Aries ex.

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My Aries just recently broke up with me she said she just wants to be friends and feels that it's not meant to be. I told her I understand.



Well the other day she heard a rumor about me talking to another girl and texts me about it. I ask could we talk about it and person because I still wanted to make it work. She said "i guess" I told if she doesn't think it will change anything we shouldn't talk. She said it wouldn't and somehow we ended up texting about our relationship and why she feels the way she does. I told her I understand and Thank her for being a good girl friend.

Today she texts me she has my stuff ready and ask me if I can come get it. I told her I was busy today can I could them later. She said has to take her new dog to vet. we ended up talking about her new puppy everything is good feels just like old times, then I ask her can I walk her dog, she replies "I guess". I told her she can say no, I would understand. she ignore that and ask me where am I walking him.

Do you guys think there is a chance it get her back ? I know Aries are not usually friends with their ex's and when me and her text about our relationship, I can tell she is really hurt but still wants me to fight for her. I just don't know how.
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Posted by Iridessaries
Why did she break up with you?

I can be friends with an ex if it ended on good terms. Friends is a big word though. Aqquintance would be more correct.

Aries need someone to fight for us and we don't. If that makes sense. If she still loves you, fight. If she doesn't, leave her.

She broke up with my because I wasn't putting her first and I admit I was selfish at the time and did things that weren't showing her I was serious. She says we want different things in a relationship and I wasn't mature enough yet.

The aquintance things make sense but she isn't like that with any of her exs.

I'm okay with moving on but if there is still a chance I want to fight for her. What are things I can do to show her.

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Posted by Iridessaries
Why did she break up with you?

I can be friends with an ex if it ended on good terms. Friends is a big word though. Aqquintance would be more correct.

Aries need someone to fight for us and we don't. If that makes sense. If she still loves you, fight. If she doesn't, leave her.

She broke up with my because I wasn't putting her first and I admit I was selfish at the time and did things that weren't showing her I was serious. She says we want different things in a relationship and I wasn't mature enough yet.

The aquintance things make sense but she isn't like that with any of her exs.

I'm okay with moving on but if there is still a chance I want to fight for her. What are things I can do to show her.



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Yeah, we need to be number 1. An Aries will spoil and love you like no other. But if we feel like we're not number 1 we get insecure and take a step back. I can only speak for me on this one, but if I come to a point where I don't feel appreciated I just stop giving as well. We wil let almost everyone in our circle, but if you leave or take the circle for granted you're just out. We wont be mean and cut you off like scorpio. But the giving just stops. You had your chance, now look from the outside. That's how my mind Works anyway.

If you want to fight for her, fight. But not too obvious, we hate that. Give her the feeling she comes first and that you value her. Be a friend and suprise her with little things. We don't care about expensive things. If you pick a flower on the way to her house e.g. we love that.