Does Not Being The First to Know Make You Mad?

Hi all...I was dating this aries and well he did the pull away thing. I invited him to a party, he agreed to go, and when I contacted him to finalize everything he didnt respond for 3 hrs. Therefore he got a dose of his own medicine. He got mad I got mad and well we stopped communicating for a few months the exception being a random text from me here and there saying what a horrid person he was.....I have been going through a rough time sue me.

So I contact him a few weeks ago to apologize and say that I wanted to talk to him about what was going on. He accepted and agreed to talk to me. Over the weekend I spoke with someone he is close to and told them I may be moving to a different state (we live one state away now but I may be moving to the east coast which is far away from us now!) I contact him the week after to set everything up and he says we dont need to talk he squashed it, we dont need to meet....I was stunned it was a 180 change. So I sent him a capsule of what has been going on with me and a message saying I could use a friend....I've heard nothing.

My question, I know the person I told I was moving told him. Would that make him not want to hear what I have to say?

True.....I mean I'd think he'd be happy since if it falls through it will be an unimaginable dream....I was like DAWG just deflate my balloon huh!

yeah it was his dad that I told and who I told...I figured that was the reason for his change but wasnt sure....

I have been thanks! 🙂 Man do they stay mad for a long time when it comes to things like this?

well his dad did criticize him because we had a pretty bad fight/situation last year and I ended up having to call his dad because it was an emergency situation and he would not answer his phone or door. So I know he talked to him about that...and we were kind of ok until the big fight over his aries tendencies come out again.....

I told his dad because he is coming into town and I knew if I did move in August I would not see him before I did so I wanted to set up lunch with him......I was going to tell the aries in person when we talked but I spoke to his dad on the phone first and well I guess the news traveled.

I sent him a message yesterday saying he should come to lunch with us....he never responded. Oh well I tried. And I know that both my heart and intentions are in the right place even if he doesnt!

I mean that's what I thought......but I guess I was wrong.