Leo dating an Aries woman

Hey everyone I need help I’m extremely confused, so I’m a Leo born July 23 I’m 21 I have been I don’t even wanna say dating because she tells me clearly she’s just my friend even though I tell her she’s my girl, so basically we met through Instagram I was watching her stories and then I saw she was watching mine so I messaged her and then we hanged out, well she has 3 kids two different guys and she’s a prostitute it makes me sad believe me she’s pretty but she chooses that life anyways I still ‘dated’ her I wanna say in the fact that I took her and her kids out to eat, I really enjoy being around her it would be me her and her daughter most of the time I really felt she started to like me anyways we do seem to argue a lot and I read on our compatibility and it said we do have a lot of fiery so it made sense as to why we argue and oh I forgot to mention she is born in April 19 and she’s older than me she’s 27 and so yeah I began catching feelings for her feeling overprotective for her I saw her as my little baby and even for her daughter I began feeling like a father to her she made me happy she is a Leo like me and we click really well lol she basically reminds me of myself in the fact that she plays a lot craves a lot of attention just like myself and what not so it was almost creepy to say the least in the fact that we were so a like. I even met her other 2 kids which were boys and I clicked well with them too they are both nice and respectful kids we’ve been talking for about 1 month and a half maybe hanged out around 10-12 times so I wanna say I know her pretty well and she knows me as well, I start feeling very jealous around her and I feel she can sense it and so going now to the main question I have is why does she ghost me ? Right now it’s been 3 days since we’ve talked I sent her a ‘wyd’ message which she hasn’t even opened I know she can see it but why she chooses not to open it confuses me so much and this is not the first time she does this she once ghosted me for 5 days and I got fed up and messaged her telling her I missed her and what not , so yeah I’m starting to feel like she enjoys being chased or something or maybe she’s mad at me I don’t know, anyways I really like being with her I feel safe like it’s meant to be even though we argue a lot and she makes me mad/jealous by talking to other guys in front of me I just haven’t told her but maybe I should, I think she does it on purpose I even told her she has a big circle, I don’t know maybe I’m overthinking everything but I haven’t been talking to other women because I’ve become pretty obsessed over her I know I can move on but I can’t lie it hurts me because I feel I’ve put so much effort into our relationship I bought her food give her rides to the grocery store and whenever she needed so maybe she was just using me? I don’t know I even asked her if she loved me and she sAid yes quietly and hesitAntly but back to my main question why does age diss appear for sometime ? I understand she has kids and she’s very busy but I am sure she could be more communicative and text me here and there anyways I feel angry/sad disrespected like mocked or she just doesn’t like me and maybe she’s given up on me I don’t know it’s sick because I know it’s hurting me I can feel it I’ve told my friends about her and everything I just wrote and they told me to cut her off to stop giving her power to go get a better girl who can appreciate me but for some reason I’m attracted to this girl maybe it’s because I know I can’t have her and it’s in us to want what we can’t have ? 😔

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tldr plz

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Younger male Leo "dating" 27 yo Aries prostitute mother of 3 kids for one month complains about her occasional disappearing.

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😹😹😹😹😹what do i do ?

Posted by Jakecaca

😹😹😹😹😹what do i do ?

u find urself a girl who isnt a sloot with 3 kids

Lol thanks bro

Posted by Jakecaca

Lol thanks bro

i have a vag, bro

Posted by Jakecaca

😹😹😹😹😹what do i do ?

Well she's a prostitute and making money for her goods. What can you do, other then take care of her kids while she's out, making some money and hope she doesn't get pregnant by another John.

Go find a girlfriend your age please, you must be a glutton for punishment looking to start something with a women with this much baggage.

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😎never read it. Not going to. Best of luck

Hmmz I think you need to chill out a bit. I’m an Aries and quite often I will get a text, read it and then tell myself I’ll message back later. Then I will completely forget.. or I will think the moment has past. It has nothing to do with whether I like them or not, I’ve done it with girls I do like and best friends too. It’s just such a trivial boring thing to do and a waste of time trying to think of what to say. She is not playing games, and she is not doing it intentionally.

I don’t think you should be relying on messages either, you should try and get to the stage you are calling her or leaving her WhatsApp voice messages. Also, I feel like I need to mention this.. the whole point of a text message is to arrange a meet.. there is no point otherwise. You can never build attraction through messages.

With the kids.. who cares, if you are happy.. it’s quite a lot of responsibility maybe. What if they start calling you daddy? (Personally I wouldn’t do it but that’s just me). She must like you if she introduces you to the kids, as moms don’t introduce men that they aren’t sure about and might get rid of once the kids might have become attached. I doubt she’s thinking that far ahead though, Aries are sort of impulsive, so she might not be worried about what the kids will think.

She could be using you, so be careful. Women in her profession are quite good at asking men for money, so just be careful there. Her kids will be priority and she will be looking for ways to pay for them any way she can. And escorts also get messaged a lot by customers, so does she have a separate phone for customers? It would help, because you don’t want your message getting caught up in all the other ones.

Also, I mean, I’ve dated escorts, strippers, pornstars before.. and they can still have feelings for you. Even if they are sleeping with other guys, other men might mean nothing to them. But you have to act like the boyfriend, not a customer.. and you can’t be jealous, you have to be ok with what she does for a living.. I don’t meet many men who can do it, but it’s possible. I am broken though, and I have definitely had it where the girl falls in love with me, more than once.. so you may be asking how can she love you if she’s sleeping with other men or getting naked for other men.. and I think this might be normal. But you will change, you might become broken like me.. just something to be aware of. Also, you are only 21? I don’t know what she’s like, but these women test men pretty hard, because they see all sorts of abusive men and she might want to know if you are different, you will have to be different.. but you don’t know what that is. You shouldn’t be trying to save her either. Some women might give up their job for a man, but at 21 can you support three kids, or does she not think like that. I don’t think she will be with you because you are only 21, she will see a lot of guys who have lost their way, and why won’t you? You will change when you get older. My advice would just be 21, find out what you want out of life and work for it, plenty of time for women later.

Your right maybe that’s why she’s not messaging me back she doesn’t want to hurt me

Your right maybe that’s why she’s not messaging me back she doesn’t want to hurt me

Posted by AriesJo

Hmmz I think you need to chill out a bit. I’m an Aries and quite often I will get a text, read it and then tell myself I’ll message back later. Then I will completely forget.. or I will think the moment has past. It has nothing to do with whether I like them or not, I’ve done it with girls I do like and best friends too. It’s just such a trivial boring thing to do and a waste of time trying to think of what to say. She is not playing games, and she is not doing it intentionally.

I don’t think you should be relying on messages either, you should try and get to the stage you are calling her or leaving her WhatsApp voice messages. Also, I feel like I need to mention this.. the whole point of a text message is to arrange a meet.. there is no point otherwise. You can never build attraction through messages.

With the kids.. who cares, if you are happy.. it’s quite a lot of responsibility maybe. What if they start calling you daddy? (Personally I wouldn’t do it but that’s just me). She must like you if she introduces you to the kids, as moms don’t introduce men that they aren’t sure about and might get rid of once the kids might have become attached. I doubt she’s thinking that far ahead though, Aries are sort of impulsive, so she might not be worried about what the kids will think.

She could be using you, so be careful. Women in her profession are quite good at asking men for money, so just be careful there. Her kids will be priority and she will be looking for ways to pay for them any way she can. And escorts also get messaged a lot by customers, so does she have a separate phone for customers? It would help, because you don’t want your message getting caught up in all the other ones.

Also, I mean, I’ve dated escorts, strippers, pornstars before.. and they can still have feelings for you. Even if they are sleeping with other guys, other men might mean nothing to them. But you have to act like the boyfriend, not a customer.. and you can’t be jealous, you have to be ok with what she does for a living.. I don’t meet many men who can do it, but it’s possible. I am broken though, and I have definitely had it where the girl falls in love with me, more than once.. so you may be asking how can she love you if she’s sleeping with other men or getting naked for other men.. and I think this might be normal. But you will change, you might become broken like me.. just something to be aware of. Also, you are only 21? I don’t know what she’s like, but these women test men pretty hard, because they see all sorts of abusive men and she might want to know if you are different, you will have to be different.. but you don’t know what that is. You shouldn’t be trying to save her either. Some women might give up their job for a man, but at 21 can you support three kids, or does she not think like that. I don’t think she will be with you because you are only 21, she will see a lot of guys who have lost their way, and why won’t you? You will change when you get older. My advice would just be 21, find out what you want out of life and work for it, plenty of time for women later.

Thank you for the comment this is not the first time she does this to me where she disappears or ghosts me so I’m thinking maybe she’s busy maybe she’s mad at me or maybe she doesn’t want to hurt me? Knowing that I get jealous ? I don’t exactly know, or maybe she is out of town or maybe she is back with her ex ? Which I doubt because she showed me messages of her ex trying to message her back lol and she said she was ignoring him, so yeah I’m not sure but I can’t seem to stop thinking about her. I also feel like she probably could be thinking the same of me why haven’t I messaged her and what not ? lol this funny the more I think of it, the more time that passes the more I stay wondering, also I feel like she maybe just needs space maybe I’m too clingy ? No idea but my friends tell me to move on forget about her but something in me misses her loves her I don’t even care about what she does for a living I really enjoy her company lol idk why but yeah The more time that passes the more I start to feel like yeah I’ll be okay but something in me feels like begging her to come back to me which I’ve done in the past and she laughs and let’s me back in I tell her I miss her and she tells me to come bring her food or some eyelashes lol 😂 idk if this is some kind of fetish I have but keep giving me your guys feedback

Posted by AriesJo

Hmmz I think you need to chill out a bit. I’m an Aries and quite often I will get a text, read it and then tell myself I’ll message back later. Then I will completely forget.. or I will think the moment has past. It has nothing to do with whether I like them or not, I’ve done it with girls I do like and best friends too. It’s just such a trivial boring thing to do and a waste of time trying to think of what to say. She is not playing games, and she is not doing it intentionally.

I don’t think you should be relying on messages either, you should try and get to the stage you are calling her or leaving her WhatsApp voice messages. Also, I feel like I need to mention this.. the whole point of a text message is to arrange a meet.. there is no point otherwise. You can never build attraction through messages.

With the kids.. who cares, if you are happy.. it’s quite a lot of responsibility maybe. What if they start calling you daddy? (Personally I wouldn’t do it but that’s just me). She must like you if she introduces you to the kids, as moms don’t introduce men that they aren’t sure about and might get rid of once the kids might have become attached. I doubt she’s thinking that far ahead though, Aries are sort of impulsive, so she might not be worried about what the kids will think.

She could be using you, so be careful. Women in her profession are quite good at asking men for money, so just be careful there. Her kids will be priority and she will be looking for ways to pay for them any way she can. And escorts also get messaged a lot by customers, so does she have a separate phone for customers? It would help, because you don’t want your message getting caught up in all the other ones.

Also, I mean, I’ve dated escorts, strippers, pornstars before.. and they can still have feelings for you. Even if they are sleeping with other guys, other men might mean nothing to them. But you have to act like the boyfriend, not a customer.. and you can’t be jealous, you have to be ok with what she does for a living.. I don’t meet many men who can do it, but it’s possible. I am broken though, and I have definitely had it where the girl falls in love with me, more than once.. so you may be asking how can she love you if she’s sleeping with other men or getting naked for other men.. and I think this might be normal. But you will change, you might become broken like me.. just something to be aware of. Also, you are only 21? I don’t know what she’s like, but these women test men pretty hard, because they see all sorts of abusive men and she might want to know if you are different, you will have to be different.. but you don’t know what that is. You shouldn’t be trying to save her either. Some women might give up their job for a man, but at 21 can you support three kids, or does she not think like that. I don’t think she will be with you because you are only 21, she will see a lot of guys who have lost their way, and why won’t you? You will change when you get older. My advice would just be 21, find out what you want out of life and work for it, plenty of time for women later.

Thank you for the comment this is not the first time she does this to me where she disappears or ghosts me so I’m thinking maybe she’s busy maybe she’s mad at me or maybe she doesn’t want to hurt me? Knowing that I get jealous ? I don’t exactly know, or maybe she is out of town or maybe she is back with her ex ? Which I doubt because she showed me messages of her ex trying to message her back lol and she said she was ignoring him, so yeah I’m not sure but I can’t seem to stop thinking about her. I also feel like she probably could be thinking the same of me why haven’t I messaged her and what not ? lol this funny the more I think of it, the more time that passes the more I stay wondering, also I feel like she maybe just needs space maybe I’m too clingy ? No idea but my friends tell me to move on forget about her but something in me misses her loves her I don’t even care about what she does for a living I really enjoy her company lol idk why but yeah The more time that passes the more I start to feel like yeah I’ll be okay but something in me feels like begging her to come back to me which I’ve done in the past and she laughs and let’s me back in I tell her I miss her and she tells me to come bring her food or some eyelashes lol 😂 idk if this is some kind of fetish I have but keep giving me your guys feedback

Posted by Jakecaca

Posted by AriesJo

Hmmz I think you need to chill out a bit. I’m an Aries and quite often I will get a text, read it and then tell myself I’ll message back later. Then I will completely forget.. or I will think the moment has past. It has nothing to do with whether I like them or not, I’ve done it with girls I do like and best friends too. It’s just such a trivial boring thing to do and a waste of time trying to think of what to say. She is not playing games, and she is not doing it intentionally.

I don’t think you should be relying on messages either, you should try and get to the stage you are calling her or leaving her WhatsApp voice messages. Also, I feel like I need to mention this.. the whole point of a text message is to arrange a meet.. there is no point otherwise. You can never build attraction through messages.

With the kids.. who cares, if you are happy.. it’s quite a lot of responsibility maybe. What if they start calling you daddy? (Personally I wouldn’t do it but that’s just me). She must like you if she introduces you to the kids, as moms don’t introduce men that they aren’t sure about and might get rid of once the kids might have become attached. I doubt she’s thinking that far ahead though, Aries are sort of impulsive, so she might not be worried about what the kids will think.

She could be using you, so be careful. Women in her profession are quite good at asking men for money, so just be careful there. Her kids will be priority and she will be looking for ways to pay for them any way she can. And escorts also get messaged a lot by customers, so does she have a separate phone for customers? It would help, because you don’t want your message getting caught up in all the other ones.

Also, I mean, I’ve dated escorts, strippers, pornstars before.. and they can still have feelings for you. Even if they are sleeping with other guys, other men might mean nothing to them. But you have to act like the boyfriend, not a customer.. and you can’t be jealous, you have to be ok with what she does for a living.. I don’t meet many men who can do it, but it’s possible. I am broken though, and I have definitely had it where the girl falls in love with me, more than once.. so you may be asking how can she love you if she’s sleeping with other men or getting naked for other men.. and I think this might be normal. But you will change, you might become broken like me.. just something to be aware of. Also, you are only 21? I don’t know what she’s like, but these women test men pretty hard, because they see all sorts of abusive men and she might want to know if you are different, you will have to be different.. but you don’t know what that is. You shouldn’t be trying to save her either. Some women might give up their job for a man, but at 21 can you support three kids, or does she not think like that. I don’t think she will be with you because you are only 21, she will see a lot of guys who have lost their way, and why won’t you? You will change when you get older. My advice would just be 21, find out what you want out of life and work for it, plenty of time for women later.

Thank you for the comment this is not the first time she does this to me where she disappears or ghosts me so I’m thinking maybe she’s busy maybe she’s mad at me or maybe she doesn’t want to hurt me? Knowing that I get jealous ? I don’t exactly know, or maybe she is out of town or maybe she is back with her ex ? Which I doubt because she showed me messages of her ex trying to message her back lol and she said she was ignoring him, so yeah I’m not sure but I can’t seem to stop thinking about her. I also feel like she probably could be thinking the same of me why haven’t I messaged her and what not ? lol this funny the more I think of it, the more time that passes the more I stay wondering, also I feel like she maybe just needs space maybe I’m too clingy ? No idea but my friends tell me to move on forget about her but something in me misses her loves her I don’t even care about what she does for a living I really enjoy her company lol idk why but yeah The more time that passes the more I start to feel like yeah I’ll be okay but something in me feels like begging her to come back to me which I’ve done in the past and she laughs and let’s me back in I tell her I miss her and she tells me to come bring her food or some eyelashes lol 😂 idk if this is some kind of fetish I have but keep giving me your guys feedback

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