Aries - Libra. Compatibility??

Hi.
Im interested in an aries guy.. We are not dating yet, just talking to eachother thru facebook and texting.. i was wondering if any other aries have been dating a libra girl?? did it work out??
and can somebody read our charts, i would appreciate that.... :-) thank u !

my chart:
rising sign sag
sun libra
moon sagg
mercury scorpio
venus libra
mars virgo
jupiter aries
saturn sag
uranus sag
neptune capricorn
pluto scorpio

he's chart:
rising sign leo
sun aries
moon libra
mercury pisces
venus taurus
mars leo
jupiter virgo
saturn virgo
uranus scorpio
neptune sagg
pluto libra

lol. is it that bad? i thought he would be soft because of his moon sign and venus...?

hi starlover.. this is mine

Sun Libra 5.48 Ascendant Sagittarius 9.37
Moon Sagittarius 23.18 II Capricorn 18.20
Mercury Scorpio 0.54 III Pisces 8.13
Venus Libra 15.50 IV Aries 15.14
Mars Virgo 24.02 V Taurus 9.04
Jupiter Aries 27.09 R VI Taurus 26.03
Saturn Sagittarius 15.53 VII Gemini 9.37
Uranus Sagittarius 23.03 VIII Cancer 18.20
Neptune Capricorn 5.17 IX Virgo 8.13
Pluto Scorpio 8.35 Midheaven Libra 15.14
Lilith Leo 4.36 XI Scorpio 9.04
Asc node Aries 2.25 XII Scorpio

and his:

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Aries 11.54
Moon Libra 21.09
Mercury Pisces 14.09
Venus Taurus 27.40
Mars Leo 26.01 R
Jupiter Virgo 1.12 R
Saturn Virgo 22.14 R
Uranus Scorpio 25.07 R
Neptune Sagittarius 22.40 R
Pluto Libra 20.40 R
Lilith Virgo 29.41
Asc node Leo 28.34

@amethyst... he is 31. I dont think I know any aries guys, so I really dont know, how they are.. Leo's I know! 😄

Every Libra female/aries male relationship I have personally heard of has ended with aggresson towards the Libra. From raised fists to a slap round the face to the extreme case of having to up and leave in the night with the kids and live in a hostel. Not trying to say aries are aggresive (or am I 😛 ) but Libra women seem to have a way of winding them the hell up! I do find aries men pretty hot but I tend to admire from afar because I just cant help myself from winding them up, its almost too easy haha I seem to get under their skin without even trying.

Obviously I dont know what the rest of the people I knows charts are but I do know that all the Libra's admit to knowing the point when they should have shut up but continued to push the Aries. Aries woman Libra man seems to work much better (simon cowell and his fiance) but suppose you wont know till you give it a go!

lol...

opposite signs can seriously bring the worst out of each other. If they both calm down and be a little patient (trust me, they are both very impatient, egotistical and bossy as hell!), they will see they both want exactly the same thing, just going about it very different/opposite ways. I think that's exactly what winds them both up.

With patience, it can become a little mind-reading act going on between the 2 signs.
When it's good, it's beyond amazing so always recommend opposite signs starting out as friends but the immense opposite sign attractions always makes it a prob to be friends first, hehe 🙂

thanks for all of your messages guys.. he is being kind of cold these days, so I dont wanna contact him. I figured if he wants anything to do with me as friends or anything else he can do it, I have done it once. and I know its f*cked up, to think like that "now its his turn"... But thats how I feel..
Maybe he is too cold for me, .. Im a libra, I like to get compliments and attention... ughhhh F*CK I hate that Im like this... Heheheh

Everyone likes them, but libr'as NEED them lol

lol thats right libra sun!!!! :-)

Im an Aries woman, Ive dated several Libra men... so it may be different because different sexes. However, I have found out that Aries/Libra unions only last a short period of time, nothing long term- anything is possible though!!

thanks for the messages.. I think u are right Arieslady005, it might only last a short period of time.. I think that aries and libra has a lot of sexual attraction but thats it...

^Actually, I know some very long term ones.

Takes patience and understanding in the beginning to get the foundation up. There are lots of lessons to learn with both signs

No offense but Aries will begin to cause trouble, because Libra does not like aggression or violence, and Aries does have that attiude.

Posted by VirgosApprentice
No offense but Aries will begin to cause trouble, because Libra does not like aggression or violence, and Aries does have that attiude.

yup i definitely agree.
aries & libra relationships can work as long as aries is the 'reserved, calm, peaceful type' and the libra is the 'non-flakey, decisive, go-getter type' (having a lot of fire in the chart will make a libra LESS like a libra if u know what i mean lol). for example, i have leo rising and venus in leo so i often act like a leo and that's how people see me too.


cuz you see this is the main problem in aries & libra relationships:

aries doesn't like libra's flakiness and indecisiveness.
and libra doesn't like aries' pushiness and aggressiveness.

so they both just need to tone down these annoying traits and voila! they can finally be happy together haha

i'm pursuing this super timid aries boy right now and i think i'm hiding my annoying libra traits from him really well LOL

i dunno if it's my venus in leo and leo rising but i'm not like a typical libra but i can be overdramatic sometimes (leo trait) lol

Libras are some of the most selfish ppl ive come into contact with my brother is a Libra and he doesnt care about anyone but himself he never puts a thought to anyone else its always me me me me me he is the younger sibling im the older ive been very protective over him always putting him before myself but I think that has backfired I also dated a Libra dude for awhile and he basically took advantage of me always asking for money etc. uber scrub im also very good friends with a Libra female she is not as selfish as my brother or the guy I dated she is actually a very giving person and she always wants to make sure everyone is having a good time and always worried about everyone else but she is a very detached person at the same time you cant really get close to her she got drunk the other night and told me that she doesnt have any emotions and that she could stop talking to me and all of our friends tomorrow and she wouldnt even care or miss us I was like whatt? and shes not got when it comes to advice with matters of the heart she doesnt understand why people would even want to get into a relationship in the first place she described one of our aries friends as weird because she has a boyfriend.

this aries doesnt seem aggressive.. i cant even believe he is an aries. he is very nice (because of his libra moon maybe lol)and he seems a bit cautious, i dont know why.

Posted by ImpressMe
If an Aries feel threatened or they need to defend themselves then they will. Sometimes things need to be said and done and an Aries will do it and say it.

LOL, Let me rephrase that. The Aries i have met are aggressive and violent, NOT all of them. Is that much better?

Posted by VirgosApprentice

Posted by ImpressMe
If an Aries feel threatened or they need to defend themselves then they will. Sometimes things need to be said and done and an Aries will do it and say it.

LOL, Let me rephrase that. The Aries i have met are aggressive and violent, NOT all of them. Is that much better?

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You see, alot of Aries ladies are very attracted to Libra, and they have to hide their violent, aggressive natures. Most of them dress like Libras or Pisces so that they come across unassuming, guiless like how they love to project. Alot of people are fooled (in this case, they want to fool Libra men because thats who they want to attract). But get to know them, say one or two years later (or how long they can keep the facade), then you see a very agressive, violent, jealous woman who will only boss you around and cut you with words if you disagree.

I have to say this again. Aries are very dangerous for Libras. Libras with any sense woyld stay away from these violent creatures.

Best match for Aries Men is Scorpio woman. Because Scorpio women usually don't get their intentions. Libras do. Aries men will tend to be violent towards Libra women because Libras knows aries and what they are thinking and usually hit their intentions on the spot. Libras dont have balms for aries, instead ignite the flame over and over. The balm for aries men is scorpio women.

Posted by spica
Best match for Aries Men is Scorpio woman. Because Scorpio women usually don't get their intentions. Libras do. Aries men will tend to be violent towards Libra women because Libras knows aries and what they are thinking and usually hit their intentions on the spot. Libras dont have balms for aries, instead ignite the flame over and over. The balm for aries men is scorpio women.

lol i'm sorry but i disagree with this.

scorpio and aries? LOL two equally aggressive, drama-craving signs coming together?
i swear they're gonna make eachother's lives miserable in the long run lol

scorpio will most likely corrupt aries.

this is a very destructive pairing in my opinion.

Posted by spica

Posted by VirgosApprentice

Posted by ImpressMe
If an Aries feel threatened or they need to defend themselves then they will. Sometimes things need to be said and done and an Aries will do it and say it.

LOL, Let me rephrase that. The Aries i have met are aggressive and violent, NOT all of them. Is that much better?

You see, alot of Aries ladies are very attracted to Libra, and they have to hide their violent, aggressive natures. Most of them dress like Libras or Pisces so that they come across unassuming, guiless like how they love to project. Alot of people are fooled (in this case, they want to fool Libra men because thats who they want to attract). But get to know them, say one or two years later (or how long they can keep the facade), then you see a very agressive, violent, jealous woman who will only boss you around and cut you with words if you disagree.

I have to say this again. Aries are very dangerous for Libras. Libras with any sense woyld stay away from these violent creatures.

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ok i'm gonna have to chuckle at this post lol

aries dress like libras and pisces?? what does that even mean?? LOL how does one even dress like a certain zodiac sign? everybody's different and everybody has their own style and uniqueness lol

also, aren't aries girls usually the trend setters? (or at least in my school, they were.) why would they copy us?
that's one of the weirdest things i've ever heard anyone say lol

Posted by Ariesgirlonfire
Libras are some of the most selfish ppl ive come into contact with my brother is a Libra and he doesnt care about anyone but himself he never puts a thought to anyone else its always me me me me me he is the younger sibling im the older ive been very protective over him always putting him before myself but I think that has backfired I also dated a Libra dude for awhile and he basically took advantage of me always asking for money etc. uber scrub im also very good friends with a Libra female she is not as selfish as my brother or the guy I dated she is actually a very giving person and she always wants to make sure everyone is having a good time and always worried about everyone else but she is a very detached person at the same time you cant really get close to her she got drunk the other night and told me that she doesnt have any emotions and that she could stop talking to me and all of our friends tomorrow and she wouldnt even care or miss us I was like whatt? and shes not got when it comes to advice with matters of the heart she doesnt understand why people would even want to get into a relationship in the first place she described one of our aries friends as weird because she has a boyfriend.

I hate to say it but I'm a Libra who is very much like your friend. I will help anyone out who needs me and want everyone to be happy but I really wish to just be left alone. People always talk about how Libras need to be in a relationship but I've never found this true with any of my Libra friends. When guys are interested it makes me run because I don't want my time wasted. I'm also very decisive. That being said, as a Libra you would do best to stay far away from Aries men. I don't even think we are suppose to be good with them sexually. However, Aries women and Libra men get on well.

Posted by spica
Best match for Aries Men is Scorpio woman. Because Scorpio women usually don't get their intentions. Libras do. Aries men will tend to be violent towards Libra women because Libras knows aries and what they are thinking and usually hit their intentions on the spot. Libras dont have balms for aries, instead ignite the flame over and over. The balm for aries men is scorpio women.

I have to agree with you on Scorpio women for Aries men. The Aries men I know are crazy over Scorpio girls. Good match sexually and they both love money so will work hard together.

Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
this aries doesnt seem aggressive.. i cant even believe he is an aries. he is very nice (because of his libra moon maybe lol)and he seems a bit cautious, i dont know why.

if you are Libra Sun and he's got a Libra Moon - then it could work pretty well

I'm a Libra man who's dated an Aries girl. That was one of my best relationships. I have Aries guy friends and when they try to overpower me I blow that fire right back in their face. And then we both chill.

Anyways, no matter what we tell you. You'll only know for sure if you give it a try.

I actually think Libra men and Aries women work well together. Just not Aries men and Libra women. A complete disaster.

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Posted by DonnaLibra

Posted by spica
Best match for Aries Men is Scorpio woman. Because Scorpio women usually don't get their intentions. Libras do. Aries men will tend to be violent towards Libra women because Libras knows aries and what they are thinking and usually hit their intentions on the spot. Libras dont have balms for aries, instead ignite the flame over and over. The balm for aries men is scorpio women.

I have to agree with you on Scorpio women for Aries men. The Aries men I know are crazy over Scorpio girls. Good match sexually and they both love money so will work hard together.

Why are you quoting posts from 6 years ago? 😛

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Probably because I felt like it.

Posted by DonnaLibra
I actually think Libra men and Aries women work well together. Just not Aries men and Libra women. A complete disaster.

Wow! Have to disagree. My Aries and I get on like a house on fire. I breathe life into him and our relationship. We have that, "I love you" "NO! I love you more" relationship haha! He takes care of the practical shit, I take care of the finer details.

Good lord, who dug up this dinosaur of a thread??