Ex Aries Girlfriend, advice would be appreicated:) (Page 2)

Sorry but she's not waiting for the effort- it's too late..

I've read your post again..she told u she had doubts, she told you she was done, the times she contacted you it was probably coz she's been drinking or doing it for attention coz she denied it afterwards.

This girl is done. I'm an Aries girl and I get it..I see it, but you are disagreeing with and in denial about what I have put on here about your options.

Here is a fact that is nothing personal...men don't understand women..WOMEN understand women!
Don't take this personally; I just find it amusing when guys try and fathom out what their exes are doing/meaning. It's plain as day to me!
However, here's a disclaimer for you. IF she comes back to you, please let me know and I shall publicly apologise on this wall for my bad advice!! 😄

Posted by AriesGirl74
Sorry but she's not waiting for the effort- it's too late..

I've read your post again..she told u she had doubts, she told you she was done, the times she contacted you it was probably coz she's been drinking or doing it for attention coz she denied it afterwards.

This girl is done. I'm an Aries girl and I get it..I see it, but you are disagreeing with and in denial about what I have put on here about your options.

Here is a fact that is nothing personal...men don't understand women..WOMEN understand women!
Don't take this personally; I just find it amusing when guys try and fathom out what their exes are doing/meaning. It's plain as day to me!
However, here's a disclaimer for you. IF she comes back to you, please let me know and I shall publicly apologise on this wall for my bad advice!! 😄

Like yesterday, why would she post that on Twitter? She doesn't know I've seen it. As far as she knows I can't see it...

Posted by tiziani
The quickest way to completely turn an Aries off of you is to chase them. Or be agreeable.

Do both and they don't even want to know you.

My problem is I'm shite for that... Can't help myself as I feel like it's mostly my fault it didn't go well and need to prove myself like. But it's wrong yet I feel it's right..

Hi guys, haven't been on here for a while and I've spoken to her recently.
She's still really hurt about what happened, to quote 'She wishes I could come and hug her and reassure her it's all going to be alright, but she also wants to punch me in the face"
How do I make it up to her?

Posted by tiziani
Oh nice, you made a recovery. You don't really have to do anything other than turn a new page. I had the same thing, I once had her crying and laughing on the phone at the exact same time. We should have taken our time during that phase but we rushed into things again. Just be easy, listen... not every time someone talks is to invite the other person to "fix" it. Listening without reacting has been a immense tool to practice and get under my belt over the years.

Well yeah, I saw her over Xmas and said hello in a nightclub, she didn't react too well and sent a rampaging text the night after. But I didn't turn it into and argument and just understood what she was saying.
She doesn't trust me and she's still hurt, I'm wondering how I go about making it up to her?

Leave her the hell alone.

You over reacted over the kiss. She confessed it to you, meaning she cares. If an aries woman wants to cheat on you she would have gone all the way. She tried to make it up to you but you became distant. Eventually an aries woman loses patience, we're not like virgo's. You guys can ponder about things forever until you feel it's the right time. You care about her, you should have shown her. The whole relationship sounds young and immature. She's probably moved on, tell her how you feel and then leave it at that and let her get back to you.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Leave her the hell alone.

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Why would she say she missed me if she wanted me to leave her be?

Posted by ariesvirgo123
You over reacted over the kiss. She confessed it to you, meaning she cares. If an aries woman wants to cheat on you she would have gone all the way. She tried to make it up to you but you became distant. Eventually an aries woman loses patience, we're not like virgo's. You guys can ponder about things forever until you feel it's the right time. You care about her, you should have shown her. The whole relationship sounds young and immature. She's probably moved on, tell her how you feel and then leave it at that and let her get back to you.

When I last spoke to her a few days ago, she told me she was really hurt, but wanted a hug but at the same time wanted to punch me. What do you mean by telling her how I feel?

I read everything you posted and this is my take away:

Well it's over. She started dating but still cared about you. She realized (probably because you told her) that she was your first real relationship and tried. You weren't good to her, you two broke up.

In your second chance she admits a drunken lapse of judgement. You aren't good to her, you break up.

You have both been with other people since but the order you posted her dating was as if she was sleeping around while you two were still together...that was several months after you weren't.

I agree with other posts, leave her alone

We've been speaking as friends, which is quite nice. So I guess some good has come out of it.