ARE ALL ARIES NOT BIG ON KISSING?

I'm wondering because as many of you know im head over heels for my aries man. However i dont like feeling like i have to ask for things that should just happen naturally. I JUST got over my fear of initiating sex sometimes. I know it might sound childish but i've never had to do it before. My aries used to kiss me all the time, but we we'rent having sex then, and used to always tell me that he's not big on kissing but he did on his own. In fact HE initiated our first kiss. Now he only does it sometimes. Im a libra so i could be over thinking things. But is this a red flag? I've brought to his attention before and he says i should just ask, because he forgets sometimes. I dont know...what do yall think?

I love kissing! I could do it all night with someone who knows how to pash it up! Only problem is I get far too excited and kissing leads to other things too quickly sometimes. I do think I should take time to enjoy and savour it a while longer before moving on to next base and such and such.

Was too lazy to come up w/ my own answer so I googled this for you from Cosmo. LOL:

A possible explanation is that he's just not that into kissing, period. While lip-locking is often an important part of foreplay for women — and men too — some guys find it more of a sexual speed bump, something they put up with to get to the good stuff. Lastly, your guy might have intimacy issues. Kissing is extremely personal. Some people find it more so than sex. Maybe your guy had a bad relationship experience in the past, or perhaps he just fears getting too close. Does he also have trouble maintaining eye contact? Hugging you? If that's the case, he might be afraid to feel vulnerable. Still, that doesn't make him a bad guy. As long as he's a caring boyfriend, explain to him why kissing is so important to you and ask if he can meet you halfway. No, you don't have to make out for hours, but he could indulge you in a few minutes of kissing now and then. If not, well, is he at least good in the sack?

That being said, my Aries LOVES to kiss. He kisses me constantly. Almost non stop! Hes also that rare man that likes to hug and cuddle alot too. I attribute it to his Venus in Pisces. Whatever it is, I wont look a gift horse in the mouth.

I LOVE to kiss and so have the Aries men I've dated. Perhaps it frustrates him if you make out a lot and things can't go further at the time?
Like any relationship, you're gonna have to put your needs on the table and work it out. Maybe he just hasn't discovered all the pleasure kissing can give. Teach him to slow down and enjoy the simple pleasure of kissing, he might become a convert. A long term relationship can't lose sight of the enjoyment of kissing and caressing and it isn't all about getting it in. It makes him want you and you him and that's never a bad thing. 😉

check your teeth and ask your mom or sister or whatever if you have bad breath, there was this philipino girl hitting on me one time, she was a cutie, had her goods, but then we started studying together for math and i was just completely disgusted, i thought okay one time whatever, but next time and time after, she kept having that bad breath, and the worst thing is i took out gum for myself and was like.. want some? and she says no.. and then later she told me that she has skipped like 5 dental appointments and that she wont go anyway just cause she doesn't like going to the dentist... i mean it could be an option.. get it checked out.

Also i dont like being kissed or touched by anyone who i dont like, or am not in the mood

and she kept eating all kinds of crap like from these NYC stands (Gyros and what not) where they supposedly use meat but probably mix all guts and ears all together then add anti-laxatives and all kinds of species to kill the real disgusting taste, and like weird asian food, so dont eat crap..

From what I've learned, if you eat disgusting food like that, you will fart less but if you do it will smell like something died, vegetarians for example fart more but you cant smell their farts AT ALL, if you eat crapy food you will as well get bad breath, you know how some peoples breath literally smells like crap? its because of the food, ALSO usually if you are NOT a petite type but what ud consider "average" body, and you eat crap food, you will usually have achene (pimples on your face) so if your farts smell bad, your vagina doesn't taste good, and you have achene you probably have bad breath also. Ah yes forgot to mention vaginas, if youre vegetarian it will not have bad odor and will taste better, if you eat crap it usually smells and tastes bad. And by crap i dont mean regular meat you eat at home, but stuff like McDonalds, aforementioned Gyros, hmm just overall fast food and disgusting stuff that u cant reallly see whats in there.

@KingofAries, I thought of all those things! LMAO!! You're so right about the diet/dental hygiene. And the thing is, you'll only get one shot with an Aries, one bad whiff and we're OUT!

Amen, one bad somehting, and you're out.

I remember a gorgeous girl just transferred to our high-school, I wasn't even talking to her she was that sexy hot and smart. Note, i went to a private school that wasn't in my neighborhood, and she was the only one that was also from the same neighborhood. Enough of that, we started talking, she had a bf, then they broke up, by the time they broke up my hots disappeared, but she slowly started hitting on me as we spent 5 hours a day together, i started liking her too, but one day, we all had to go to church for some reason. We went to church and she was sitting near me and i started smelling her vagina, at first i didnt get it, but saw how uncomfortable she was, our school had a dress code and japanese type skirts for girls, sky blue or dark green squared stripes.. she was wearing that sky blue one, one its time to get out of church we all leave bench by bench, i start walking behind her i look at her ass and theres like a 6 inch by 1.5 inch blood stain,. You know, if i really liked her as much as i like this gem girl right now i would tell her and id give her something to cover it up, but I just got so disgusted, embarrassed, and shocked that i was DONEE, i had a good friend, scorpio, he kept nagging me at whats wrong what happened, but then he understood what happened from half a word. he was like oh come on oh come on it happens. NO, after seeing that i was nearly traumatized like how could she let it happen, dont you girls have calendars and keep that kind of crap cautiously? if u know ull get period around monday dont u start wearing pads on sunday or something?? EW im done here.

HAHAHA @ 'achene'
fuck, really. did you skip all of your english classes?

Posted by KingOfAries
Amen, one bad somehting, and you're out.

I remember a gorgeous girl just transferred to our high-school, I wasn't even talking to her she was that sexy hot and smart. Note, i went to a private school that wasn't in my neighborhood, and she was the only one that was also from the same neighborhood. Enough of that, we started talking, she had a bf, then they broke up, by the time they broke up my hots disappeared, but she slowly started hitting on me as we spent 5 hours a day together, i started liking her too, but one day, we all had to go to church for some reason. We went to church and she was sitting near me and i started smelling her vagina, at first i didnt get it, but saw how uncomfortable she was, our school had a dress code and japanese type skirts for girls, sky blue or dark green squared stripes.. she was wearing that sky blue one, one its time to get out of church we all leave bench by bench, i start walking behind her i look at her ass and theres like a 6 inch by 1.5 inch blood stain,. You know, if i really liked her as much as i like this gem girl right now i would tell her and id give her something to cover it up, but I just got so disgusted, embarrassed, and shocked that i was DONEE, i had a good friend, scorpio, he kept nagging me at whats wrong what happened, but then he understood what happened from half a word. he was like oh come on oh come on it happens. NO, after seeing that i was nearly traumatized like how could she let it happen, dont you girls have calendars and keep that kind of crap cautiously? if u know ull get period around monday dont u start wearing pads on sunday or something?? EW im done here.

THIS is disgusting. how can a chick be bleeding in such large amounts and NOT know. this baffles me.

Aries rules the head...like Leo rules the heart...scorpio the sex organs ...etc

Kissing is really special to me. I love to kiss, and have trained my Aries self to slow it down to enjoy it that much more. I'm not going to kiss often, because its so special.

I agree with King of Aries in regards to being turned off when there's lack of oral hygiene. But you being a libra, most likely don't have that issue.

Kissing would definitely stimulate the sensitivity in our heads...

Posted by beachkisses
HAHAHA @ 'achene'
fuck, really. did you skip all of your english classes?

hop off my dick i donno how to spell it because i never had it i didnt even know what it was until recently one of my friends was talking about it

Im an aries and I love kissing, but only when I feel like it.

Sometimes I just dont want to, but if the person is a great kisser then why not

To share a kiss with someone can be a beautiful thing but only if there is true love behind the kiss. It is not something you do when you are drunk out of your mind and don't even know the person you are kissing.

WEll, I dated a guy who was aries and he was not into kissing.

How do you know your aries is into kissing ? I have been talking to another Aries now and I would be meeting him soon.

I have seen his pics and i find him sexy, how do i get him to kiss me —?

Any tips — I am a Scorp girl 🙂

Posted by aliennation
And ew, KingofAries....I think you've permanently put me off gyros for life.

But I'm vegan anyway, so....lol.

lmao and u sounded like a gem there

Posted by SweetScorp13
WEll, I dated a guy who was aries and he was not into kissing.

How do you know your aries is into kissing ? I have been talking to another Aries now and I would be meeting him soon.

I have seen his pics and i find him sexy, how do i get him to kiss me —?

Any tips — I am a Scorp girl 🙂

theres just this first kiss boundary if you overcome it u will kiss a lot, but if the guy u dated didnt wanna kiss u... ask one of ur loved ones to smell your breath

Posted by aliennation
YES they love to kiss. To an annoying degree, sometimes. Lol

When I was with an Aries, he'd grab and kiss me every couple of minutes practically....even in public, sometimes in really inappropriate settings.

For example, once he was walking with me to my professor's office. Well, once we got there, he went INSIDE the department office with me, and before I could shoo him out, he started macking out all over me, with all the Economics professors (half of whom I've had) gawking. o_o;;

He did it in crowded airport security lines, in nice restaurants *when we were joining other people*, etc.

THESE F.CKERS LOVE TO KISS, TO A PATHOLOGICAL DEGREE. IF YOU'RE NOT EXPERIENCING THIS, YOU MAY NEED TO FLOSS MORE.

YES! Mine too! I met him at the train station the other day and he was all over me! Im not ANTI PDA, but jeez! He kissed me so much that day that, NO LIE, my lips were dehydrated! LMAO. Im not kidding.

i was the biggest make out whore before i had a boyfriend. i love making out pretty much more than anything else in the whole world 😄

Lol. This turned into a hilarious topic. Turns out like everything else he does it only when he's in the mood. The other ready he kissed me almost 100 times. The libra in me just over thinks things I guess

I love to kiss the right person, if i like u its on, if not then ill be disgusted.

Hey... So like, how many times do you have to 'sleep' with a guy before you get him to kiss you?? 😉 hahahahahahahahahaha....

LOL

The thing with Aries is that they usually don't like to "make love", LoL. I'm not trying to be funny. They like to just get down to business. For an Aries having sex is more animalistic and feisty. Kissing is way too passionate and intimate. It's in the way. Now, this doesn't pertain to ALL Aries but check out their personalities. Everything about them screams fire! If an Aries man likes to kiss it might be because he is from a loving family or had a really great relationship with a woman who kissed really well OR the woman that he is with at the time is sexy as hell. MAYBE he might not like the way that you kiss (?). Or maybe he likes your (you know what) so much that he can't be bothered with kissing. Bite him....tell him that his lips are so damn desirable. Play with his mouth. If he thinks that you think that he has the best lips ever, he will want to prove to you why you're right. LoL.

PlanetMercuryGirl: You are right. My aries is on fire. I find him so irresistible most of the time because he hardly tries to be irresistible. He wears his hair long, and can go days sometimes weeks without doing anything to it and would rock a pair of jeans an a t-shirt and call it a day, when I first started talking to him I thought "the first thing im going to do is take him to get his hair braided, and hit up somebodys damn mall." Lol. But turns out he's got more clothes than me! Lol. I love it. I wouldn't care if he wore a trash bag, his demeanor is just sexy as hell. Now the kissing, well he will kiss me the whole time during sex, and occasionally when not having sex. Sex with my aries is always feisty but never too quick and I never feel like he just banged me, its like he can read my body. I dunno. Its crazy. He may not kiss exactly when I want him too, but when he does it seems its always on time. I wanna marry this dud and have a bunch of libra-aries babies!! Lol. J/K but I love him very much.