i am a pisces male, and this aries gal caught my eye. any ideas how to atract aries women?
HOW TO ATTRACT ARIES WOMEN?
im a aries rising..moon in taurus if that's any help
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Yup. I'm seeing an Aries woman now and I gotta say I am HOOKED! So remember my words!
Aries women like to take the initiative. (we as Pisces men LOVE that)
All you gotta do is look HOT and act cute. (pretty easy for us right?)
She will make all the first moves and will totally flirt. Respond with mysterious signs of interest like smiling back and small laughs. (shes a hunter trying to catch the fish)
Show no OBVIOUS signs of pursuit. You want her to keep guessing stuff like, (does he like me?....does he miss me?) My girl calls me like 3-5 times a day. I love it cuz she's smokin' HOT! I NEVER call...unless I missed her call and I'm calling back. She's going to be flaky on plans and her schedule is constantly changing. THATS IT! They love us cuz we can create the fantasy world they want to live in. So when you get her, treat her like a princess...you can even call her one. All you gotta do is make sure that YOU don't screw up and the way to do that is this:
1. Don't Gossip (try not to use foul language around her too....only speak positivity)
2. Don't Assume (you'll never know whats she's really thinking...which doesn't matter much cuz most girls don't know either)
3. Don't take ANYTHING personally (never get mad or show signs of sadness...your perfect in everyway...or at least act like it)
4. Always do your best (Pisces can BE the best...as long as they CHOOSE to!)
May the force be with you...
Aries women like to take the initiative. (we as Pisces men LOVE that)
All you gotta do is look HOT and act cute. (pretty easy for us right?)
She will make all the first moves and will totally flirt. Respond with mysterious signs of interest like smiling back and small laughs. (shes a hunter trying to catch the fish)
Show no OBVIOUS signs of pursuit. You want her to keep guessing stuff like, (does he like me?....does he miss me?) My girl calls me like 3-5 times a day. I love it cuz she's smokin' HOT! I NEVER call...unless I missed her call and I'm calling back. She's going to be flaky on plans and her schedule is constantly changing. THATS IT! They love us cuz we can create the fantasy world they want to live in. So when you get her, treat her like a princess...you can even call her one. All you gotta do is make sure that YOU don't screw up and the way to do that is this:
1. Don't Gossip (try not to use foul language around her too....only speak positivity)
2. Don't Assume (you'll never know whats she's really thinking...which doesn't matter much cuz most girls don't know either)
3. Don't take ANYTHING personally (never get mad or show signs of sadness...your perfect in everyway...or at least act like it)
4. Always do your best (Pisces can BE the best...as long as they CHOOSE to!)
May the force be with you...
wow jedi, what you said is the same exact thing that has happened to me but i also gave her a few calls myself..its amazing how mirror-like our situations are except when it got to the part where i showed a sign of sadness...she has a bf n stuff and i duno...she was with him in the meanwhile and i just snapped in my head and just walked away showing a sign of "fuck off"...which probably fucked the whole thing up anyways.
i like the chase aries gives to me all the time...but theres always gotta be something that fucks it up =/
i like the chase aries gives to me all the time...but theres always gotta be something that fucks it up =/
thanks notso07.
so, i should act like i dont care, but also give in a little too...right?
so that way it would make it seem like they caught ME..but technically its the other way around?
so, i should act like i dont care, but also give in a little too...right?
so that way it would make it seem like they caught ME..but technically its the other way around?
You probably shouldn't have snapped your head away so fast. Maintain your carefree attitude. You want to give the impression that you have a million girls at your doorstep and she is replaceable. The more you show WOMEN that they can affect you, the more control they feel they have. Women want to look UP to a man especially Aries. It takes a conscious Pisces to know how to react and beware of their little tests. Sometimes women will say and do things just to see how you react and your RE-actions can create more effect than just your actions alone.
It's funny cuz now my Aries is starting to talk "boyfriend/girlfriend" language and part of me wants to say, "OF COURSE I'll be your boyfriend" and the other part of me (the other fish) still wants to play "hard to get" It's alot like a psychological game of chess. Don't forget she's the queen and can destroy everything! Watch your moves!
It's funny cuz now my Aries is starting to talk "boyfriend/girlfriend" language and part of me wants to say, "OF COURSE I'll be your boyfriend" and the other part of me (the other fish) still wants to play "hard to get" It's alot like a psychological game of chess. Don't forget she's the queen and can destroy everything! Watch your moves!

Just be who 'You are' at the get-go, straight-up; if people don't like it, then that's 'bull-butter. Of course, you should always be kind and respectful first, using those special piscean intuitions; but at the same time you shouldn't have to 'tap-dance around a rule book, either. In the beginning, it's normal trying to figure out another, even exciting; but in the end, you can only be true to who you are; isn't that good enough?...'Allow those natural, positive piscean traits to shine through to their fullest advantage, using your common sense along the way; and as in all things in life; what's meant to be will be..

"it would make it seem like they caught ME..but technically its the other way around?"
Yep, you got it ..
Make her think she's NOT gorgeous, while maintaining a close friendship of trust. They are ego-based, not mental .. so, keep her mentally and emotionally secured and respected by you, while leaving her to believe she isn't the most hottest woman walking physically and she'll come chasing after you to get your attention so you'll notice how hot she is.
They HAVE to be adored for their physical attributes .. so, this is where you'll catch her .. only in reverse .. she'll think she's chasing you.
Yep, you got it ..
Make her think she's NOT gorgeous, while maintaining a close friendship of trust. They are ego-based, not mental .. so, keep her mentally and emotionally secured and respected by you, while leaving her to believe she isn't the most hottest woman walking physically and she'll come chasing after you to get your attention so you'll notice how hot she is.
They HAVE to be adored for their physical attributes .. so, this is where you'll catch her .. only in reverse .. she'll think she's chasing you.

...some handy tips; but if all else fails, forget the mindgames and tight-rope walking; maybe she's more of an ascended Aries and looks for the deeper..*nothing speaks more attractive of a person than sincerity and a touch of vulnerability..'i can't imagine an Aries woman not appreciateing these qualities like any other sign; 'most signs can spot pretentiousness a mile away...*at any rate, best of luck hsl..! 🙂

"I don't think you should *act* like anything but yourself."
...exactly; my thoughts for the last two posts..lol* =)
...exactly; my thoughts for the last two posts..lol* =)

That's sound right in theory .. but, we're talking about trying to chase the Aries, when chasing is their territory .. being yourself works with every other sign, though.
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Yeah, but that's different .. Scorpio's have a natural aire about them that projects independence and confidence .. the Ram is naturally attracted to that, so being the self will surly lure them in.

Most Pisces don't have that quality ..

Isn't it curious how we are attracted to certain attributes in a person, yet, repel them with ours .. yet, the ones we do attract, don't possess the ones we want.
It's almost like .. we're sending vibes out of what we don't want, rather than what we do.
It's almost like .. we're sending vibes out of what we don't want, rather than what we do.

Maybe alot of Aries women do seek the more obvious of overtones, and that's okay; but doesn't that contradict with wanting to be being the chasers? They want a bold man, yet they want to take the reigns, something doesn't seem to equate..LOL* ..however, i do think Pisces men don't need to toot their horns much, they don't have to be so obvious like the other signs, it's their unpretentious allure, elusiveness and mysterious aire that is highly attractive..! 🙂

anyway, i don't think a person's attributes have to be so delineated; so cut and dried from birth to death. People do grow, change and mature throughout life, and arn't always STATIC, for the most part. A person can more or less be anything and everything at any time..! *In the end, it's ALL good; it's what makes one person so unique and different from the next..
..okay, running out of pennies for thoughts, now!..LOL* 😉
..okay, running out of pennies for thoughts, now!..LOL* 😉

And further .. a lot of people aren't actually what they appear to be. When attracting a person, often times, we give off impressions of what we want the other person to see, that can be quite different from who we really are.
So, in this case .. what the person is attracted to, isn't even us, really. Some people "play" innocent, coy, seductive, naive, strong, ect .. when, they really aren't. You know what I mean? So, it all boils down to knowing what you're looking for and just being yourself to get there.
So, in this case .. what the person is attracted to, isn't even us, really. Some people "play" innocent, coy, seductive, naive, strong, ect .. when, they really aren't. You know what I mean? So, it all boils down to knowing what you're looking for and just being yourself to get there.

"A person can more or less be anything and everything at any time"
Oops, you already said that .. I second it, then.
Oops, you already said that .. I second it, then.

"i don't think a person's attributes have to be so delineated"
The only problem with that, MF .. is that the people "looking" for their partner, actually do have a defined set of parameters of what they want in another person. When failing to find the right person, it's not so much in that they CANNOT find the right one, rather, they have their own expectations of the other person limited, and then can't find him/her because every person is multi-layered can't cannot fit within the box.
The only problem with that, MF .. is that the people "looking" for their partner, actually do have a defined set of parameters of what they want in another person. When failing to find the right person, it's not so much in that they CANNOT find the right one, rather, they have their own expectations of the other person limited, and then can't find him/her because every person is multi-layered can't cannot fit within the box.

Thanks notso..🙂

..You make a good point P-Angel, however i think i was on a slightly 'different wave-length of thought.. 🙂
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