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For those who have nerves not to follow my love life I will repeat.

I am with Aries since 10/3 and he had not missed one morning to wake me up with (Internet) flowers and funny messages, and he keeps in touch in any way possible during the day...

He already told me he want me to be his better half...and we are building foundation...to our future together.

So a few weeks ago he mentioned to his 13 y/old son that he is seeing a lady...and a few days ago he told his mother about me.

And yesterday we had a date and he told me ‘I really want to be with you? What do you say? Are feelings mutual?’

I said yes.

He said he understands my married cituation but he will wait and I am free to take my time. He will wait until my divorce is final...and even after that and yes he wants me to move in with him and his son.

It feels good and I am feeling like a woman for a change...

So how do I keep it all going? What’s the right stuff to do? Same that I was doing before or he suspecting some changes since it’s all said and agreed upon...

Darn! I am shocked...
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aries likes competition. i guess just keep making things exciting and everything will go well 🙂


He never asked about other men in my life until he did ask...and he said ‘I want to be with you’ like no matter what...we are still talking. Every minute and I am surprised! Thanks for input...❤️
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Feels so normal👋
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What happened with the Scorpio ❤ of your life?.


Honestly! He is working his ways and any minute or second he will say come to me forever...I would run as wounded in my ass whatever animal I am at that moment.

There is no match or competition👿.

However...mark my words...if I get my Aries true with me...Scorpio can kiss my ass!!!
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That is sooooooooo the right answer sunshine!!!. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏All the best with Aries boy lady. 🤗😁🥂
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How long you and Aries been doing your thing? In my very honest experience they will " ask you to marry them" with the first year of meeting you. Because they NEVER think things through I would try stick it out with him for at least after a year to see how his true feels come out.


We’ve just met in October but he hadn’t missed a day of communicating to me. It’s like I know everything aboit him! We are shopping for his new apartment together online and his mother said ‘it’s sounds serious...’We we’re laughing at her wanting to know more than she should.

And there is really nothing much to think trough. I can move in and we will be happy family. However I am not moving in just yet.

The only thing we never discussed was my job. And financial part though he is absolutely sure man must take care of everything so...maybe we wouldn’t discuss that. Lol
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How long you and Aries been doing your thing? In my very honest experience they will " ask you to marry them" with the first year of meeting you. Because they NEVER think things through I would try stick it out with him for at least after a year to see how his true feels come out.


We’ve just met in October but he hadn’t missed a day of communicating to me. It’s like I know everything aboit him! We are shopping for his new apartment together online and his mother said ‘it’s sounds serious...’We we’re laughing at her wanting to know more than she should.

And there is really nothing much to think trough. I can move in and we will be happy family. However I am not moving in just yet.

The only thing we never discussed was my job. And financial part though he is absolutely sure man must take care of everything so...maybe we wouldn’t discuss that. Lol
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Be aware that as fast and hot the Aries flame burns the slightest wind blows out the fire x
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How long you and Aries been doing your thing? In my very honest experience they will " ask you to marry them" with the first year of meeting you. Because they NEVER think things through I would try stick it out with him for at least after a year to see how his true feels come out.


We’ve just met in October but he hadn’t missed a day of communicating to me. It’s like I know everything aboit him! We are shopping for his new apartment together online and his mother said ‘it’s sounds serious...’We we’re laughing at her wanting to know more than she should.

And there is really nothing much to think trough. I can move in and we will be happy family. However I am not moving in just yet.

The only thing we never discussed was my job. And financial part though he is absolutely sure man must take care of everything so...maybe we wouldn’t discuss that. Lol


Be aware that as fast and hot the Aries flame burns the slightest wind blows out the fire x
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So I’ve heard but so far I had not seen his bad side but he must have one right?

No. Actually he dumped me for the text message I had written so it sounded like an insult. But he came back and let me explain.

Then he told me if I ever be unhappy with him for whatever reason ‘please let me explain before you’ll leave me. Promise?’

That was great to read. So...who knows really? Just wondering...
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How long you and Aries been doing your thing? In my very honest experience they will " ask you to marry them" with the first year of meeting you. Because they NEVER think things through I would try stick it out with him for at least after a year to see how his true feels come out.


We’ve just met in October but he hadn’t missed a day of communicating to me. It’s like I know everything aboit him! We are shopping for his new apartment together online and his mother said ‘it’s sounds serious...’We we’re laughing at her wanting to know more than she should.

And there is really nothing much to think trough. I can move in and we will be happy family. However I am not moving in just yet.

The only thing we never discussed was my job. And financial part though he is absolutely sure man must take care of everything so...maybe we wouldn’t discuss that. Lol


Be aware that as fast and hot the Aries flame burns the slightest wind blows out the fire x


So I’ve heard but so far I had not seen his bad side but he must have one right?

No. Actually he dumped me for the text message I had written so it sounded like an insult. But he came back and let me explain.

Then he told me if I ever be unhappy with him for whatever reason ‘please let me explain before you’ll leave me. Promise?’

That was great to read. So...who knows really? Just wondering...
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Has he told you he wished he met you xx years ago. Then he and you would be married. That he would of fathered your children yet?
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How long you and Aries been doing your thing? In my very honest experience they will " ask you to marry them" with the first year of meeting you. Because they NEVER think things through I would try stick it out with him for at least after a year to see how his true feels come out.


We’ve just met in October but he hadn’t missed a day of communicating to me. It’s like I know everything aboit him! We are shopping for his new apartment together online and his mother said ‘it’s sounds serious...’We we’re laughing at her wanting to know more than she should.

And there is really nothing much to think trough. I can move in and we will be happy family. However I am not moving in just yet.

The only thing we never discussed was my job. And financial part though he is absolutely sure man must take care of everything so...maybe we wouldn’t discuss that. Lol


Be aware that as fast and hot the Aries flame burns the slightest wind blows out the fire x


So I’ve heard but so far I had not seen his bad side but he must have one right?

No. Actually he dumped me for the text message I had written so it sounded like an insult. But he came back and let me explain.

Then he told me if I ever be unhappy with him for whatever reason ‘please let me explain before you’ll leave me. Promise?’

That was great to read. So...who knows really? Just wondering...


Has he told you he wished he met you xx years ago. Then he and you would be married. That he would of fathered your children yet?
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Nope! He is a musician and he had wild life until at 40! he got married.

We don’t talk romantic busshit.

Few staples like ‘I am attracted to you. Want you to be my better half. Why are you supposed to be married? I want to be with you. We are going to spend a lot of time at that kitchen! I hope you are sticking by my side...’

About it. The rest is fun and hysterical about music, politics, his family, food, being fat...etc.

I think you meant if he is bullshitting me into whatever. There is not really a reason for that. I don’t see any. I’ve menrioned Christmas and not decorating and he said next year we are going to be decorating together.

I though it was good saying about sticking together without mushy crap. I don’t do ‘romance’ well...
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How long you and Aries been doing your thing? In my very honest experience they will " ask you to marry them" with the first year of meeting you. Because they NEVER think things through I would try stick it out with him for at least after a year to see how his true feels come out.


We’ve just met in October but he hadn’t missed a day of communicating to me. It’s like I know everything aboit him! We are shopping for his new apartment together online and his mother said ‘it’s sounds serious...’We we’re laughing at her wanting to know more than she should.

And there is really nothing much to think trough. I can move in and we will be happy family. However I am not moving in just yet.

The only thing we never discussed was my job. And financial part though he is absolutely sure man must take care of everything so...maybe we wouldn’t discuss that. Lol


Be aware that as fast and hot the Aries flame burns the slightest wind blows out the fire x


So I’ve heard but so far I had not seen his bad side but he must have one right?

No. Actually he dumped me for the text message I had written so it sounded like an insult. But he came back and let me explain.

Then he told me if I ever be unhappy with him for whatever reason ‘please let me explain before you’ll leave me. Promise?’

That was great to read. So...who knows really? Just wondering...


Has he told you he wished he met you xx years ago. Then he and you would be married. That he would of fathered your children yet?


Nope! He is a musician and he had wild life until at 40! he got married.

We don’t talk romantic busshit.

Few staples like ‘I am attracted to you. Want you to be my better half. Why are you supposed to be married? I want to be with you. We are going to spend a lot of time at that kitchen! I hope you are sticking by my side...’

About it. The rest is fun and hysterical about music, politics, his family, food, being fat...etc.

I think you meant if he is bullshitting me into whatever. There is not really a reason for that. I don’t see any. I’ve menrioned Christmas and not decorating and he said next year we are going to be decorating together.

I though it was good saying about sticking together without mushy crap. I don’t do ‘romance’ well...
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Ah ok. I thought i read or skimmed read somewhere on the site in posts he is a lot younger than you? And also read somewhere i think you are in your 50's? What piece of the puzzle am i missing? How much younger is much younger if he is in his 40's now?
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How long you and Aries been doing your thing? In my very honest experience they will " ask you to marry them" with the first year of meeting you. Because they NEVER think things through I would try stick it out with him for at least after a year to see how his true feels come out.


We’ve just met in October but he hadn’t missed a day of communicating to me. It’s like I know everything aboit him! We are shopping for his new apartment together online and his mother said ‘it’s sounds serious...’We we’re laughing at her wanting to know more than she should.

And there is really nothing much to think trough. I can move in and we will be happy family. However I am not moving in just yet.

The only thing we never discussed was my job. And financial part though he is absolutely sure man must take care of everything so...maybe we wouldn’t discuss that. Lol


Be aware that as fast and hot the Aries flame burns the slightest wind blows out the fire x


So I’ve heard but so far I had not seen his bad side but he must have one right?

No. Actually he dumped me for the text message I had written so it sounded like an insult. But he came back and let me explain.

Then he told me if I ever be unhappy with him for whatever reason ‘please let me explain before you’ll leave me. Promise?’

That was great to read. So...who knows really? Just wondering...


Has he told you he wished he met you xx years ago. Then he and you would be married. That he would of fathered your children yet?


Nope! He is a musician and he had wild life until at 40! he got married.

We don’t talk romantic busshit.

Few staples like ‘I am attracted to you. Want you to be my better half. Why are you supposed to be married? I want to be with you. We are going to spend a lot of time at that kitchen! I hope you are sticking by my side...’

About it. The rest is fun and hysterical about music, politics, his family, food, being fat...etc.

I think you meant if he is bullshitting me into whatever. There is not really a reason for that. I don’t see any. I’ve menrioned Christmas and not decorating and he said next year we are going to be decorating together.

I though it was good saying about sticking together without mushy crap. I don’t do ‘romance’ well...


Ah ok. I thought i read or skimmed read somewhere on the site in posts he is a lot younger than you? And also read somewhere i think you are in your 50's? What piece of the puzzle am i missing? How much younger is much younger if he is in his 40's now?
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"And also read somewhere i think you are in your 50's? What piece of the puzzle am i missing? How much younger is much younger if he is in his 40's now?"

he is just 2 years younger, I dont know why Gemi insist on mentioning "he is younger" at all 🙂
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How long you and Aries been doing your thing? In my very honest experience they will " ask you to marry them" with the first year of meeting you. Because they NEVER think things through I would try stick it out with him for at least after a year to see how his true feels come out.


We’ve just met in October but he hadn’t missed a day of communicating to me. It’s like I know everything aboit him! We are shopping for his new apartment together online and his mother said ‘it’s sounds serious...’We we’re laughing at her wanting to know more than she should.

And there is really nothing much to think trough. I can move in and we will be happy family. However I am not moving in just yet.

The only thing we never discussed was my job. And financial part though he is absolutely sure man must take care of everything so...maybe we wouldn’t discuss that. Lol


Be aware that as fast and hot the Aries flame burns the slightest wind blows out the fire x


So I’ve heard but so far I had not seen his bad side but he must have one right?

No. Actually he dumped me for the text message I had written so it sounded like an insult. But he came back and let me explain.

Then he told me if I ever be unhappy with him for whatever reason ‘please let me explain before you’ll leave me. Promise?’

That was great to read. So...who knows really? Just wondering...


Has he told you he wished he met you xx years ago. Then he and you would be married. That he would of fathered your children yet?


Nope! He is a musician and he had wild life until at 40! he got married.

We don’t talk romantic busshit.

Few staples like ‘I am attracted to you. Want you to be my better half. Why are you supposed to be married? I want to be with you. We are going to spend a lot of time at that kitchen! I hope you are sticking by my side...’

About it. The rest is fun and hysterical about music, politics, his family, food, being fat...etc.

I think you meant if he is bullshitting me into whatever. There is not really a reason for that. I don’t see any. I’ve menrioned Christmas and not decorating and he said next year we are going to be decorating together.

I though it was good saying about sticking together without mushy crap. I don’t do ‘romance’ well...


Ah ok. I thought i read or skimmed read somewhere on the site in posts he is a lot younger than you? And also read somewhere i think you are in your 50's? What piece of the puzzle am i missing? How much younger is much younger if he is in his 40's now?
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Nooooo! Lol

He is 50 to my 52 but my husband is 63 and I’ve always dated older so 2 years younger who acting like 23 is bit over my head! Lol

I told him he is only serious during sex and he said because fucking is a serious business! Lmao

He makes me laugh! Like I forgot how.
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How long you and Aries been doing your thing? In my very honest experience they will " ask you to marry them" with the first year of meeting you. Because they NEVER think things through I would try stick it out with him for at least after a year to see how his true feels come out.


We’ve just met in October but he hadn’t missed a day of communicating to me. It’s like I know everything aboit him! We are shopping for his new apartment together online and his mother said ‘it’s sounds serious...’We we’re laughing at her wanting to know more than she should.

And there is really nothing much to think trough. I can move in and we will be happy family. However I am not moving in just yet.

The only thing we never discussed was my job. And financial part though he is absolutely sure man must take care of everything so...maybe we wouldn’t discuss that. Lol


Be aware that as fast and hot the Aries flame burns the slightest wind blows out the fire x


So I’ve heard but so far I had not seen his bad side but he must have one right?

No. Actually he dumped me for the text message I had written so it sounded like an insult. But he came back and let me explain.

Then he told me if I ever be unhappy with him for whatever reason ‘please let me explain before you’ll leave me. Promise?’

That was great to read. So...who knows really? Just wondering...


Has he told you he wished he met you xx years ago. Then he and you would be married. That he would of fathered your children yet?


Nope! He is a musician and he had wild life until at 40! he got married.

We don’t talk romantic busshit.

Few staples like ‘I am attracted to you. Want you to be my better half. Why are you supposed to be married? I want to be with you. We are going to spend a lot of time at that kitchen! I hope you are sticking by my side...’

About it. The rest is fun and hysterical about music, politics, his family, food, being fat...etc.

I think you meant if he is bullshitting me into whatever. There is not really a reason for that. I don’t see any. I’ve menrioned Christmas and not decorating and he said next year we are going to be decorating together.

I though it was good saying about sticking together without mushy crap. I don’t do ‘romance’ well...


Ah ok. I thought i read or skimmed read somewhere on the site in posts he is a lot younger than you? And also read somewhere i think you are in your 50's? What piece of the puzzle am i missing? How much younger is much younger if he is in his 40's now?


"And also read somewhere i think you are in your 50's? What piece of the puzzle am i missing? How much younger is much younger if he is in his 40's now?"

he is just 2 years younger, I dont know why Gemi insist on mentioning "he is younger" at all 🙂

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Lol.ah ok. Thanks 😂😂
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How long you and Aries been doing your thing? In my very honest experience they will " ask you to marry them" with the first year of meeting you. Because they NEVER think things through I would try stick it out with him for at least after a year to see how his true feels come out.


We’ve just met in October but he hadn’t missed a day of communicating to me. It’s like I know everything aboit him! We are shopping for his new apartment together online and his mother said ‘it’s sounds serious...’We we’re laughing at her wanting to know more than she should.

And there is really nothing much to think trough. I can move in and we will be happy family. However I am not moving in just yet.

The only thing we never discussed was my job. And financial part though he is absolutely sure man must take care of everything so...maybe we wouldn’t discuss that. Lol


Be aware that as fast and hot the Aries flame burns the slightest wind blows out the fire x


So I’ve heard but so far I had not seen his bad side but he must have one right?

No. Actually he dumped me for the text message I had written so it sounded like an insult. But he came back and let me explain.

Then he told me if I ever be unhappy with him for whatever reason ‘please let me explain before you’ll leave me. Promise?’

That was great to read. So...who knows really? Just wondering...


Has he told you he wished he met you xx years ago. Then he and you would be married. That he would of fathered your children yet?


Nope! He is a musician and he had wild life until at 40! he got married.

We don’t talk romantic busshit.

Few staples like ‘I am attracted to you. Want you to be my better half. Why are you supposed to be married? I want to be with you. We are going to spend a lot of time at that kitchen! I hope you are sticking by my side...’

About it. The rest is fun and hysterical about music, politics, his family, food, being fat...etc.

I think you meant if he is bullshitting me into whatever. There is not really a reason for that. I don’t see any. I’ve menrioned Christmas and not decorating and he said next year we are going to be decorating together.

I though it was good saying about sticking together without mushy crap. I don’t do ‘romance’ well...


Ah ok. I thought i read or skimmed read somewhere on the site in posts he is a lot younger than you? And also read somewhere i think you are in your 50's? What piece of the puzzle am i missing? How much younger is much younger if he is in his 40's now?


Nooooo! Lol

He is 50 to my 52 but my husband is 63 and I’ve always dated older so 2 years younger who acting like 23 is bit over my head! Lol

I told him he is only serious during sex and he said because fucking is a serious business! Lmao

He makes me laugh! Like I forgot how.
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Lol i was getting the impression hecwas at least over 10 years younger. Bloody hell... drama lol
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How long you and Aries been doing your thing? In my very honest experience they will " ask you to marry them" with the first year of meeting you. Because they NEVER think things through I would try stick it out with him for at least after a year to see how his true feels come out.


We’ve just met in October but he hadn’t missed a day of communicating to me. It’s like I know everything aboit him! We are shopping for his new apartment together online and his mother said ‘it’s sounds serious...’We we’re laughing at her wanting to know more than she should.

And there is really nothing much to think trough. I can move in and we will be happy family. However I am not moving in just yet.

The only thing we never discussed was my job. And financial part though he is absolutely sure man must take care of everything so...maybe we wouldn’t discuss that. Lol


Be aware that as fast and hot the Aries flame burns the slightest wind blows out the fire x


So I’ve heard but so far I had not seen his bad side but he must have one right?

No. Actually he dumped me for the text message I had written so it sounded like an insult. But he came back and let me explain.

Then he told me if I ever be unhappy with him for whatever reason ‘please let me explain before you’ll leave me. Promise?’

That was great to read. So...who knows really? Just wondering...


Has he told you he wished he met you xx years ago. Then he and you would be married. That he would of fathered your children yet?


Nope! He is a musician and he had wild life until at 40! he got married.

We don’t talk romantic busshit.

Few staples like ‘I am attracted to you. Want you to be my better half. Why are you supposed to be married? I want to be with you. We are going to spend a lot of time at that kitchen! I hope you are sticking by my side...’

About it. The rest is fun and hysterical about music, politics, his family, food, being fat...etc.

I think you meant if he is bullshitting me into whatever. There is not really a reason for that. I don’t see any. I’ve menrioned Christmas and not decorating and he said next year we are going to be decorating together.

I though it was good saying about sticking together without mushy crap. I don’t do ‘romance’ well...


Ah ok. I thought i read or skimmed read somewhere on the site in posts he is a lot younger than you? And also read somewhere i think you are in your 50's? What piece of the puzzle am i missing? How much younger is much younger if he is in his 40's now?


Nooooo! Lol

He is 50 to my 52 but my husband is 63 and I’ve always dated older so 2 years younger who acting like 23 is bit over my head! Lol

I told him he is only serious during sex and he said because fucking is a serious business! Lmao

He makes me laugh! Like I forgot how.


Lol i was getting the impression hecwas at least over 10 years younger. Bloody hell... drama lol
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Changing negative 63 to a positive 50 seems like...world of difference...to me anyway. 🤷‍♀️
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How long you and Aries been doing your thing? In my very honest experience they will " ask you to marry them" with the first year of meeting you. Because they NEVER think things through I would try stick it out with him for at least after a year to see how his true feels come out.


We’ve just met in October but he hadn’t missed a day of communicating to me. It’s like I know everything aboit him! We are shopping for his new apartment together online and his mother said ‘it’s sounds serious...’We we’re laughing at her wanting to know more than she should.

And there is really nothing much to think trough. I can move in and we will be happy family. However I am not moving in just yet.

The only thing we never discussed was my job. And financial part though he is absolutely sure man must take care of everything so...maybe we wouldn’t discuss that. Lol


Be aware that as fast and hot the Aries flame burns the slightest wind blows out the fire x


So I’ve heard but so far I had not seen his bad side but he must have one right?

No. Actually he dumped me for the text message I had written so it sounded like an insult. But he came back and let me explain.

Then he told me if I ever be unhappy with him for whatever reason ‘please let me explain before you’ll leave me. Promise?’

That was great to read. So...who knows really? Just wondering...


Has he told you he wished he met you xx years ago. Then he and you would be married. That he would of fathered your children yet?


Nope! He is a musician and he had wild life until at 40! he got married.

We don’t talk romantic busshit.

Few staples like ‘I am attracted to you. Want you to be my better half. Why are you supposed to be married? I want to be with you. We are going to spend a lot of time at that kitchen! I hope you are sticking by my side...’

About it. The rest is fun and hysterical about music, politics, his family, food, being fat...etc.

I think you meant if he is bullshitting me into whatever. There is not really a reason for that. I don’t see any. I’ve menrioned Christmas and not decorating and he said next year we are going to be decorating together.

I though it was good saying about sticking together without mushy crap. I don’t do ‘romance’ well...


Ah ok. I thought i read or skimmed read somewhere on the site in posts he is a lot younger than you? And also read somewhere i think you are in your 50's? What piece of the puzzle am i missing? How much younger is much younger if he is in his 40's now?


"And also read somewhere i think you are in your 50's? What piece of the puzzle am i missing? How much younger is much younger if he is in his 40's now?"

he is just 2 years younger, I dont know why Gemi insist on mentioning "he is younger" at all 🙂

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I don’t know...I am feeling loke he needs to be breastfed and burp...having some motherly feelings for him. Weeeeird af!
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How long you and Aries been doing your thing? In my very honest experience they will " ask you to marry them" with the first year of meeting you. Because they NEVER think things through I would try stick it out with him for at least after a year to see how his true feels come out.


We’ve just met in October but he hadn’t missed a day of communicating to me. It’s like I know everything aboit him! We are shopping for his new apartment together online and his mother said ‘it’s sounds serious...’We we’re laughing at her wanting to know more than she should.

And there is really nothing much to think trough. I can move in and we will be happy family. However I am not moving in just yet.

The only thing we never discussed was my job. And financial part though he is absolutely sure man must take care of everything so...maybe we wouldn’t discuss that. Lol


Be aware that as fast and hot the Aries flame burns the slightest wind blows out the fire x


So I’ve heard but so far I had not seen his bad side but he must have one right?

No. Actually he dumped me for the text message I had written so it sounded like an insult. But he came back and let me explain.

Then he told me if I ever be unhappy with him for whatever reason ‘please let me explain before you’ll leave me. Promise?’

That was great to read. So...who knows really? Just wondering...


Has he told you he wished he met you xx years ago. Then he and you would be married. That he would of fathered your children yet?


Nope! He is a musician and he had wild life until at 40! he got married.

We don’t talk romantic busshit.

Few staples like ‘I am attracted to you. Want you to be my better half. Why are you supposed to be married? I want to be with you. We are going to spend a lot of time at that kitchen! I hope you are sticking by my side...’

About it. The rest is fun and hysterical about music, politics, his family, food, being fat...etc.

I think you meant if he is bullshitting me into whatever. There is not really a reason for that. I don’t see any. I’ve menrioned Christmas and not decorating and he said next year we are going to be decorating together.

I though it was good saying about sticking together without mushy crap. I don’t do ‘romance’ well...


Ah ok. I thought i read or skimmed read somewhere on the site in posts he is a lot younger than you? And also read somewhere i think you are in your 50's? What piece of the puzzle am i missing? How much younger is much younger if he is in his 40's now?


"And also read somewhere i think you are in your 50's? What piece of the puzzle am i missing? How much younger is much younger if he is in his 40's now?"

he is just 2 years younger, I dont know why Gemi insist on mentioning "he is younger" at all 🙂




I don’t know...I am feeling loke he needs to be breastfed and burp...having some motherly feelings for him. Weeeeird af!
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"I don’t know...I am feeling loke he needs to be breastfed and burp...having some motherly feelings for him. Weeeeird af! "

maybe because you forgot, how partnership works, its like this. You go together and choose furniture, you talk about plans, you TALK fullstop, you have sex regularly.... partners

you just dwell unnecessarily on that "good woman" thing, which is bsh 🙂

its good finally someone makes you laugh and feel alive and 25! not a day older 🙂
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How long you and Aries been doing your thing? In my very honest experience they will " ask you to marry them" with the first year of meeting you. Because they NEVER think things through I would try stick it out with him for at least after a year to see how his true feels come out.


We’ve just met in October but he hadn’t missed a day of communicating to me. It’s like I know everything aboit him! We are shopping for his new apartment together online and his mother said ‘it’s sounds serious...’We we’re laughing at her wanting to know more than she should.

And there is really nothing much to think trough. I can move in and we will be happy family. However I am not moving in just yet.

The only thing we never discussed was my job. And financial part though he is absolutely sure man must take care of everything so...maybe we wouldn’t discuss that. Lol


Be aware that as fast and hot the Aries flame burns the slightest wind blows out the fire x


So I’ve heard but so far I had not seen his bad side but he must have one right?

No. Actually he dumped me for the text message I had written so it sounded like an insult. But he came back and let me explain.

Then he told me if I ever be unhappy with him for whatever reason ‘please let me explain before you’ll leave me. Promise?’

That was great to read. So...who knows really? Just wondering...


Has he told you he wished he met you xx years ago. Then he and you would be married. That he would of fathered your children yet?


Nope! He is a musician and he had wild life until at 40! he got married.

We don’t talk romantic busshit.

Few staples like ‘I am attracted to you. Want you to be my better half. Why are you supposed to be married? I want to be with you. We are going to spend a lot of time at that kitchen! I hope you are sticking by my side...’

About it. The rest is fun and hysterical about music, politics, his family, food, being fat...etc.

I think you meant if he is bullshitting me into whatever. There is not really a reason for that. I don’t see any. I’ve menrioned Christmas and not decorating and he said next year we are going to be decorating together.

I though it was good saying about sticking together without mushy crap. I don’t do ‘romance’ well...


Ah ok. I thought i read or skimmed read somewhere on the site in posts he is a lot younger than you? And also read somewhere i think you are in your 50's? What piece of the puzzle am i missing? How much younger is much younger if he is in his 40's now?


"And also read somewhere i think you are in your 50's? What piece of the puzzle am i missing? How much younger is much younger if he is in his 40's now?"

he is just 2 years younger, I dont know why Gemi insist on mentioning "he is younger" at all 🙂




I don’t know...I am feeling loke he needs to be breastfed and burp...having some motherly feelings for him. Weeeeird af!


"I don’t know...I am feeling loke he needs to be breastfed and burp...having some motherly feelings for him. Weeeeird af! "

maybe because you forgot, how partnership works, its like this. You go together and choose furniture, you talk about plans, you TALK fullstop, you have sex regularly.... partners

you just dwell unnecessarily on that "good woman" thing, which is bsh 🙂

its good finally someone makes you laugh and feel alive and 25! not a day older 🙂
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You are the soul of Dxp. Thanks.

I just told him I am freaking out and he sent me this

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Well...divorce was filed this morning.

I was freaking out a bit...

I told Aries that I am in a blue mood.

He asked why. I said because by popular opinion men want taken women...

He said it’s men who want to date only so they looking for no strings attached. We are fine.

And then he talked to me for an hour about all sorts of shit...probably distracting me and making me laugh...

So tell me something refreshing that I don’t know! Lol
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who filed divorce ?


It was mutual. But my husband is the plaintiff but I keeping house. Of course we are staying in unless someone has a reason to move. We paying it off to leave it to our child...

Why? Does it matter?
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congratulations, I didn't expect to see that happen tbh

I think you'll both be better off like that too
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who filed divorce ?


It was mutual. But my husband is the plaintiff but I keeping house. Of course we are staying in unless someone has a reason to move. We paying it off to leave it to our child...

Why? Does it matter?

congratulations, I didn't expect to see that happen tbh

I think you'll both be better off like that too
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I felt bad for him but after his revelation about cheating on me...that ‘sorry’ went right in a window!
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i didn't see this coming either. just couple of days ago i wanted to tell you it's more likely that biology will make you single rather than you getting a divorce. 😂

but cool that's finally happening, and it seems you agreed on everything. both staying in the house sounds weird but ok.


What biology would make me single? Silly...

And no. My bedroom is on the opposite end and we had been living like that for years!

We don’t hate each other. All is the same. I made him breakfast after we came back from the court house...

We are talking when nessesary.

So...no, it’s not weird. Trust me.

Ever had a tenant? Same shit...lol
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i didn't see this coming either. just couple of days ago i wanted to tell you it's more likely that biology will make you single rather than you getting a divorce. 😂

but cool that's finally happening, and it seems you agreed on everything. both staying in the house sounds weird but ok.


What biology would make me single? Silly...

And no. My bedroom is on the opposite end and we had been living like that for years!

We don’t hate each other. All is the same. I made him breakfast after we came back from the court house...

We are talking when nessesary.

So...no, it’s not weird. Trust me.

Ever had a tenant? Same shit...lol

you know the biology, he is older, so in some years it's more likely for him to meet his creator.

lmao so it's cool then! 🍻
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My husband? Lol

His father is 90 and every dinner he has a drink and goes on driving him CRAZY! So...I am probably going first so I need DIVORCE! Lmao
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i didn't see this coming either. just couple of days ago i wanted to tell you it's more likely that biology will make you single rather than you getting a divorce. 😂

but cool that's finally happening, and it seems you agreed on everything. both staying in the house sounds weird but ok.


What biology would make me single? Silly...

And no. My bedroom is on the opposite end and we had been living like that for years!

We don’t hate each other. All is the same. I made him breakfast after we came back from the court house...

We are talking when nessesary.

So...no, it’s not weird. Trust me.

Ever had a tenant? Same shit...lol

you know the biology, he is older, so in some years it's more likely for him to meet his creator.

lmao so it's cool then! 🍻


My husband? Lol

His father is 90 and every dinner he has a drink and goes on driving him CRAZY! So...I am probably going first so I need DIVORCE! Lmao

😂
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Those Caps are hard to get rid of you know...so are Cancers (FIL) Lol
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who filed divorce ?


It was mutual. But my husband is the plaintiff but I keeping house. Of course we are staying in unless someone has a reason to move. We paying it off to leave it to our child...

Why? Does it matter?

congratulations, I didn't expect to see that happen tbh

I think you'll both be better off like that too


I felt bad for him but after his revelation about cheating on me...that ‘sorry’ went right in a window!


he cheated on you with who and when?

lol caps cheat, good on him
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His friends SIL who is dead now while we were happily married and now he Is finding comfort in his ex who cheated on him always. Now she gives him advising on how to...whatever it is she is offering...I have NO idea.

And he told me about SIL when I was already deep into Scorp and frankly I didn’t give a shit...lol
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I think the best thing you can do with the Aries is COUPLES THERAPY

You’re coming out of that crap marriage and had a toxic affair with the scorpio

You can go together to learn how to keep buikding the foundation.


He said we are building it. And I don’t believe in therapy. Specially with person we are having fun 24/7.

What would I come and say? We are so good together. Please fix it and make it go away?
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