Aries guy. What's his deal?

Hi guys, first time wandering about your forum as this is the first time ive attracted and Aries man in my life, well not sure if "attracted" is the right word... yet. Maybe you can help me understand whats his deal.

So i met this Aries man online (dating site), like 2 months ago... we live in different countries. I didn't realize so, but after we exchanged few messages i did and i told him, he said that he was aware and that LDR are possible if interest is given... anyway i kept up with the chat, there is no harm in that and its nice to meet people from different cultures.

So since then we have been texting on daily basis, he is super funny, 46 yo, im 36. He told me right away his situation, recently split with ex, still living in the same house till she gets to move out with her new BF, he told me so saying that he did not wanted to hide anything or bring up situations that can seem confusing. Nice of him. He even told me few weeks ago that he told her about me, all that without me asking about it. So basically that is all we do, text, he sure say stuff about liking me and wanting me and wanting to meet and kiss, not all the time which i like, has never asked for intimate pics and he is very gentleman about intimate chats, we had only had one and it was a very respectful one (no obscene words) just sexy thoughts.

He recently said about visiting, and starting to make plans as soon as he knows when he if off work after august and when it fits. September might be it. he said is a gentleman's promise. But recently all we do is text once a day, dont get me wrong i can live with that, he apologize for being busy and asked me to not think that he has lost interest. Nice of him again. All seem so nice, but ive read lots about Aries man getting bored fast, that im wondering if this is the case cause we dont trully talk anymore, its just a text a day to wish good day (so sweet) and sometimes to share a bit of what he was up to. I do same, my text are longer many time, im gem hehehehehe.

He seems to be moving very slow compared of what ive read about aries, so would like to hear from other aries if this is normal behavior, boredom, or him keeping as an option? whats his deal?

Hmm.. It's just 2 months and he's in a complicated situation(still living with ex) and, he must be having a job too.



2 months is too soon to say anything... so wait and see (:

All Aries are not the same. Some Aries are boring and super slow too (:

Posted by RumiL
Hmm.. It's just 2 months and he's in a complicated situation(still living with ex) and, he must be having a job too.



2 months is too soon to say anything... so wait and see (:

All Aries are not the same. Some Aries are boring and super slow too (:

Yes I guess so, it's soon to see. But I'm surprised to hear about a slow and boring Aries. He can be so funny, but the lack of meaningful chat is making me bored 😢. Shame cause I like him 😢

Hey Tete! I missed u girl 🙂 funny I got an Aries on my heels too 😛 I can't imagine starting an LDR long distance...I mean the realization sets in after a bit, doesn't it? He live with his ex? are there no guys in your Country? I dunno sounds complicated and you deserve better then headaches.

What are his other placements ? I'm an Aries & I don't move fast like the typical Aries does.

You're okay with "once a day" yet you're here writing a post about it wondering if he's losing interest. Sounds like you AREN'T okay with this.

@Moonbutter, hi girl! How you doing? There are men around, but I seem to attract the ones from abroad lol

@Sofia: no idea about his other placements. He is March 23, 1970 that's all I know.

@Rockyroad, what I mean is how this texting once a day went from a nice 'what I've been up to' to just a hello or for example haven't heard from him since Friday.

He did told me he was ill, I reply.... Should I text to see how is he feeling or just wait to hear back from him?

From what I hear and observe with Aries is that they also get distracted easily and when tis happens they could have a single track mind. And with you being in different locations its easy to be of the thought "out of sight, out of mind". I wouldn't stress about it if he's still reaching out.

Turns out that I haven't heard from him since last Friday when he texted saying he was having busy days and was feeling unwell, I replied normal. N

Then yesterday I texted saying that I hope everything was ok for him. He just plain ignored it.

So I'm back to my stuffs. Maybe he will show up again maybe not. Let's see.

Funny thing, another Aries entered my life this weekend, we have been friends for a while, and every now and then he did flirt, but this time he was flirting very heavily! I was impressed of how heavy specially in front of his mom and sister.... In the end he did not make any moves on me. Seriously what's the deal with Aries guy?!?

I don't get along with Aries men well but the ones that care about you will go out of their way to keep you informed wat's up in their busy schedules 😆 , even so they loose interest as quickly soo.....

He just texted, seven mgs in a row :o

First one he apologized cause he was having issues with his phone and whatsapp, that he could see texts but not type.... Then asking me about stuff I told him about my business.... Then sent me pics of what he was up to this weekend and sharing about something is going to be doing next weekend with his friends.... I get smitten when he does that, but should I believe him? now I haven't replied yet, dunno if I should just be like normal or what!?

Any advise? I've read you need to ignore their arses a bit to keep them up their toes :/

Posted by Tete
He just texted, seven mgs in a row :o

First one he apologized cause he was having issues with his phone and whatsapp, that he could see texts but not type.... Then asking me about stuff I told him about my business.... Then sent me pics of what he was up to this weekend and sharing about something is going to be doing next weekend with his friends.... I get smitten when he does that, but should I believe him? now I haven't replied yet, dunno if I should just be like normal or what!?

Any advise? I've read you need to ignore their arses a bit to keep them up their toes :/

It really is true lol. At least for the three aries men I know. The fact that felt he needed to explain is a good sign. Aries are blunt and to the point, they wont try t spare your feelings by making up an elaborate story... Whatever they tell you is their version of the truth.

Again, this is for the ones I know!

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Posted by Tete
He just texted, seven mgs in a row :o

First one he apologized cause he was having issues with his phone and whatsapp, that he could see texts but not type.... Then asking me about stuff I told him about my business.... Then sent me pics of what he was up to this weekend and sharing about something is going to be doing next weekend with his friends.... I get smitten when he does that, but should I believe him? now I haven't replied yet, dunno if I should just be like normal or what!?

Any advise? I've read you need to ignore their arses a bit to keep them up their toes :/

It really is true lol. At least for the three aries men I know. The fact that felt he needed to explain is a good sign. Aries are blunt and to the point, they wont try t spare your feelings by making up an elaborate story... Whatever they tell you is their version of the truth.

Again, this is for the ones I know!

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Thank you for that info, I guess he must be telling the truth because he doesn't have to explain himself to me, we are just getting to know each other by chat, we haven't even met in person. I will reply nicely to him 🙂)))

I wonder if he will really visit, Aries are driven aren't they?

Posted by Tete
He just texted, seven mgs in a row :o

First one he apologized cause he was having issues with his phone and whatsapp, that he could see texts but not type.... Then asking me about stuff I told him about my business.... Then sent me pics of what he was up to this weekend and sharing about something is going to be doing next weekend with his friends.... I get smitten when he does that, but should I believe him? now I haven't replied yet, dunno if I should just be like normal or what!?

Any advise? I've read you need to ignore their arses a bit to keep them up their toes :/

I wouldn't say ignore because then he can get pissed but if you don't like the way relationship is going now I would put it on hold .... still reply when he says stuff but don't initiate back if that makes sense

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Posted by Tete
He just texted, seven mgs in a row :o

First one he apologized cause he was having issues with his phone and whatsapp, that he could see texts but not type.... Then asking me about stuff I told him about my business.... Then sent me pics of what he was up to this weekend and sharing about something is going to be doing next weekend with his friends.... I get smitten when he does that, but should I believe him? now I haven't replied yet, dunno if I should just be like normal or what!?

Any advise? I've read you need to ignore their arses a bit to keep them up their toes :/

I wouldn't say ignore because then he can get pissed but if you don't like the way relationship is going now I would put it on hold .... still reply when he says stuff but don't initiate back if that makes sense

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Agreed

Posted by AriesLove
Don't play games if you don't want them played back.

True enough Aries likes the chase and a challenge, but when we have our mind set on something we go for it. Distractions may pop up but we usually stick to the script if it is still worth it.

Honestly, don't invest too much or think too much of this situation. One being a LDR and two he's still living with an ex.

Lastly, what do you want to come out of this?

I love you AriesLove lol. I feel like I agree with like 99.99999% of what I read from you.

Posted by AriesLove
Don't play games if you don't want them played back.

True enough Aries likes the chase and a challenge, but when we have our mind set on something we go for it. Distractions may pop up but we usually stick to the script if it is still worth it.

Honestly, don't invest too much or think too much of this situation. One being a LDR and two he's still living with an ex.

Lastly, what do you want to come out of this?

I agree with you, I won't be investing much on it. It seems complicated enough. And I won't be playing mind games.

I'm just extremely curious about what is he after.

He has made it clear that he likes me, and he respects me.

Does is take long for Aries to take action? And I asked this cause same situation is happening with my Aries friend. He just flirt, never stops making compliments to me, then back to his corner :/

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Posted by AriesLove
Don't play games if you don't want them played back.

True enough Aries likes the chase and a challenge, but when we have our mind set on something we go for it. Distractions may pop up but we usually stick to the script if it is still worth it.

Honestly, don't invest too much or think too much of this situation. One being a LDR and two he's still living with an ex.

Lastly, what do you want to come out of this?

Totally true

I had three Aries men over the years that were totally into me.

Am not sure they would have left if i hadn't peeled them off me 😛

They seem to love Scorpio women for some reason ?



🙂

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I'm Gemini sun and Scorpio rising 😉

Posted by bnr7013
I met an Aries & the situation you are describing sounds exactly like mine. They APPEAR open and honest about their living arrangements but the one I was dealing with turned out to be a liar. He was living with his ex bc they were still together. Any situation like this, I would walk away from. Why even tell your "ex" about a new person? It makes no sense if they aren't together, at least to me since it wouldn't be any it their business. Don't be fooled.

I think you are right, I shouldn't get my hopes up with this one and I should run now that I can and I'm just in the 'liking stage'.

If he is true, he will show it in time.

So far all I do is reply to his long texts about daily stuff, but I don't initiate talk, he uses pet names I don't, etc.

But seriously, assuming he is still together with the ex, why keep up chat for all this time? I would deduced it is for sex, but he is very respectful and hasn't never ever asked for intimate pics, sex calls, sex chats, etc. :/

Aries really do puzzle me!!!

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Posted by Tete
Hi guys, first time wandering about your forum as this is the first time ive attracted and Aries man in my life, well not sure if "attracted" is the right word... yet. Maybe you can help me understand whats his deal.

So i met this Aries man online (dating site), like 2 months ago... we live in different countries. I didn't realize so, but after we exchanged few messages i did and i told him, he said that he was aware and that LDR are possible if interest is given... anyway i kept up with the chat, there is no harm in that and its nice to meet people from different cultures.

So since then we have been texting on daily basis, he is super funny, 46 yo, im 36. He told me right away his situation, recently split with ex, still living in the same house till she gets to move out with her new BF, he told me so saying that he did not wanted to hide anything or bring up situations that can seem confusing. Nice of him. He even told me few weeks ago that he told her about me, all that without me asking about it. So basically that is all we do, text, he sure say stuff about liking me and wanting me and wanting to meet and kiss, not all the time which i like, has never asked for intimate pics and he is very gentleman about intimate chats, we had only had one and it was a very respectful one (no obscene words) just sexy thoughts.

He recently said about visiting, and starting to make plans as soon as he knows when he if off work after august and when it fits. September might be it. he said is a gentleman's promise. But recently all we do is text once a day, dont get me wrong i can live with that, he apologize for being busy and asked me to not think that he has lost interest. Nice of him again. All seem so nice, but ive read lots about Aries man getting bored fast, that im wondering if this is the case cause we dont trully talk anymore, its just a text a day to wish good day (so sweet) and sometimes to share a bit of what he was up to. I do same, my text are longer many time, im gem hehehehehe.

He seems to be moving very slow compared of what ive read about aries, so would like to hear from other aries if this is normal behavior, boredom, or him keeping as an option? whats his deal?

HE JUST WANTS SEX!!!! YOU DO NOT NEED A PHD TO FIGURE IT OUT.

Oh gee this 40 something guy is treating me and making me feel nice and generally in a high emotional state and I'm a still young 30 something girl. GEEEEE WHAT COULD HE WANT?

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Seems like a lot of trouble for such thing....

Hahahaha hahahahaha and he ain't getting any anyways lol

@Admiral,

My Aries friend also keeps telling me how high his sex drive is. Yet he is the kind to stay with only one woman at a time. I've seen him in a relationship and he is very devoted.

He is an awesome friend, always taking care of the ones he claims as close one. Very cool guy.

But I don't know other Aries other than those two.

My friend, now that he is single is flirting with me strongly, but I'm staying away from him as he is not getting any from me neither.