I’m a gem lady, met Aries guy who is 50 years old. Our first date was cool, he had a cool laid back energy. We laughed and talked he was super affectionate. I am open to getting to know him, we talk everyday, have an ongoing text thread. We have a cool vibe about us. He began purging all these stories of running through women his whole life. He has never been married. Story after story of degradation to these willing women of all ages. Throughout our time getting to know each other he’s constantly telling me he really likes me. He wants me to build him up into the man he’s suppose to be 🧐. He showers me with I miss you, compliments on my looks, he values my mind.. all the things that a woman likes. The thing is about two weeks in I’m not passionate for him. Sure I love good stories but it seems like he lacks respect for women, and whatever I had initially on our first date ain’t there no more. I feel like when a man has exhausted himself with so many women it’s not any thrill left. I don’t wanna be some cut up who just happens to catch a hard 🍆. So slowly my conversations are getting shorter. I like the his hard work ethic and practicality yet his exhaustion about running through women to the point that he engages for hours with no climax has me picking up a good book instead of wanting to be closer.do I wait on him to show more 🔥 or should I just accept the window has closed? Has anyone else met an older exhausted Aries? If so how did that work?
