Any Aries and Leo experiences to share?

Just wondering how it goes between in the seduction phase, romance, daily life, sex life and why you stay together or break up !!

Don't forget to say which is the male and female 🙂

Share away! 😛

i hung out with one recently...its really up in the air at this point. Alot of chemitry and attraction but im afraid that thats all that there.

Posted by Leo1212
Just wondering how it goes between in the seduction phase, romance, daily life, sex life and why you stay together or break up !!

Don't forget to say which is the male and female 🙂

Share away! 😛

There should be a Aries/Leo club on the board here. We should get matching jackets lol I'm an Aries female who's interested in Leo male. Here is what I've derived from my and other people's experiences:

Aries are very straightforward and tell it as it is. We also don't play head games. If we like you then we constantly communicate, make effort to see you, we are all in, we're affectionate and sexual. There is no pull/push or control issues. Sometimes we can rush things and move too fast. But we won't sulk much if you tell us to ease up on things.

Leos tend to play games, have ego and control issues, can appear/disappear in communication, do push/pull, play head and sexual control games. Anything can be taken the wrong way and overanalyzed to death.

For success: Leos should learn to share and communicate on constant basis. A quick "hi" is enough to keep an Aries happy. We don't like to looong convos but need to feel wanted. Aries need to slow down and let Leo take a little control. Sex will be good as long as both partners agree on when and where to meet. Leos should just simply stop playing controlling head games. If that stops and you become straightforward then it'll be a good match. Aries are fun and like to tease, therefore Leos need to be not so sensitive and playfully tease back.

I'm an Aries female and I dated a Leo male for a little more than a year. He had a sweet, romantic, and giving personality. Things were good between us for the most part, but he had a belief that men are "the boss" in any relationship that didn't sit well with me. Eventually his belief caused our demise.
Not sure if that was a Leo thing or just a him thing.

Posted by purplerain
I'm an Aries female and I dated a Leo male for a little more than a year. He had a sweet, romantic, and giving personality. Things were good between us for the most part, but he had a belief that men are "the boss" in any relationship that didn't sit well with me. Eventually his belief caused our demise.
Not sure if that was a Leo thing or just a him thing.

The control issue seems to be the most predominant for the duration of Aries woman/Leo man relationship. In the beginning - the issue is different communication style s.

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Posted by purplerain
I'm an Aries female and I dated a Leo male for a little more than a year. He had a sweet, romantic, and giving personality. Things were good between us for the most part, but he had a belief that men are "the boss" in any relationship that didn't sit well with me. Eventually his belief caused our demise.
Not sure if that was a Leo thing or just a him thing.

The control issue seems to be the most predominant for the duration of Aries woman/Leo man relationship. In the beginning - the issue is different communication style s.

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Yes ^^^^ Makes perfect sense to me. I do remember communication being somewhat of an issue in the beginning, but the control issue was by far our biggest issue and a deal breaker for me.

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Posted by purplerain
I'm an Aries female and I dated a Leo male for a little more than a year. He had a sweet, romantic, and giving personality. Things were good between us for the most part, but he had a belief that men are "the boss" in any relationship that didn't sit well with me. Eventually his belief caused our demise.
Not sure if that was a Leo thing or just a him thing.

The control issue seems to be the most predominant for the duration of Aries woman/Leo man relationship. In the beginning - the issue is different communication style s.

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Leo males find it hard to deal with Aries women because we are independent and can come over like we don't need them. We like to control things and that doesn't sit well with leo men who see themselves as the boss in the relationship. Our direct approach can conflict with Leo's and the ego stroking is hard to maintain for Aries women who get bored easily. In the bedroom it's 10/10 though lol

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Posted by purplerain
I'm an Aries female and I dated a Leo male for a little more than a year. He had a sweet, romantic, and giving personality. Things were good between us for the most part, but he had a belief that men are "the boss" in any relationship that didn't sit well with me. Eventually his belief caused our demise.
Not sure if that was a Leo thing or just a him thing.

The control issue seems to be the most predominant for the duration of Aries woman/Leo man relationship. In the beginning - the issue is different communication style s.

Yes ^^^^ Makes perfect sense to me. I do remember communication being somewhat of an issue in the beginning, but the control issue was by far our biggest issue and a deal breaker for me.

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Yes Purple, sometimes relinquishing control and independence feels like too much of a compromise lol

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Posted by purplerain
I'm an Aries female and I dated a Leo male for a little more than a year. He had a sweet, romantic, and giving personality. Things were good between us for the most part, but he had a belief that men are "the boss" in any relationship that didn't sit well with me. Eventually his belief caused our demise.
Not sure if that was a Leo thing or just a him thing.

The control issue seems to be the most predominant for the duration of Aries woman/Leo man relationship. In the beginning - the issue is different communication style s.

+1
Leo males find it hard to deal with Aries women because we are independent and can come over like we don't need them. We like to control things and that doesn't sit well with leo men who see themselves as the boss in the relationship. Our direct approach can conflict with Leo's and the ego stroking is hard to maintain for Aries women who get bored easily. In the bedroom it's 10/10 though lol

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Agreed 110% !! lol

That fucking ego of theirs...

I'm okay being friends with them. I don't think I could do a relationship though. I'm not into feeding raging egos.

do their egos come out only when they are dating? My leo coworker doesnt have a huge ego at all. Seems really humble. I like his presence. He wanted to make out before when he was on break with his girl, I declined cuz I saw him as a friend. Ive recently become slightly attracted to him but ill never go there. i like having him as my friend.

the dude i hng out with had a big one tho. But it seemed like he was trying to impress me inthe wrong way. le sigh

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Posted by bkbella86
do their egos come out only when they are dating? My leo coworker doesnt have a huge ego at all. Seems really humble. I like his presence. He wanted to make out before when he was on break with his girl, I declined cuz I saw him as a friend. Ive recently become slightly attracted to him but ill never go there. i like having him as my friend.

I'm not sure. Of the three that I knew of that were mellow and humble, one pursued me romantically and he was cliiiiingy as eff. That ego may pop up with them, but I dunno.

The others that I knew had those egos that always got in the way. They were cool people, just... that ego, omg.

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why so short winded?

Aries female... have dated three Leo males.

The first one was my first love. He had a Cancer moon and man did we fight. Constant bickering. That was a roller coaster to say the least... at least in the beginning. Then it kind of just we down south... it felt like we were a boring married couple. He did have a lot of control for a while because I was madly in love but the less I felt appreciated the more my love died until one day it was poof gone.

Second, eh... just like the first in that he was full of himself except he was BORING, no sort of mental stimulation, very debonair and hot but snooze fest... he had a scorp moon.

Third, he was a gem. Sagittarius mooner. But honestly we were just made for a best friends relationship. Definitely, still my best friend to this day. But he's a different breed,

Leo and Aries can work... there is a lot of head butting... one will have to concede and I feel like it's always usually Aries.

This is the 4un sign I dated the most and have had the longest relationships with.

I feel like I could be my full unadultered self with Leo men (and Cap men). Being with a Leo man was like never having to say I'm sorry.

Even Leo cusper... Leo/Virgo and Cancer/Leo cusps are wonderful to me.

I like me who are bigger than life...strong egos. They make me laugh, make me blush. I'm very fun loving and they let me do my thing...turndownforwhat?

My husband is a Leo/Virgo cusper... he's on the very cusp where sometimes he's considered a Leo, most times a Virgo.

The only bad thing I can say is that together it can get sinfully hedonistic. Have so much decadence and sensual overload I feel guilty...a pleasure hangover involving all senses.

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cmon pm

why so short winded?

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Some times things are better left unsaid... 🙂

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My BF is a Leo, WOW they have ego's and are super sensetive.(do not hurt there feels, when they hurt yours they see it as honesty. When you do it, they take it as being stabbed in the heart). They feel like they are the TOP lion in the jungle and want to command everything. lol
You have two leaders in one relationship and the Aries likes to be in control also. I think an Aries with a career or job they are the boss, makes this relationship easier. This way you are in control M-F or more and it's ok to go home and let someone else be in control.
The Leo is the only sign I feel more feminine, that fighter war god part of me seems to go away and I get girly.
Leo's are very sensual and soft at the same time, mines sings Kelly Clarkson songs in the shower and is into Usher, Treyz Song, very sensual R&B.
I think they have a bipolar tendency also, their brain never slows down and they over analize alot.

Aries seem to never take the hard road and we like a challenge, we may tend to like this sign because they never bore us. We hate being bored!

You will butt heads a lot, the Aries ends up giving up a lot of control..... But we feed off the energy of that Leo SUN.....

The kisses are amazing, the softness when they show it is spectacular, and they love to cuddle.

You know each time I read about Aries W. and Leo M. I feel like you guys are just so much of a handful hat you'll just drain my energy away. Feels like the astrological sites describe this relationship as a perpetual competition of sort. Any truth to this?

Posted by Leo1212
You know each time I read about Aries W. and Leo M. I feel like you guys are just so much of a handful hat you'll just drain my energy away. Feels like the astrological sites describe this relationship as a perpetual competition of sort. Any truth to this?

Yeah it does feel like a competition because it hinges on control. As an Aries I control all aspects of my life plus the men in my life whether they are work colleagues, family or boyfriends. Maybe it's manipulation idk, but if they allow me to control them, deep down I see them as weak.

The leo I know is the only man I cannot do that with and it proves very frustrating, then because we are not in control we don't like it, and can get demanding hence maybe the drain in energy for Leo's coz they're like "where the fook did these demands come from?" Lol

Leo guys stand up to Aries women and don't take their shit because there is only room for one man in a relationship lol and it has to the the Leo, no argument, no discussion. Like angiepants says, leo is the only "real man" I would submit to.

saggi leo works better

Posted by Leo1212
You know each time I read about Aries W. and Leo M. I feel like you guys are just so much of a handful hat you'll just drain my energy away. Feels like the astrological sites describe this relationship as a perpetual competition of sort. Any truth to this?

I wouldnt say this is the case for all Aries women. I am very laid back, for example, and my ex Leo was also very laid back. He wasnt the loud boisterous typical Leo though you could tell when you looked at him that he felt dignified. His apparance would show it..
I never new I was attracted to metrosexual until I met him lol

I learned a lot about fashion, clothes and luxury just by being with him.. and he wouldnt have it any other way..

Posted by Leo1212
You know each time I read about Aries W. and Leo M. I feel like you guys are just so much of a handful hat you'll just drain my energy away. Feels like the astrological sites describe this relationship as a perpetual competition of sort. Any truth to this?

yup seems that way. im pretty laid back but even so i feel like leo is always in comp

The thing that I think would annoy me about dating or maybe friendship with an aries woman is that I feel I would always be running around the town doing whatever! I love being able to be home and relax but from all i read about that sign it just doesn't seem to be something they do or enjoy in their partners.

Plus, I somewhat feel that everything would be some sort of competition leading to butting heads for no good reasons. I prefer giving up my "power" to focus on "love" but is that possible for a strong aries woman?

Posted by Leo1212
The thing that I think would annoy me about dating or maybe friendship with an aries woman is that I feel I would always be running around the town doing whatever! I love being able to be home and relax but from all i read about that sign it just doesn't seem to be something they do or enjoy in their partners.

Plus, I somewhat feel that everything would be some sort of competition leading to butting heads for no good reasons. I prefer giving up my "power" to focus on "love" but is that possible for a strong aries woman?

Yes of course Aries women can relax. Yes we are dominant but not all the time and for the right man, we will relax, give up power and want them to take charge, make decisions etc. That doesn't mean however, that we want to don an apron and start being a skivvy.
Sometimes we do butt heads but its all about healthy competition and rivalry - whats wrong with that? as long as its fun - usually its the leo men who cannot cope with this!

Aries women are sometimes portayed as being "difficult" but it takes a special man to handle us. I saw an interesting article about us which I've pasted:

At some point in time she might be the only person you could turn to in all situations. She is someone whom you could totally depend on and rely on even in the worst possible times of your life. She might be the only person you might think of in such situations that will not let you down. When "backs are to the wall" and there is no one to support you, the Aries will always defend the underdog, with heroic courage. There need be no others on her side. She will also be the person who will feel your pain and share your happiness.

The most important thing that you must remember is that you shouldn't underestimate her in any way. She is made up of strong substance. She is stronger than you, and if you need her, just call her she will come. She will not give up easily and she will only relax when she has achieved what she had set her mind on. Don't doubt her or take away her liberty and freedom and she will respect your trust and faith in her and will remain loyal and confident in you. She will also do nothing that might harm the confidence you have in her.

This to me is what Aries is about. She will be there for you if you can put your pride aside and show that you are worth it.

Posted by Leo1212
The thing that I think would annoy me about dating or maybe friendship with an aries woman is that I feel I would always be running around the town doing whatever! I love being able to be home and relax but from all i read about that sign it just doesn't seem to be something they do or enjoy in their partners.

Plus, I somewhat feel that everything would be some sort of competition leading to butting heads for no good reasons. I prefer giving up my "power" to focus on "love" but is that possible for a strong aries woman?

Yes it is possible. The Leo I'm talking to now is full of pride. Way more than me. I can put mine aside, I'm wondering if he can do the same.

@bkbella86 @AriesGirl74 That makes sense! Its about partnership in the end! The thing that's difficult for me to understand is this need for excitement and this boredom complex. I was reading this on a site

"At first if you play games with them, they seem to be interested and like it but then it gets boring. Aries women and Aries in general Do get bored easily, so it might seem fun in the begging, but you'll have to find new ways to make them feel alive. They like mysterious men so the more mysterious you are the more they're actually drawn to you and that's the only thing they won't get bored with. You can be mysterious at all times and they'll be hunting you nonstop! =) "

So what bores an aries woman in relationships and how is it fixed?

Posted by Leo1212
@bkbella86 @AriesGirl74 That makes sense! Its about partnership in the end! The thing that's difficult for me to understand is this need for excitement and this boredom complex. I was reading this on a site

"At first if you play games with them, they seem to be interested and like it but then it gets boring. Aries women and Aries in general Do get bored easily, so it might seem fun in the begging, but you'll have to find new ways to make them feel alive. They like mysterious men so the more mysterious you are the more they're actually drawn to you and that's the only thing they won't get bored with. You can be mysterious at all times and they'll be hunting you nonstop! =) "

So what bores an aries woman in relationships and how is it fixed?

the games bore me after a while. I find that they prevent a real deep connection from forming. But i only meet game players. Its always a battle for the upperhand and control. A guy who wants a real connection wouldnt bore me.

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Posted by Leo1212
@bkbella86 @AriesGirl74 That makes sense! Its about partnership in the end! The thing that's difficult for me to understand is this need for excitement and this boredom complex. I was reading this on a site

"At first if you play games with them, they seem to be interested and like it but then it gets boring. Aries women and Aries in general Do get bored easily, so it might seem fun in the begging, but you'll have to find new ways to make them feel alive. They like mysterious men so the more mysterious you are the more they're actually drawn to you and that's the only thing they won't get bored with. You can be mysterious at all times and they'll be hunting you nonstop! =) "

So what bores an aries woman in relationships and how is it fixed?

the games bore me after a while. I find that they prevent a real deep connection from forming. But i only meet game players. Its always a battle for the upperhand and control. A guy who wants a real connection wouldnt bore me.

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I think too much is made of Aries and their game playing; I also wouldn't agree that you constantly have to find new ways to make us feel alive - that is a tall order for any person!! It does depend on the maturity level of the Aries. Yes we are enthusiastic in the beginning of a relationship/friendship/task but we get bored if we get nothing back - that is the key.

You can be mysterious AND supportive I think. To me, the mysterious bit might work in the chase part, but it has to be backed up with some sincerity about stuff or we will see right through it and wont be interested.

What i ultimately need as an aries is support and reassurance. We generate a lot of enthusiam and fun ourselves; we dont need other people to do that for us, but if support/enthusiasm/fun is not reciprocated, then the danger of boredom sets in. We have to feel like we are a team together - a formidable pairing actually...