Are you obssessive?

When I can't get what I want, sometimes I could be really obssessive. Do any of you have this problem? It is really more of a scorpio trait than an aries one.

No .. Aries don't appear obssessive to me.

Spot on, PA!

No, I personally am not obssessive. If there is something that I desire and for some reason or another it does not come my way then.....great! it was not meant to and I am greatful....so very greatful.

Anytime anyone resists "what is" they are fighting against reality and therefore are disapointed, upset, angry and have put themselves in a state of negativity.

nope not obsessive, determinded yes, in my determinations i might seem a bit obsessive because i want to get something done, but otherwise not likely.

From my perspective .. obssessive goes hand-in-hand with possessive.

To hold something, or someone .. under lock and key, to own and feircely believe that this is some kind of property that must be controlled = possessive.

When possesiveness is present .. creates an obssession to obtain.

Aries doesn't appear to have this quality .. they will put forth a tremendous amount of energy to score what they want with determination, but, there doesn't appear to be a possessiveness with it, so, it doesn't look an obssession .. rather, an intense desire.

it's more like determination to get something or someone. we think, plan, try to get it and try some more. if it happens then great. if it doesn't work out then it's a dissapointment and a learning experience and wans't meant to be. and we're on to something else. as p-angel said "an intense desire"

lol@fighting against reality

I am obssessive about many things. When i fail , i try harder until i reach it. I don't know when to quit. Does that count? also, there is the obssession with sex.