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Posted by bittercupcake
depends on venus and mars.... I know if one who was dumped and he was still ... persistent...

I know of one...after 2 years ... was still pursuing his ex

His venus...Taurus and mars .... Capricorn

Most...I know are too confident / .. cocky... to go back... and would rather move on.... it would have to be a person that ... they've never fully had a grasp on... someone that was a challenge and... unattainable
yes & once they get the unattainable/challenge back , they usually get dismissed by the Aries cuz no fun anymore lol
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OK, can you regain the attraction you had for someone? What if the issues you had were the reasons you broke up but those issues were addressed? Let say the "ex" completely changed their life for be better, understood the previous and was working on those?

In time could your mind change? Knowing someone does like you still and has feelings for you? Do you find it strange keeping an ex as a close friend and engaging them more than other friends?
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Posted by doublesidedGem
OK, can you regain the attraction you had for someone? What if the issues you had were the reasons you broke up but those issues were addressed? Let say the "ex" completely changed their life for be better, understood the previous and was working on those?

In time could your mind change? Knowing someone does like you still and has feelings for you? Do you find it strange keeping an ex as a close friend and engaging them more than other friends?
i can regain the attraction I once had for some exes, not all... if an ex addressed issues we had in the past which caused the break up & wanted to be with me again -I would have a real hard time trusting that person , no relationship with no trust ... I don't find it strange to keep some exes as friends .. I don't engage them more than my friends that are & always have been platonic
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Posted by doublesidedGem
Can I ask how these ended. Were you girls cheated on, if you don't mind answering. They behave like a dick in general?

What's made you feel like ewwwww nooo.

My current situation is similar to this, but the Aries girl allows me to be affectionate. Run fingers through hair! Though our ending was slightly different, still ended though.


It's not really about how it ended , it's more about how I won't allow myself to give my exes even more time of my life that I had already given them
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Posted by doublesidedGem
Can I ask how these ended. Were you girls cheated on, if you don't mind answering. They behave like a dick in general?

What's made you feel like ewwwww nooo.

My current situation is similar to this, but the Aries girl allows me to be affectionate. Run fingers through hair! Though our ending was slightly different, still ended though.


Cheated on and betrayed. I am a very forgiving person, but don't try to blame me for your mistakes and then try to disrespect me. One had the audacity to tell me that he couldn't satisfy me, because I wasn't acting like "other girls" he had "experienced" with, but he really likes me and still want to hang out sometimes.

My ewww no to this one is that, if he felt he can't satisfy me because "I am not like his other ladies in the sack, who I guessed "fake" it for him - given "the size of the ship" he is moving with. Then he should hang out with them and forget about me and my personality that he so love.

The fact that your Aries is was allowing you to be affectionate showed that she still wanted you/or wants you.
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Posted by WitchmitchAries
i told me husband this week that was not in love with him anymore. it was sad to see his heart brake. but i just cant seem to get back there with him anymore. he is being very understand about, but i know he is hurting so bad. i really tried to go back to the way we were but i just couldnt. so i have been dealing with all that stuff this past week.
Oh my, I'm so sorry .. normally, the first question I would ask is do u think your marriage can be saved ...but.. you're an Aries , with a water moon for that matter .. I think u have made your final decision, no? I hope I'm wrong , I don't like seeing/hearing of marriages breaking up ?
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i told me husband this week that was not in love with him anymore. it was sad to see his heart brake. but i just cant seem to get back there with him anymore. he is being very understand about, but i know he is hurting so bad. i really tried to go back to the way we were but i just couldnt. so i have been dealing with all that stuff this past week.
Oh my, I'm so sorry .. normally, the first question I would ask is do u think your marriage can be saved ...but.. you're an Aries , with a water moon for that matter .. I think u have made your final decision, no? I hope I'm wrong , I don't like seeing/hearing of marriages breaking up ?
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its all good. yes i have moved on and i been helping my husband to move on. he so glad that we will still remain friends. that seems to be helping him. we went to see a councelor today. it helped him. which helped me. i care about him very much. i just am not in love with him anymore. its a long story. lol
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i told me husband this week that was not in love with him anymore. it was sad to see his heart brake. but i just cant seem to get back there with him anymore. he is being very understand about, but i know he is hurting so bad. i really tried to go back to the way we were but i just couldnt. so i have been dealing with all that stuff this past week.
Oh my, I'm so sorry .. normally, the first question I would ask is do u think your marriage can be saved ...but.. you're an Aries , with a water moon for that matter .. I think u have made your final decision, no? I hope I'm wrong , I don't like seeing/hearing of marriages breaking up ?
its all good. yes i have moved on and i been helping my husband to move on. he so glad that we will still remain friends. that seems to be helping him. we went to see a councelor today. it helped him. which helped me. i care about him very much. i just am not in love with him anymore. its a long story. lol
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May I ask a question please? Did he feel the love was gone, or did you spring this want of divorce on him suddenly? Ie was there an underlying sense of being in denial and knowing that it was definately eventually going to come to this point...or will he have been completely taken aback because you have acted like everything is fine?
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Posted by RomansuPantsu
I am apparently the minority amongst every aries on the planet...

I still love my ex and would mostly likely take him back if he came back around. I fell in love with him and the love just never stopped. Even after 3 years (on and off) of bickering with this fool he still has my heart and it's hard to move on 100%
That's ok, we're not all the same.. what is your moon & venus ?
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Posted by WitchmitchAries
i told me husband this week that was not in love with him anymore. it was sad to see his heart brake. but i just cant seem to get back there with him anymore. he is being very understand about, but i know he is hurting so bad. i really tried to go back to the way we were but i just couldnt. so i have been dealing with all that stuff this past week.
Wow very brave of you. How long have you been together including marriage?

Do you have kids?
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I feel like a male Aries would depending on his situation but it would only be for his benefit of money & a decent place to live.
Aries is like this— Isnt that more a Cap move? I thought Aries are too indpendant wanting to be the breadwinner bring home the money, provider type. His competetive side wouldnt allow him to be less of a man no?
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I feel like a male Aries would depending on his situation but it would only be for his benefit of money & a decent place to live.
Aries is like this— Isnt that more a Cap move? I thought Aries are too indpendant wanting to be the breadwinner bring home the money, provider type. His competetive side wouldnt allow him to be less of a man no?
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I had an ex marry a woman exactly because of that
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i told me husband this week that was not in love with him anymore. it was sad to see his heart brake. but i just cant seem to get back there with him anymore. he is being very understand about, but i know he is hurting so bad. i really tried to go back to the way we were but i just couldnt. so i have been dealing with all that stuff this past week.
Wow very brave of you. How long have you been together including marriage?

Do you have kids?
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sorry so long to reply. we have been married for 29 years. have to girls who are adults now. we also have a grandson who is 4. lol we dated a year before we got married. so 30 years we been together.