My Aries man. Need advicesssss pleasee

Here is the story.i met this Aries guy (21march) at work.
Hr got attracted to me cus i ignoted him while the other girls
Were all over him. Been datting for over a month now. For religios reasons we didnt sleep together yet. Now i am under a post surgery state so we cant sleep yet together. The deal is : we fight a lot,for no reason. I always ignore him. He goes Nuts.he told me if i keep doing that he will leave. Last fight i didnt writte to him for 3days.he came back to me more angry than before.but he was still willing to fix this.so we did. Now i see him a little bit distant,even though we talk to each other 24hrs .we always meet when we r in town. He asked me to be his official GF since the first 2weeks. All his friends know about me.at work he always talks about me .he even asked me to meet with the family. After surgery he was bit cold with me.is it because he cant have sex with me for the next 2weeks ? That would be almost 2months dating... Is he into me or its just the sex thing that he didnt get from me yet that makes him coming back? I am Leo moon in capricorn .need advices pleaseee

You said you don't sleep for religious reasons. Yours? His? Both of you have the same religious frame?

I don't get what the surgery has to do with sleeping together since you weren't going to sleep together out of religious reasons to begin with.

What are the fights about?

Damnata ,we hav the same religion so we had a deal during amonth not to have sex. I slept with him ,hugged a lot but not had sex yet. It is a breast surgery so we r not supossed to shake it yet ‚ . he can get angry very fast,but yeah he chilles very fast as well. Usually the fights are cus i dont answer to him on time.or i ignore him. Not in purpose though.. Meet him today after 1week , since i am post surgery he offered to take care of me ,but all he did was sleeping since he came back from a trip. Felt alone at his house ,woke him up cus i needed food .he did wake up and cooked for me,but we didnt speak much with each other... It killing me ...

wow..this is very layered. I mean what are the dynamics of your relationship, if he was ignoring you for that reason alone, then that isn't right and it's kind of cruel

@Twodrinkminimum
I like him a lot... I am crazy about him . usually we fix things by talking to each other . i dont ignore him on purpose ..its just that i dont answer to him straight away ..sometimes .

@Twodrinkminimum read my previous post plsss

@Twodrinkminimum
I really wanna sleep with him.i am soooo attracted to him. But i had a breast surgery yesterday so ...

@Twodrinkminimum. Thnx for that advice ðŸ™ðŸ™Œ
Now my point is ... Does he really likes me or its just cus he didnt have sex yet ,he still sticking around ??
When his friends are calling him,he would always tell them ,he will check with me first then let them now.. I mean i know its not hard to understand an Aries but with this one i am lost ...££

@impulsv its not "accidentally" as u say ..read the previous posts. I really wanna sleep with him cus its getting to much and i understand. Its just that circumstances has been aganist us.. I swear 🙌

@Twodrinkminimum Merci Merci for tha advices 🙌🙌🙌

@impulsv it happend 2ore 3times that i was asleep and didnt answer.once i did it on purpose cus i was mad with him and he knew .but thats it. He is pretty correct with me so i am as well. But still he goes nuts when it happend £

@impulsv ... Cus of my flying scedule i sleep alot on my layovers.and he knows this. He will write now,and then after 10 min, and then 5min latter until he goes nuts. Than he will stop.that happens when i dont let him know where i am or what am i doing.even when i dont let him know that i am going to sleep. He wants to know every move i take •

@Twodrinkminimum
He hates to be ignoreeedd ...this what he says.its the worst thing u can do to him. When i explain to him that i didnt donit on purpose he will say "u should.be more careful now that u have me" he feels like i dont care enough for him or like i dont give him too much ... But that is not true. I am afraid to tell him how i feel about him cus i know Aries they run away from this things..

God, not another one. The Aries forum is suffering from a spay/neuter issue...

@rockyroadicecream ...keep your miserable and negative posts out of here ...

Posted by rockyroadicecream
God, not another one. The Aries forum is suffering from a spay/neuter issue...

.. Or too many couples bet these two and whit many problems.

I know how you feeling. Flashnews: it won't stop.. Never! Or tou love him or go away. Be patient is the key, and be always yousrelf. You are a leo, u are independent, dont let anyone change your routine. Adjust yourself for him. Once u change your life to put him in the first place you are done because soon you want to discover alone for a while and he wont ubderstand why he was left in second place. But he doesnt understand why u did that if you use to put him in 1 place the other time. Ita like kids, if u give them a chocolate one day and in the other day you miss they will not admit that and you will be the bad guy for them.

Well, aries are usually cold when you've hurt their feelings...maybe you said something to him without even knowing that you hurt him. Or it could be your leo moon overanalyzing the situation and he's actually just busy; I'm sure its nothing serious. You never know, he could be going through some of his own problems.

Posted by HeraLeo
@rockyroadicecream ...keep your miserable and negative posts out of here ...

Your post is miserable honey. Most of the Leo women who come here lately usually are. You do it to yourself and have nobody to blame but yourself.

Focus on fixing that borderline psychosis and maybe you wouldn't have these problems.

@leo500 u r so right hun ,u couldnt have explain it better 🙌
@Rambunctious76 i think his moon is Sag •

Posted by leo500
I know how you feeling. Flashnews: it won't stop.. Never! Or tou love him or go away. Be patient is the key, and be always yousrelf. You are a leo, u are independent, dont let anyone change your routine. Adjust yourself for him. Once u change your life to put him in the first place you are done because soon you want to discover alone for a while and he wont ubderstand why he was left in second place. But he doesnt understand why u did that if you use to put him in 1 place the other time. Ita like kids, if u give them a chocolate one day and in the other day you miss they will not admit that and you will be the bad guy for them.

U r so damn right hun.this is what is happening with him right now....i am the bad girl ¡

Posted by leo500
I know how you feeling. Flashnews: it won't stop.. Never! Or tou love him or go away. Be patient is the key, and be always yousrelf. You are a leo, u are independent, dont let anyone change your routine. Adjust yourself for him. Once u change your life to put him in the first place you are done because soon you want to discover alone for a while and he wont ubderstand why he was left in second place. But he doesnt understand why u did that if you use to put him in 1 place the other time. Ita like kids, if u give them a chocolate one day and in the other day you miss they will not admit that and you will be the bad guy for them.

U just killed it.u couldnt have said it better 🙌

Wtf why are you commenting to the same thing twice in a 3 hour span?


...ARE YOU ON DRUUUUGS—

He's passive-aggressively letting you know that he's upset with you because in his mind he's made many sacrifices (which says a lot for such a naturally selfish creature) and meanwhile you do the ONE thing he said drives him crazy--ignore him.

It sounds like he's ready for something long term, which is why he threatens to leave but hasn't (depending on how old he is, he may hear his biological clock ticking). Aries men tend to pursue who they want with reckless abandon--shoot first, ask questions later. He shot, he caught, but now his prey is non-compliant so even though he still wants what he caught, he may low-key resent it. In other words, he feels vested in you but he doesn't fully trust you. He's probably questioning why you're with him. And unless you can communicate on HIS level, this will continue to be an issue.

Be careful not to push him to the brink of possible cruel behavior if he eventually decides to lash out at you for intentionally (in his mind) playing with his emotions.

Posted by HeraLeo
Here is the story.i met this Aries guy (21march) at work.
Hr got attracted to me cus i ignoted him while the other girls
Were all over him. Been datting for over a month now. For religios reasons we didnt sleep together yet. Now i am under a post surgery state so we cant sleep yet together. The deal is : we fight a lot,for no reason. I always ignore him. He goes Nuts.he told me if i keep doing that he will leave. Last fight i didnt writte to him for 3days.he came back to me more angry than before.but he was still willing to fix this.so we did. Now i see him a little bit distant,even though we talk to each other 24hrs .we always meet when we r in town. He asked me to be his official GF since the first 2weeks. All his friends know about me.at work he always talks about me .he even asked me to meet with the family. After surgery he was bit cold with me.is it because he cant have sex with me for the next 2weeks ? That would be almost 2months dating... Is he into me or its just the sex thing that he didnt get from me yet that makes him coming back? I am Leo moon in capricorn .need advices pleaseee

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