Aries guy - Popping in and out (Page 2)

Posted by capricornmoon

Posted by DMV

Posted by capricornmoon

Posted by DMV

Posted by capricornmoon
He's the one that's supposed to be using YOU for sex. Come on, don't you know the rules of the game? It's no fun if you also USE him like he uses you. DUH. He's just trying to keep the ball in his court and maintain control. This is not a mutually beneficial contract. If you're smart enough to realize it, FWB is never mutual.

I had a 6 year fwb that was very mutual.

So how come the mutuality isn't working in this case? Just admit girl, you're selling yourself short. You like him way more than he likes you. The sex isn't even good enough to keep him coming back repeatedly. Time to change your MO.

The difference is cardinal versus mutable

Did something happen in your childhood? Some form of abuse? You seem to overcompensate happiness with sex, whether you're using them or they are using you, it doesn't seem to matter to you, like you take great pride in reckless behavior. If you really like the Aries, for more than just sex, then start with a deep conversation. Get to know the man, not just his penis.

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Posted by capricornmoon

Posted by DMV

Posted by capricornmoon

Posted by DMV

Posted by capricornmoon
He's the one that's supposed to be using YOU for sex. Come on, don't you know the rules of the game? It's no fun if you also USE him like he uses you. DUH. He's just trying to keep the ball in his court and maintain control. This is not a mutually beneficial contract. If you're smart enough to realize it, FWB is never mutual.

I had a 6 year fwb that was very mutual.

So how come the mutuality isn't working in this case? Just admit girl, you're selling yourself short. You like him way more than he likes you. The sex isn't even good enough to keep him coming back repeatedly. Time to change your MO.

The difference is cardinal versus mutable

Did something happen in your childhood? Some form of abuse? You seem to overcompensate happiness with sex, whether you're using them or they are using you, it doesn't seem to matter to you, like you take great pride in reckless behavior. If you really like the Aries, for more than just sex, then start with a deep conversation. Get to know the man, not just his penis.

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I agree with this

DMV, the two Aries guys i was with...both of them were very constant, i told them both early on if they decided to mess me around i was gone


Maybe you need to do some work on your self esteem girl and then you will attract men that don't mess you around




My self esteem is very much in tact thanks. Lol

Posted by capricornmoon

Posted by DMV
No where in these pages did i say i was sad depressed or ready to slit my wrists cause some damn ram was not giving me the time of day.

So please keep your daddy issues, child hood trauma, or self esteem bull for your own conversation you have with yourself in front of the month mirror today.

It's implicitly implied in all your posts DMV. It's not to make you feel bad, and I'm sorry it offends you but your behavior judging from the things you post isn't normal. You lack boundaries and structure. So busy expanding yet not being fulfilled. It's about quality not quantity. Pick one guy you really like and get to know him on a non sexual level. He'll respect you a whole lot more.

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Posted by capricornmoon

Posted by DMV
No where in these pages did i say i was sad depressed or ready to slit my wrists cause some damn ram was not giving me the time of day.

So please keep your daddy issues, child hood trauma, or self esteem bull for your own conversation you have with yourself in front of the month mirror today.

It's implicitly implied in all your posts DMV. It's not to make you feel bad, and I'm sorry it offends you but your behavior judging from the things you post isn't normal. You lack boundaries and structure. So busy expanding yet not being fulfilled. It's about quality not quantity. Pick one guy you really like and get to know him on a non sexual level. He'll respect you a whole lot more.

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