liguqingxx
@liguqingxx
8 Years
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Posted by LibraLovesHim(i cant get in my other accounts now , this is the new one.)
Ummmm maybe he doesnt wanna be "FWB" this is an UBER strange concept to some folks btw and I cant see it working for Aries-whats theirs is theirs 😉 And fwb's leaves the door open for others.
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So i met this guys about 2 month ago,we both in our 20s when we first met he was really shy i have to push him a bit.Finally he came talk to me and get my number. Beginning when we just met he was going through some stuff, personal/ job/family stuff. He was really low, so our convo was kinda heavy and dark,i was trying to be there for him talk him through it. After 1.5 weeks he finally back to normal ask me out on our first date.And after that we been seeing each other at least once a week for a month,sometime 2-3 time a week.One time hes was really nice took me to a really expensive place for dinner, he said because he wanna do something nice for me. And i know he doesn't make that much money can afford that place. We went on 3-4 dates total, and everything single time we have a blast. had so much fun together and he told me couple times he likes me a lot,.Last time we hangout we talked a lot about our past, both of us really opened up i feel like. On the sex part, we only had sex 3-4 times, and every single time gets better feel more natural and he was lot more open and comfortable for sure( also last a lot more longer) First time he was like"i haven't done this for a while" which i trust him ,hes a super honest person,and super sweet to me, i never felt this way before. Also he did not try to have sex with me the first time when i stay over,we just cuddled.
So since after last time we hang he been distant himself from me, didnt reach out , we haven't seen each other for 2 weeks now. First week he was sick, so reach out check on him why not see how is he doing,but he never ask to hangout. Second week i didnt reach out to him the whole time until thur ( but all week he been liking my stuff on fb and commenting things, but instead of txting me) afternoon see hows he doing and if he will have time to do something next week.And still hes making exscuess avoiding seeing me. He's saying he have a lot of work stuff going on, been busy,and also starting a new job next week,not sure how open he will be, but "he will keep me posted " So i didnt respond to that txt until the next day, and i call him out and ask him to be honest with me, in a really clam way. and he didnt txt back after a day i call him that afternoon and he answered. we talked over the phone about 15 mins. So i wanna find out why he all the sudden being distant, because everything was going so well and came out of no where. he said " I do have bunch stuff going on right now in the next couple week, i just got caught up and forgot and also i don't want to talk about this kinda stuff is awkward topic.Also i start have feelings, and a have a feeling that this is going towards to something serious, is going down that route, and I'm not really looking for anything serious right now ( focus on career), and i didn't wanna keep hangout,hooking up with you because i don't know whats your intentions are and don't wanna leading you on. "
So I think is too soon to say if i want something serious with this person right now, and i wanna keep hangout with him get to know him more.So I told him how I feel “I wanna casual dating, be friends and hooking up out of this “ reason I said that because I didn’t want to loss him. I want spend more time at to know him to see where this could go. And after i told him that he said , “okay that actually make me feel a lot better , because before I didn’t know what your intentions are didnt wanna hurt you. “ And he said we are cool now.
And that weekend I was out of town and I txt him sat night , we have couple back and force convo and then after one txt he stop responding ( I ask him how was work last night )
So right now idk where I’m at , how he thinks and feels about me because I feel like he was treating me so well and all the sudden is gone? I did ask him did something happened or did I do something ? He said no it was him.
Also whenever we txt. He always send me paragraph always txt me back and never ignored me before until the other night.
Right now what should I do ?Should I not reach out until he txt me ? I’m afraid he’s never gonna talk to me or ask me to hangout anymore. Even though we agreed on be friends and FWB
Can someone tell me what should I do and what is he thinking ? Will he reach out ? He doesn’t like me anymore ?
Also I’m not really happy about where I left things. I kinda force myself into that fwb situation in a way.. I personally feel like is too soon to say if I want anything serious yet ,I would like spend more time casual date to see where this could go,So I agreed on fwb .But im not sure if that’s what I want. He said we are cool or why not. Everything back to normal but I feel like he’s definitely kinda distant himself from, feel little weird. ( maybe im thinking too much) And I’m scared this weirdness gonna ruin everything we probably won’t be friends anymore. So I was thinking Should wait him reach out and maybe end the B part with him and just be friends.
Thanks