Aries women. Leo or Gemini male?

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I choose Gemini.

For one, I've had great experiences with Gemini men. They are very funny and great to talk too. I hate boredom and they do too so we tend to keep each other entertained. ect. ect.
Now, the flirtatiousness probably would sit well with me. Also, they seem to like space and I definitely love space so that's another good quality of a Gem (although one I've dated didn't give me enough space).

The Leo men I've experienced were just too much for me. They come on too strong, they are attention whores and I like low key relationships. The lifestyle they want to live isn't my cup of tea. Yes, they tend to be very physically attractive but that's not enough for me. I do love how much attention they give their lovers though and how loyal they are. They are great pursuers too (it helps since I'm shy) so I like the effort they put in to get their lady.

I would like to meet more Leo men bc I'm curious about what the hype is about bc I just haven't seen it yet.
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Posted by RAMbunctious
+1
Glad I'm not alone in this sentiment haha.

Example - Leo dudes seem nice and sweet, all docile and shit. But then you hear their thought processes in regard to their actions- they justify the most fucked up behavior and see absolutely NOTHING wrong with it. Two examples- one was using a girl who had a crush as a fwb. He knew she had a crush and was using that to his advantage so he could get free sex because she was practically giving it away... because she had feelings and was hoping she would eventually get more out of it. His defense was victim and he deflected all responsibility on her. Boo hoo, he was the poor victim here with all that free sex with no attachment. It wasn't his fault he was using her!

Another recently admitted that he settled with his "girlfriend" of one month because his other option fell through, but still hadn't written her off. He doesn't see GF as "the one" but she'll do for now. Besides, he has the other option as a back up. He openly admitted this to me as if it were no big deal and he was justified in doing so. Besides, the sex is amazing so he's keeping her around for now despite red flags which he'll probably drop her for and go running to plan B. I've mentioned these before on DXP, but it still amuses and amazes me that this is how some Leo dudes' minds work. But I shouldn't be surprised either. I saw similar behavior with my own Leo relatives- very me centric way of thinking and fuck everyone else. It's not until things are trainwreck status do they finally see the error of their ways.

Then there's Gems. Sociable and friendly and the like. ...But could have an entire convo with themselves while you're there. They don't talk TO you, they talk AT you. They're just as bad as Libras when it comes to love interests- flitting around from each woman of interest, growing bored quickly. The ones I've met just do not strike me as reliable in any sense. Too fixated on what they want and it doesn't matter if a situation is good/bad.
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Posted by RumiLove
Gemini's confuse you and are directionless(unless they have strong fixed placements like my bestie) ...plus, their moods/minds change so quickly. I'd enjoy their company but only until sometime. I'd rather be with someone lazy, stable, yet fun loving like a Leo lol.
I've noticed this too. I haven't had one single, stable Gem individual in my life. They seem to live up to that two faced rep a little too often.

Of the two, I'm generally okay with Leos, but cannot get that close with the women (their batshit crazy comes out way too often). There have been a few exceptions, but generally, no. The guys I get along with more, but I see how they roll in relationships and I couldn't deal with the ridiculous ego. Dude would have to be seriously evolved/mature in order to tolerate.

Posted by YesImaLeo
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Sorry, generally they're cool people, but I've seen how their minds work in regard to others and their feelings. Totally self absorbed and cracked logic. No thanks.

Of course, this is the immature variety, so... It's hard to find anyone who's evolved anymore since our society coddles that bs. *shrugs*
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What, you posted this, hoping it would unanimously be Leo and make your Leo ego feel squishy inside? :p
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Posted by doublesidedGem
Not EVERY Gem and Leo are the same. People are individuals, I've me a Taurus woman and Aqua woman I never got on with. Would that stop me dating another no .... Go with who makes you laugh, makes you feel good, can hold a conversation have a good vibe with. Not someone based on a "compatible" sign.
Thanks, Captain obvious. I'll be sure to hang on to this gem of wisdom, seeing as how I don't know how I could manage to get by in life without it.
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Posted by Capries
If I had to focus on only the Sun sign and not consider any individual placements, I'd go with Leo. I have a lot of Leo's as friends and family. Yes, they can bring the drama, need to be the center attention and can be egotistical as hell, etc. But they're focused and loyal to the core, and I love that about them. When Leos act up, the trick is to just ignore them, and when they see they don't have an audience, they'll stop, lol. In my experience, when a Leo man is complaining or out of line, it's not hard to put them in their place, all you have to do is ask them why they're being so overly dramatic--they'll stop out of embarrassment.

I get along well with Gems, and they're loads of fun, but like RumiLove said, they're too changeable for my taste. And because of that, you never know where their true loyalties lie. For me, it's important to always know where I stand with you, even if you hate my guts, at least I know how you really feel. With Geminis, I don't get that reassurance.

+1 definitely. I am a straightforward person. I get that it is important to adapt to different environements, but very airy geminis, or ones without any earth to balance them change plans within a blink of an eye and it annoys me. They do this frequently-I mean I'm all for playing things by ear, but there is a difference once you've made definitive plans, and then last minute you change them. Geminis in business=no thanks. Leos might have egos, but they follow through with their word.
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Leo man is too needy for me as an aries. Needs so much attention and gets "jealous" if you get attention, not in a territorial way but because the spotlight isn't on him.

The most male friends i have are geminis, but not sure if I could date one.
Alot of mumbling and unfisnihed thoughts that wears on my impatience to get things done or the convo going.
Great friends tho 🙂
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Posted by LeoAquaRuler
Let me tell you this. That lifestyle you talk about is the hype but wait theres a catch we keep it to ourselves which is why you havnt seen it yet because why would you want to hear about what us leos are actually capable of or do. We are one of the most underestimated signs in the zodiac for some reason. But we literally dom everybody i dont get it theres just a load of weak ass fakers claiming the spotlight when its a leos natural stage its like fuck off who the fuck are you.

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Posted by doublesidedGem
Not EVERY Gem and Leo are the same. People are individuals, I've me a Taurus woman and Aqua woman I never got on with. Would that stop me dating another no .... Go with who makes you laugh, makes you feel good, can hold a conversation have a good vibe with. Not someone based on a "compatible" sign.

yes we know........the purpose of the thread was to ask whom ARIES (and I'm stressing ARIES for a reason -_-) generally prefer. Geeze. Also, keep in mind, this is an ASTROLOGY site, so naturally one would tend to talk about astrological preferences.....but hey what do I know? 😄
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Posted by LeoAquaRuler
Let me tell you this. That lifestyle you talk about is the hype but wait theres a catch we keep it to ourselves which is why you havnt seen it yet because why would you want to hear about what us leos are actually capable of or do. We are one of the most underestimated signs in the zodiac for some reason. But we literally dom everybody i dont get it theres just a load of weak ass fakers claiming the spotlight when its a leos natural stage its like fuck off who the fuck are you.
Congrats, you just illustrated previous points perfectly.
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Neither. Leo's are controlling with huge yet fragile egos and Gems are lying, deceiving sociopaths. I'll pass.

i really think you'd rather be with a gemini man just face it. a gemini man will make your heart bleed with true passion.
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Both signs lacked passion imo

I've had the most passion with Pisces and Aqua
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Neither. Leo's are controlling with huge yet fragile egos and Gems are lying, deceiving sociopaths. I'll pass.

i really think you'd rather be with a gemini man just face it. a gemini man will make your heart bleed with true passion.
Both signs lacked passion imo


an earthy gemini man with 3 cancer placements in his chart lack passion?
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You may be passionate but I don't trust Gems. Very fickle people and also liars. I won't put myself through that again.
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Neither. Leo's are controlling with huge yet fragile egos and Gems are lying, deceiving sociopaths. I'll pass.

i really think you'd rather be with a gemini man just face it. a gemini man will make your heart bleed with true passion.
Both signs lacked passion imo


an earthy gemini man with 3 cancer placements in his chart lack passion?
You may be passionate but I don't trust Gems. Very fickle people and also liars. I won't put myself through that again.
hahahahaha not even the quiet ones? their the most loyal and truthful ones you know. those quiet ones. the smoooooooth and charming talkers of all of gems. that spits nothing but the truth that is. there has to be some good quiet gems somewhere out there besides me. you just had a bad one.
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Can you believe it was a quiet one who got me?! If I had a choice nope couldn't do it again. That shit hurt.