My critique of Aries (Page 2)

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HighTide
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I can understand why Scorpios don't hate a problem with this sign. They are quick tonged and very intense and they let out what they are feeling effectively more than Cancers. I dont have a problem with any of those traits as long as they know there is a point where they have gone too far and respect my boundaries. I will let a Scorpio make fun of me in front of other people to give them power because they let me in on their world eventually and I dont mind playing along for the greater good.

Scorpios will back off if they know they are really starting to hurt me and will show vulnerability to show they are truly sorry in private. I just feel Scorpios don't know how Aries really are on the inside because the exteriors are so similar.

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lnana04
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I'll never forget that song The Dream(Virgo) made about his ex wife who is an Aries. In the song he talks about love being a problem, as if she runs from it.


I'm noticing an issue with a few males around me that are married, or were married to Aries women. My mom is dating an Aqua whose Aries ex wife left him when he had to downsize from his nearly million dollar job. According to him, the divorce was so unexpected it damaged him and caused him to do drastic things at the time. He is still healing nearly 4yrs later.

My sister's father, who is a Cancer, is married to an Aries and all he does is complain. Told my mom he leaned over to kiss her the other night and she said "eww, I don't know where your lips have been." He called her his "stupid @ss wife" to my mom and said he married a worthless woman.

My Capricorn friend told me last week that him and his Aries wife are either separating or deciding to have an open relationship. She was out of town with some of her guy friends at the time, which I believe hurt my friend, but he plays it off by hanging with his exes. He use to always complain saying he does sooo much and she doesn't reciprocate at all.

My mother's old Aries coworker sent pics of her out in Vegas with a guy I went to school with while her Gemini husband and kids are at home.

My Aries aunt is married to a Capricorn and he is always off doing his own thing. Like he works and provides, but they don't seem to do much as a family unit.

It's interesting that only one of the Aries women I mentioned work, or worked during their marriage, because my mom's boyfriend ex wife works now.

Just an interesting observation. I know with the Aries married to the Gemini she told my mother she likes attention and he doesn't give her enough of it. I also wonder if my Cap friend has discouraged his Aries wife from a life of following his dreams/goals. Cancer men seem like they can be both extremely soft and hard at the same time. I'm sure my sister's father threatened his wife a few times smh.
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ariessungoddess
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Posted by HighTide
I know about 7 or 8 and they all are completely likeable people in public so its not like I try to target them.

My lesbian Cancer friend was with a Aries an she had the same complaints. We are insecure people so we cling to the Aries confidence but your are totally different to us in love than you are to other people. Its almost like a chamelon. Not even the greatest detective would take the Cancer side but I am telling you there is a darkness and meaness yall have you only show to certain people and I dont know why us.
don't do the "why us" attitude and be a victim you guys think you are! if we fight we expect you to show you respect yourself by defending yourself with necessary means. there is surely gonna be endless fights and arguments when you pair two non similar signs, but you have to learn to fight back and show you're a match attitude rather than act victimized and cringe tearfully on face of even slight aggression! and we in turn will learn to be more considerate of the things we say!

I've had the same thing happen with my cancerian exes, they always do this "why me" thing! they get prickly and bitter and over react to every single thing we say! like we are on their mood coaster constantly! tiring. you should stop feeling sorry for yourself and grow up and start showing you're better than that!
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livework
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Gotta have thick skin dealing with an Aries woman. Can't back down and cowar when she does or says something outta line. Address it. Me and mine are both dominant so we always play fightin and have got into heated arguments, but we respect each other. 2 alphas.

My family is a cancer with an Aries. They used to be together years ago split for a few now they're back at it. They've physically got into it and have had bouts but overall it's a good relationship from my vantage.

An Aries woman prolly doesn't want a man that won't stand his ground and cant take a lil heat, No matter what the sign is.
I just didn't want to end up in a domestic violence situation. The intensity is not worth going jail over for me to prove a point to someone.

She wouldnt have backed down though, she would have fought me out to the end.
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No fight in ya. It must not have been worth fighting for to