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@marshmallow
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Posted by Areyoumytwinflame
If she's being distant-draw her back in. Joke with her, compliment her, tell her how much you care about her. Don't question and accuse someone just because they're distant. She could just be busy.

If she doesn't respond to you trying to charm her then ask her if everything's okay with her because she doesn't seem like herself.

You people are in some shitty relationships if you automatically assume your spouse is cheating and you see no issue in questioning them. I would be insulted, annoyed and hurt. And then suspicious if they're the one cheating.

If you care about someone try to understand their changed behavior instead of treating them like a person who is shady enough to cheat...because then they might actually fulfill that behavior for you.
I agree with you on that. Some people show their anger or disappointment by being distant .

I dont however understand the concept of being busy.
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If she's being distant-draw her back in. Joke with her, compliment her, tell her how much you care about her. Don't question and accuse someone just because they're distant. She could just be busy.

If she doesn't respond to you trying to charm her then ask her if everything's okay with her because she doesn't seem like herself.

You people are in some shitty relationships if you automatically assume your spouse is cheating and you see no issue in questioning them. I would be insulted, annoyed and hurt. And then suspicious if they're the one cheating.

If you care about someone try to understand their changed behavior instead of treating them like a person who is shady enough to cheat...because then they might actually fulfill that behavior for you.
I agree with you on that. Some people show their anger or disappointment by being distant .

I dont however understand the concept of being busy.
you don't? I'm jealous. Me and my bf work 10-12-14 hour days sometimes. There were some hurt feelings in the beginning...actually until we just moved in together this month. Long distance would have been a death sentence to our relarionship. That's not something that is easy to maintain. It requires a lot of trust

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Oh yes i agree. Trust and lot of communication .

When i said i dont understand the concept of being busy i say that because i have seen so many couples where the person giving less time blames it on work mostly but then that person finds time for others . Basically taking their spouse / partner for granted and prioritising every body else.
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@WitchmitchAries
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i so love how people who are not Aries think they know them. it is well know that Aries are straight up when it comes to truth and they dont give their loyalty so easily because loyalty is one our strong suits. Dont beat around the bush with Aries, cant stand that. Ask her about how she feels about your guys relationship. Thats what i would want you to do. plus a lot of flirting will help too.
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Posted by Areyoumytwinflame
If she's being distant-draw her back in. Joke with her, compliment her, tell her how much you care about her. Don't question and accuse someone just because they're distant. She could just be busy.

If she doesn't respond to you trying to charm her then ask her if everything's okay with her because she doesn't seem like herself.

You people are in some shitty relationships if you automatically assume your spouse is cheating and you see no issue in questioning them. I would be insulted, annoyed and hurt. And then suspicious if they're the one cheating.

If you care about someone try to understand their changed behavior instead of treating them like a person who is shady enough to cheat...because then they might actually fulfill that behavior for you.

I've done all of those things. Didn't work

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Posted by sirXavier
You have to catch them red handed or just leave
Damn it's along distance relationship & I don't want to leave if I am wrong
Dont doubt without knowing the truth. There is a possibility that you may be wrong.

What made you doubt her?
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She's just not herself anymore. She lied about going to work one morning. I found out.
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Posted by Areyoumytwinflame
Why do you think she's cheating?
She's become kind of distant. Like out of no where started acting different.
She's prolly not feeling like that anymore or

You have hurt her. Why did you automatically assume cheating?
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Because it was all of a sudden. If she doesn't feel like talking or is having a bad day she'll say it but this time nothing. Nothing at all. She lied about staying late to work one day and also lied about going in another day
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@sirXavier
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You have to catch them red handed or just leave
Damn it's along distance relationship & I don't want to leave if I am wrong
Dont doubt without knowing the truth. There is a possibility that you may be wrong.

What made you doubt her?
She's just not herself anymore. She lied about going to work one morning. I found out.
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Listen I'm only speaking from experience..for some reason I attract and have been romantically involved with a few Aries. All I will say is go with your gut and be wary if she lied to you already
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@bkbella86
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Posted by sirXavier
You have to be warry of Aries and always have the upper hand no matter what. (At least in my dealings with them)
No you don't.

I really feel like people just don't understand us. It's so frustrating to appear

One way and be the exact opposite. I have always been sincere and now I just don't give a damn.

I'm too hurt.

People don't see me

For who I am. And so my needs don't get

Met.

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You have to catch them red handed or just leave

Definitely will

Damn it's along distance relationship & I don't want to leave if I am wrong
Dont doubt without knowing the truth. There is a possibility that you may be wrong.

What made you doubt her?
She's just not herself anymore. She lied about going to work one morning. I found out.
Listen I'm only speaking from experience..for some reason I attract and have been romantically involved with a few Aries. All I will say is go with your gut and be wary if she lied to you already

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@bkbella86
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Posted by Areyoumytwinflame
Why do you think she's cheating?
She's become kind of distant. Like out of no where started acting different.
She's prolly not feeling like that anymore or

You have hurt her. Why did you automatically assume cheating?

Because it was all of a sudden. If she doesn't feel like talking or is having a bad day she'll say it but this time nothing. Nothing at all. She lied about staying late to work one day and also lied about going in another day

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Well lying about whereabouts is a sign but that's not related to just Aries. It's related to all

Cheaters. I'd be wary too.
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@Simba22
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Op Even if she's doesn't admit now later you might catch some cues then you could be like I already asked you. And bam. Do what you have to but ask for then sit back and wait a minute. In the meantime

Have you asked what she wants right now? Just friends or what?
Yes I asked her if she was still feeling the relationship and me she said yes but in a frustrated way
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Posted by Areyoumytwinflame
Why do you think she's cheating?


She's become kind of distant. Like out of no where started acting different.
She's prolly not feeling like that anymore or

You have hurt her. Why did you automatically assume cheating?

Because it was all of a sudden. If she doesn't feel like talking or is having a bad day she'll say it but this time nothing. Nothing at all. She lied about staying late to work one day and also lied about going in another day


Well lying about whereabouts is a sign but that's not related to just Aries. It's related to all

Cheaters. I'd be wary too.

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Exactly it's just so stressful because she always had an answer when I caught her in the lies about work. I just said okay & changed the subject
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@sirXavier
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Posted by Areyoumytwinflame
Why do you think she's cheating?
She's become kind of distant. Like out of no where started acting different.
She's prolly not feeling like that anymore or

You have hurt her. Why did you automatically assume cheating?

Because it was all of a sudden. If she doesn't feel like talking or is having a bad day she'll say it but this time nothing. Nothing at all. She lied about staying late to work one day and also lied about going in another day


Well lying about whereabouts is a sign but that's not related to just Aries. It's related to all

Cheaters. I'd be wary too.

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I guess I am bashing Aries so I'm guilty..but still it seems to be like a pattern..not specifically with cheating but with things that make you question if they really have your best interests at heart..you feel like just a peice of property in their world as they do what they want sometimes
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@solo87
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Posted by sirXavier
You have to be warry of Aries and always have the upper hand no matter what. (At least in my dealings with them)
No you don't.

I really feel like people just don't understand us. It's so frustrating to appear

One way and be the exact opposite. I have always been sincere and now I just don't give a damn.

I'm too hurt.

People don't see me

For who I am. And so my needs don't get

Met.

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I feel this way too.

But to be honest I don't think any Aries male or female is built for a long distance relationship.

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@sirXavier
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Posted by bkbella86
Posted by sirXavier
You have to be warry of Aries and always have the upper hand no matter what. (At least in my dealings with them)
No you don't.

I really feel like people just don't understand us. It's so frustrating to appear

One way and be the exact opposite. I have always been sincere and now I just don't give a damn.

I'm too hurt.

People don't see me

For who I am. And so my needs don't get

Met.




I feel this way too.

But to be honest I don't think any Aries male or female is built for a long distance relationship.

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@sirXavier
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Posted by bkbella86
Posted by sirXavier
You have to be warry of Aries and always have the upper hand no matter what. (At least in my dealings with them)
No you don't.

I really feel like people just don't understand us. It's so frustrating to appear

One way and be the exact opposite. I have always been sincere and now I just don't give a damn.

I'm too hurt.

People don't see me

For who I am. And so my needs don't get

Met.




I feel this way too.

But to be honest I don't think any Aries male or female is built for a long distance relationship.


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I agree..my one Aries friend who I used to be involved with tells me of all her sexcapades and it solidifies that I did the right thing by being no more than friends..when its good she hot bored and cheated.. Its that fiyyaaa lol
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Posted by sirXavier
You have to be warry of Aries and always have the upper hand no matter what. (At least in my dealings with them)
No you don't.

I really feel like people just don't understand us. It's so frustrating to appear

One way and be the exact opposite. I have always been sincere and now I just don't give a damn.

I'm too hurt.

People don't see me

For who I am. And so my needs don't get

Met.




I feel this way too.

But to be honest I don't think any Aries male or female is built for a long distance relationship.


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I don't necessarily mean this as we will cheat. We will hold on as long as possible but Aries struggle inside with a lot of emotion and during a long distance thing they will tend to overthink more and it also gives them a chance to get bored and allow more bad then good about the relationship influence the current situation. We need hands on nothin else to it.

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Posted by Areyoumytwinflame
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Posted by Areyoumytwinflame
If she's being distant-draw her back in. Joke with her, compliment her, tell her how much you care about her. Don't question and accuse someone just because they're distant. She could just be busy.

If she doesn't respond to you trying to charm her then ask her if everything's okay with her because she doesn't seem like herself.

You people are in some shitty relationships if you automatically assume your spouse is cheating and you see no issue in questioning them. I would be insulted, annoyed and hurt. And then suspicious if they're the one cheating.

If you care about someone try to understand their changed behavior instead of treating them like a person who is shady enough to cheat...because then they might actually fulfill that behavior for you.

I've done all of those things. Didn't work


Then you asked her if she was cheating?

I'm assuming she said no?

Then either believe her or leave her. There's nothing else you can do. Like I said, long distance requires trust.

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Welp guess it's time to leave. I don't Share my pussy
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Posted by solo87
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Posted by bkbella86
Posted by sirXavier
You have to be warry of Aries and always have the upper hand no matter what. (At least in my dealings with them)
No you don't.

I really feel like people just don't understand us. It's so frustrating to appear

One way and be the exact opposite. I have always been sincere and now I just don't give a damn.

I'm too hurt.

People don't see me

For who I am. And so my needs don't get

Met.




I feel this way too.

But to be honest I don't think any Aries male or female is built for a long distance relationship.



I don't necessarily mean this as we will cheat. We will hold on as long as possible but Aries struggle inside with a lot of emotion and during a long distance thing they will tend to overthink more and it also gives them a chance to get bored and allow more bad then good about the relationship influence the current situation. We need hands on nothin else to it.

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Yea long distance relationships take a lot of trust..so at the end of the day astrology aside maybe she is realizing she can't handle the long distance. Approach her calm without really accusing her of anything so she won't feel threatened.
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Simba22
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Posted by solo87
Posted by sirXavier
Posted by solo87
Posted by bkbella86
Posted by sirXavier
You have to be warry of Aries and always have the upper hand no matter what. (At least in my dealings with them)
No you don't.

I really feel like people just don't understand us. It's so frustrating to appear

One way and be the exact opposite. I have always been sincere and now I just don't give a damn.

I'm too hurt.

People don't see me

For who I am. And so my needs don't get

Met.




I feel this way too.

But to be honest I don't think any Aries male or female is built for a long distance relationship.



I don't necessarily mean this as we will cheat. We will hold on as long as possible but Aries struggle inside with a lot of emotion and during a long distance thing they will tend to overthink more and it also gives them a chance to get bored and allow more bad then good about the relationship influence the current situation. We need hands on nothin else to it.

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The long distance was something we both agreed on and would end in February why would she act differently when it's supposed to be getting better?
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Simba22
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Posted by solo87
Posted by bkbella86
Posted by sirXavier
You have to be warry of Aries and always have the upper hand no matter what. (At least in my dealings with them)
No you don't.

I really feel like people just don't understand us. It's so frustrating to appear

One way and be the exact opposite. I have always been sincere and now I just don't give a damn.

I'm too hurt.

People don't see me

For who I am. And so my needs don't get

Met.




I feel this way too.

But to be honest I don't think any Aries male or female is built for a long distance relationship.



What are you basing this information on?

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Well I didn't cheat. I also thought maybe she thought I was doing wrong she said she knows I never will which is true. On top of her being distant I got fandoms ass texts from two random numbers telling me she's cheating I sent screen shots so we could both joke about it together but she got extremely mad & it was weird almost like she was scared she'd been caught
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@marshmallow
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Posted by sirXavier
You have to catch them red handed or just leave
Damn it's along distance relationship & I don't want to leave if I am wrong
Dont doubt without knowing the truth. There is a possibility that you may be wrong.

What made you doubt her?
She's just not herself anymore. She lied about going to work one morning. I found out.
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Yes Lies should be an alarm.

If you have doubts then find out.
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@marshmallow
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How would you find out if Aries Woman is cheating? Will asking straight up work?
I really dont understand what is it about Aries and cheating. 80% of Aries i know do either cheat or get cheated on or have an affair with married men .


Lies.

How many Aries do

You know?
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Many . See i am here talking about Aries that i know. Not the aries world wide

If you are an Aries then why you taking it on yourself ? If you are not among those then you could be in that rest 20 % so why you bothered .

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ariessungoddess
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ignores you for the most part, acts cold, gets pissed off at the slightest hint of your suspicion, prefers to shut the room to answer calls in privacy, avoids eye contact
Minus the eye contact and room thing because it's long distance, sounds about right. Why wouldn't she just break up with me though. I'd prefer that
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open up "I think we need to have this talk" and ask her directly if she's seeing anyone else, if so whatever you think you wanna do next. if you keep waiting she'll hesitate to break your heart and keep things on hold until the other guy makes a firm move. you don't want that.
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@Simba22
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ignores you for the most part, acts cold, gets pissed off at the slightest hint of your suspicion, prefers to shut the room to answer calls in privacy, avoids eye contact
Minus the eye contact and room thing because it's long distance, sounds about right. Why wouldn't she just break up with me though. I'd prefer that
open up "I think we need to have this talk" and ask her directly if she's seeing anyone else, if so whatever you think you wanna do next. if you keep waiting she'll hesitate to break your heart and keep things on hold until the other guy makes a firm move. you don't want that.
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I did this morning it ended in a bad argument and before I could say anything else she shut me out. Now she's ignoring me.
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