jshuxian
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I broke up with my boyfriend, but we still love each other deeply. How to get an aries man back?
Well he's kinda right. Broke people shouldn't be dating. It's not fair on the other person.
Stop selling yourself short.
Of course you would like to go on dates. The couch is not enough all the time.
He realizes your worth more than you do.
Also, people who are deeply in love dont break up.
Stop selling yourself short.
Of course you would like to go on dates. The couch is not enough all the time.
He realizes your worth more than you do.
Also, people who are deeply in love dont break up.
Posted by jshuxianHell girl good job! He has the caring forethought to take care of you! It should be flattering that he cares about you so much, that he knows he needs to step it up! The best thing you can do is 1. Succeed on your own and 2. Help him succeed too! The more you and he succeed separately, the more you benefit together. Y'all are fine. Let him be a man and fulfill his ego. If he wants to bring more to table, let him go get it! You will BOTH appreciate it later. I realize you miss him and it's hard right now but just know it's all for the best down the road.
We didn't broke up because we don't love each other at all. In fact, we are still deeply in love. The only reason why he broke up with me was because he thinks that he's not worthy of me. The main reason behind this break up is that he has financial issues. He do not have enough money to bring me out on dates. But I've already explained to him that I do not need any dates, just being with him was enough. We could just continue what we've always been doing. Meeting up for dinner.
But to him, being unable to bring me out on dates or buying me stuff just makes him feel very useless. He thinks that I deserve a guy that can buy anything and everything I want.
He said he feel useless when he's with me. Because he can't bring me out on dates and so on. But I've never seen him cry in my whole life and he is not the type of person to cry over things like this too. But when he asked for a break up, he cried. It pains me so much. He told me that unless there are other factors that can cover up this financial issue that he has, he will not get back to me. Unless he can find a new reason that can overwrite that financial issue, he will continue to just stay as friends with me.
I really love him a lot, and I don't want money to be the problem between us. I need him back into my life. Is there anyway I can persuade him to get back to me? Or do you guys have any idea if there's anything else that will make him change his mind?
"Unless he can find a new reason that can overwrite that financial issue, he will continue to just stay as friends with me."
what does this mean? "stay as friends with me"? how he define friends? what that "friendship" will involve? if you can see each other like friends, why you can see each other like lovers? I dont understand this reasoning....
also, how much a stroll along a river costs?
PS. I agree with @AbbyNormal: "The best thing you can do is 1. Succeed on your own and 2. Help him succeed too! ......separately"
what does this mean? "stay as friends with me"? how he define friends? what that "friendship" will involve? if you can see each other like friends, why you can see each other like lovers? I dont understand this reasoning....
also, how much a stroll along a river costs?
PS. I agree with @AbbyNormal: "The best thing you can do is 1. Succeed on your own and 2. Help him succeed too! ......separately"
Aries are usually positive people, and if they don’t have money, they go out and make it. They can also be perfectionists too, so if something isn’t right then this can be quite depressing. Do you offer to pay for things? I think he does sound a little depressed, and if you can snap him out of it then you could be together. You really have to be 100% sure this is the reason why he wants to break up though, as Aries can avoid awrkward issues by blaming it on something else, like maybe he doesn’t fancy you but saying he doesn’t have money is less of an argument. If you are positive then you can transfer that energy to him, not having money is temporary, sometimes people don’t have money, it doesn’t mean it’s forever, we live in the land of opportunity, so why waste it. I would stay positive, motivate him. But at the end the best thing might be to move on, as when people are depressed, they don’t thunk straight, you can’t pull them out of it, as they have to learn to do it themselves. And he needs to think about his dream, does it have you in it or not, and then he needs to have faith that things will get better, cos he really sounds down right now and does not sounds like himself.
Think about this... you love and miss him, but he’s not feeling the same and uses being broke as an excuse. If you really love someone, you want to be with them and do everything you can to, not make excuses. I think there is something else going on here... he could be depressed, not love himself which will effect his capacity to love you. I think there is someone else for you who will not break your heart because of money. I don’t think think there is anything you can do... he needs professional help to get him out of his funk. How long were you guys together?
Posted by DMVI agree completely with everything except the last one
Well he's kinda right. Broke people shouldn't be dating. It's not fair on the other person.
Stop selling yourself short.
Of course you would like to go on dates. The couch is not enough all the time.
He realizes your worth more than you do.
Also, people who are deeply in love dont break up.
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But to him, being unable to bring me out on dates or buying me stuff just makes him feel very useless. He thinks that I deserve a guy that can buy anything and everything I want.
He said he feel useless when he's with me. Because he can't bring me out on dates and so on. But I've never seen him cry in my whole life and he is not the type of person to cry over things like this too. But when he asked for a break up, he cried. It pains me so much. He told me that unless there are other factors that can cover up this financial issue that he has, he will not get back to me. Unless he can find a new reason that can overwrite that financial issue, he will continue to just stay as friends with me.
I really love him a lot, and I don't want money to be the problem between us. I need him back into my life. Is there anyway I can persuade him to get back to me? Or do you guys have any idea if there's anything else that will make him change his mind?