, at best, confusing for him. He probably thinks you're confused as well. Hence why he would say, "Let's stay friends."
Furthermore, just because you have feelings for a person, does not mean the feelings must be returned. As a fixed sign, we Leos do not rush into situations that could affect us negatively. As you have already stated, you are romantically (I assumed that means emotionally) attracted to the Leo, but not physically attracted to him. For the Leo, that is not a situation he can invest emotionally. That would put the Leo in an awkward position that could easily blow up in his face. In his mind starting anything romantic with you would probably only end in hurt feelings.
Also even if he did have feelings for you, once again I would point out that he recently got out of a long term relationship that he is definitely still getting over. Jumping into anything else too quickly will definitely spell disaster in the form of a rebound. There is no point in starting something if he knows it will not end well. Honestly it sounds like the Leo made the safest choice to preserve your friendship.
She is clearly a bi...
Understandable, but she said that she identifies as lesbian, which makes her sound confused. If she's confused, then the Leo is also definitely confused.
All I’m sure of is I’m confused. And that I have feelings for him
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You should read my last response on page 2 if you haven't already. There's really not much you can expect from him given the information that you've given.
In your last post you did not mention that you identify as a lesbian. That is actually a very important piece of the story to leave out. The Leo probably did not see you as a romantic option in that case. He was more than likely flirting with you playfully (because that is what we Leos do). He did not mean to lead you on, since he did not think you were even attracted to his half of the species. So admitting your romantic feelings as you did was, at best, confusing for him. He probably thinks you're confused as well. Hence why he would say, "Let's stay friends."
Furthermore, just because you have feelings for a person, does not mean the feelings must be returned. As a fixed sign, we Leos do not rush into situations that could affect us negatively. As you have already stated, you are romantically (I assumed that means emotionally) attracted to the Leo, but not physically attracted to him. For the Leo, that is not a situation he can invest emotionally. That would put the Leo in an awkward position that could easily blow up in his face. In his mind starting anything romantic with you would probably only end in hurt feelings.
Also even if he did have feelings for you, once again I would point out that he recently got out of a long term relationship that he is definitely still getting over. Jumping into anything else too quickly will definitely spell disaster in the form of a rebound. There is no point in starting something if he knows it will not end well. Honestly it sounds like the Leo made the safest choice to preserve your friendship.
Okay agreed.... so why did he call me last night saying he wants to be inside me so bad? I didn’t take the bait though, told him we’re just friends cause that’s what HE wanted. No more bipolar flip-floppery.
In your last post you did not mention that you identify as a lesbian. That is actually a very important piece of the story to leave out. The Leo probably did not see you as a romantic option in that case. He was more than likely flirting with you playfully (because that is what we Leos do). He did not mean to lead you on, since he did not think you were even attracted to his half of the species. So admitting your romantic feelings as you did was, at best, confusing for him. He probably thinks you're confused as well. Hence why he would say, "Let's stay friends."
Furthermore, just because you have feelings for a person, does not mean the feelings must be returned. As a fixed sign, we Leos do not rush into situations that could affect us negatively. As you have already stated, you are romantically (I assumed that means emotionally) attracted to the Leo, but not physically attracted to him. For the Leo, that is not a situation he can invest emotionally. That would put the Leo in an awkward position that could easily blow up in his face. In his mind starting anything romantic with you would probably only end in hurt feelings.
Also even if he did have feelings for you, once again I would point out that he recently got out of a long term relationship that he is definitely still getting over. Jumping into anything else too quickly will definitely spell disaster in the form of a rebound. There is no point in starting something if he knows it will not end well. Honestly it sounds like the Leo made the safest choice to preserve your friendship.
Okay agreed.... so why did he call me last night saying he wants to be inside me so bad? I didn’t take the bait though, told him we’re just friends cause that’s what HE wanted. No more bipolar flip-floppery.
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It's possible that he changed his mind once he had time to think about it. You can't ignore the fact that there was no way for him to know about your feelings for him if you stated that you were only interested in women. Likewise, if you're emotionally attracted to him, but not physically attracted, what could he really do in that scenario?
That being said, he could be testing your reaction to his statement of "wanting to be inside of you". For Leo men, the physical connection is important. He may not believe that you're actually attracted to him sexually, so he's seeing how you respond to his advances. Granted he did this in a dumb way, but Leos are nothing if not direct. Basically he's seeing if you're bluffing or serious.
In your last post you did not mention that you identify as a lesbian. That is actually a very important piece of the story to leave out. The Leo probably did not see you as a romantic option in that case. He was more than likely flirting with you playfully (because that is what we Leos do). He did not mean to lead you on, since he did not think you were even attracted to his half of the species. So admitting your romantic feelings as you did was, at best, confusing for him. He probably thinks you're confused as well. Hence why he would say, "Let's stay friends."
Furthermore, just because you have feelings for a person, does not mean the feelings must be returned. As a fixed sign, we Leos do not rush into situations that could affect us negatively. As you have already stated, you are romantically (I assumed that means emotionally) attracted to the Leo, but not physically attracted to him. For the Leo, that is not a situation he can invest emotionally. That would put the Leo in an awkward position that could easily blow up in his face. In his mind starting anything romantic with you would probably only end in hurt feelings.
Also even if he did have feelings for you, once again I would point out that he recently got out of a long term relationship that he is definitely still getting over. Jumping into anything else too quickly will definitely spell disaster in the form of a rebound. There is no point in starting something if he knows it will not end well. Honestly it sounds like the Leo made the safest choice to preserve your friendship.
Okay agreed.... so why did he call me last night saying he wants to be inside me so bad? I didn’t take the bait though, told him we’re just friends cause that’s what HE wanted. No more bipolar flip-floppery.
It's possible that he changed his mind once he had time to think about it. You can't ignore the fact that there was no way for him to know about your feelings for him if you stated that you were only interested in women. Likewise, if you're emotionally attracted to him, but not physically attracted, what could he really do in that scenario?
That being said, he could be testing your reaction to his statement of "wanting to be inside of you". For Leo men, the physical connection is important. He may not believe that you're actually attracted to him sexually, so he's seeing how you respond to his advances. Granted he did this in a dumb way, but Leos are nothing if not direct. Basically he's seeing if you're bluffing or serious.
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This was a very well thought out, well written response and I really appreciate it. The truth is between him wanting to just be friends and then statements like last night, he’s all over the place. Until he’s sure of his feelings I’m not saying mine. I liked that he wanted me and I secretly want him so bad. But I will continue to reject him until his behavior is consistent. Then and only then will I reveal to him the truth
In your last post you did not mention that you identify as a lesbian. That is actually a very important piece of the story to leave out. The Leo probably did not see you as a romantic option in that case. He was more than likely flirting with you playfully (because that is what we Leos do). He did not mean to lead you on, since he did not think you were even attracted to his half of the species. So admitting your romantic feelings as you did was, at best, confusing for him. He probably thinks you're confused as well. Hence why he would say, "Let's stay friends."
Furthermore, just because you have feelings for a person, does not mean the feelings must be returned. As a fixed sign, we Leos do not rush into situations that could affect us negatively. As you have already stated, you are romantically (I assumed that means emotionally) attracted to the Leo, but not physically attracted to him. For the Leo, that is not a situation he can invest emotionally. That would put the Leo in an awkward position that could easily blow up in his face. In his mind starting anything romantic with you would probably only end in hurt feelings.
Also even if he did have feelings for you, once again I would point out that he recently got out of a long term relationship that he is definitely still getting over. Jumping into anything else too quickly will definitely spell disaster in the form of a rebound. There is no point in starting something if he knows it will not end well. Honestly it sounds like the Leo made the safest choice to preserve your friendship.
Okay agreed.... so why did he call me last night saying he wants to be inside me so bad? I didn’t take the bait though, told him we’re just friends cause that’s what HE wanted. No more bipolar flip-floppery.
It's possible that he changed his mind once he had time to think about it. You can't ignore the fact that there was no way for him to know about your feelings for him if you stated that you were only interested in women. Likewise, if you're emotionally attracted to him, but not physically attracted, what could he really do in that scenario?
That being said, he could be testing your reaction to his statement of "wanting to be inside of you". For Leo men, the physical connection is important. He may not believe that you're actually attracted to him sexually, so he's seeing how you respond to his advances. Granted he did this in a dumb way, but Leos are nothing if not direct. Basically he's seeing if you're bluffing or serious.
This was a very well thought out, well written response and I really appreciate it. The truth is between him wanting to just be friends and then statements like last night, he’s all over the place. Until he’s sure of his feelings I’m not saying mine. I liked that he wanted me and I secretly want him so bad. But I will continue to reject him until his behavior is consistent. Then and only then will I reveal to him the truth
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He probably thinks that you're also being inconsistent. You told him that you can't be just his friend, which clearly means you want something more. Now he's offering you something more, but you're ignoring him. That doesn't add up. You can't expect him to push something that you initiated. From his point of view:
1. He flirted with you knowing that it wouldn't go anywhere because you like women.
2, You expressed your romantic feelings. Not sure what to say, he responded "Let's be friends."
3. You told him that you couldn't be just friends, and walked away upset.
4, He came back basically saying he wants to hook up.
The ball is in your court. If the tables were reversed and you came back after friendzoning him, it would be up to him to turn things around. Ignoring him will only make things more complicated. He'll eventually think that you were unable to handle the situation OR that you weren't serious in the first place.
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I should perhaps preface this by saying that for the past 4 years or so I’ve identified as lesbian. However recently a kid I went to school with, let’s call him Tim, has managed to capture my heart. As you can imagine it’s been VERY confusing.
Long story short we went to school upstate about 8 years ago when we first met and currently live about 45 mins away from each other. Recently he was in a coma for 11 days caused by seizures and also broke up with his long term gf of 4 years.
We started talking again, in the beginning he was crazy about me. Calling be babe beautiful all this. Then we saw each other again and insisted he only wanted to be friends. Yet he sent me a dck pic and told me he lied about talking to other chicks to make me jealous and would call me every night just to hear my voice, sometimes we would talk for hours. We texted all day every day.
Today we got in a huge fight because he’s back to just wanting to be friends and claims that’s all he wanted all along when the other night he was trying to convince me to have sx w him. So I ripped him apart and told him to never talk to me again. Can ANYONE make sense of this ?!