I can't seem to shake this Aries man?!

Somehow an Aries guy has fallen for me, even calling me his gf and acting like we are together but I never let on we were really dating, and no we never had sex. I went on a couple dates but he's my sisters really good friend so we always hang out in groups. Now I've decided he's just doing it for me as I do not feel mentally intrigued or connection with him, or emotional or sexual. I don't want to ruin the social dynamic by rejecting him but would do I do? How can I get him to fade away/ lose interest?

Posted by SensitiveBlues
Reject him by being honest



Aries men are so gross

Dang it, normally I would be no problem but my sis always hangs out with him and since I moved far from my friends they are my social circle now too 😢

I've also come to the conclusion I'm stil hung up on my ex as his recent bday really effected me for weeks. I decided to not date anyone for awhile as I'm not even interested. I really just am over it right now... MAjor planetary forces going on?

What degree is your aries rising. LIbras and Aries in general are having a tough time with the uranus transit and with pluto squaring them

Posted by rabidtalker
What degree is your aries rising. LIbras and Aries in general are having a tough time with the uranus transit and with pluto squaring them

20 degrees

Posted by Moonbutter
I've also come to the conclusion I'm stil hung up on my ex as his recent bday really effected me for weeks. I decided to not date anyone for awhile as I'm not even interested. I really just am over it right now... MAjor planetary forces going on?

Just tell him you're not over your ex.

How he still lingers in your mind...the what ifs about the family you all could have started.

How you're single but he thrives constantly in your mind.

If you say these exact words to him. I don't think him or your sister will feel like you're a stick in the mud.

You're just dealing with a recent break up.

Posted by PlutoMars44
Give him the cold hard truth even if it hurts his feelings. You being comfortable is more important than his pride.

Oh man... I mean I have been rather detached and not touchy feely what is it with this guy? The universe is a real asshole sometimes. Why is it the ones I don't want want me more? Lol arrrghhh

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Posted by rabidtalker
What degree is your aries rising. LIbras and Aries in general are having a tough time with the uranus transit and with pluto squaring them

20 degrees

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Yep, uranus crossed over it in April, currently at 24deg aries, Pluto will come close but wont hit that point until feb 2018.

google for transit uranus conjunct ascendant and transit pluto square ascendant

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Posted by Moonbutter
I've also come to the conclusion I'm stil hung up on my ex as his recent bday really effected me for weeks. I decided to not date anyone for awhile as I'm not even interested. I really just am over it right now... MAjor planetary forces going on?

Just tell him you're not over your ex.

How he still lingers in your mind...the what ifs about the family you all could have started.

How you're single but he thrives constantly in your mind.

If you say these exact words to him. I don't think him or your sister will feel like you're a stick in the mud.

You're just dealing with a recent break up.

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Thank you, good advice! Only it's been a year and half since my break up :/ but I really did see a future, visioned his tux and how cute our kids would be with his big blue eyes haha 🙂

ha you tell him you're not over your ex is giving him a clear sign to keep trying.... tell him you're not interested is the best ploy

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Posted by rabidtalker
What degree is your aries rising. LIbras and Aries in general are having a tough time with the uranus transit and with pluto squaring them

20 degrees

Yep, uranus crossed over it in April, currently at 24deg aries, Pluto will come close but wont hit that point until feb 2018.

google for transit uranus conjunct ascendant and transit pluto square ascendant

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Interesting... April was when we decided there may be something between us... But please what do all those transits mean?

Posted by rabidtalker
ha you tell him you're not over your ex is giving him a clear sign to keep trying.... tell him you're not interested is the best ploy

Haha yeah Them Aries men do like a challenge 😉

You already know where I stand.

If he kissed you and you accepted the kiss, and it didn't result in just casual sex, then by default, you are in a relationship.

Simple.

Posted by themagnetoreborn
You already know where I stand.

If he kissed you and you accepted the kiss, and it didn't result in just casual sex, then by default, you are in a relationship.

Oh right, lol

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by rabidtalker
google for transit uranus conjunct ascendant and transit pluto square ascendant

Interesting... April was when we decided there may be something between us... But please what do all those transits mean?

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😕 I told you what to google for!

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Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by rabidtalker
google for transit uranus conjunct ascendant and transit pluto square ascendant

Interesting... April was when we decided there may be something between us... But please what do all those transits mean?

😕 I told you what to google for!

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I did, but my Pluto is Libra . Ugh I'm just not good at the transit stuff

From what I read on Aries the more you act interested the less interested he'll be. If he can't take no for an answer maybe he'll take "Oh, please marry me" lol.

Posted by UTFanatic15
From what I read on Aries the more you act interested the less interested he'll be. If he can't take no for an answer maybe he'll take "Oh, please marry me" lol.

Haha I know! I think I'm driving him mad in a flirty way without meaning to.

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Posted by rabidtalker
google for transit uranus conjunct ascendant and transit pluto square ascendant

Interesting... April was when we decided there may be something between us... But please what do all those transits mean?

😕 I told you what to google for!

I did, but my Pluto is Libra . Ugh I'm just not good at the transit stuff

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You have uranus that just passed over your ascendant, but because pluto is currently in capricorn, it is also squaring your asendant (or soon will). You may have pluto square natal pluto depending on your age but that is more generational you can look that one up to if you want.

google:

1. transit uranus conjunct ascendant

1a. transit uranus in first house

2. transit pluto square ascendant

3. pluto square pluto

I also added a couple more to google.

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Posted by ImTheRam
I guess this is man you were flirting right?

The same guy you went on dates?

The same guy you were throwing some sexy talks here and there to keep him interested because you know what to do?

The same guy why you asked me what i "thought" about the future with a woman because i am also an Aries?

The same Aries that is now Gross right?

The same Aries that you don't want now (after playing a bit) because you want your ex back?

And you also throw the card...."i don't want him and he is chassing me"..."how do i get rid of him.." (pitty pitty)

🙂

Long long ago when i was still a teen...i understood right away how to *use* (or don't) my feelings with women.

And i never ever changed it since....and i never will....i will only be with Strong, Mature, Independent and Inteligent women on my life.

Good Luck in your journey, i hope you learn something from this...because Karma... 🙂

Well said, Ram

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Nah...I know him from hanging out with my sister and her friends. He flirted, teased, we would all drink and then i became flirtier because I was staring to like him. I don't play him, I genuinely gave it a shot we really went on one date and it was a mini road trip. I've been distancing myself when I realized my feelings were up in the air. My ex bday was recent and that's when I realized I'm not ready to date anyone yet.

Normally I would just tell the guy, but I wanted to see if my feelings would change so I waited a bit longer. He's a good friend of my sis and her friends so I see him a lot when I hang out with them.

I know about Karma, but I also know about grace so thank you but you can reserve your karma lessons for someone who may actually need it. I had no ill intention here, I thought maybe but it just didn't work out.

Posted by ImTheRam
I guess this is man you were flirting right?

The same guy you went on dates?

The same guy you were throwing some sexy talks here and there to keep him interested because you know what to do?

The same guy why you asked me what i "thought" about the future with a woman because i am also an Aries?

The same Aries that is now Gross right?

The same Aries that you don't want now (after playing a bit) because you want your ex back?

And you also throw the card...."i don't want him and he is chassing me"..."how do i get rid of him.." (pitty pitty)

🙂

Long long ago when i was still a teen...i understood right away how to *use* (or don't) my feelings with women.

And i never ever changed it since....and i never will....i will only be with Strong, Mature, Independent and Inteligent women on my life.

Good Luck in your journey, i hope you learn something from this...because Karma... 🙂

Go ram, go ram

I understand you are trying to help... He's the one who started the flirting and yes he does like me obviously which is why I'm on here. Sheesh I don't need potty this was all in fun it's not that serious... Calm down 🙂

Posted by Moonbutter
I understand you are trying to help... He's the one who started the flirting and yes he does like me obviously which is why I'm on here. Sheesh I don't need potty this was all in fun it's not that serious... Calm down 🙂

*pitty lol 😄

Isnt it serious if you made a thread about it. Did you come for advice or just wanted to share a story?

Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Isnt it serious if you made a thread about it. Did you come for advice or just wanted to share a story?

You must be new here 😛

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Nah...I know him from hanging out with my sister and her friends. He flirted, teased, we would all drink and then i became flirtier because I was staring to like him. I don't play him, I genuinely gave it a shot we really went on one date and it was a mini road trip. I've been distancing myself when I realized my feelings were up in the air. My ex bday was recent and that's when I realized I'm not ready to date anyone yet.

Normally I would just tell the guy, but I wanted to see if my feelings would change so I waited a bit longer. He's a good friend of my sis and her friends so I see him a lot when I hang out with them.

I know about Karma, but I also know about grace so thank you but you can reserve your karma lessons for someone who may actually need it. I had no ill intention here, I thought maybe but it just didn't work out.

If you had determined that you still have feelings for your ex, tell that to the Aries. If you started off being flirty and then you become distant, the Aries won't necessarily know that. Rather I think he would probably make more efforts in chasing you.

I understand silence is a form of communication. At the same time though, silence leaves room for misunderstandings where words might otherwise prevent.

IMO

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Quite true!

Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Isnt it serious if you made a thread about it. Did you come for advice or just wanted to share a story?

She wanted to appear more desirable by coming here claiming the Aries is chasing her to the point of making a thread.

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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Isnt it serious if you made a thread about it. Did you come for advice or just wanted to share a story?

She wanted to appear more desirable by coming here claiming the Aries is chasing her to the point of making a thread.

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It was kinda part in fun and part taking advice from others. In the end I will go with my gut 😉

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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Isnt it serious if you made a thread about it. Did you come for advice or just wanted to share a story?

She wanted to appear more desirable by coming here claiming the Aries is chasing her to the point of making a thread.

It was kinda part in fun and part taking advice from others. In the end I will go with my gut 😉

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K

Posted by Moonbutter

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Posted by rabidtalker
What degree is your aries rising. LIbras and Aries in general are having a tough time with the uranus transit and with pluto squaring them

20 degrees

Yep, uranus crossed over it in April, currently at 24deg aries, Pluto will come close but wont hit that point until feb 2018.

google for transit uranus conjunct ascendant and transit pluto square ascendant

Interesting... April was when we decided there may be something between us... But please what do all those transits mean?

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Transits mean change, something's gonna happen, good or bad, with Uranus, it's more of a sudden change, and/or you'll have a need for more freedom, Pluto is a destruction, or an in-depth incursion into an area of your life. Check your transits every now and then, and just go ok, l'll have to be careful at that point in time etc...

Oh, and check the 4 big ones, Saturn Uranus Neptune Pluto

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Isnt it serious if you made a thread about it. Did you come for advice or just wanted to share a story?

You must be new here 😛

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No I've been here for a while, just surprised you're doing it

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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Isnt it serious if you made a thread about it. Did you come for advice or just wanted to share a story?

You must be new here 😛

No I've been here for a while, just surprised you're doing it

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Doing what? Posting on here?

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Posted by SensitiveBlues
Reject him by being honest



Aries men are so gross

I don't understand how this is so hard!

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Why do you think this is hard?

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Posted by SensitiveBlues
Reject him by being honest



Aries men are so gross

I don't understand how this is so hard!

Why do you think this is hard?

It is meant as the solution is easy, you tell him. You tell him, firmly and direct, that there is nothing between you. And if you hear of anything, you will publicly display how ridiculous he is being. (I. E. Shove it all over social media).

Does this guy have down syndrome? I can't understand.

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Nah I'm not really into Social Media. Only problem is I don't want things to be akward since he's like a best friend to my sis and I only have them to hang out with. I moved far from all my friends and been working my ass off so they are all I have here 😢

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Posted by SensitiveBlues
Reject him by being honest



Aries men are so gross

I don't understand how this is so hard!

Why do you think this is hard?

It is meant as the solution is easy, you tell him. You tell him, firmly and direct, that there is nothing between you. And if you hear of anything, you will publicly display how ridiculous he is being. (I. E. Shove it all over social media).

Does this guy have down syndrome? I can't understand.

Nah I'm not really into Social Media. Only problem is I don't want things to be akward since he's like a best friend to my sis and I only have them to hang out with. I moved far from all my friends and been working my ass off so they are all I have here 😢

Have you addressed this to her?

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No, but I think she knows it's more one-sided. I mean he was like " so are we officially bf and gf now?" And before I could answer he goes, " well I consider you my gf" I was kinda shocked and then our friends came back in from outside so I didn't object. But I feel a lil backed in to it, like I had no say and it's going faster then I wanted. Anyway, he's been telling everyone I'm his GF and it's embarrassing and now I'm stuck.