Advice about this Aries Crush

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DiamondGemini
@diamonddgemm
7 YearsGemini

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So I have a crush on this Aries guy I met two weeks ago on Tinder. But I had to cancel on him several times due to multiple issues arising and I think his ego got hurt and he is loosing interest. So any advice would be helpful.

He’s basically been chasing me ever since, talking to me, adding me on social media and asking me out. He is really handsome and intriguing. And we have several things in common. At first he sad he’s not looking for anything specific just to see what happens, no expectations. We were supposed to meet last Sunday, but I had to cancel on him two hours before because I had an emotional breakdown due to some issues I was having. He asked me to meet and talk about it, but I rejected him. However we kept talking. We decided to hang out again several days later, but he cancelled on me, first saying he had work and was tired, then mentioning I canceled on him last time. Ego hurt much. So I got mad and told him I’m not interested. But of course, since I am a gem, several days later I changed my mind. I think I overreacted a bit. Anyway we had a chat and he said he finds me hot and beautiful and wants to fuck and that he doesn’t have any expectations but he wants sex and to be friends and hang out and do stuff together. He also mentioned that he doesn’t know if he wants to date me or likes me for that since we haven’t met, which is understandable and I agree. So well we had an honest and straightforward talk about that and decided to meet yesterday. But again I could not go because the subway station was blocked due to an accident, so I could not get there. We tried to find a way but nothing worked out. He told me to get an Uber, then to split the Uber then to pay for the whole ride which was expensive. So I said no. I mean it was really nice for him to offer, but the ride price was too expensive for my budget and I did not want to take advantage of him. I like to pay for myself. So I told him that and I believe he got mad because he kinda stopped texting me. He is still checking what I post on social media and snapped me back today, but that’s it.

And I really like him and I’d really like to meet. And it is really annoying because I haven’t liked anyone in such a long time. Any advice? Should I just ignore him for a couple of days? I liked when he was chasing me and I wanna be chased again hahaha

Also, I forgot to mention that he might be a so called fuck boy. He’s been talking about sex and he is obsessed with his dick, he even snapped me a photo. So he might not be worth it? Idk, what to do you think??

No judgments please and sorry for the long post . His placements are: Aries Sun, Virgo Moon, Pisces Mars and Mercury and Aries Venus.

Thanks x
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IamTheRam
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"I wanna be chased again" lool this one made me smile 🙂

I really didn't understood what was your question tbh lol

But what you are doing it's great ! Just don't let him see that you *might be insecure* about meeting him (and then the *chase* wold be over) and you will do fine.

Aries like *crazy women*, and Gemini women are as crazy as they come lol so this is a very good match up, one of the best for Aries and Gemini ^^ So keep doing what you are doing.

If he wants you, and you know how to tease him, you will be fine with post poning things...as long as you don't let him see what's inside of you since its just 2 weeks. So keep the crazy thing !

Just be the *typical masculine sun sign crazy* type of women and all will go smooth xD (it wont go smooth at all tbh..it will be a huge mess lolol but a very good one ^^ and thats what Aries like ^^)

I got similar placements like this guy, and when younger, I once walked in for 2 hours in complete pouring rain just to play majhong with a woman at 5am in the morning...haha

The best part was me giving the finger to the passing cars as they *wonk* when passing by me haha hey...i was a very happy man and on a mission...and we got to do what we got to do 😆

When you feel that you are ready, and if he wants to pay for it, take it. ^^

Just do things when you feel you are ready for it. If he really wants you, he will allways wait for you.
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DiamondGemini
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7 YearsGemini

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Yeah haha around 2 weeks time. Well my goal is not to play games all the time, I’d rather play games in bed than fuck our minds out haha. I don’t know if I want a relationship cuz I don’t know him yet, but fucking him would be nice as long as we’re friends and get along well and respect each other. I’m afraid he might be the typical fuckboy who leaves you and acts like a dick afterward 🙈 How do I prevent that from happening?
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All this went down in 2 damn weeks gurl—

Well aries and geminis are fantastic at head games.

You're doing great if that's your goal.

He will be back once hes done with an easier target.