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@hazeofpixiedust
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Let him down gently...
Aries appreciate direct communication. Be honest. Rip the bandaid off.
Posted by hazeofpixiedust
Welllll, this past weekend I screwed up and slept with him. I'm pissed at myself for a couple reasons. I can clearly tell he is much more into me than I am into him. I knew sleeping with him would only make him fall harder which is unfair to him (damn you sex drive!!). I am moving soon which he knows and voiced sadness about.
I think you might need to be more clear. if your assuming the way he feels,about you base off sex then aries is not the sign for you.
and yes be as direct as possible.
Posted by solo87Hmm no. I don't think of it like that. I mean that he was already pretty into me to begin with and sleeping with him just kind of made all of that a little stronger on his part.Posted by hazeofpixiedust
Welllll, this past weekend I screwed up and slept with him. I'm pissed at myself for a couple reasons. I can clearly tell he is much more into me than I am into him. I knew sleeping with him would only make him fall harder which is unfair to him (damn you sex drive!!). I am moving soon which he knows and voiced sadness about.
I think you might need to be more clear. if your assuming the way he feels,about you base off sex then aries is not the sign for you.click to expand
Posted by hazeofpixiedustnevermind, never judge aries mans feelings for you with sex most will treat you like your the one in that department.Posted by solo87Hmm no. I don't think of it like that. I mean that he was already pretty into me to begin with and sleeping with him just kind of made all of that a little stronger on his part.Posted by hazeofpixiedust
Welllll, this past weekend I screwed up and slept with him. I'm pissed at myself for a couple reasons. I can clearly tell he is much more into me than I am into him. I knew sleeping with him would only make him fall harder which is unfair to him (damn you sex drive!!). I am moving soon which he knows and voiced sadness about.
I think you might need to be more clear. if your assuming the way he feels,about you base off sex then aries is not the sign for you.click to expand
Posted by solo87shoot. really? ugggh. I just signed my own death cert. didn't I.... LOLPosted by hazeofpixiedustnevermind, never judge aries mans feelings for you with sex most will treat you like your the one in that department.Posted by solo87Hmm no. I don't think of it like that. I mean that he was already pretty into me to begin with and sleeping with him just kind of made all of that a little stronger on his part.Posted by hazeofpixiedust
Welllll, this past weekend I screwed up and slept with him. I'm pissed at myself for a couple reasons. I can clearly tell he is much more into me than I am into him. I knew sleeping with him would only make him fall harder which is unfair to him (damn you sex drive!!). I am moving soon which he knows and voiced sadness about.
I think you might need to be more clear. if your assuming the way he feels,about you base off sex then aries is not the sign for you.click to expand
Posted by Librasettingwhassofunny?!Posted by hazeofpixiedustLol I can't help but laugh.Posted by solo87shoot. really? ugggh. I just signed my own death cert. didn't I.... LOLPosted by hazeofpixiedustnevermind, never judge aries mans feelings for you with sex most will treat you like your the one in that department.Posted by solo87Hmm no. I don't think of it like that. I mean that he was already pretty into me to begin with and sleeping with him just kind of made all of that a little stronger on his part.Posted by hazeofpixiedust
Welllll, this past weekend I screwed up and slept with him. I'm pissed at myself for a couple reasons. I can clearly tell he is much more into me than I am into him. I knew sleeping with him would only make him fall harder which is unfair to him (damn you sex drive!!). I am moving soon which he knows and voiced sadness about.
I think you might need to be more clear. if your assuming the way he feels,about you base off sex then aries is not the sign for you.click to expand
Posted by LibrasettingOh yeah... trust me I know. Why do you think I'm asking for advice? I don't think he really is looking to settle down necessarily though? Unsure there. He is a serial dater from what I've seen. Not quite a hoe but ya know....Posted by hazeofpixiedustLol just the way you feel about men and relationships then you go sleep with a guy in his mid 40s who most likely ready to settle down. It's funny because woman seem to always create their own problems.Posted by Librasettingwhassofunny?!Posted by hazeofpixiedustLol I can't help but laugh.Posted by solo87shoot. really? ugggh. I just signed my own death cert. didn't I.... LOLPosted by hazeofpixiedustnevermind, never judge aries mans feelings for you with sex most will treat you like your the one in that department.Posted by solo87Hmm no. I don't think of it like that. I mean that he was already pretty into me to begin with and sleeping with him just kind of made all of that a little stronger on his part.Posted by hazeofpixiedust
Welllll, this past weekend I screwed up and slept with him. I'm pissed at myself for a couple reasons. I can clearly tell he is much more into me than I am into him. I knew sleeping with him would only make him fall harder which is unfair to him (damn you sex drive!!). I am moving soon which he knows and voiced sadness about.
I think you might need to be more clear. if your assuming the way he feels,about you base off sex then aries is not the sign for you.click to expand
Posted by LibrasettingI was under the impression that both sexes make mistakes in relationships/the dating world. But maybe I'm crazy? 😄 😉Posted by hazeofpixiedustLol just the way you feel about men and relationships then you go sleep with a guy in his mid 40s who most likely ready to settle down. It's funny because woman seem to always create their own problems.Posted by Librasettingwhassofunny?!Posted by hazeofpixiedustLol I can't help but laugh.Posted by solo87shoot. really? ugggh. I just signed my own death cert. didn't I.... LOLPosted by hazeofpixiedustnevermind, never judge aries mans feelings for you with sex most will treat you like your the one in that department.Posted by solo87Hmm no. I don't think of it like that. I mean that he was already pretty into me to begin with and sleeping with him just kind of made all of that a little stronger on his part.Posted by hazeofpixiedust
Welllll, this past weekend I screwed up and slept with him. I'm pissed at myself for a couple reasons. I can clearly tell he is much more into me than I am into him. I knew sleeping with him would only make him fall harder which is unfair to him (damn you sex drive!!). I am moving soon which he knows and voiced sadness about.
I think you might need to be more clear. if your assuming the way he feels,about you base off sex then aries is not the sign for you.click to expand
do you guys have good wording or phrases—? I know that sounds cheesedick, but precise would really help me out here...
OP, if he is a serial dater, he will get over it 🙂 so, dont worry
if you REALLY want to let him down, start act clingy and confess your love for him 🙂
you know, so far it may be the "chase" thing with him... as Aries love to chase, and you are unavailable, and what more you are moving away..... so, you dont really know how much he is really into you and how much is the chase ... its not like he has/had to show his true colors yet
sometimes these situations lead to post in a few months, like this (unless he is ugly or fat or not good in bed): "I met this Aries, he was so into me, but I was still hung up on my guy and heartbroken from a previous break-up, I didnt want anything serious and I told him so many times, and now I start falling in love with him, but he is hot and cold now, distant.... he even went on a date with somebody else, because he was hurt by my reaction... I know I messed up and I know I didnt want anything serious, but now I want, but his ego is hurt, because I rejected him before several times.... what should I do? "
i hope it wont be your case, but it happens.... so, just be careful, dont assume anything and enjoy it, until you move away.... he is a big boy, he will deal with it 🙂
if you REALLY want to let him down, start act clingy and confess your love for him 🙂
you know, so far it may be the "chase" thing with him... as Aries love to chase, and you are unavailable, and what more you are moving away..... so, you dont really know how much he is really into you and how much is the chase ... its not like he has/had to show his true colors yet
sometimes these situations lead to post in a few months, like this (unless he is ugly or fat or not good in bed): "I met this Aries, he was so into me, but I was still hung up on my guy and heartbroken from a previous break-up, I didnt want anything serious and I told him so many times, and now I start falling in love with him, but he is hot and cold now, distant.... he even went on a date with somebody else, because he was hurt by my reaction... I know I messed up and I know I didnt want anything serious, but now I want, but his ego is hurt, because I rejected him before several times.... what should I do? "
i hope it wont be your case, but it happens.... so, just be careful, dont assume anything and enjoy it, until you move away.... he is a big boy, he will deal with it 🙂
Okay. As I'm reading this he is sending me messages calling me his "muse." Ahem. Not a joke. This is not a drill 😄 lolll I know he even tries to contain it in front of me because he knows where I stand, but I can tell he really likes me.
On another note - It's strange. The past two guys I dated ended horribly. Not on my part either. I just have a bad "picker" truly. This guy is actually pretty great but I can't stand the thought of being in a relationship right now. Aerospace Engineer, really fun, dark edgy sense of humor, adventurous, loves art like I do, we have the same tastes in things, we get along stupidly well and laugh a lot. He's not a jerk or a freak or pushy etc etc. Honestly, he is a pretty fantastic dude. What leads me to not wanting something solid with him is age and my last couple run ins with boyfriends who ended up being freaks. He is great looking for sure, but I just want someone closer to my own age..
Thank you all for the advice!
On another note - It's strange. The past two guys I dated ended horribly. Not on my part either. I just have a bad "picker" truly. This guy is actually pretty great but I can't stand the thought of being in a relationship right now. Aerospace Engineer, really fun, dark edgy sense of humor, adventurous, loves art like I do, we have the same tastes in things, we get along stupidly well and laugh a lot. He's not a jerk or a freak or pushy etc etc. Honestly, he is a pretty fantastic dude. What leads me to not wanting something solid with him is age and my last couple run ins with boyfriends who ended up being freaks. He is great looking for sure, but I just want someone closer to my own age..
Thank you all for the advice!
Okay. As I'm reading this he is sending me messages calling me his "muse." Ahem. Not a joke. This is not a drill 😄 lolll I know he even tries to contain it in front of me because he knows where I stand, but I can tell he really likes me.
On another note - It's strange. The past two guys I dated ended horribly. Not on my part either. I just have a bad "picker" truly. This guy is actually pretty great but I can't stand the thought of being in a relationship right now. Aerospace Engineer, really fun, dark edgy sense of humor, adventurous, loves art like I do, we have the same tastes in things, we get along stupidly well and laugh a lot. He's not a jerk or a freak or pushy etc etc. Honestly, he is a pretty fantastic dude. What leads me to not wanting something solid with him is age and my last couple run ins with boyfriends who ended up being freaks. He is great looking for sure, but I just want someone closer to my own age..
Thank you all for the advice!
On another note - It's strange. The past two guys I dated ended horribly. Not on my part either. I just have a bad "picker" truly. This guy is actually pretty great but I can't stand the thought of being in a relationship right now. Aerospace Engineer, really fun, dark edgy sense of humor, adventurous, loves art like I do, we have the same tastes in things, we get along stupidly well and laugh a lot. He's not a jerk or a freak or pushy etc etc. Honestly, he is a pretty fantastic dude. What leads me to not wanting something solid with him is age and my last couple run ins with boyfriends who ended up being freaks. He is great looking for sure, but I just want someone closer to my own age..
Thank you all for the advice!
Posted by hazeofpixiedustErmmm...??
I know that sounds cheesedick
Posted by LadyNeptuneSorry - It's just a term I use with friends (I realized after it was posted it might not be understood) to describe something that is cheesey...........Posted by hazeofpixiedustErmmm...??
I know that sounds cheesedickclick to expand
Posted by hazeofpixiedusthis muse? 🙂
Okay. As I'm reading this he is sending me messages calling me his "muse." Ahem. Not a joke. This is not a drill 😄 lolll I know he even tries to contain it in front of me because he knows where I stand, but I can tell he really likes me.
On another note - It's strange. The past two guys I dated ended horribly. Not on my part either. I just have a bad "picker" truly. This guy is actually pretty great but I can't stand the thought of being in a relationship right now. Aerospace Engineer, really fun, dark edgy sense of humor, adventurous, loves art like I do, we have the same tastes in things, we get along stupidly well and laugh a lot. He's not a jerk or a freak or pushy etc etc. Honestly, he is a pretty fantastic dude. What leads me to not wanting something solid with him is age and my last couple run ins with boyfriends who ended up being freaks. He is great looking for sure, but I just want someone closer to my own age..
Thank you all for the advice!
what are his other planets? what are yours?
Posted by Pandora101Mine are in my profile. I don't even know all of his. He was born Apr. 4th.Posted by hazeofpixiedusthis muse? 🙂
Okay. As I'm reading this he is sending me messages calling me his "muse." Ahem. Not a joke. This is not a drill 😄 lolll I know he even tries to contain it in front of me because he knows where I stand, but I can tell he really likes me.
On another note - It's strange. The past two guys I dated ended horribly. Not on my part either. I just have a bad "picker" truly. This guy is actually pretty great but I can't stand the thought of being in a relationship right now. Aerospace Engineer, really fun, dark edgy sense of humor, adventurous, loves art like I do, we have the same tastes in things, we get along stupidly well and laugh a lot. He's not a jerk or a freak or pushy etc etc. Honestly, he is a pretty fantastic dude. What leads me to not wanting something solid with him is age and my last couple run ins with boyfriends who ended up being freaks. He is great looking for sure, but I just want someone closer to my own age..
Thank you all for the advice!
what are his other planets? what are yours?
click to expand
Posted by hazeofpixiedust😂Posted by LadyNeptuneSorry - It's just a term I use with friends (I realized after it was posted it might not be understood) to describe something that is cheesey...........Posted by hazeofpixiedustErmmm...??
I know that sounds cheesedickclick to expand
He'll be fine I'm always prepared for a person to leave. Sometimes it's just for the greater anyway. I'll still flirt and whatnot though
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