Aries man and I (Pisces woman) decided to break it off

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Piscesgirl429 on Thursday, August 10, 2017 and has 5 replies.

Understanding Aries Men and Relationship Breakups

Aries men often move quickly in relationships and can change their feelings rapidly. When they realize they want someone back, they may send persistent messages. However, they may also struggle with commitment and personality differences. It is important to assess whether reconciliation aligns with your feelings and boundaries before deciding to communicate or give a second chance.

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@Piscesgirl429
9 Years

We were dating for a little over 3 months. He told me he wasn't ready for a relationship. And that he wanted to be friends instead. I told him that I agreed mutually on the breakup and there most be more of a reason than not wanting a relationship. He must think he can find someone better.

I am on no contact since then. I prefer to move on if it doesn't work out. Plus he had some personality things I didn't really like, although I realize not everyone is perfect.

He has been spam messaging me asking where I am? And how he realized now that I'm perfect to him.

Should I communicate with him?

Is he serious about me or just not use to being alone? We use to hangout almost everyday due to dates and same circle of friends.

Do Aries men move on quick? He's slowed down on the texting as I haven't been replying.

Should I give him a second chance? Or will the same issue happen where he realizes that he wants someone else.

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@pisceswoman123
9 Years10,000+ Posts

Typical Aries! Here we go again Lol

As soon as it gets too serious they back up. When you are gone they want you. They are like that until they really fall for you.

They really like to go slow and not getting pressure to commit.

Good luck! I am in the same situation...

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@Piscesgirl429
9 Years

Posted by pisceswoman123
Typical Aries! Here we go again Lol

As soon as it gets too serious they back up. When you are gone they want you. They are like that until they really fall for you.

They really like to go slow and not getting pressure to commit.

Good luck! I am in the same situation...

What's up with your situation? If you don't mind sharing 🙂

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@Adreamuponwaking
11 Years5,000+ Posts

They just love the chase.

If you truly think you could never feel for him as deeply

...i think those are the only cases in which Pisces-Aries relationships work out.

the pisces has to have a slight disdain for the Aries partner

or not be fully into them for other reasons....

these feelings will translate to the Aries partner feeling like you will always be a challenge and make them fall for you.....

i personally would avoid as that's not the type of relationship i'm looking for