Aries moon and sun man

I’m not sure I understand, why not just go have a nice relationship with someone else. Bottom line is, he ditched you to go work on himself, surely you must think you’re better than that?

Posted by AriesJo
I’m not sure I understand, why not just go have a nice relationship with someone else. Bottom line is, he ditched you to go work on himself, surely you must think you’re better than that?

I have no desire to date him. I just really like holding onto friends but not at the risk of a relationship

You can try to remain friends but highly impossible.

He does sound a little manipulative. But I'm an Aries Moon and an Aries Rising so when I want someone I really only want them and I cant help myself. But I wouldn't break up with someone unless I really felt they were toying with me. But I'm also a Gemi sun and I've been told we don't know how to tell when someone doesn't really want me. I am a STAYER. So, I get the aggressive thing. The fact he ended things in the first place sounds a little off... And I wouldn't make any commitments until the person I really wanted moved on. I don't think he's dangerous. I know I sure aint. But make yourself clear and don't look back that's the only way to treat someone with that much fire.

Posted by Faramai
Hello.

My ex broke up with me a few months ago to work on himself. I'm now interested in starting a relationship with someone else. My ex thinks he's now ready to settle down with me and stated "once and Aries makes a choice it's set" he said he won't date and if he does he will break up if I'm single again.

I want to be strictly friends and I want to know if this is possible or should I be concerned. I don't think he will try anything crazy but I know he could if he wanted . Thoughts? Any double Aries out there? Is he just being his aggressive competitive Aries self? If so , how can I discourage this behaavior.